i think she is showing attitude.. here you also need to show some attitude.. dont beg go ahead if she can live without you then y not u..? be a man habibi..
see how things turn around when it involves matters of the heart! broke up one day made up few hours after! good for you khalids hope your made of stronger stuff when the next break up comes along lol just kidding!
naahh., if a girl really wants you.. no matter how badass you are, no matter how awful you look, no matter what you do... she would definitely stick in to you..
now, for that reason alone seems she's just finding a way out of the relationship..
you dont have to do anything, dont ever ever try to persuade her and give things and staff like roses or anything similar as you would end up like bribing her..
just let go, no matter how hard it is for you.. you should move on, after all it's your fault cause how i see it, you are the underdog in the relationship and you may have shown her that she's in control of the relationship..
a woman/lady/girls tends to like a man who is in control of situation... always remember that mate!
let go! and stop humiliating yourself upon her. there are alot of women out there whom would want you for who you are.
"time flows slowly.. atleast... it's flowing" everything will be okey in the right time and in the right moment mate!
so buy my chick-magnet phone im selling and dig some hardcore chicks hahaha :D
Dude im no guru but to tell you the truth [which im never wrong] if she broke up for that silly little reason means she dosent need you or found another guy during her party ... Just ignore her if she calls fine if she dosent then u move on ... ur life shouldnt revolve around some1 who dosent need you.
Rightly said Brat, true love always prevails however the love that blossoms here dries up quickly when you faced harsh truth just like the harsh environment not to mention the rules and laws and cultural differences :)
"People of different nationalities ending up in trouble."--UK....(not all some of them survived...i guess whatever nationality if they r not meant for each other khallas...and if they r lucky enough they will last.....LOVE will always find a way if its true...no matter what...........but at the same time be careful alwys trust ur instinct.........be wise!
Ur wlcm Ukeng. When love comes in dicussions we all become curious. It is natural.Shafaq it all depends upon them and their family.One of my friend's mom was so happy when he introduced his bird to her. As long as they understand each other and have passion to walk and hold each other's hand together no power in this world can depart them from each other.
No they are serious about marriage then fall in love... on the other side, its difficult offcourse no one thinks before or love anybody with planning (true love) .
But yes, we should remember our and other culture , i mean , I or he/she is acceptable in our cultre or not. Otherwise, one has to face big problems. See, many ppl r serious according to them but they have to break their relationship because of the family pressure... :((
shafaqkashif, seen it here too many times. People of different nationalities ending up in trouble.When they are serious! Serious about what?Serious about a relationship leading to marriage? or serious about having an illicit relationship? (sorry had to remind ourselves where we are)
UKEng is right ... If they belong to different nationalities, they will face a lot of problems in future - you can say, from FAMILY. If they really are serious and love each other then they can fight for their relation otherwise if one will depart himself or herself, other one will be really embarassed in front of the family and friends. SO, we also do care about these things before making our mind and spoiling ither life.
UKeng Khalid is an Indian but I am not sure about her bird. Khalid dont show this forum to her now. Show her after u get married. It will be more joyful.
Thank you friends i could nt inform you just bcoz i went in shumal.Let you know what happend yesterday.yesterday funny night i went there @ 8pm funny thing is that she came @ 9 30 pm that mean she was 90 mins late and between this duration i called her many time and she was just saying that i am on my way and will be there in 5 to 10 mins any way she came and asked me 1st question that what you want? (with angry face) and i said i want you sit down first. i was just trying to talk with her but not answering me till 5 to 10 mins after that she started to ask 1000 questions.and 1st question was " are you serious with me?" when i heard this beleive me that i was so happy and excited and i also explained her reason to not coming at the party. and finally she again knocked my heart and entered in my life.i am so happy bcoz i really like her.I do thanks all of you friends Thank you thank you thank you
Khanan.. for example if its certain nationality a Karak Chai and pani puree will cheer her up. If its a certain Nationality she will be full filled with a trip to the Mall and certain nationality would invite Khalid home and ask him to meet her Parents.. Khanan did I really need to write this all for you!..ufff
Khalid you have a lot of years to go before you know how to handle a woman. Esp when she breaks up with you over petty reasons, and then does not answer your calls or sms's. Now she's agreed to meet you for one and only one reason, to tell u not to keep bothering her anymore and that "its not you...its me" but "we can still be friends".So yeah do let us know what happens.
its ok mr.lincoln let me see why she called me there.imagine she still didnt answer of my call but sms); so i am afraiding that what goona happen tonight
Thank you for posting and giving good advise and finally she sent me a sms to meet me at sharaton lets see what gonna happen there.hopefully i am not gonna late anymore ):i l l share you tomrw about today Insha Allah thank you again friends
Everything a women does, she does for a bigger reason than what is apparent..her seemingly spontaneous moves are also contemplated upon. It takes a while before you understand your girl well..
She must have had other things going on all along and you not being there for her birthday must have been just the excuse she was looking for to tell you to cast your net somewhere else.
Khalid you have not lost anything dude. Just take it easy. I am sure she will be with u again with a lot more love, fun, support & understading.This is just a 6 month relationship so it takes time to understand each other.
No Khalid. This is first time she is doing it right?If it is first time she wants u to care for her. She might have planned so many things with u on her birthday. This reactional is obvious as u were not there for her. Who knows how many times she might have look down the window and door to see you.If you love her and if you want her back in life then be optimistic. No matter she wanna escape or she want to be with another man, if you love her turly u can have her back. Just need some tricky steps. PM me if you want to know the tricks to get back the X in life. I guess she is not your X still.As this is her first birthday after you meet her, she just wants you to make her feel how important she is for you.
How about face your problem not QL your problem? Glad that she didnt break ur liver as well.:p
Anyway,breaking up with u bec.u failed to attend her bday with a valid reason is childish..but look on the other side of the coin,maybe ur attendance mean to her so much and she's just carried away by her disappointment., It's u who can sort things out.. Open a bottle of beer man. Everything's gonna be alright.
I agree wid rezirosca....don waste your time...she found someone else....theese fuckin babes. Are very oppurtunist.....don take it to your heart.....give your lify a fresh start...good luck
Khalid - dude take it easy. If she loves you truly she will come back sure and soon.But you be careful. Explain her your situation and reason for the absence and just be bold later on. Ultimately girls like somone who boldly and smartly lead them so dont do anything wussy just wait.Dont forget to post another "Thank you" forum in QL after get her back.Wish you all the best. :)
How about go to her personally rather than trying to reach her thru phone? If she is not answering your calls or totally ignoring you, then it's time for you to get the hint.... "She dont want it anymore" :(
If she loves you, she will not break you up. Dont be so stupid trying to get her back. Let her call you. If she wont communicate in a week, try to forget her and find a new one.
Khalid if you have common friends. you can ask them a favor to try convince her to talk to you. if she still don want to talk thats it maybe she has found another guy.
are you kidding me, isn't this what every guy wants ! dude, there are like tons of babes here and there and everywhere. go for a new one. i wish my b!tch left me just like this ! man i have been going out with this chick for 2 months now and i knew i didn't like her in the second day but i guess i am not that good at breaking up, and she would cry for no fhoking reason. don’t call her, tell her to fhok off if she calls back. and good luck hope you find a better one.
prove her you love her so much, do something which will make you sorry for not coming on that day, surprise her, try go in her home settle things in person at his tought moment of your relationship..bringing flowers with you maybe will soften her heart..just try..
No matters how sincere your were and the reason to not attending the party, at least now leave her alone! its disturbing you both, at least don't let others to judge and comment on her , its your privacy isn't? by the way in my opinion you are failed ever since you entered you cry in Qatarliving! Heal yourself and look some way, but sharing failures in personal life and such issues means you are not trust able.Let it go.
If you have a valid reasons not able to attend her DOB, then make it up to her in anyway or form like bunch of roses for a sweet surprise in her office table, sincere apologies in all forms of communication and let her feel she is really important to you its just that you had some "other" important commitments that time. Ladies just love to feel, see and think that they are first priority to someone they have valued most. Sad thing you missed it.. so make a good shot buddy :-)
the real issue is? Non-attending her birthday for LEGITIMATE reason/s will sound a bit a childish characteristic of your GF.In any case, try to let her cool down and maybe you'll win her back! Good luck!
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move on man....its not worth your time for sure she has another guy
Guyz, this was posted in 3/10/2011...:(
By now Khalid might hav happily got married to her OR to some other gal and might have 5-6 kids by now ?
Happy Ending.
THE END.
i think she is showing attitude.. here you also need to show some attitude.. dont beg go ahead if she can live without you then y not u..? be a man habibi..
i think you should move on.. maybe there is a real reason why she stop communicating with you. not just attending here birthday..my friend move on.
see how things turn around when it involves matters of the heart! broke up one day made up few hours after! good for you khalids hope your made of stronger stuff when the next break up comes along lol just kidding!
the more she will run away from you...
f*Ck this thread is wayback! hahaha didn't read until the second part.. sorry late reps :D
naahh., if a girl really wants you.. no matter how badass you are, no matter how awful you look, no matter what you do... she would definitely stick in to you..
now, for that reason alone seems she's just finding a way out of the relationship..
you dont have to do anything, dont ever ever try to persuade her and give things and staff like roses or anything similar as you would end up like bribing her..
just let go, no matter how hard it is for you.. you should move on, after all it's your fault cause how i see it, you are the underdog in the relationship and you may have shown her that she's in control of the relationship..
a woman/lady/girls tends to like a man who is in control of situation... always remember that mate!
let go! and stop humiliating yourself upon her. there are alot of women out there whom would want you for who you are.
"time flows slowly.. atleast... it's flowing" everything will be okey in the right time and in the right moment mate!
so buy my chick-magnet phone im selling and dig some hardcore chicks hahaha :D
Goodluck brother!
I_isale...:) rich enough to take his gf to Sheraton...happy?? lol
how rich are you?
Just Suicide man..try
Oh khalid,im happy for u..:) Lovers of different nationalities must reach a common ground to understand each other. :p
Dude im no guru but to tell you the truth [which im never wrong] if she broke up for that silly little reason means she dosent need you or found another guy during her party ... Just ignore her if she calls fine if she dosent then u move on ... ur life shouldnt revolve around some1 who dosent need you.
Yea, I concur with you. Love's got nothing to do with nationality, race or colour.
True love knows no bounds..
I remember my Cuban Shotputter asking me if I was serious. I said Yes and she left :O(
intresting discussion
Rightly said Brat, true love always prevails however the love that blossoms here dries up quickly when you faced harsh truth just like the harsh environment not to mention the rules and laws and cultural differences :)
"People of different nationalities ending up in trouble."--UK....(not all some of them survived...i guess whatever nationality if they r not meant for each other khallas...and if they r lucky enough they will last.....LOVE will always find a way if its true...no matter what...........but at the same time be careful alwys trust ur instinct.........be wise!
Ur wlcm Ukeng. When love comes in dicussions we all become curious. It is natural.Shafaq it all depends upon them and their family.One of my friend's mom was so happy when he introduced his bird to her. As long as they understand each other and have passion to walk and hold each other's hand together no power in this world can depart them from each other.
Blessingsssss :)
Good Luck Kahlid24 I hope she will appreciate that you could not come for what ever reason and be serious about you as you are about her!
No they are serious about marriage then fall in love... on the other side, its difficult offcourse no one thinks before or love anybody with planning (true love) .
But yes, we should remember our and other culture , i mean , I or he/she is acceptable in our cultre or not. Otherwise, one has to face big problems. See, many ppl r serious according to them but they have to break their relationship because of the family pressure... :((
ugh... women. that totally sound like one of them. you gotta move on. their are plenty of other women out there.
by the way.. The Birthday Party was Fun! Man you miss a great party. Just kidding.
Kepp you head up. She is just playing games with you.
shafaqkashif, seen it here too many times. People of different nationalities ending up in trouble.When they are serious! Serious about what?Serious about a relationship leading to marriage? or serious about having an illicit relationship? (sorry had to remind ourselves where we are)
UKEng is right ... If they belong to different nationalities, they will face a lot of problems in future - you can say, from FAMILY. If they really are serious and love each other then they can fight for their relation otherwise if one will depart himself or herself, other one will be really embarassed in front of the family and friends. SO, we also do care about these things before making our mind and spoiling ither life.
sanity thanks for mentioning that my curiosity was just getting too much!
UKeng Khalid is an Indian but I am not sure about her bird. Khalid dont show this forum to her now. Show her after u get married. It will be more joyful.
Rizks just trying to understand the plot buddy..I can see another Pikey in the making!
and you have to make her understand!!!
Beware khalids!!!
khalids, don't do it.
UKEng why again you keen about the 'nationality' thing ?
Why did she come so late?Khalids24 are your guys serious? Are of same nationality? I mean will you marry her? or are just serious for having some fun?
i am thinking to show her this discussion forum what you say?
Congrates and Gud luck !
Wowowow thatz so great.Wish you happy life and sustainable love with her.
Alls well that ends wellGood luck for the future :)
Happy Ending !
Well done, khalids. Enjoy your life!
Thank you friends i could nt inform you just bcoz i went in shumal.Let you know what happend yesterday.yesterday funny night i went there @ 8pm funny thing is that she came @ 9 30 pm that mean she was 90 mins late and between this duration i called her many time and she was just saying that i am on my way and will be there in 5 to 10 mins any way she came and asked me 1st question that what you want? (with angry face) and i said i want you sit down first. i was just trying to talk with her but not answering me till 5 to 10 mins after that she started to ask 1000 questions.and 1st question was " are you serious with me?" when i heard this beleive me that i was so happy and excited and i also explained her reason to not coming at the party. and finally she again knocked my heart and entered in my life.i am so happy bcoz i really like her.I do thanks all of you friends Thank you thank you thank you
what happened nxt ?????
I'll check and see if it's working...
I am also curious to know the results.
where is Khalid today? did she mend your heart or you had a heart attack yesterday??..:)
is the OP's heart OK now?
It’s all about female psychology nothing to do with Nationality. Perhaps some are taking from expereince!
thanks LP and UKEng for the explanation. Love guru on QL :):)
Khanan.. for example if its certain nationality a Karak Chai and pani puree will cheer her up. If its a certain Nationality she will be full filled with a trip to the Mall and certain nationality would invite Khalid home and ask him to meet her Parents.. Khanan did I really need to write this all for you!..ufff
Khanan, some nationalities don't go well together because of traditions, for example.
how come a nationality can give a clear picture of the situation???
Exactly LP..Clash of Cultures!!!
UKEng dont turn this love story into a nationality bashing.
I think khalids is a Qatari. THAT could be the problem.?
Khalid Which Nationality is this Friend of Yours? So we can get a better picture of the problem your facing!
Khalid r u still in sheraton ?
Goodluck khalids..
No, UK. Never! Done is done!
Ok not a similar one! but have you ever woe your loved one back?
Khalid you have a lot of years to go before you know how to handle a woman. Esp when she breaks up with you over petty reasons, and then does not answer your calls or sms's. Now she's agreed to meet you for one and only one reason, to tell u not to keep bothering her anymore and that "its not you...its me" but "we can still be friends".So yeah do let us know what happens.
Khalid...if a girl avoided you for few days that means she is no more interested in you.... or she was not serious with you...
I was just kidding ...don’t worry..she will mend your broken heart....do tell us tomorrow..:)
UK, I never had a similar problem!!
LP you are Dr Love now? Did that work for you?
Ok, I don't.
c'mon dont say this
Don't be afraid, khalids. Invite her for a dinner in the Al Shaheen, and before that, secretly rent a room. And then surprise her.
lol... hopefully she is gonna tell you that she found someone better than you..:( so be prepared for the worst..:)
its ok mr.lincoln let me see why she called me there.imagine she still didnt answer of my call but sms); so i am afraiding that what goona happen tonight
Money!
cost of what?
Thank you for posting and giving good advise and finally she sent me a sms to meet me at sharaton lets see what gonna happen there.hopefully i am not gonna late anymore ):i l l share you tomrw about today Insha Allah thank you again friends
Sheraton? It will cost ..., khalids.
Thankyou!
Be still my aching heart :O(
[[wysiwyg_imageupload:5421:]]Britex after the cuban shotputter left him
Only in my dreams and in the deepest recesses of my broken heart :O(
is the Cuban shotputter still with you?
How cruel women of the female persuasion can be :O(
Must we always suffer for such pettiness ? I remember when my Cuban Shotputter left me .... but that' another story ..
Or you can go to a tailor's shop and have ur heart sewed..:p
Everything a women does, she does for a bigger reason than what is apparent..her seemingly spontaneous moves are also contemplated upon. It takes a while before you understand your girl well..
I think the girl has matured on her nth birthday.
Use Super glue... I heard it mends everything.
I give good advice.....no charge!
PS, i haven't taken any Advice from "Sanity", by the looks of it, He is good at............... "Giving Advice".... ;)
I think going to to the "ministry of external affairs" is a good option too!
FA - Same thoughts..I was about to post that sanity is good in giving advices..:P
Come on, try to talk with her, or best ask for tips from "Sanity".....You never know it work's out, try all possible means....Don't give up
Probable reason is: she's just waiting for the perfect time to find her way out.. MOVE ON.START FISHING AGAIN. Goodluck..
you just need to take a shower and try to be true man!just my opinion
you just need to take a shower and try to be true man!just my opinion
She must have had other things going on all along and you not being there for her birthday must have been just the excuse she was looking for to tell you to cast your net somewhere else.
Maybe we should hire Dr.Love as one of the mods..:)
Forget abt her forget abt loving another girl and get marry... sooooooooon.
Khalid you have not lost anything dude. Just take it easy. I am sure she will be with u again with a lot more love, fun, support & understading.This is just a 6 month relationship so it takes time to understand each other.
Try to have a good nap....grrrrrrrrrrrr. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Please educate all QLs with your tricky steps, we barely need ,
My Girl Priend while we were in Class 1st (at the age of 6) ran away from me, now I want her back....
No Khalid. This is first time she is doing it right?If it is first time she wants u to care for her. She might have planned so many things with u on her birthday. This reactional is obvious as u were not there for her. Who knows how many times she might have look down the window and door to see you.If you love her and if you want her back in life then be optimistic. No matter she wanna escape or she want to be with another man, if you love her turly u can have her back. Just need some tricky steps. PM me if you want to know the tricks to get back the X in life. I guess she is not your X still.As this is her first birthday after you meet her, she just wants you to make her feel how important she is for you.
How about face your problem not QL your problem? Glad that she didnt break ur liver as well.:p
Anyway,breaking up with u bec.u failed to attend her bday with a valid reason is childish..but look on the other side of the coin,maybe ur attendance mean to her so much and she's just carried away by her disappointment., It's u who can sort things out.. Open a bottle of beer man. Everything's gonna be alright.
Just forget it
What does Min. of Labour has to do with all this issue...."Out of Context"
just go to cornish and rewind the golden memmories, you have with her. and the also replay the naughty/dirty things you were doing
I thing she was looking for a chance to escape from you
Just ignore her for few days no call , no sms ... If she is for you she will come back to you.. if she doesnt she was never yourGodd luck
khalids, wait for next 6 months and attend her upcoming birthday party...then present her a lovely bouquet and say sorry in person.All the best!!
I agree wid rezirosca....don waste your time...she found someone else....theese fuckin babes. Are very oppurtunist.....don take it to your heart.....give your lify a fresh start...good luck
Khalid - dude take it easy. If she loves you truly she will come back sure and soon.But you be careful. Explain her your situation and reason for the absence and just be bold later on. Ultimately girls like somone who boldly and smartly lead them so dont do anything wussy just wait.Dont forget to post another "Thank you" forum in QL after get her back.Wish you all the best. :)
Indeed ghazalz Ministry of Health :))
this is not the place to discuss this issue, this is public forum, your personal matter should be resolved by you only,
why dont u go and talk to her insteady of calling.
Jothish, Why didn't you direct him to Ministry of Health :)
Please go to Ministory of labour and give a complient
Pilgram , nice to see you again :)
Jayca ! very correct this is the right way, Photoart! you have nice vision.
Good! Your heart still broken? How many pieces? Don't worry it can be fixed using fixit glue.
How about go to her personally rather than trying to reach her thru phone? If she is not answering your calls or totally ignoring you, then it's time for you to get the hint.... "She dont want it anymore" :(
So move on, and find yourself another gal :)
If she loves you, she will not break you up. Dont be so stupid trying to get her back. Let her call you. If she wont communicate in a week, try to forget her and find a new one.
More you call....more you will sound desperate. You have done your part of calling, let her call back.....if she wants to
Khalid if you have common friends. you can ask them a favor to try convince her to talk to you. if she still don want to talk thats it maybe she has found another guy.
are you kidding me, isn't this what every guy wants ! dude, there are like tons of babes here and there and everywhere. go for a new one. i wish my b!tch left me just like this ! man i have been going out with this chick for 2 months now and i knew i didn't like her in the second day but i guess i am not that good at breaking up, and she would cry for no fhoking reason. don’t call her, tell her to fhok off if she calls back. and good luck hope you find a better one.
send flowers! Good luck!
prove her you love her so much, do something which will make you sorry for not coming on that day, surprise her, try go in her home settle things in person at his tought moment of your relationship..bringing flowers with you maybe will soften her heart..just try..
lol sajmarhab... thats keepin it real
This is Brilliant opportunity , Blessing in disguise .
Find another girl asap .
I tried to call her since last three days but no answering
No matters how sincere your were and the reason to not attending the party, at least now leave her alone! its disturbing you both, at least don't let others to judge and comment on her , its your privacy isn't? by the way in my opinion you are failed ever since you entered you cry in Qatarliving! Heal yourself and look some way, but sharing failures in personal life and such issues means you are not trust able.Let it go.
Look for a NEW GIRL, wishing you good luck...
Look for a NEW GIRL, wishing you good luck...
If you have a valid reasons not able to attend her DOB, then make it up to her in anyway or form like bunch of roses for a sweet surprise in her office table, sincere apologies in all forms of communication and let her feel she is really important to you its just that you had some "other" important commitments that time. Ladies just love to feel, see and think that they are first priority to someone they have valued most. Sad thing you missed it.. so make a good shot buddy :-)
keep loving:) She ll come back to you, if she is meant to be yours..
I think she's just looking for a way out...I hope I'm wrong...
She sounds quite selfish and childish. I'd say you're better off whithout her.
suicide :)
It's brilliant to live with full passion do not follow all the obolete hearted like myself.
Go kneel at her door with a bunch of roses and poem extracted from a 60's book
the real issue is? Non-attending her birthday for LEGITIMATE reason/s will sound a bit a childish characteristic of your GF.In any case, try to let her cool down and maybe you'll win her back! Good luck!