when u hurt the person you love

shane23
By shane23

 

i'm feeling guilty coz i hurt the person really important to me, when we are angry we usually into saying words that we regret in the end.. I know it's wrong but it happened.. what is the best way i can do

By tatess• 11 Mar 2008 10:55
tatess

you will not stop fighting with each other, believe.

By tatess• 11 Mar 2008 08:17
tatess

been at that situation long time ago, with my ex arab husband( never ever marry  an arab or else you'll get the worst nightmare of your life) . Luckily for me,we got divorced .At first you will really feel devastated but as time goes by you will end up thankfull to the Lord for what had happened to you. There is sunshine after rain.And look at me now, happily married again with the man who really loves me.For him ,I  am the most beautiful woman in the  whole world.

By some1• 10 Mar 2008 18:35
Rating: 4/5
some1

Think twice before you speak something..... You will never be in such situation. I accept that it is easy to say but difficult to do,but try your wisdom.

 

 

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. And if they don't, they never were.

By shane23• 10 Mar 2008 17:19
shane23

yup for a while...  when you really hurt someone even you are ok now your relationship will not be the same as before... we have this big wall between us now..

By tatess• 10 Mar 2008 09:51
tatess

they are settled  for a while, sssh.

By owen• 10 Mar 2008 09:44
Rating: 3/5
owen

i think they are all settled...and back in each others arm... i think...

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By tatess• 10 Mar 2008 09:42
Rating: 3/5
tatess

he doesn't care at all, be realistic. It's a one sided love affair, lets face it.Don't waste your time, move on . You'll find someone someday who will love you the way you do.It's not the end of the world,make yourself visible to the mens world.

By bulele08• 8 Mar 2008 03:44
bulele08

goodluck on that shane23.. just be strong and pray hard....

By shane23• 5 Mar 2008 11:45
shane23

this time i didnt say anything bad i learned my lesson.. not to hurt him again or anyone... I told him if this is want he want ist ok with me coz i dont want to be selfish

By smoke• 5 Mar 2008 11:40
Rating: 5/5
smoke

when a man shows no interest in working on the relationship means he just wants to move on to the greener side of the hill. Perhaps he's found someone else..dont really know the reasons of your arguments but this could be one! 

 So the best thing u can do right now is not think about it and leave him alone.

Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot

By buttercupryle• 5 Mar 2008 11:34
Rating: 3/5
buttercupryle

No matter how angry you are don't curse.. There will always be room for forgivenes.

it's better to be careful to your words than sorry. Tell him how sorry you are, is it too late to apologise?

 

 

"Everything in life is destiny."

By shane23• 5 Mar 2008 11:21
shane23

we broke again yesterday...  and i gave up... I'm trying to fix our relationship but he's not working nor helping me... so i guess its better for me to stop and let him find his happiness whatever it is though i love him... its better that way

By qatarisun• 5 Mar 2008 08:38
Rating: 3/5
qatarisun

whatever it is... just try to stay away from him for couple of days, and the storm will pass by...better take this days off for your own relaxation and recreation...

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This Too Shall Pass.....

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By bulele08• 5 Mar 2008 03:28
bulele08

im happy for you shane23... congats!

By shane23• 3 Mar 2008 11:34
shane23

we're together again ...

By bulele08• 28 Feb 2008 08:02
bulele08

hope that this time u guys are okay.. :)

By anonymous• 12 Feb 2008 21:34
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

I hope he forgives you before Valentines day so you two can celebrate it together!

 

It's great 2 b loved!

By Virgin_move08• 12 Feb 2008 19:56
Rating: 2/5
Virgin_move08

Hi Shane,

 

I am sorry to hear about your pain. Its hard to advice on how to wrong a right, especially when you dont know the wrong.

 

I did something to anger my bf and he broke up with me and acted out as well.  I never contact people that dont want to be contacted.  My reason is my pride.  If you broke up with me, no matter how much I love you. I cant and wont try to make you stay. Not that way anyway.  Give that person their space to realize they over reacted, dont give them too much power by calling and begging too much.  They may have forgiven you but want to make you sit it out for awhile. When he knows you will take him back, he can take his time coming back because you will be there. 

 

I suggest not contacting him anymore.  If you did something so awful, then learn from that and dont do it with the next. If the love is true, he is just cooling off and will be back.  Men are not like us, they need space to think...

 

I hope that helps

By shane23• 12 Feb 2008 19:41
shane23

this is not the first time i made him really angry... u know women are crazy sometimes... If this is the first time i can handle but now i need help coz if i make again a wrong move oh my... it will be worst

By Oryx• 12 Feb 2008 19:40
Rating: 3/5
Oryx

leave for a few days..... maximum one text a day.... and keep it short and simple...'sorry - miss u so much'

respect the fact that he doesn't want to speak to you and don't overwhelm him or it will make him want to run a mile.

giving him the space he asks for and he will feel he has control......

By anonymous• 12 Feb 2008 19:20
anonymous

dont irritate him .when angry. give him some time to think..once his anger cools down .then u go approach him with flowers and candles. ssay sorry.sing him a song.get down on ur knees and ask for forgiveness. he will surely cool down and forgive u.

By jassKat• 12 Feb 2008 19:18
jassKat

Send him a present, give him a little time to cool off and dont give up trying to communicate.

 

tra la la

By syamsat• 12 Feb 2008 19:13
syamsat

Thats strange.. Send him an SMS or a nice 'sorry' card from any greeting sites... We can't really put the words, the way those cards express.. try it

By ChupaRustom• 12 Feb 2008 19:13
ChupaRustom

the easy way to his heart is through his tummy cook some good dishes for him

By ChupaRustom• 12 Feb 2008 19:12
ChupaRustom

time heals all wounds give him time

By shane23• 12 Feb 2008 19:10
shane23

but he dont want to see me and when i'm calling him he's really angry... ah what will i expect...

 

its really sad coz two days and its valentines day... and my heart is aching... huhuhu

By ChupaRustom• 12 Feb 2008 19:08
ChupaRustom

gift him power tools or gadgets guys love it

By RocknRoll• 12 Feb 2008 18:53
Rating: 3/5
RocknRoll

to show your love as you are to show your anger.

 

And before you shoot me for being a preachy A**, this is a quote from somewhere

 

By DaRuDe• 12 Feb 2008 18:46
Rating: 4/5
DaRuDe

go and drag him out for dinner or something

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By jassKat• 12 Feb 2008 18:44
jassKat

Say you are sorry and really mean it

 

tra la la

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