What should I do?

Bluemountain
By Bluemountain

I am married and living here a lone. I know someone fall in love with me what should I do?

By agnesfidest• 26 May 2009 09:46
agnesfidest

You certainly know what to do but you just want the feeling...you are embracing the unwanted. Even if we all know it's wrong you will eventually do according to your strength. It's so exciting to sin is it not? But can you live with the guilt and with sleepless nights? If you do not have God then probably you will be swept away by this trial, but if you have good reason to fight this unexplainable thing which not only you nor me nor some might experience...then nothing is impossible. Ask your self, who the hell a good person can ruin a married life? If you have reason such good reason to leave your partner say punching and hurting you..well then you may. But if you were just lusting to be in love not loving to be in lust...then you may be wrong...tell the person who bothers you not to anymore if that is tha case...and tell your self there are things which are more important in life you shall keep the flame of love and attachment to the one that you marry, other wise we all be CHAOTICALLY gone wild looking for the missing part that just need to be worked out within our partners...

It's part of married life, it's a stage of coping, learning, and living...important thing is...you knew what you want and you will fight for what is really just! and at the end of the day whatever you will do and plan to do there will always be consequences.Good luck and may the Spirit of Godly judgement be with you!

By lionel888• 25 May 2009 19:03
Rating: 5/5
lionel888

Cheating happens when you start looking for what you dont have.

Somewhere along the way, you will meet someone who will be more charming or sensitive than the one youre already with. more sexy. more thoughtful. wealthier. better in bed. and you will meet someone who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your boyfriend/girlfriend ever did. because no boyfriend/girlfriend is perfect. because your boyfriend/girlfriend will only have 90 percent of what youre looking for. So, cheating happens when you look for the missing 10 percent.

Lets say your girlfriend is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty girl next-door who has a cheerleader laugh no matter what she says: I broke my arm yesterday, ha ha ha... Or because your girlfriend is a couch potato who is always in pajamas and smelling of garlic and cooking oil, you may fall for the CK-One-smelling colleague who comes to work in a sharp pinstripe blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your boyfriend is the type who never shuts up even when youve tried using duct tape, your heart may skip a beat when you sit next to a brooding, mysterious Latino on the bus.

but wait! Thats only 10 percent of what you dont have. Dont throw away the 90 percent that you already do! add to the 90 percent the 100 percent that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The many adjustments you have made to better understand each others little quirks and idiosyncracies. The wealth of memories that you have accumulated as lovers. The old sparks that can always be rekindled by the walk on the beach, barefoot and underneath the stars...

Cheating happens when you start looking for what you dont have. but faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already do.

By pedroh• 25 May 2009 18:09
pedroh

be tough..it's easy to forget someone when their not there...BUT remember all the reasons why you married your husband!!!...it's ok to be lonely BUT don't fall in it's trap...it's not worth it

By anonymous• 25 May 2009 17:52
anonymous

Dobule Suicide seems the only logical answer

By anonymous• 25 May 2009 17:45
anonymous

BE faithful

try to make a visit for your wife here

and u will forget about this friend

By PRIYA CHANDRASEKARAN• 25 May 2009 17:37
Rating: 5/5
PRIYA CHANDRASEKARAN

AVIOD HIM ,,,,HEREAFTER,,HOPE THIS IS NOT TRUE LOVE,, IT MAY BE INFATUVATION,,,MARRIED LIFE IS ALWAYS SWEETEST,,,,,,,,

By qatar.doha• 25 May 2009 17:32
qatar.doha

be faithful to ur husband!!!!!!!!

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