Seeking for your logical opinion....

Miss Jen
By Miss Jen

In connection to the subject this is to seek for your best opinion wherein no one is right or wrong.

I chatted with my friend last night and she has a problem which is not new to everyone... About love.. yeah love... Overused topic but hey this is what we are living... I started listening to her stories like as usual... Quite funny coz she is older than me and very awkward for me to give advice but i did... I will share some of her questions to me and its up to you to give your own opinion...

" If the guy constantly dating you what does it mean? "

Well, i answered her it depends,... Definitely he likes you cos guy will not spend a single moment with the girl if he doesn't like the girl... But then again don't misunderstood the word " friends" .

I dont want to go on details about what i told her i just want to leave you a hanging question that seeking for your honest opinion.

" Why do guys needs to secure his feeling first if the girl likes him before he admit what's truly inside him?"

By Miss Jen• 15 Jul 2009 20:11
Miss Jen

What is happening? After being deleted by Mod yesterday....

No allegation? hahaha happy world !

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By shoeaddict• 15 Jul 2009 20:08
shoeaddict

again,,,why is KISSME stalking all of you???????

are you and KISSME one and the same?

By sMaRt_iDiOt• 15 Jul 2009 20:07
sMaRt_iDiOt

What is the name of the girl? just give me clues. Maybe she's one of the girls I dated recently. Your description of that guy really pointing me out.

By Miss Jen• 15 Jul 2009 20:05
Miss Jen

Cooling MOde! Too much barbed wires... Ok it will be delivered... just wait in front of ur door! ^_^ Aint that sweet???lolz

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By shoeaddict• 15 Jul 2009 20:01
shoeaddict

fence,,,i dunnoi why she needs yards and yards of wire?

electrocution perhaps?

Miss Jen?Miss Jeeeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnn????yoo-hoo???

there you are!!!

STOP PLAYING WITH THE CHAIN SAW!!!!lol

By anonymous• 15 Jul 2009 19:55
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

Shoe i thot she bought barbed wire 4 u yesterday.. how much u gonna need man..

" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"

By shoeaddict• 15 Jul 2009 19:53
shoeaddict

beck and call,,,watch this-Miss Jen? Miss Jeeeeeeennnnnnnn?yoooo-hooo?where are you?

she is busy right now,she told me...

she is buying yards and yards of BARBED WIRE...

like some?

By azilana7037• 15 Jul 2009 19:46
azilana7037

more often than not. ;-P

By kissme• 15 Jul 2009 19:42
kissme

Cos when i OpEned the forums i saw the post of MiSSSSSSS JJJEEEENNNNNNNNN.... they are fighting??? But entertaining. hahaha

By anonymous• 15 Jul 2009 19:40
anonymous

Azi i guess u suffer from the reverse syndrome, unwanted attention getter ;-)

" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"

By shoeaddict• 15 Jul 2009 19:35
shoeaddict

why are you picking on ms AZI???

dude you may not like this but youre getting a lot of attention,and by drawing attention to yourself,,,hmmmm.i therefore conclude that the patient refused AUTOPSY!!!

By azilana7037• 15 Jul 2009 19:25
azilana7037

APPLE can attest that there are far worst QL characters before that we had the misfortune of knowing.

By Miss Jen• 15 Jul 2009 19:24
Miss Jen

Why Should I? Duhh! lol dont be foolish!

^_^

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By anonymous• 15 Jul 2009 19:20
anonymous

I guess He or she whichever way u look at it is suffering from HPD (Histrionic personality disorder)..

" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"

By azilana7037• 15 Jul 2009 19:16
azilana7037

IGNORING....

By kissme• 15 Jul 2009 19:14
kissme

As i browse all comments i notice baby that you have an attitude and i lyk thattttt...... Teach me bout Lyf. im enjoying Qatar Living Now! Promise!

By azilana7037• 15 Jul 2009 18:35
Rating: 2/5
azilana7037

You seem to be getting personal with me?

You Miss Jen's BF or you're the alter ego of her?

I'm just asking coz you're suddenly appear from whichever corner of the world and began attacking me in the threads...

troll alert

By SolidSnake9• 15 Jul 2009 17:23
SolidSnake9

ok ok.. enough with the stories.. he likes her..

By kissme• 15 Jul 2009 17:17
kissme

I agree with you ram.. watz up with Azi she explain it too long... are you a man azi? Tell me more about man! lol

By art novue• 15 Jul 2009 15:45
art novue

You know why men tends to hold back their feelings its simply because men are used to hiding their own feelings, that’s why you seldom see men crying….men are not as emotional as women…

Same as opening up on feelings for a girl, makes men very vulnerable, they tends to lose their male ego…

By Miss Jen• 15 Jul 2009 08:37
Miss Jen

^_^

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By anonymous• 15 Jul 2009 08:28
anonymous

Some of the guys r really sensitive, They wanna secure their feeling cuz they don't wanna get embarrassed ..

As for me as a man having dignity I would never tell a girl that i like/love her until i feel the contact between us .. until i'm secured that i feel that she also like me .. otherwise, I will always keep it to myself for the reason not to be embarrassed ..

but sometimes when i can't get over it ... I just say it and come what may .. one of the girls was about to slap me .. cuz she said that she has been waiting for the statue to talk .. lol

On the other hand, as Azzilana said he might be playing around .. and just love the feeling of dating but he don't wanna be committed to a relationship..

By Victory_278692• 13 Jul 2009 14:12
Victory_278692

Both boys and girls have same feelings but different in expressing their love.

By mjamille28• 13 Jul 2009 14:06
mjamille28

nail on the head azi ;)

By azilana7037• 13 Jul 2009 14:04
azilana7037

Do a couple needs to be in a relationship to date?

Or do it automatically mean that a guy and a lady (whose dating for quite a while) would become a couple?

I don't know how you define "date or dating" per se. But in my vocabulary, dating means "getting to know you" stage which is part of "courtship".

To "like someone" is different from "falling (in love)for someone". Sometimes, liking a person doesn't mean that he/she will fall in love with the other person. If your friend thinks that way...she's in for a BIG BROKEN-HEART, crying in the night episode.

And to your 2nd question: if the guy tells you that he needs to be sure of his feelings...TELL HIM to G.T.H!!! Coz that's a lot of bullcrap. He's just playing with her.

Geez...waiting for my karwa taxi to arrive do test my patience....hence this post...hehehehe ;-P

By me.myself.and.i• 12 Jul 2009 18:29
me.myself.and.i

just wait for another thread for another topic, hope its a good one

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 18:10
shoeaddict

thread brewing???dnt tell me its another sequel to last nights hasty generalisation?

By Miss Jen• 12 Jul 2009 18:07
Miss Jen

Well, to end this crap i will just tell her not take everything seriously... Girls! Just remain and don't compromise too much...

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By chinitasai08• 12 Jul 2009 18:04
chinitasai08

" If the guy constantly dating you what does it mean? "

ANSWER: we don't know..better ask the guy...

" Why do guys needs to secure his feeling first if the girl likes him before he admit what's truly inside him?"

ANSWER: maybe the guy don't want rejection... he wants to make sure 99.9% the girl also liked him...

MyHotComments

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 17:46
shoeaddict

orange juice with pulp spurting out of my nose again...lol

better that we give her a copy of that film,,,,or maybe...

we can watch it with her so we could give her a blow by blow account,,,like she wouldnt miss any highlights...

where are you Miss Jen?Miss Jeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnn???

By anonymous• 12 Jul 2009 17:00
anonymous

Hey shoeaddict i m here 2 giv my advice, Abit hard 2 give logical opinion though coz the question is so illogical.. Guys feel the need 2 b secure???? Actually u r right, watch the movie " HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU" It really explains male thought process very nicely.. As for ur friend, the guy doesn't want a long term relationship with her, he is waiting for her to sleep with him so he can move on.. thats what i get frm the limited info u gave.. For detailed analysis and interpretation of the guys actions, u can call my loveguru helpline, 1-800-600-456-789

" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"

By aftab.azam• 12 Jul 2009 16:48
aftab.azam

If the guy constantly dating you what does it mean?

this is dependent on guys thinking some are seriously fall in love, some just pass time, constantly dating does not mean that guy loves here, only emotions feeling if that girl find in that guy tell the story.

Secure his feelings

May be afraid of loosing her,

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 16:37
shoeaddict

ask him Miss Jen.....whats his take on the subject...

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 16:35
shoeaddict

i was picking my toenails when i thought of you...lol

have you seen "He's not just into you?"the film,,,?

guys will never admit that they are insecure about relationshiops,or will never admit too be insecure with feelings.

maybe the guy's not into her?or just testing her ?

By Miss Jen• 12 Jul 2009 16:29
Miss Jen

Opinion's accepted jamille... ^_^Well, if im her in situation it depends... if guy likes to play mind games... ill give it to him .... Hahahaha

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By Miss Jen• 12 Jul 2009 16:24
Miss Jen

You missed me?

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By mjamille28• 12 Jul 2009 16:22
mjamille28

so why don't she just ask him...

By Miss Jen• 12 Jul 2009 16:21
Miss Jen

Ok let me clarify...

Her question goes like this... She think that guy likes him but the guy is holding back... she's getting confused... It requires man's opinion for enlightenment...

Are you insecure guys? Do u really need to be certain? Even if u like a girl...

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By lei05• 12 Jul 2009 13:40
lei05

Why do guys needs to secure his feeling first if the girl likes him before he admit what's truly inside him?"

hmmm maybe he just want to make sure first if the girl really likes him or not...that is my own opinion...

By panda• 12 Jul 2009 13:21
panda

LBP 20/20! my reverence :)

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 13:20
shoeaddict

i thought you fell asleep last night?imagine the poor girl you were talking to,,,not knowing that you were snoring on the receiver....HYPED!!!!

By lilBoPeep• 12 Jul 2009 13:16
lilBoPeep

QUESTION:If the guy constantly dating you what does it mean?

ANSWER: He wants sex!

QUESTION: Why do guys needs to secure his feeling first if the girl likes him before he admit what's truly inside him?

ANSWER: Men are not that deep. What's inside him? testosterone!!

Secure his feelings in what way?? Dont fully understand the question

Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.

By smoke• 12 Jul 2009 13:11
Rating: 5/5
smoke

Secure feelings? what are u talking about..we dont secure feelings...we know most of the time that if we like a girl we want to keep we will do just about anything to keep her. if we are just looking to pass our time then we give you the whole "its not you..its me" routine oh and yeah we learnt that routine from you women :P

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By shoeaddict• 12 Jul 2009 13:10
shoeaddict

hmmm,,,why do you date in the first place?and most importantly,,,after THREE CONSECUTIVE DATES,,,what do you do after?

i think its not a commitment issue,,,youre reading his actions the wrong way...HYPED!!!

By anonymous• 12 Jul 2009 12:43
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

99% chance, the guys is smelling punani, and dates until he gets what he wants.

Doha standards.

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