A blog from maid in Dubai!

ajmani
By ajmani

I have been on read only mode as well, but looking at the posts literally forced me to post something of interest. Now, read this blog (which was featured in gulfnews today. Do you find it intimidating or you encourage such blogs!

http://www.dubaisally.blogspot.com/

PS: If you cannot digest the topic, you may move on, but no bashing towards anyone please!

By kuquels• 21 Feb 2011 08:57
kuquels

Notice that she didn't ever mention any tagalog word or the famous "taglish" lines in the Philippines.. if not a Pinoy definitely not a maid!

By kuquels• 21 Feb 2011 08:56
kuquels

Hmm.. i think this blogger is educated. There is spontaneity in his/her writing, just intentionally doing it mis-spelled and gramatically wrong.

By wirehead• 16 Feb 2011 20:44
wirehead

wow, i think sally is the dubai blog version of ederlyn and inday! the last two were fictional filipino maid characters that were created and nurtured in cyberspace and forwarded text message jokes a couple of/several years ago. far as i know, no one knows who created them. ederlyn was the first, she even had a love life and everything. but i love inday. her vocabulary is no match for anyone in ql.

i guess sally is the new one. i haven't had time to read it all yet, but i can't wait to see the rest of her story.

nice good read if you want a migraine. thanks for sharing :) yikes, just noticed that this topic is over a month old.

By anonymous• 16 Feb 2011 19:53
anonymous

The paragraphs are well indented... and the story well told and each entry ends well...

better than most QLers....

cant be a maid....

By donald_duc168• 13 Jan 2011 20:19
donald_duc168

getter..... how dare to use one's nationality for sympathy...

By nomad_08• 13 Jan 2011 20:15
nomad_08

Okay then its a scam!

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 20:11
anonymous

Lol nomad it is not a hoax, the blog does exist!!!

By nomad_08• 13 Jan 2011 20:11
nomad_08

Hoax.

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 20:08
anonymous

But Funny :P

By chocoholic• 13 Jan 2011 20:07
chocoholic

FAKE

By edifis• 13 Jan 2011 19:29
edifis

I find it really funny!

Big feet not so pain and good balance...I like the details.

By nightwalker77• 13 Jan 2011 19:13
nightwalker77

It's like someone trying to take the idea of "The Help" a book, and write it for recent times. Somehow I am not buying that it is real...the english is too perfectly messed up...

By jay420• 13 Jan 2011 18:14
jay420

yeah! ^_^

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 18:09
anonymous

This is definately not written by a Maid from Philippines. It is a clever attempt by the author.

By nomerci• 13 Jan 2011 17:08
nomerci

polkadots...good as a writer? Really? Wow.

By Cat Buys• 13 Jan 2011 16:58
Cat Buys

well it kinda makes me wonder if this is real if you get anyone to help out with your kids if they will be jealous of your life .... what they forget it ...everyone of us is trying to do better in life including them if they are leaving their country to work else where ... every one of us fits specific opportunities which are mostly for the better of our current style ... right?

i wouldnt want to have someone working for me looking after my kids knowing shes not doing it from the heart.... with me ... if she makes noise just to wind me up ..... she'll be gone .... thats for sure .... dont meant to sound mean... but dont like people who envy others.... just try harder for yourself .... xxxxxxxxxxxx hope this doesnt offend anyone its not meant to

By Ice Maiden• 13 Jan 2011 16:47
Ice Maiden

The poor "maam"....every incident, every day hung out like laundry to dry

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 16:46
anonymous

Simple Text;A person unfit for the Job of Maid, but may be good as a writer:-)

By nomerci• 13 Jan 2011 16:40
nomerci

polka...say what?

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 16:39
anonymous

A very unethical person,bordering on dangerous, deducting from her claims of jealousy and how she can get angry for small things and latter her choice of methods of vending it!Not a Maid For Me!

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 16:32
SONALIYOGS

ME TOOOO...

ITS FAKE

By AngelinaBallerina• 13 Jan 2011 16:20
AngelinaBallerina

thing is.....its bloody boring!! No juicy gossip about Maam and the gardener!!! Yawn!!

By Mandilulur• 13 Jan 2011 16:17
Mandilulur

Yes, journalist writing as Filipina maid.

Mandi

By jay420• 13 Jan 2011 16:16
jay420

i have a doubt bout the blogger.

being a maid, given your educational background for writing good english. But when you check the blog elements, they have some monetary components such as google adsense, facebook like box & other social media plug ins for increase traffic. also arranged and linked to other blogs.

so you think an ordinary Filipina maid can do this?

just my opinion....

By AngelinaBallerina• 13 Jan 2011 16:04
AngelinaBallerina

Well from what I read 'maam' was upstairs!!!

By einstind• 13 Jan 2011 15:57
einstind

Using somebody's system , when they are not there?What else?

By AngelinaBallerina• 13 Jan 2011 15:52
AngelinaBallerina

She should be doing some bloody work not faffing about on maams computer! Pfftt she sounds an ungrateful type to me!!!

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 15:29
SONALIYOGS

its funny and insightful diary of maid reported by some jounalist....

lol

lol

By nomerci• 13 Jan 2011 14:32
nomerci

If I took it at face value, it would reinforce the reasons why I don't have a maid.

By flor1212• 13 Jan 2011 14:31
flor1212

it's multiple paragraphs. Just look at the title of this thread, do you find it grammatically right?

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 14:30
anonymous

Either way I like the blog and I am going to take it at face value and read it.

If I am the employer I will be a bit concerned as personal details of the family can be shared by her as well. If it's just about her life, I won't be too bothered.

By somwerNdmiddle• 13 Jan 2011 14:29
somwerNdmiddle

or maybe she is Lilibeth the Ghost Writer

By aneehs• 13 Jan 2011 14:27
aneehs

It's quite funny though she expressing what she felt and how to be maid with Middle eastern family.The question is...is that real blog or someone want instant fame online?

By flor1212• 13 Jan 2011 14:26
flor1212

now I need a strong BAnadol!

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 14:23
anonymous

Philippines not filipines... ;)

From King Philip of Spain (King Philip II)...

By mariee.clare• 13 Jan 2011 14:16
mariee.clare

... could be written by a filipina but not a real maid though... grammar is not consistent, it is correct sometimes... seems like she intended it to be gramatically incorrect...

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 14:00
SONALIYOGS

we can learn those words from anywhere....may be from net or evn from ppl around who r from filipines...

blog doesnt sound authentic to me atleast!!!

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:54
anonymous

how could she knows about pamahiin, regla, BFF, davao.. etc. etc. if she was not she claims to be...

By gtim• 13 Jan 2011 13:52
gtim

interesting, but i doubt if she is filipina.

Filipina can make correct english sentence even they are elementary graduate and I don't encounter a filipino speaking english in this manner, even a contruction worker here can speak good english, 'though not so perfect...

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 13:52
SONALIYOGS

no ways....

By somwerNdmiddle• 13 Jan 2011 13:50
somwerNdmiddle

maybe it was the filipina dictating and the nigerian transcribing...

By simplecomplex• 13 Jan 2011 13:50
simplecomplex

The author overdid it and made it more obvious that it's fake. What a foolish mockery.

By Colt45• 13 Jan 2011 13:48
Colt45

We get the message, you can turn your caps off now ;-)

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 13:46
SONALIYOGS

MAY BE ITS JST MEDIA HYPE...TO GET SOME NEW AND DIFFERNT STORYY...

but ppl can manage to catch white lie...!!

By Colt45• 13 Jan 2011 13:42
Colt45

I's is thinking the same thing ;-)

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:42
anonymous

Sounds like 'black' English. "I is" is typical for Nigeria.

By Colt45• 13 Jan 2011 13:42
Colt45

Oui ;-) me thinks the same too... a wannabe fili :-P

By smoke• 13 Jan 2011 13:40
smoke

I mean obviously if she's not that educated you think she'd have enough brains to use a computer and open up a BLOG?

By smoke• 13 Jan 2011 13:40
smoke

Could be a prank blog just to fool people into thinking she's a house maid.

By SONALIYOGS• 13 Jan 2011 13:39
SONALIYOGS

ya...

evn i believe ...da same

NOT WRITTEN BY FILIPINA.....THOGH ITS FUNNY AND INSIGHTFUL

BUT NOT MAIDS BLOG FOR SURE....

By nomerci• 13 Jan 2011 13:39
nomerci

Colt, I think it is written by somebody pretending to be a Filipina. I actually suspect it is written by a Western person.

By Colt45• 13 Jan 2011 13:37
Colt45

It don't sound like its written by a Filipina. She must be narrating her saga to someone else who's writing it for her.

By nomerci• 13 Jan 2011 13:31
nomerci

This is, IMHO, not written by a Filipina.

The things stated may be how some think.

By ajmani• 13 Jan 2011 13:28
ajmani

The question is: what if you were in the employer's shoes? How would you react to it - fire her, retain her with a warning or let her continue as if nothing happened!

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:25
anonymous

Brit many details of Philippines are mentioned, atleast the person is probably from Phils.

Who else will know that there is a snake man in Robinson Mall :P

By britexpat• 13 Jan 2011 13:23
britexpat

Call me a cynic, but i find it rather bemusing and wonder if it REALLY is from a Filipina. I personaly don't think so from the language used.

By ajmani• 13 Jan 2011 13:23
ajmani

I guess you can open this: http://gulfnews.com/news/gulf/uae/the-secret-diary-of-a-maid-dubai-sally-s-blog-1.745517

By somwerNdmiddle• 13 Jan 2011 13:18
somwerNdmiddle

too many firewalls here in the office, might as well read her blog at home later.

yes obviously she's not educated, reading what you posted made me read the sentences twice to understand it better.

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:15
anonymous

Yes it is, through many blog entries she has told her life story and the problems she faced back in Philippines and in her job. She is obviously not very educated but this blog is getting a lot of attention recently.

By somwerNdmiddle• 13 Jan 2011 13:12
somwerNdmiddle

for real this is the blog?

By smoke• 13 Jan 2011 13:10
smoke

Good God, that was one painful read...think i'll go back to the pointless threads.

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:09
anonymous

This is the blog which started it all

I so jealous of her. She have all nice things and me I have small room small bathroom. She have so many room so many bathroom. When she go out I use her thing her bathroom also. I no like her sometimes. But she my maam so I have be nice to her. I have to do thing she tell me to do even when I not want.

Like two day ago I am cleaning kitchen. It 7.30 at night. My sir and maam and two children eat dinner early so I go to bed 9 oclock. It was not like that at place I work before. There they would eat dinner at 10 and I sleep 12 midnight. And get up next morning at 5 to pack school lunch. So I cleaning kitchen and maam she tell me Children will have banana pancakes tomorrow morning. Just like that. At 7 in evening. So I have to make them at night because how I can make them in the morning so quickly before they leave for school at 7.30? How she tell me at 7 to start make pancakes. When I work at the other place before I use to make 25 dishes for iftar in fasting period but I start making them early before I take the 4 children to the park but now I have to make pancake in middle of night at 7.

I very angry but what I can do I had to do pancake. So I make lot of noise when I cleaning up bang dishes and doors. My maam she not care she just go upstair and sit on computer. In morning I wake up 5.45 this famly better about these timing than before other family and I wake up and make lots of noise again so my maam would be disturb. But she not say anything to me when she come down so I no think she hear me upstair. So next time I angry I make more noise again.

Yesterday while I wash windows my slipper broke so maam gave me her slipper. I take them even though she haves a big foot and my foot little smaller. She say Do they fit? You can have them. They were little big but I take them because they nice. Now my feet hurt. Why she give me big slippers? Why she not give me smaller ones? I tell her Maam your slippers make my feet hurt. She say Because they are big I think. But what I can do the slippers are really nice. Maybe she gave me because her feet hurt in them. But she used to wear them and no complaining they hurt. Maybe her feet are big so they no hurt her.

My friend Lilibeth she work next door say if you have big feet your balance better so they no hurt. Lilibeth very clever. She tell me lot of important things. Like she tell me not to have bath in evening because if you do then you get what you say paralize. Really. So now I wake up 5.45 early morning to take shower before children coming down for breakfast. Maam wake up at 6 and then she looks at children lunchbox to see if I put everything in it proper. She say Sara like tuna Rayan like chicken make sure you have give right sandwich. As though I would put wrong sandwich in wrong box. Maybe once I put wrong snack in wrong bag and Rayan get full strawberry instead of cut strawberry. Maam tell me with smile Rayan only 5 years old Sally he need strawberry chop.

Maam think very important this kind of thing. I think atleast he getting strawberry. My brothers and sisters in Philippine they no get anything. These children of my maam and sir are so lucky they have so many toys and thing I so jealous of them

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:08
anonymous

There are many more blogs but why can't you guys open :(

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:07
anonymous

I alredy tell you about Lilibeth. she my best friend. Sara saying she my BFF. Best friend forever. I like that but in my life there is no forever. Only for how many year I is having visa. Most friend can be BFV. Best friend for visa. Lilibeth is only person who be knowing I is write blog story because she showing me how. But now she knowing so much about me. she become my most important friend. Important firend forever. IFF. She promise she keeping my secret. I hope she not get angry with me one day and be tell my maam or someone.

even I is knowing her life story little. She telling me one day. I feeling so happy she is share with me. She no minding if I telling you. She be train to be doing hotel managment course in Manila. So much money she is spend to do her course. She having diploma. Very good qalification. When she is applying for job in agency they telling her she work in big hotel over here in Dubai. When she is coming here she is so excite she will work maybe as manager or something. Instead she be doing housekeep job in sirvice apartmet. She having to do all cleaning. bathroom cleaning kitchen cleaning. clothes washing. all maid work that I is do here. Imagine she is having diploma and she be do this job that I is do with no diploma. But so many people is like her. They be think they do one job when they is come here they finding the job is something else. But they is stuck because they having contrac.

She is waiting her contrac be over. In this time only one good is happen. She is meeting her husband. I liking this part of story. It like my pocketbook. Romance story. He doing like mantanence work in same building. They is getting marry in consulate because she is want be transfer on his visa. But they no is live together because they wait get marry in church. When they is going back philippine they get proper marry in the church. I asking her why she no getting marry in St Mary Church when so many filipino couple is get marry together? I know I is read it in the paper. She say Sally how I is get marry without my family? civil marriage only for visa. Proper marry in Philippine. in church with family.

Now she doing this job next door to me. It like hotel manager but only one guest staying in hotel for some day then other guest is coming. Her husband is doing all mantenence work and also driver if guest is need. Otherwise he is drive to Abu dhabi to office. I not know what he doing there. In the house guest is come guest is go. Only Lilibeth and her husband staying how you say permanet.

I is hope Lilibeth stay permanet in my life also.

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:07
anonymous

Blog 1

Today I am so excite. I am open newspaper in morning and see story of my blog story. I feeling like it my picture in paper. I want shout and tell my frend and my family that it same Sally that they is knowing. But I no can do that. I have to keep it all inside my heart. My heart is feel like when you is shake coke bottle and then open it and all the bubble is come out. Like that. Only I is having to keep my bottle close.

Then I is thinking if my maam seeing this I is dead. She all time on computer. She be seeing it and she be going and looking and seeing the story. Then I having be lie to her tell her this not my blog. I tell her there so many house maid is coming from Davao. So many girl is call Sally. I thinking too much lying not good. Better I hide paper. So I quickly taking paper in my room and keeping it there. I will be keep it forever.

Maam is coming downstair saying Sally where the paper. I giving her other paper. She happy. She not notice it missing. Still I is very scare. My stomic is feeling like it is feeling when I is going in car. Like I is wanting to vomit. Maam is look at me. I thinking she is knowing. all time she look at me I thinking now she will ask me. But she just telling me Sally what we be cook for dinner today?

For my maam her life is not change. everything is same. but for me nothing same anymore. I is famus. Even if only I is knowing it.

By somwerNdmiddle• 13 Jan 2011 13:06
somwerNdmiddle

yeah can't open the link, can you post the article instead?

By anonymous• 13 Jan 2011 13:03
anonymous

So?????

By smoke• 13 Jan 2011 12:53
smoke

I cant read it to comment...may be you can post the content here?

Log in or register to post comments

More from Qatar Living

Qatar’s top beaches for water sports thrills

Qatar’s top beaches for water sports thrills

Let's dive into the best beaches in Qatar, where you can have a blast with water activities, sports and all around fun times.
Most Useful Apps In Qatar - Part Two

Most Useful Apps In Qatar - Part Two

This guide brings you the top apps that will simplify the use of government services in Qatar.
Most Useful Apps In Qatar - Part One

Most Useful Apps In Qatar - Part One

this guide presents the top must-have Qatar-based apps to help you navigate, dine, explore, access government services, and more in the country.
Winter is coming – Qatar’s seasonal adventures await!

Winter is coming – Qatar’s seasonal adventures await!

Qatar's winter months are brimming with unmissable experiences, from the AFC Asian Cup 2023 to the World Aquatics Championships Doha 2024 and a variety of outdoor adventures and cultural delights.
7 Days of Fun: One-Week Activity Plan for Kids

7 Days of Fun: One-Week Activity Plan for Kids

Stuck with a week-long holiday and bored kids? We've got a one week activity plan for fun, learning, and lasting memories.
Wallet-friendly Mango Sticky Rice restaurants that are delightful on a budget

Wallet-friendly Mango Sticky Rice restaurants that are delightful on a budget

Fasten your seatbelts and get ready for a sweet escape into the world of budget-friendly Mango Sticky Rice that's sure to satisfy both your cravings and your budget!
Places to enjoy Mango Sticky Rice in  high-end elegance

Places to enjoy Mango Sticky Rice in high-end elegance

Delve into a world of culinary luxury as we explore the upmarket hotels and fine dining restaurants serving exquisite Mango Sticky Rice.
Where to celebrate World Vegan Day in Qatar

Where to celebrate World Vegan Day in Qatar

Celebrate World Vegan Day with our list of vegan food outlets offering an array of delectable options, spanning from colorful salads to savory shawarma and indulgent desserts.