Letting Go.....
Letting Go.. One of the most painful things we have to do in our lives is Letting Go.
Sometimes it is Letting Go of things...material things which mean a lot to us, even if only sentimental value.
It may mean Letting Go of feelings. When we hold sadness inside, and try to mask it with only a show of happiness, it is better to let it go, to feel the sadness so it washes through us. A good cry can be cleansing.
Sometimes, we have to let go of someone we care for very deeply when we realize that person does not care for us in the same way. Maybe it is best to leave them remembering us with whatever kind of feeling they do have for us. It may not be possible to hide our own deeper feelings for that person, which could make their life uncomfortable. Letting Go may be the best gift we can give them because they may realize how we feel, yet care enough not to want to hurt us.
Even when we know a relationship is not right, on both sides, or one person has a doubt about it, it is hard to let go of something that seems secure. We often accept less than the best because we can’t bear to let go.
There are occasions when we feel something wonderful for someone, but we don’t express it for fear of being rejected. Sometimes our feelings will be rejected. Yet, what if we withhold it from the one person who could very well be that One Special Someone in our lives and they too have been afraid to express their true feelings, or don’t even realize their true feelings yet! How sad that we may miss The Best for fear of Letting Go of the expression of those feelings. There is also some situation that you have to let go of someone even you know that you love that person, it is because you think that it is the right thing to do and that maybe the best decision you'll ever make. So sad to know that doing right things cannot give your true happiness...
Whatever the reason, or situation, it is never easy Letting Go.
what we need to do is enjoy every moment and accept that everything has an end... give the best in every situation
Letting go is a battle between moving on and going back to the past. You just dont know when it ends. Sometimes you're desperate to leave it behind but it keeps coming back. Diversion is a such a great help and more importantly forgiveness and acceptance, till you finally let go...
and yes, it is never an easy thing to do...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
There are occasions when we feel something wonderful for someone, but we don’t express it for fear of being rejected. . .. ... TRUE thats why we chose to be alone and hide our feelings..
ok,now i understand.think that way someone really learn to handle it.
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Well I did, I've been since i was a little kid.
I've been moving around the world from one place to another, leaving one home to another. Leaving my best friends almost all the time or they leave to another country if i am settled. My best friends left Qatar last month for a long time. My sister died when i was young, my grand father died a few years ago, my girl friend left to usa. Almost everyone i loved or cared about is not even around me now. Its just the way life is, u cannot stop them. Just appriciate the best times and be happy they happend.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
can we ever learn it?i think it is not possible and it is everytime from new hurting and painful.
:-(
Live Life To The Fullest.......................
Once u get used to it, its not that painful believe me.
There's a great saying for letting go...
"Cry me a river, build a bridge on it and get over it"
It's always the small things that make big differences.
Looks like a very personal topic to me
Sometimes letting it go becomes easier when u share it with people
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