falling in love in doha...
By simplekate •
Buddies,
Is it normal to fall in love in Doha,...Is it a crime?...or do we need to get serious in a relationship since we know that this will not last for a long time...Im not searching then, but it accidentally happened. I just want to share this thing as i want somebody who can help and advise me if it is right to get in love in doha.
Doha is one of the most unlikely place to truly fall in love, because the ladies are so careful and the men are too scared, of what we all know.
But Doha is romance-ful when you eventually escape from the inadequacies and limitations of our location to our hearts where there are no boundaries,limitations and restrictions.
I am yet to fall in love in Doha.
lol..flan!
remember me to give this advice to your girlfriend..:p
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don't tie yourself down to one man.
QUESTION NO1. is he single???
2.Are you single???
3. You working together/same company...
4. All men always say sweet things to a woman...
5. we can fall in love anytime, anywhere...LOVE COMES IN THE MOST UNEXPECTED PLACES AND TIME...
If 1 & 2 is YES.... WTF...GO FOR IT... ENJOY ...LOVE... ITS THE MOST WONDERFUL THING GOD CREATED...LOVE..........
Why not??? Falling in love in another country ????
Love is Love every where even in hell....
Shhhhh..you turncoat! :P
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hehehee....Drac, let's not forget that you've also fallen in love in Doha!!!! So, be the first who will jump from Ezdan tower...;)
Don't let someone become you're everything, because when they're gone you have nothing --- Kenya Mitchell
I really dont believe this all is happening in QL now...I mean every tym i login i see a stupid topic around...Guys n Gals grow up!!!
Now do u need n e one's permission to b n love???
WASTE OF TIME, EFFORT, MONEY, & FEELINGS.
REALITY CHECK PLEASE...
**Nobleese Oblige**
Falling in love again, I never wanted to
What am I to do, I can't help it
Love has always been my game, play it how I may
I was made that way, I can't help it
simplekate... go for whatever your heart AND your mind tells you... this relationship that you have MIGHT last forever... or maybe it won't!!! but hey, enjoy while you can... good luck!
Together, we can make the world, a better place or worse than ever !!!
Its never wrong to fall in love, be it Doha or any other place. As far as understanding is there and u realy feel that u love him and he loves u, go ahead.
dEV,
eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)
If you fall in love with that guy ..... go on
if you think it will make you happy..... go on
if you think that he's very special for you . . .go on
if you think that he make you special all the time... go on
and if he broke your heart?.....go out!!
and i'wll help you - - - get in!!
Its pain fallin love in doha,, bec everyone selfish
if you love him just go on and do what he want hahahaha. sama ako sampu dyan
Just got up to brit's postie. This thread is too long.. and gotta work through lunch break as usual...
britexpat said "CarolAnn ...I have been an expat for many many years. In my personal experience , MOST expat relationships don't last once they get back to the real world.."
Heyy, the real world is wherever we are placed. The real world is in the here and now.
/But yeah, I know where you're coming from - many see this as a stepping stone only, to save up enough for when their life can begin and do the things they wanna do. Despite the fact that one can live and do the things that they wanna do right where they are.
//I'd like to move to NZ some day but even if I don't, Hakuna Matata ;0)
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
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from the most unexpected places....follow your heart but don't put it over your head...struggle to always do things right.
Now a couple months have past
Never thought that this would last
Oh everybody asked
How ya got a girl like that
But you should have known
That nothing lasts forever (lasts forever)
I mash up ya mind
When I tell you lies
But boy don't be surprised
That I'm seeing other guys
I'm too young to settle
And you should've known better (known better)
ur time dont be in a hurry...n yes its ur right to fall in love
it is perfectly normal to fall in love, whether in Doha, Alkhor, RasLaffan or in another side of the globe.posting this here to ask our opinions and comments is a sign that you're still have your senses with you.usually people who are in love gets numb,partially deaf,their sight gets blurry,and you can see how their eyes smile.you should think it over & be ready for the consenquences. pick a good advice here and go on, and get back to work you're staring at his pics again!
You can find love in Doha, but rejection, especially by those oriental minxes is like a steak through the heart.
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anything but G A R L I C!
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drac = = = thought your kind can felt no pain and invincible....thas part of your immortalized characteristics..if that so, you must be a crossbreed then..can you stand sunrays as well??
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you got me here! :(
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aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!
sometimes our attempt to live in a healthy lifestyle was jopardize by the unhealthy factor that surrounded our circle....
thats why drac was demented, arent you blood sucker?
for me...
it's fine to fall coz everythings so nice...but always be ready to pick up urself girl coz u mite break into pieces!
OMEGA Q said:
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Boring life
Financial needs
Confused mind
Weird environment
No family & social life
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ah ok, I thought healthy environment also refers to the people around you and as for me, the people around me is making me crazy especially my senior who everyday ask me how to do this,how to do that, where is this, where is that.
watashiwa, watdapaki
johnpur === alpha might referring to healthy environment as healthy lifestyle...not literally healthy environment as green as nature...it does makes sense, doesnt it?
good for you alfa
but I disagree with healthy enviroment
You forgot Tiger Lily at the Ramada... So easy to fall in love with :)
You may also fall in love with the follwing things in Doha:
Peaceful life
Financial freedom
Peace of mind
Healthy environment
Pleasant family & social life
Nana,,
Some are masters at photoshop,
Not me though,
I just let others work for me...
how do u guys make those KOOOL graphics!!!!!! u gotta teach me!!!
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What to do YANI..... ...
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party hard and sign off
crocs are nasty eater and youll end up no life and ugly in the mud...
DRAC ==== now mushy inlove people wont had a hard time to express thier insanity after being broken inlove..you must be a very big help...
man, crazy stuff you had...you bloodsucker...
is there any crocodille in zoo? i prefer
wierd??? your inlove and fretting...thats very contradicting...tears of joy or what??
huhu i'm in love huhuhu
and end up broken...just be smart enough when you try to engage yourself in a relationship...always be ready for the consequences. Im not stating to be pessimistic in the first place but the word is "THINK" wisely.
mind is place above our hearts so that we would be logical in deciding over our emotions...
everyone has the right to fall in love whereever you are but you must be very clever since some men and women claimes that they are "single" even if they are not..a lot of us are expats and temptation of falling in love is very intense..make sure that you are really loved and not to end up as victim of love..hu hu
after the commencement of physical exercise...the "love" thingy fades away...
an advice from many previous experience, and not only mine, when u r interested in someone from the other sex and especially nationality... take a little time and check, because the attraction doesnt mean surly this is love, its only an attraction and with time and experience with that person maybe u will find another and different feeling when u know him. because if u directly think that this is love, and happens that this isnt, when u know him very well belive me u will lose him especially if u get physical together...
kumaran, we use dummies for the tests.
my dear MD ==== i never been worried ...are you?
and im having a blast right now as well...
lolz
Md it is understood you are having lot of smashing experience.your practical experience provide vital knowledge than theoritical knowledge.
Don't worry, _aZyDBuRn_, be happy.
md ==== that is metaphorically speaking...duh????
kumaran, just smash with your car into a concrete wall. All your cinetic energy will be converted immediately into thermal and mechanical (deformation) energy. This is what we call a field experiment.
Energy can not be destroyed it can be converted to another energy.MD here how it can be transferred??
"hands travel more than the speed of light in some cases". Nothing travels with the speed of light except light!
I am a cynic trying to convert to the other side actually.
hands travel more than the speed of light in some cases...oh should i SAY, most CASES?
you have to make decision so you have to judge all about him you know better.
you have to make decision so you have to judge all about him you know better.
azydburn, right, always be on guard.
it doesn't matter how sweet he talks, it's how fast his hands are......goodluck
and always be on guard...dont be easily settled with the sweet talker my dear...some are only lip service...
no argument please, this is reality...men in general always get advantage as much as they can and that is period.
ask him what he thinks about you and what is your place in his life may this question solve your problem he have to give some answer so have to judge form his ans.
or otherwise you were inviting trouble in ur life...then swim the lover's lake...
its not getting too hard on your feelings towards your opposite sex but think PRACTICALLY and dont loosen up your sanity...
getting advice in QL is not very effective, better post it in gulftimes
ONE SIDED LOVE AFFAIR...??? hu...hu..hu...!
Whats wrong if you fall inlove...?irregardless of PLACE ..nationality.... if you are both SINGLE & AVAILABLE....? BUT if one of you is ATTACHED...thats the BIG PROBLEM...!
Why you doubt if you think HE loves you...?
I think you should not ask for an ADVICE...you know where you stand....! Its you who felt the feeling...!
I am sorry if I offended you. I was just offering my two pence worth. Ofcourse it doesn't apply to everyone.
I sincerely hope that you will/have found your true love and wish you a world of happiness and joy :o)
Seriously. Or maybe better to become a total jerk. If you're a long-term expat, anyway. Better than hoping to be the exception to the rule.
so glad to say that i am not wasting my company's time (because i never been and not contemplating to do that)
im on my break...
ewww...cant believe there were so many mushy here...
im counting...
Love is full of sh+t so log off from Ql and go back to work so not to waste your company's time and money
simple kate ,
Love has no boundary,culture, language, rich,poorness,employe , un employement, .....etc.It is a innermost feeling from your heart.
the feeling only will make you happy ,and the feeling only anticipate lot from your opponent.one sms one hai ----- it is all body chemistery.
As we are all away from home our heart expect some closeness with other heart(!) as said by Brit expat.
But you have to decide yourself ,dont ask anybodies decision.it is your life.decide yourself.
Your love should not be onesided.Be politely inform him,if he say know forgat that and do our work as you wish and think about your family position.
But dont forget that you are living in Middle east countries.
" We can stand by our own leg dont depend on others leg"
and thats was im saying then....
just somehow give a benifit of the inlove,
to be broken varies as well..some get it done quickly like how your instant food served immediately in your dining and sometimes, i think by luck...the agony was being prolong...
I have been an expat for many many years. In my personal experience , MOST expat relationships don't last once they get back to the real world..
We all want love and companionship when we are away from home. So, many a time "incompatibles' come together because they are lonely or fearful. The relationship lasts here, but once they get back, the diffrences begin to appear. Many a time they are insurmountable..
As I said, just my experiences. i may be wrong and hopefully , I am ..
TAKEN AND BROKEN
women in love are generally love to advertise their feelings...sometimes pretending to be uncertain and wanted to gather opinion but actually the envelope is already sealed and stamp....TAKEN AND INLOVE
U r uncertain of the guy's feelings towards u.. why drag Doha into this..
" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"
dont forget to pile your stock on the fridge as well...
ITS JUST VERY SIMPLE === if you like to be in the dungeon then be fallen......
its all end up with the same final episode and be sure youre having plenty of kleenex...
simplekate, what happened to the traditional conservative filipina thing?
You can't teach experience...
Are you being facetious? (say yes...) Are all or most expats looking for a safe port in a storm instead of a real and lasting relationship in places like this? So there must therefore be an unspoken rule that 'relationships' here are temporary and therefore neither person should get too attached?? And maybe, no matter how much you think you are in love, you are only kidding yourself. If so, I'm in trouble. Simplekate....have you found answers yet?
Honestly this is kgf ridiculous. There should be a QL-LOVE site. SEPARATE from QL. Im sure guys are going to jump me for saying this but S-E-R-I-O-U-S-L-Y....where are the MODS? Delete THESE threads!!!!
Hail Funiculus!! - slayer of QL-cupid. :)
Britexpat, you gave me an idea..thanks for that!
Funiculus imbil, you really make me laugh!...
Doha is made for Love.. My Tiger Lily appeared as a vision from heaven at the Ramada Car Park.. It was love as soon as she called me "Joe"
Ofcourse expat love hardly ever lasts. BUT enjoy it whilst you can :)
At this point in time, he is the right person for me...(of course, im in love with him) but what if i may be a wrong person for him...
WTF, WAKE UP
ANOTHER TROLL ..
It is very important Kate,
When you enter Doha they do a virginity scan, the last scanner at the airport does this. When you leave YOU MUST be a virgin still. If not... big problem!!
Ya, you're right, he's killing me now!..he's killing me into pieces of being in love with him!...How would i know if he's in love with me, too?!
Reality of life, there is no difference between complete and finish, but when u love a right person u r complete n when u love a wrong person u r finished
So its up to you he is right r wrong person for you................
so how did you control yourself then?...what makes you think that you need to control it...of being in love...
Falling in love is not a crime, as you know that it would not go long then you have to think about the person, can be your life partner or not.
and what ever comes in your mind do on that
Love comes with feeling seeing touching and exciting
It is happened to you what can you.
Loving is different from doing something wrong.
I did have once in DOHA but I tried to control by meself
I just want to spend my time doing more things like surfing from the internet and chatting with interesting people, aside from doing my work in the office. I want my mind to be very busy...so i would not focus all my time thinking of him! I know it's a great feeling being in love..but it should be mutual, right?! He's very busy with his work, that sometimes he almost forgot to think of me, even sending a single message of saying "HI and HELLO" These simple things that i am expecting from him, which i think he's not used to.
love is the greatest feeling in the world, not only in doha..
but what's ur problem with love in doha exactly ?
It's true that had working hadn't killed anyone yet, but why to take risk?
Are you asking for permission to fall in love? It will happen or won't, whatever we would say here.
It's true that had working hadn't killed anyone yet, but why to take risk?
I am Arab, in doha for 5 years now, fill in love with an asian girl, now married...
go for it... that is my advise
A person who does not speak out against the wrong is a mute devil.
I really don't know how to get rid of him. He's driving me crazy...i kept on thinking of him, almost every minute, every second, every hour, i just don't know what should i do to forget him...to get rid of him, and the worst is, i don't know if he feels the same way too.,im just thinking that maybe he is just fooling around,but whenever we're together, he let me feels that im important and he even say that "im important in his life". Do you think i might believe him? I was thinking of meeting new people just to get rid of thinking of him...
I am looking for my princess..the love of my life..For ever love...when I meet her I will never care where we are living...I will love her wherever we are living...
yeeeshh..doubl post
u can fall in love anywhere in the world..what has the place got to do with it?..but showing physical affection in public might get u in trouble here,esp of late as it seems the tolerance level is not that high..
u can fall in love anywhere in the world..what has the place got to do with it?..but showing physical affection in public might get u in trouble here,esp of late as it seems the tolerance level is not that high..
i fall in love in doha and i broke my neck ! i will never repeat it again :P
I already met him and he is very gentleman. Maybe that's why im falling for him...We usually go out after work and we shared a lot of things since we are of different race.
ask jimimadi... or u already met him
toink!
"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."