traditionally a particular tree cannot bear fruit of not its kind yet as technology evolve...things seems to be less impossible nowadays...
moral lesson of the story, even what was made by nature can still be change and then how much more with change for a person with an own freewill, right? to CHANGE is a matter OF CHOICE.....if you choice to remain a cheater then nobody can be blame about your doings except yourself....if you choice to change then by such a choice your not only make other people happy but also youre making a great significant decision for yourself....
In my quest to keep the relationship from failing i forgave her the first time only to realize that she still had another thing going on 5 months later. Guess what! Foolish me, we had a major showdown but went on with the relationship two weeks later. She promised it wasn't goin to happen again. I found out another fling 4 months later on . I finally quit the relationship two weeks ago. Cant trust em meeen. Quit the on the first inkling or suspect. Or simply never trust fully!
The phrase once a cheater always a cheater isn't always correct, the whole thing is about breaking a psychological barrier, meaning that cheating once moves you beyond an imaginary ethical barrier that you have placed for yourself, pushes you into a completely new comfort zone where cheating is acceptable,
take for example a college kid using a bong for the first time, how hard is it for him/her to make the decision of smoking it, now look at the kid a few weeks later, you will find him/her using it casually, its all about breaking the barrier for the first time, defining what's acceptable or not in your mind set,
of course there can be no generalization and people can re- establish this barrier for one reason or the other, if you caught your significant other cheating and stayed with him/her you need to make a huge deal out of it but in the same time not hold it over his/her head for the rest of your lives.
People cheat for myriad reasons, and the majority say their original partner is more attractive than the new one. They will cheat as long as their needs aren't being met in the first relationship.
I play hockey and fornicate 'cuz they're the two most fun things I know.
this thread will grow this big. i have read great comments down here. i believe that there is nothing constant except change, but being on a situation where you are cheated with the person you trust the most will eventually change one's perspective. Thinking openly when you are deeply hurt is not as easy as it seems, its really needs a lot of self convincing that the person you trusted once deserve the same Full trust you have given before the cheating has been done.
But as for Cheaters in relationships, i believe it is easier to accept men cheating than women, as the saying goes, men are born polygamous ( i know this is unfair ) but it is the best cover-up for pain for the ladies.
No!! Being a cheater sometimes happens if ur not happy with ur relationship anymore.. but its not true that u will always cheat just because u've done it once.
You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving!!!
noway i am questioning it! as a matter of fact, I don't go to sleep without verifying with Dr.P my emotional status and the the correctness of my reactions and ways of acting...
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Dr. Phil generalizes.. you would be amaized at how much some people can change!! I mean the way they act, the way they react, the way they think, their values, their goals, their priorities, their lifestyle...everything!...
they even cannot recognize themselves, let alone to be recognized by others.. :)
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
NO. the only constant thing in this world is CHANGE. and everybody deserves a second chance. Those who did it already know what the consequences are and if they really love you,then I'm sure leaving them will be as bad as hell for them. That's where new life starts. =)
I think you should give credit to the individual first, before lumping all cheaters together forever. Being judged on one act for the rest of your life is a little harsh. Allow people the room to make a mistake in their life, because you never know when you will need that same level of consideration. But keep in mind that it is no longer a mistake if they keep making it.
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You can change word "cheater" for "boy" or "man" depending of the age...
War looking for peace,
is like fornication looking for virginity.
I promist I am not going to cheat again.
What does this mean??????
Ha habhahahahhahahahah
I will be cheating and cheating again.
A Cow which jumped from the fance to live out side will be jumped again in future.
“He'll cheat without scruple, who can without fear” -Benjamin Franklin
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Yeeeehaa!!
I believe that. Its always said once its a mistake but the second its your own mistake
traditionally a particular tree cannot bear fruit of not its kind yet as technology evolve...things seems to be less impossible nowadays...
moral lesson of the story, even what was made by nature can still be change and then how much more with change for a person with an own freewill, right? to CHANGE is a matter OF CHOICE.....if you choice to remain a cheater then nobody can be blame about your doings except yourself....if you choice to change then by such a choice your not only make other people happy but also youre making a great significant decision for yourself....
Yeeeehaa!
In my quest to keep the relationship from failing i forgave her the first time only to realize that she still had another thing going on 5 months later. Guess what! Foolish me, we had a major showdown but went on with the relationship two weeks later. She promised it wasn't goin to happen again. I found out another fling 4 months later on . I finally quit the relationship two weeks ago. Cant trust em meeen. Quit the on the first inkling or suspect. Or simply never trust fully!
cheater will always b a cheater whether guy or girl.its just that may b u cant caught him/her again
The phrase once a cheater always a cheater isn't always correct, the whole thing is about breaking a psychological barrier, meaning that cheating once moves you beyond an imaginary ethical barrier that you have placed for yourself, pushes you into a completely new comfort zone where cheating is acceptable,
take for example a college kid using a bong for the first time, how hard is it for him/her to make the decision of smoking it, now look at the kid a few weeks later, you will find him/her using it casually, its all about breaking the barrier for the first time, defining what's acceptable or not in your mind set,
of course there can be no generalization and people can re- establish this barrier for one reason or the other, if you caught your significant other cheating and stayed with him/her you need to make a huge deal out of it but in the same time not hold it over his/her head for the rest of your lives.
People cheat for myriad reasons, and the majority say their original partner is more attractive than the new one. They will cheat as long as their needs aren't being met in the first relationship.
I play hockey and fornicate 'cuz they're the two most fun things I know.
angel_prince2008
this thread will grow this big. i have read great comments down here. i believe that there is nothing constant except change, but being on a situation where you are cheated with the person you trust the most will eventually change one's perspective. Thinking openly when you are deeply hurt is not as easy as it seems, its really needs a lot of self convincing that the person you trusted once deserve the same Full trust you have given before the cheating has been done.
But as for Cheaters in relationships, i believe it is easier to accept men cheating than women, as the saying goes, men are born polygamous ( i know this is unfair ) but it is the best cover-up for pain for the ladies.
Just my thought.
A cheetah doesn't change its spots
but a cheat can... we all evolve in life
more or less yeah.
"Ali Baba and 40 thieves" are now "Ali Baba and 30 thieves" ; 10 were laid off.
No!! Being a cheater sometimes happens if ur not happy with ur relationship anymore.. but its not true that u will always cheat just because u've done it once.
You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving!!!
i dont know if cheater deserves a second chance if they continue cheating..
A person who cheats can come clean and start anew, triggered by certain motivations.
Salam
coz, once you did it...theres a tendency of doing it again...
TEMPTATION
I'll never understand them :o(
brit, well.. you put her under the pedestal, that's why she found someone who put her up on pedestal
that's ALL that a woman needs..
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
You don't understand.. She was my life.. i put her under the pedestal... The two timing B#t$$ ..
I was so heartbroken, that i slammed shut the cupboard, kicket the guy's guide dog and took the first flight to Doha :O(
How sad for you... Thank god you got rid of the blond :)
In case of men cheaters- as long as they can get it up and moving.
yes, it could happen again...
but then again it depends on the price one is willing to pay and live with...
Life's a bitch and then you die! ;)
It is wise decision to have extra fun in life thn cribbing about wht u have... eventually u get suck in d end....
My Blonde Ex-GF cheated on me and I caught her red handed :o(
it depends :)
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If its the same kinda gal with same kinda problems ..... YES he ll cheat again...
but if She is the one HE was looking for... even though went out with wrong ones thinking shez the kinda Chick he is looking for... NO.....
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I am not a cheater! :p
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i agree tess_916
but 99.9% agree...
if some one cheat you once . he/ she. will do it thousand times again & again but for others may be he / she act better.
According to my experience
salam
99 % of the time
lol... brit...
noway i am questioning it! as a matter of fact, I don't go to sleep without verifying with Dr.P my emotional status and the the correctness of my reactions and ways of acting...
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
I am shocked, stunned and not a little amazed.. Are you seriosely questioning the advice of Dr. Phil ???
Dr. Phil generalizes.. you would be amaized at how much some people can change!! I mean the way they act, the way they react, the way they think, their values, their goals, their priorities, their lifestyle...everything!...
they even cannot recognize themselves, let alone to be recognized by others.. :)
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
NO. the only constant thing in this world is CHANGE. and everybody deserves a second chance. Those who did it already know what the consequences are and if they really love you,then I'm sure leaving them will be as bad as hell for them. That's where new life starts. =)
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L♥VE LIFE!
Yes Brit, history is the best indication, but not a definitive indication.
cheater is not a cheater always if he/she Not hurts or making loss to others.
"Helping HANDS r better than praying LIPS"
Yes! According to Dr. Phil , history is the best indication of future actions...
of course!!!!
a cheater in relatinships? NO.
a second chance,
a third chance,
fourth , tenth,
and even a million chance for them
and they will eventually stop.
I think you should give credit to the individual first, before lumping all cheaters together forever. Being judged on one act for the rest of your life is a little harsh. Allow people the room to make a mistake in their life, because you never know when you will need that same level of consideration. But keep in mind that it is no longer a mistake if they keep making it.
depends...
he/she might change...
he/she can be cheater with one person and be completely faithful with another one…
he/she is cheating due to certain circumstances and may be even suffering by him(her)self because of that..
you never know..
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
maybe yes maybe no...
it completely depends on him or her .
depends on their age, as long as the male testerone is active yes they will cheat.
No.
They don't know the meaning of loyal.
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