What would you change about yourself & why?
Obviously, all here are nigh-on perfect, but if you could change something about yourself, firstly would you; secondly, what would it be & why?
Doesn't have to be physical, could be mental & on that point I'm sure there's room for improvement for many of us...lol ;-)
I'd be taller, not that I'm a pygmy or anything lol!
I could get served in busy pubs more easily for one! Just to start us off...
Torque 8-)
Either that or the third-leg reduction the girls keep asking for ;)
Couldn't find any flaws in that...lol
Torque 8-)
MD when does too much self esteem become arrogance or arrogance become a sign of actually having such low self esteem that one needs to raise themselves up on a pedestal? And are you saying that those who confess the desire to change percieved flaws possess low self esteem?
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
I would be less scared - doesnt become someone who is 193cm
QT said I wish I could look good in shorts! :-D ...
Forget the shorts, just slip on a kilt with the socks.
I'd laugh more and smile more and learn more. Flush what if's and just DO! Labda shybone? Would have never thought you happy bunny you...
princess, you could also have called it "pride and self-esteem". It wouldn't sound so negative.
That'll be the English in you! I would actually love to curb my tendency to say EXACTLY what I feel to people that irk me:) I think I must be closer to our animal cousins as I have no reaction/ instinct filter... then beat myself up about it afterwards for being positively neaderthal:)
It really was very interesting as one could get a glimpse of arrogance from the replies.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
who me?? lol
LOL ;-)
Torque 8-)
and growing and growing and growing and growing..and boy, it could go on for ages!
That would seem to be the case mjam...!! ;-)
Torque 8-)
statistics on vanity is still growing??
The implants and crowns are all that's remaining now!
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rough statistics on this thread:
15 females want to change
28 males want to change
9 female don't want to change explicitly
3 males don't want to change explicitly
What do I make of this result?
I wouldn't change a thing........ I am good the way I am.
Take it or leave it but there is a lot to discover....
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ouch,..that's gotta hurt MD..
you need help, baldrick, I can knock them off your face.
Oh, wait, I am changing them!
Ok, another couple of inches taller wouldn't be too bad.
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"the invisible MP"..lol
..., not quite sure what you mean, but I'm always careful...lol
Torque 8-)
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to hell with all that. I want to be able to fly at will
Becareful what you wish for torque!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
I'd be wiser in the ways of the world & relationships...
Torque
perhaps nothing,I am quite good for what god has given me,regarding attitudes we can never change it although we can do some adjustments.
Nothing to change,God created each one of us in his own image & likeness.Attittudes can be adjusted but can never change...
lol
...and how did I miss this thread the 1st time?
for me I want to attend French high school instead of arabic.
i want to be a new person...
i want to change everything...
I really wanted to change but now NEVER....I am happy the way ia m COz ma LOVE likes it this way:)
...never wanted to be faster than a speeding bullet or more powerful than a locomotive...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
i want dreads
Torque, Im cheeky as well, so we'll get on just fine Im sure....looking forward to meeting you. The people who need helmets are those who think the sun shines out their backsides...hmmmm. :)
"Quit hanging on to the handrails . . . Let go. Surrender. Go for the ride of your life. Do it every day." Melody Beattie
janeyjaney
1. Cause I cant
2. See 1.
3. See 1. and 2.
"Quit hanging on to the handrails . . . Let go. Surrender. Go for the ride of your life. Do it every day." Melody Beattie
..motorcycle helmet with me in case when we do meet you decide to bash me over the head for being cheeky, it is one of my traits, but always good-natured in spirit...LOL ;-)
I'm looking forward to meeting up with you peeps in the very near future hopefully, then you'll know I'm as 'normal' as the rest of you....hahaha!!!!
Torque 8-)
Labda:. So, you don't dance????????? Why??
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Haha, Torque, we haven't met yet...thats why! LOL But thanks, good to know I appear 'normal'.
"Quit hanging on to the handrails . . . Let go. Surrender. Go for the ride of your life. Do it every day." Melody Beattie
....should have put one of those 6 packs down for me, years since I had one, but then again was years ago that I played rugby..!
labda - that makes a lot of sense to me. Not seen any anger issues with you, seem most 'normal' as goes on QL... ;-)
notfromhere - an assertive course perhaps? Most women seem to be naturally assertive, from telling their hubbies what to do for years.... ;-)
Torque 8-)
six pack back into my stomach flat and sexy and to be able to wear something i can show my belly button..
notfromhere, I have to say QLSG kinda "cured" my introverted nature. Im naturally really shy, always have been, but Iv managed to let go of that somewhat. It has made such a difference, you just realise how you've missed out on meeting and getting to know people who are so rich personality wise-such good souls. It's my sincere hope that you find that as well :) (I still WILL NOT dance though, baby steps, haha)
If I could change something I would not be so temperamental. :) I have a little anger issue (winks at Thexonic) but Im working on that.
"Jordan's gonna have a case of "assus beatus redus". That's Latin for I'm gonna beat his a55 til it glows."
RIP Bernie Mac
Seems we had this topic not too long ago, but hey, that won't stop me from putting my 2 cents in!
Physically? I finally learned to stop fighting what I can't change. Now it's just a battle between me and gravity, lol
What I'd really like is to be more outgoing, less shy.
Also to learn to assert myself.
And maybe once, just once, do something a little bit bad, instead of always always always doing just what everyone expects of me.
...Oops, my midlife crisis is acting up again :-P
Sounds like a question in a beauty pageant. lol
silent "G"
And me Torque.
"Jordan's gonna have a case of "assus beatus redus". That's Latin for I'm gonna beat his a55 til it glows."
RIP Bernie Mac
..you're more than welcome!
Torque 8-)
stronger pills maybe? :)
"Jordan's gonna have a case of "assus beatus redus". That's Latin for I'm gonna beat his a55 til it glows."
RIP Bernie Mac
same7_XOXO
you will not....may be some thing in the middle
1976 just keep popping those pills.
"Jordan's gonna have a case of "assus beatus redus". That's Latin for I'm gonna beat his a55 til it glows."
RIP Bernie Mac
same7_XOXO
You will not fall also if there is some one pushing you forward.....just consider it for a moment
Thank you Torque for the compliment.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
same7_XOXO
You'd unlock the secret of life by only 3 inches. But i need to ask where you need these 3 inches exactally!!
i am just asking. You reminded me by some one facing a problem so he start drinking all time just to forget that problem
However you've a new way........Do't be upset
same7_XOXO
But i think you missed the plastic surgery as well
same7_XOXO
You need to be taller or shorter.
be clear maybe santa will come to your door
same7_XOXO
Why we need to change some thing happened long time ago,instead we can solve a matter will come soon. It is the human Eggo or the absolute contentment...
I swear this is my major problem 24/7, there is no escape it is the life trap
i just want a different life, i'm sure i wasn't put on this planet to work.
recognising there are things that you want to improve about your person is good, although from what I've seen you communicate very well.
Can't comment on your appearance or speech, but if you think you need to improve those areas then I'm sure with that conviction you will.
Torque 8-)
I am with Alexa in that I am happy being imperfect..
However I would still like to improve my manners, speech and the way I express myself and communicate with others, appearance (in what can be done with it), and increase my eeman and gaining knowledge.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
lol..nicaq...understand women!!!!!!!thats something men have been trying to find out for ages...
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I want to be a man. So I can understand women in men's perspective.
Personality nothing really I am nice and naughty.Regarding my appearance I love myself although I wish I am not that tall.
so good question.
I would like to be taller and smarter in mind.
Obviously perfect or perfectly happy with everything about you!
Torque 8-)
I wouldn't change anything - I'm me, myself and I.
FS,.. nooooo .. i want someone to pay ma fee too..lol
No tensions...
I would change my nose
"Drink Beer Save Water"
I will love to have eyes as white as the snow.
life is like riding a bicycle,you dont fall off unless you stop pedalling.
go back to all the crossroads where I took the wrong road and this time take the right one :)
i want to be more proactive. i can be too passive sometimes.
be more open, it makes you feel better.
i dont know about the trust tho if it should be less or more trustiand lose weight, lose weight, lose weight... qatar has made me gain 7kgs already, :(( i dont know how to lose it. im trying but not working....
"Give your hands to serve, and your hearts to love"
spicemom, c. louboutin will do the trick.
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me i would like to be say 2-3 inches taller.....
Life is what you make of it.......so quit B******G about it.
haha well he wouldnt let me touch him but i know you two share a bond and waist size lol...just kidding my friend :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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How does that help me? u think I'll become a pro at skate boarding by rubbing KSA??? If u tried it before, then may be i'll give it a try.
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Xonic i think if you rub KSA the right way you just might get a few of ur wishes granted...now where u rub him is your call ;)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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...my comment about changing sex (on the forum only please..) or about intrigue piled on intrigue..??!! ;-)
Torque 8-)
Conrol my anger, so I wont get fired for calling my boss and the client an a55h*le lol and learn to skate board and play b ball like a pro, loose some weight, get muscles... ah whatever, I'll need a genie for all that, I'm happy the way I am.
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a coisa mais importante em vida é SHEESHA- "Sheesha man"
...., maybe I'll change my pic & profile, then become a woman...., a kind of cross-dressing forum....lol ;-)
Not that I could ever imagine becoming one for real of course, just to make myself completely clear..!!
Torque 8-)
it felt like i'm in a beauty contest.....
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okay, for your question, ms. venus's(that's me) asnwer is...(uttered softly)
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certainly i wouldn't change anything,,,i'm delicious as a goulash, im confident, super brainy as piaget and super beauticious, lol..
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seriously; i wish i can be
1. punctual
2. to the point
3. wiser
I wish I was less of a lazy bugger cos if I was I'd be out by the pool by now and I'm weak willed cos I can't turn the bloody Olympics off!!
.., which is not difficult by the way lol...!
Your profile says you're male yet you refer to a Mr.Alexa...... 8-$
Torque (is confused..)
I wish i could tell people to "bugger off" when they irked me.. Usually i just tolerate it and then kick myself afterwards for not being more aggressive..
Dragonfly: Perhaps hubby may have something to say against that...
Mr. P! Is that so?? Are you sure? LOL
Dragonfly:. And why is that??
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You can't teach experience
Yes but it does work
See you punch him in the nose - and then he either gets out and sleeps somewhere else or he kicks you onto the sofa...
either way you get to sleep a lot better....
ohh... i wish i stay virgin.
Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand
i want to be taller. :(
Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand
You can't teach experience
Better eyesight...I only have to glance at the fridge to gain weight....
"Jordan's gonna have a case of "assus beatus redus". That's Latin for I'm gonna beat his a55 til it glows."
RIP Bernie Mac
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
How do you deal with snoring? I hope my future husband doesn't snore.. I'm a very very light sleeper :(
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yeah JJ but you can add another wish for that..lol
i wanna change my headboard.
microsoft does not have any :(.
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
Gorillas aren't bald.
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
I have a great solution for snoring
it's simple janeyjaney! you just want to be gorrila
Cos when I grow up, I wanna be like you Mr. P!!!! ;)
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Now im sad :(
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
I wanna be ugly, obese and bald.. with hair all over my fat stinking body.
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i wanna be small and fat and bald also!
...I'm sure that's not the case!
Funny that height is an issue for a number of us!
I was going to be the tall one in our family & then stopped growing upwards, my bro always was & is my 'little bro', but he's taller than me by 3 or 4 inches!
I'd also like to be able to go in the sun & not need such a high factor of sun-tan cream, I just burn so easily & it's usually in the UK when I burn most - forgetting that it's not the ME, not so hot & therefore forget to put any on at all!
Would also like to be blonde again as I was as a kid, when white blonde, though if the grey keeps coming through then I'll be that yet again...lol! ;-)
No-ones said they want to be younger or sexier-looking in one way or another in this modern age of plastic surgery & implants, that's surprised me, although Arien wants to be at school again??!!
Torque
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i wish i can be at least 3 inches taller...and the rest im ok with it!
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
tallg the welsh man hmm barbarian??
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don't call tallg a welsher. That's bad and implies that he doesn't pay what he owes.
Stop commenting on my likes and dislikes alright! I can clearly see that the Olympic fever is in the air. LOL
Yeah the pills work to a certain extent. No matter how hard I try to match him on TV, I could barely come (no pun intended) close to his performances :(
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2800 QL Points
Way to go Ray!
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Ray...you still can be like him...cant you? LOL
Arien what you gonna do in School... you can go to your kiddo's school..lol
If I can I would...I want to win a Olympic medal..... Why? to live rest of my life doing nothing...lol
i wish it will be naturally straight and not wavy
call it vanity, but that's d only vane thing i do (iron iron iron my hair til it become straight) ^0^
thats one hard Q,
i would change
and i want to change they way i analyse things, coz i think i'm kindda loser analysing stuff
I want to be a lot less nostalgic.
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Hmmmm i got a list of stuff i'd like to change!!!!
Physical: Lose weight - too much effort to diet!!!!
Mental/Emotional: learn not to care alot!! I.E. put my heart in its place not all the type in my hands as an offering LOL
WYSIWYG
I want to go back to school :( ..LOL
My hair ! Getting balder every year . I would want to have long and curly hair once I had before
I wanna be like Peter North!
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Way to go Ray!
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lol.. i would want to get slimmer.. :P and balance my "trust issues" (wonder how could that be.. )
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7 foot tall want to beat tallg the welsher :D
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