please need some advise

Get rid of them asap. Even if you already dropped the case, this could happen again. They're not your friends AT ALL.

And don't trust strange people offering to go with you anywhere. (Yes, reformer. I am talking about you. Begging companionship much?)

Kamalian na dapat ng matutunan. Sa susunod matuto na sila at para di rin nakaka-perwisyo ng iba. Pero nakakalungkot din kung iisipin kung sakaling madeport sila at wlang patutunguhan trabaho sa pinas prang kawawa naman ang pamilya nila. Wish ko lang talaga matuto na sila sa mistakes nila.

pa alis mo sila kabayan.. dami pa nilang sinasabi..

the best thing for you to do is leave..... look for another flat. There's no way for you to prove to them that you're innocent. If you continue to stay with these people, you will unknowingly suffer the psychological effects of what they are doing to you. So....leave!!!

yup,hirap talaga ...... lahat ng nakapaligid sayo tingin masama na wala ka namang ginagawa.. hays...buhay nga naman ng tao

who cares anyway ... whatever.... woot woot woot!!!! :P

to reformer --->>> am i???? how could you said that? you dont know me so dont judge me...no one has the right judging people... so stop right now. your not making any sense...

uu nga.. sobrang nightmare dame ko ng sleepless nights,, kasi ang gusto ko lang is ma clear ang name ko... then makapag move on na ulit.. pero so far nag usap usap kame ,, then decided to drop the complain,, ung pagpaparinig ng wrong accusations nila sakin is DIYOS na lang ang bahala sa kanila.. much better kasi un,, in GODS time mas malaki pa sa pera at sa ninakaw nilang pride ko ang mawawala sa kanilang lahat... salamat ng marami... kahit papanu nakapag labas ako ng sama ng loob,, kasi alam mu mahirap ang sitwasyon ko ung walang gustong makinig... puro na lang bintang.. sobrang sakit sakin,, na dapt nde ako apektado kasi nde ako gumawa kaso ang effect sakin is sobra sobra...

Choose your friends carefully

ur profile is totally fake

yun naman pala, sureness may takot then pala ma deport di straight forward sabihin mo sa kanila you dont like the way they are threating you manahimik sila kaka parinig....mahirap kaya ang akusahan ka ng hindi mo naman ginawa... told you been there and its a nightmare for me and im sure you do feel the same as what you have said...or say since they beg you to drop the case they should be say sorry for wht they did to you. but in anyway sister its up to you what it really makes you feels good.

still whatever. dont keep them in ur house

actually nag complain na ako this morning.. then they beg me na i dop ang case kasi malaki ang possibilities na madeport kameng laht including ako.. sabe ko wala akong paki alam kung madeport ako.. handa ako.. dahil may maganda akong buhay sa pinas andito lang ako para i prove sa parents ko na kaya ko tumayo sa sarili kong paa.. kaya nag beg sila sakin kung pde i drop ang case.. kaya nde ko alam ang dapat gawin sa knila this time.. how i can clean those damages that they did against me.. gusto kong linisin ang kalat na ginawa nila.. by this way dun lang ako matatahimik at dun lang ako makakatulog ng payapa

sister you have the right na mag complain since sayo nakapangalan yung flat at the same time parang ikaw na rin yung land lord nila....kung ayaw mo mag report sa pulis takotin mo na ikaw ang mag rereport sa police..aanhin mo naman yung pera kung sabi mo nga hindi ka namumumrublema sa pera..at the same time 'totoo ba kayang may 8000 riyal' nakatago dun baka naman paraan lang nila yan para magkaroon ng issue sau..

its obvious bribe them :) hehehehe, the way they did to you it could affect your self esteem after followed by their foul words...to make it clear with them straight talk and arrange it in the police station....say what you know as long as your telling the truth...if they could insult you just like that why not do the same...:) they'r bullying you with their foul words- been on your shoes and i hate it ... since you didnt do anything...if they wont file any complaint do it for your self and let the police do the rest to call them :)

if your flat mate share their keys with their bf, then how can they blame you for the theft.

give them them 2 options, either report the matter with the police or leave the flat.remember you are not in a safe situation. either your room mates or their bf are frauds, so either you kick them out or let the police solve the crime before further damage is done.

take care.

smell of the fish will open if you go to the police but that is the only solution that you need. Investigation must be done to clear your name.

I'm afraid Mandi has the measure of it. Believe me the police are short on patients at the best of times. Go to them with this and they will probably laugh (if they can be bothered) then throw you out. Apart from bad language you have nothing to report. Unless you want to cause trouble for your flat mates with the BF thing just to get back at them. But even then I am not sure how interested they would be in the matter as it would mean them having to do some investigating.

Time to pack up and move on I think. It is my belief that this is not going to heal in time. Even though you are innocent, I doubt (unless the culprit is caught) that you will ever be treated the same again. Find yourself some new accommodation, and some real friends.

I hope everything turns out well for you ;)

I'm not sure why you would be reporting to the police when it wasn't you who lost the money. And I'm really sure that nothing has been able to shut people's mouths when they want to run them

Mandi

yeah i know that it will lead to a big trouble,, but how i can clear my name if i cant shut their mouth.. i should do something about it,, i wanna prove to everybody that im innocent..

Reporting to police will put them in real problems , but you have to pay attention that might brought some problems for you also .

just sit with them , and warn them if they will act like this anymore you will throw them outside and return their rent money .

Think in a cool way to reach the best solution

Is it just a BF x 1 or lots of other BF,s visiting from time to time. Ask her to go and complain and let the cops get hold of all of them and the ill gotten wealth if any and then let them have a identification parade

Please take care in trusting anyone on net.

check ur pm.. i can handle such issues with such M...N

yes im willing to go to the police station to file a complain against them but i dont have any proof,, what i can do???

if the flat IS IN YOUR NAME ALONE, then you have full right to remove then. zingle check ur pm

i dont know what i will do.. what is the best thing to do,, its my flat i owned this flat.. its under my name and i have a contract.. everything is on my name... i ask them to leave but they told me they will.. but as long as that they are here i still can hear foul words against me.. i dont know what to do.. i do have sleepless nights for how many days because of this issue.. i dont have any problem about money matter,, may family is here my father ans sister they do have a good salary,,i dont know why they are thinking like that at me.. i didnt treat them as other person, and also i give the rental of the flat a reasonble one,,, just for them to afford the life that i have also... but the thing here is still they think that i am the one who took the money

iam ready to help u if u want to go to the police station. just let me know.

but i suggest leave the flat the earliest. they can even make ur life a mess if u keep staying with those ....:-(

go to the capital police station and lodge a complaint and tell the whole story.

and pls for god sake leave that flat.

if u need my help let me know. go to the main capital police station. go from behind.

or if you dont want all this headache, LEAVE THE FLAT AND DONT CARE WHAT THEY DO. THE LEAST THEY COULD DO IS LODGE A COMPLAINT WHICH IAM SURE THEY WONT DO. AND UR CONFIDENT THAT U HAVE NOT DONE SUCH A THING, SO NOTHING TO FEAR.

SORRY FOR CAPS BUT THIS IS MY ANGER FOR THOSE STUPID PEOPLES IN UR FLAT

Stop calling them your friends, atleast.

thats what i am thingking i want to make a complain against them.. about the foul languages.. but i dont know what i will do??/ please how?

if they are not lodging a complaint then u go and lodge it. it seems ur friend does not care for the money.

if a person was so worried for 8000 RIYALS, she would keep aside the bf thing and only think abt the robbery.

iam used to such kind of idiotic pranks.

LEAVE THAT PLACE AND LOOK FOR A BETTER AND DECENT PLACE

Sound's obvious, everyone's doing some monkey business, you are all grounded :D. Ignore and keep away from them or find another flat with decent borders.

they dont want to lodge a complaint because of the bf issue.

it is very clear one of the girls bf have stolen the money and is blaming on you. did you have enemity with any one of them. they just want to remove u from their place.

again i say LEAVE and ignore them.

u dont have to be afraid of them. go and lodge a complaint. this is the rule here. if you want i will come with you. i hate such kind of peoples who unwantedly want to create fuzz for others.

also if they are not lodging it could be one of ur friends only who is doing all this just to bad name u and remove u from their place.

in such situations, u have to ignore them or leave the place.

it is ur friend who lost her money, they should be proud that you are concerned abt it and instead they are telling u bad words.

they are not true friends.

if they are afraid to lodge a complaint then u go and lodge a complaint of what is happening.

or LEAVE THEM

advice your friend to lodge a complaint with the police and tell them then you will come to know the truth if iam or if iam not. if still they insist on lodging a complaint then i feel your friends are playing a foolish prank on you.

in the worse scenario if they make ur life hell by foul languages, leave them and look for a new flat.

better u complains to the police