I think you can have a new beginning. Go hug your dad & apologize for your mistakes. Bunking classes is not good for your future. Think about your career. It's your life & this is the time for you to make your future bright.
It is not good on your dad's part to hit but he must have got shock of his life. Remember he loves you & is worried about your future.
ahhhh kids.... They always think that they know everything already! I wonder why your dad never named you google!
And yeah what doesnt kill you makes you stronger...
You seems like exaggerating your story. you can still type on your keyboard so I am guessing none of your bones has been broken. If you dont want to get beaten by your dad next time, then follow your parent's rules.
Call 999 if your dad beat you up next time for no reason.
its sad, he should have tried to find out first why did u skip school.... dont be rude to your parents,try to talk to him and try to make understand , i m sure he ll be feeling guilty too...i m a mother n i know how bad one feels after hitting one's child. u seem real upst that s why u posted it here...try to work it out with him. and dont be so unhappy after all he is your father and must be loving you and doing a lot for u some times...try to recall good things about him and let it go
I'm sorry that your dad beat u up, can i ask why did u bunk from school? are u having other problems, which made u bunk? what is your nationality? do u have brothers? sisters?
Go.... give him a big hug & say sorry to him instead of complaining anywhere,I am 36 & still my father shows hands to me for my mistakes,I am not complaining as I know if he wasn't worked 12-14 hours for my education may be I am not enjoying here with a good job & luxurious life.Without him you are a BIG ZERO .
My dad just came home but luckily he didn't touch me at all. He said that whenever you make any decisions, ask him first. But an inside of me feel hurts that he mocks me
My dad just came home but luckily he didn't touch me at all. He said that whenever you make any decisions, ask him first. But an inside of me feel hurts that he mocks me
@ NF1998: as far as i can see you're just a spoiled brat... i hope one day you will understand... until then i hope your father knocks some sense into your thick skull so that you understand the "why" and the "how".
matter fact your superstition the community and i would suggest stop this is because all thoses advise wouldn't help you abit then what you got is joke,,,,, Guys you can tell me if am wrong..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What are to police going to do if I call them are they going to send my family and I to my homeland? and what will happen to my dad? Also what is NHRC?
Grow up little boy! Please don't exaggerate what happened just to get sympathy. I don't think your Dad is that evil to have beaten, punched and kicked you even if you partly deserved it. Remember, no parent would want their children to go astray. Learn from your mistake and be open to your parents to talk about your problems properly. If you can't talk to your parents then seek advice from a sound adult or even the guidance counselor in your old school. I'm sure somebody is bound to listen to your woes.
Do you think your dad beats you up because he hates you or because he enjoys it?
If you don't go to school, in 10 years, you might end up on the streets then in Jail, and then the beatings you will get are what count.
I would thank your dad for beating you up!.. I would not try to call the police because it will only piss off your dad more and the police will not be able to do anything.. you are not in the US.
During my school days, i used to get slaps on my face/head, hitting with chappals and leather belts for bunking classes,getting low marks in exams, getting caught red handed with my galfriends on the terrace of the school building etc. etc. and i use HATE my parents for tat....but later on as days passed by i realized wat they had done was not wrong, infact they tried their level best to make their children a civilized person...:)
NF1998 Shall I give you good news, After 19 that is 2 years time you will have to leave Qatar anyway as you will not be able to stay with your family under the Family visa.
Shut the hell up and go finish your school!!! Stop complaining about your teachers. They are doing their jobs. You have to do yours. They follow the school program.
who told u to buy that story Tinker ? :) howdy lady ?
As told by Tinker above, if you had problem for wats being thought unnecessary things first then why didnt u informed ur parents or the Teacher him/herself first ?
I'm not trolling. I'm dead serious. Also, the reason why I skipped school is because in school we didn't learn almost ANYTHING. This courage me to stay at home and study.
Brit, Yes its a Hard life without a proper education. Thanks to my friend Billy NoMates who got me this job here in Qatar else I would also be stuck in blighty like me friend Britexpat..:)
You should be Happy you have father that corrects you. No father is happy when their child is not doing good. I do not support unnecessary beating but punishment is good for your future.if you are 17 and too big for correcion,pack out and start fending for yourself. Then you will know which one is better.
Advice: you know you are wrong, apologize to your father and promise to be a good boy.Submit to your father and obey his instruction while you live under his roof. Remember, this thing is like a Law of Karma, so becareful
So you are expecting that your dad will be proud of you & praise you of waht you are doing. How S&%$*d are you?You deserve that kind of punishment.So please dont post here that kind of s&^)%$^+y that people know how you are a bad ass.If i were your dad beating& kicking is not enough for you!LOL
you did something you werent supposed to ,but its alright just try to change and repent , be a better person , if your dad hits you and you are depressed just know that someday you will be without your dad or mom , you will have your own world , try to be a better person , get good friends , it will really help ,
Then you are a jerk and you deserve to be beaten....and Am quite sure if you even complain the SHari'a, action will be taken from ya not your Dad !!!! unless there is bigger issue than this one..!!!!
you are beaten because of your hardheaded attitude..you're dad is the only person who can do this to discipline you like old days. My childhood i have a mate hang in a tree for several hours because of gambling and escape from school too. Now he's a successful engineer.
but I'd have got all that and then some, from both my mom and dad, if I at your age, did what you did. Never repeat your mistake again, do all you can to be the best son ever and try to get a grown up who's advises your dad will heed, to talk to your dad as to the dangers and negativeness of beating kids,brutaly. Some parents are sadly very ignorant in that aspect and need counselling. And swear to yourself that you will never beat and kick your own kids ever,but instead chose other affecting but non violent ways of disciplined them justly.
Your dad should not beat you, but discuss with you, and start engaging a proper communication between you and him.
Where is your mother ? Why she's not interfering ?
Otherwise call Qatar foundation for kids and woman abuse. In Qatar we are not supporting this kind of act, that why Sheikha Moza creat this institution.
We used to get up at three o'clock in the morning, eat a handful of hot gravel, go to work at the mill every day for tuppence a month, come home, and Dad would beat us around the head and neck with a broken bottle, if we were LUCKY!
You're right . He shouldn't beat you. But you admit that you did wrong also, so the best option is to sit down with each other and talk things over. Have a group hug and DON'T skip school again..
I was beaten by my DAD Twice that was when i was your age, Try approach him like father like son, do know what made him such upset!!solve it,am sure you can....
In protest leave the house and start working and get money to buy you shelter, clothes and food. If he cannot beat you for wasting his money by not attending school and instead doing something nonsense, he should not be obliged to take care of you..right.
How sad. I don't know whether there are any agencies here. However, before rushing off to the authorities , perhaps you need to sit down with the family and discuss this...
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He's obviously trolling I received pms from this guy
I think you can have a new beginning. Go hug your dad & apologize for your mistakes. Bunking classes is not good for your future. Think about your career. It's your life & this is the time for you to make your future bright.
It is not good on your dad's part to hit but he must have got shock of his life. Remember he loves you & is worried about your future.
ahhhh kids.... They always think that they know everything already! I wonder why your dad never named you google!
And yeah what doesnt kill you makes you stronger...
You seems like exaggerating your story. you can still type on your keyboard so I am guessing none of your bones has been broken. If you dont want to get beaten by your dad next time, then follow your parent's rules.
Call 999 if your dad beat you up next time for no reason.
its sad, he should have tried to find out first why did u skip school.... dont be rude to your parents,try to talk to him and try to make understand , i m sure he ll be feeling guilty too...i m a mother n i know how bad one feels after hitting one's child. u seem real upst that s why u posted it here...try to work it out with him. and dont be so unhappy after all he is your father and must be loving you and doing a lot for u some times...try to recall good things about him and let it go
nomerci
Guess, it's located in West Bay
Which school are you going to?
YAZLEB
If you read above, my nationality is Austrian.
I bunk school because I know what to study for the exam and for me, studying at home is always quite and peaceful.
And I have one small brother, age 14.
I'm sorry that your dad beat u up, can i ask why did u bunk from school? are u having other problems, which made u bunk? what is your nationality? do u have brothers? sisters?
Yup he asked me why I skipped,to be honest I didn't say anything and just to let him talk. Because I wanted to end the conv as soon as possible :(
Loveme u dont have to tell wat i usually do when i get hurted ? :(
Take care
By the way did he ask you why you skipped school before he beat you up?
call your best friend, your special someone....
someone is calling me also when his dad do the same thing like what he did to u, he always cry on my shoulder like a baby:(
good for ya....
Ah Finally !!
Thx guys I've learnt my lesson.
Go.... give him a big hug & say sorry to him instead of complaining anywhere,I am 36 & still my father shows hands to me for my mistakes,I am not complaining as I know if he wasn't worked 12-14 hours for my education may be I am not enjoying here with a good job & luxurious life.Without him you are a BIG ZERO .
My dad just came home but luckily he didn't touch me at all. He said that whenever you make any decisions, ask him first. But an inside of me feel hurts that he mocks me
My dad just came home but luckily he didn't touch me at all. He said that whenever you make any decisions, ask him first. But an inside of me feel hurts that he mocks me
Well, if you are really being physically abused as a child up to present, here's the contact details of the NHRC
http://www.nhrc-qa.org/en/nhrc.aspx?page=5
Call or visit them, maybe they can help you.
For the Austrian Embassy, I am not sure if there is already one in Qatar now. As far as I know, it's in Kuwait.
@ NF1998: as far as i can see you're just a spoiled brat... i hope one day you will understand... until then i hope your father knocks some sense into your thick skull so that you understand the "why" and the "how".
matter fact your superstition the community and i would suggest stop this is because all thoses advise wouldn't help you abit then what you got is joke,,,,, Guys you can tell me if am wrong..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Uh, you're from Austria. And your Dad, too. Maybe he likes Hitler too much.
HUMAN RIGHTS! Are you human? Then they apply to you.
What are to police going to do if I call them are they going to send my family and I to my homeland? and what will happen to my dad? Also what is NHRC?
Again, if you are hurt, go to the emergency room. They know how to deal with such injuries and can mediate with the police.
Mandi
I've been in Doha for 4 years now and I'm from Austria, is that going to help?,
You are wasting your time and his money and now complaining?
UkEngQatar, no, 19 is not the age for a young man to stop family RP.
No I never talk about it publicly till now. My mom never helped me. She said she minds her own business and is scared of my dad
No it's not imagination, he had done this to me since I was 6
Tinks, smell a troll .. drunk one lols
hahah but why he do that ??
maybe you make a big mistake right ?>
hahah but why he do that ??
maybe you make a big mistake right ?>
Damn , so the punches and kicks were just your imaginations... face it, say sorry, and be good boy now on.
Well I'm not trying to get sympathy here, i just need a little bit of advice..
Grow up little boy! Please don't exaggerate what happened just to get sympathy. I don't think your Dad is that evil to have beaten, punched and kicked you even if you partly deserved it. Remember, no parent would want their children to go astray. Learn from your mistake and be open to your parents to talk about your problems properly. If you can't talk to your parents then seek advice from a sound adult or even the guidance counselor in your old school. I'm sure somebody is bound to listen to your woes.
I just get caught today, he called home and went crazy on the phone..
Why would you be dead when he reach home?.. speak to him that you are resuming your school tomorrow and you are sorry for what you did.
BTW what is your nationality?
I'm going to school tomorrow anyway, in about an hour my dad will be home and I'm dead
Go plea sorry to your dad and go back to school you dumbo...
Spare the rod and spoil the brat.
So there are no authorities for abusive parents here in Qatar? And the police won't do anything about it?!? Are you serious?!
Call your mom & she will call your dad
Your dad beat you up because you skipped school.
Do you think your dad beats you up because he hates you or because he enjoys it?
If you don't go to school, in 10 years, you might end up on the streets then in Jail, and then the beatings you will get are what count.
I would thank your dad for beating you up!.. I would not try to call the police because it will only piss off your dad more and the police will not be able to do anything.. you are not in the US.
what does not kill you, makes you stronger.
u r such a kid !!!
Sadly, that sort of attitude is not going to get you far. You are still young and need your parents' support, both financial and other.
Therefore, I suggest that you swallow your pride a little and try to get back on par with your father. Perhaps you'll realise that you both erred..
Rizks because Life starts at 40..:)
Thank you UkEng !
by the way UkEng, why did u do transplantation on ur head ? :)
Totally agree Rizks, Yes you are a civilized, decent, humble and a bald person now....:)
Eggjatlee UkEng !
and no wonder i am a civilized, decent and a humble person now....:)
Yes we know Rizks, Since they used to slap you on the head you lost all your hair.:)
During my school days, i used to get slaps on my face/head, hitting with chappals and leather belts for bunking classes,getting low marks in exams, getting caught red handed with my galfriends on the terrace of the school building etc. etc. and i use HATE my parents for tat....but later on as days passed by i realized wat they had done was not wrong, infact they tried their level best to make their children a civilized person...:)
NF1998 Shall I give you good news, After 19 that is 2 years time you will have to leave Qatar anyway as you will not be able to stay with your family under the Family visa.
2 more years to go my son!
Must be the other one which has a Campus in Al Waab and D ring Road also. I heard the West Bay Campus is pretty bad.
Talk to him?!? I haven't talked to him since then. No way I would start a conversation with him again.
Can i enroll myself in tat school now ?
I am now in my tender age.....:(
@UkEng
No not that one.
@Rizks
I already applied for another school and will start soon. That's why I don't care about my current school so instead I study at home.
Prism not sure about any girls but there are some nice Lebanese teachers there..:)
ROFL Prism !
UkEngQatar....seems you have cracked the puzzle...lebanese school!!!...just one small technical point...do lebanese girls also study there...:)
Shut the hell up and go finish your school!!! Stop complaining about your teachers. They are doing their jobs. You have to do yours. They follow the school program.
who told u to buy that story Tinker ? :) howdy lady ?
As told by Tinker above, if you had problem for wats being thought unnecessary things first then why didnt u informed ur parents or the Teacher him/herself first ?
No, Not That school again? is it the school close to City Center? next to the Lebanese school..?
No I won't say the school name, but let me tell you a hint; it's in west bay.
LoL now i really eager to know which school it is ? PM me plz.....:)
wat did they put in first ? the egg or the chicken ? :)
Teachers seems that they didn't know how to teach properly, they put unnecessary things first
then how come i learned almost EVERYTHING and he didnt ? :(
might be a dumb student like you UkEng ? :)
If you have injuries, please go to a hospital to get checked out. You can tell your story to the physician there who can help you.
Mandi
Rizks I guess the same kinda of school that you went to?
wat kinda school is tat ?
I'm not trolling. I'm dead serious. Also, the reason why I skipped school is because in school we didn't learn almost ANYTHING. This courage me to stay at home and study.
Brit, Yes its a Hard life without a proper education. Thanks to my friend Billy NoMates who got me this job here in Qatar else I would also be stuck in blighty like me friend Britexpat..:)
Bill Gates and Sir Richard Branson , along with UkEngQatar are the execeptions to the rule... IMO
YOu are so funny Captain,,,, i wish he could watch Russell Peters, ofcourse he could hav got some ideas. :D
You should be Happy you have father that corrects you. No father is happy when their child is not doing good. I do not support unnecessary beating but punishment is good for your future.if you are 17 and too big for correcion,pack out and start fending for yourself. Then you will know which one is better.
Advice: you know you are wrong, apologize to your father and promise to be a good boy.Submit to your father and obey his instruction while you live under his roof. Remember, this thing is like a Law of Karma, so becareful
you say your not a kid...
your actions say you are a kid..
Bill Gates is also a drop-out! What a shame he is.
A whole month makes you a high school drop-out, no school allows that many days absent. Oh great, we have a drop-out on QL, what a shame.
By the way, I think the guy is a troll.
Maybe his dad doesn't talk to him, because he is busy making money? I have absolutely no respect for such so-called "fathers".
ITS V GOOD HE BEATS YOU...& ITS BETTER FOR YOUR HEALTH ALSO...
TB, my kids would tell me, we're not going to school today. No problem.
So you are expecting that your dad will be proud of you & praise you of waht you are doing. How S&%$*d are you?You deserve that kind of punishment.So please dont post here that kind of s&^)%$^+y that people know how you are a bad ass.If i were your dad beating& kicking is not enough for you!LOL
I have bunked school, too. It was boring. I explained it to my father and he said, it's your choice.
Grounding and beating-up are two different things!
It really depends on your nationality. If you are a European, go to your embassy. If not, bad luck.
what if his father is already a doctor HAHA
you did something you werent supposed to ,but its alright just try to change and repent , be a better person , if your dad hits you and you are depressed just know that someday you will be without your dad or mom , you will have your own world , try to be a better person , get good friends , it will really help ,
Give me your dad's number, I want to know why he punish you physically and yet you have access to internet.
The father needs a doctor. If physical force is all he has left, he is not qualified to be a father.
I know that I'm wrong but I still DON'T DESERVE THIS KIND OF ACT. Life is miserable, I have skipped about 1 month of school days
Then you are a jerk and you deserve to be beaten....and Am quite sure if you even complain the SHari'a, action will be taken from ya not your Dad !!!! unless there is bigger issue than this one..!!!!
you are beaten because of your hardheaded attitude..you're dad is the only person who can do this to discipline you like old days. My childhood i have a mate hang in a tree for several hours because of gambling and escape from school too. Now he's a successful engineer.
1. GO TO SCHOOL!
2. I don't agree with family violence but most of the time it's required
3. Medical Examination and the Police.
My advice... DON'T DO IT! He IS you father after all... just make a promise to yourself that you will never do that to your kids.
17...but you act as a child..
skipping school on occasion is normal, but from what you have said..
you are probably due to repeat..
you need to apologize and grow up
life is not fair
he didn't beat you...you needed an attitude adjustment..
If Qatar Foundation can convince this spoiled brat to go to school, the parent have no objection whatsoever.
LP was physically abused by a police offer coz he called him 'shorty' and hence lost his one eye....:(
so be careful wat u say and wat u do !
Physical abuse is never OK. However, if you are an Arab you have to live with it.
but I'd have got all that and then some, from both my mom and dad, if I at your age, did what you did. Never repeat your mistake again, do all you can to be the best son ever and try to get a grown up who's advises your dad will heed, to talk to your dad as to the dangers and negativeness of beating kids,brutaly. Some parents are sadly very ignorant in that aspect and need counselling. And swear to yourself that you will never beat and kick your own kids ever,but instead chose other affecting but non violent ways of disciplined them justly.
"caught red handed"...wat did u do after bunking the class tat ur father had caughted u red handed ?
i am also facing same plm from my mother becourse i given school fees to my girl freind
Your dad should not beat you, but discuss with you, and start engaging a proper communication between you and him.
Where is your mother ? Why she's not interfering ?
Otherwise call Qatar foundation for kids and woman abuse. In Qatar we are not supporting this kind of act, that why Sheikha Moza creat this institution.
Good luck
lol school fees to ur girl friend
sounds about right, but you are lucky...
somehow you still have access to your toys..
We used to get up at three o'clock in the morning, eat a handful of hot gravel, go to work at the mill every day for tuppence a month, come home, and Dad would beat us around the head and neck with a broken bottle, if we were LUCKY!
I do agree with britexpat, thats the best option better to discuss this serious matter with your family.
If your in his shoes, what would you do?
Ask your dad how many times u have slapped him when you were 1 to 3 years old.
Actually, your dad should call the police and file a complain for parent abuse case.
Go on youtube and type:
russell peters somebody gonna get hurt
It'll help you heal and get out of the depression ;)
I got caught red handed so no such thing as 'excuses' in this situation :(
tell him you've started looking up "homes for the aged" :-P
17 or 170, skipping school is childish behavior. Offer your dad alternative solution, or alternative form of punishment.
Could you not come up with a better excuse?
get serious with your studies
Beat him back ! So he know's how it feels :-p
(hoping you are bigger than your dad :-p )
Of course I'm joking. No violence!
Just ring your dad and open discussion.
Well no I'm not a kid, I'm 17.
Lol.. So this what kids do these days when their parents beat them.. (Post a thread on QL)..
Well, I say you call your father and apologize for skipping school and waisting his time and money
did u ask him for KFC after bunking all those days
you deserve this....
You're right . He shouldn't beat you. But you admit that you did wrong also, so the best option is to sit down with each other and talk things over. Have a group hug and DON'T skip school again..
I was beaten by my DAD Twice that was when i was your age, Try approach him like father like son, do know what made him such upset!!solve it,am sure you can....
In protest leave the house and start working and get money to buy you shelter, clothes and food. If he cannot beat you for wasting his money by not attending school and instead doing something nonsense, he should not be obliged to take care of you..right.
call LP
If I had done that in mine Time, Not only my Dad would beat he would've locked me in the room for the whole day.
So just make sure you don't bunk school again, so he has no reason to beat you..:)
I skipped school for a long time, I know that I'm being stupid but no one deserves to get beaten by their parents.
You must be misbehaving?, for your Dad to do that to you.
Now tells us what you did to earn this punishment?
Why did he do that?
How sad. I don't know whether there are any agencies here. However, before rushing off to the authorities , perhaps you need to sit down with the family and discuss this...