how to get over him...

The title of the thread is how to get over him!

Well for my part I can never get over him. The day he left Qatar my world fell appart. I shall not mention his name he knows who he is..:)

Got you messages yesterday. I have just replied via FB.

UKeng, yes, I am now... courtesy of that scumbag! :0)

eagle I thought you were the composed type..:)

let it go...in due time you will forget him...make yourself busy and meet lots of your peers to lighten you up..cheers.:-)

Oops! Wrong siggy. .. delete delete delete.

Anyway, 1st cut is the deepest. Try to distract yourself from thinking about him, keep occupied, it will be difficult to do it in the beginning but make the effort to focus elsewhere, even though you don't feel like it and it will become easier.

I nearly drove off a bridge - you weren't that bad, were you?

try a lemon...a bitter one....you will forget him for atleast a day

qatarisun said you will get over him.. sooner or later.. everyone has gone though that at least once.."

And some people go through it more than a few times BUT happy to report that the 1st time is the worst. Thereafter, you recover faster from any setbacks, like water off a duck's back.

/I'm back in cyberspace.. Ok.. need to sort out my siggy 1st then I'm good to go...

~raised eyebrow~

Better they never learn.

ah these women. when will they ever learn

Sanjeevakarunakar has a point....there are really kind and nice people in here however there MIGHT be someone who would take advantage of what you are going through.

Just be careful and this time try to guard yourself more carefully. To fall in love again is not bad, it's someone who is not worth it fall in love again with.

beware of the jackals on this forum ready to feed on ur feelings...

on QL are very helpful wont disappoint you just stay here online and they will help you get over him and present themselves to you.

my friend, to be honest i have no advice for u, but they say time heals , this is what they say.

i think u will never get over him,but after a while u will find peace, and it comes slowly.

P.S. i advise you to help people around you because it really bring peace to your soul.

The best way to forget a pain is to get yourself involved into a more painful situation.........so all you need to do is find another cad

As the saying goes, "It is better to have lost at love than to have never loved at all."

ukengqatar, thanks.

well how about I buy you a drink, you can talk to me and I'll see what I can do for you..:)

Oh I am late, Flan volunteered already

Remember: only one man can save you from Gabbar and that man is Gabbar himself.

Gabbar Singh will help you get over him.

strongerme1977, sure maybe we can hang out sometimes. thanks

thank you very much for all your encouragement and advices.it helped me.i just hope that one day i will just wake up and the pain is gone.i appreciate so much all the things you guys have said.

don't worry dear, i am a female. I just cant change the gender in my profile...don't know how LOL!!!! So if you want let's watch movie go out and have fun....

brokenheart, whatever you want to do and wherever you want to go just let me know coz i am willing to comfort you to the best that i can. Before u know it, i may have the worse scenario in life than what you have right now.... I am free anytime.

Smile........... HeeeeeeeeeHaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :)

Ql can give u such gud releif, its seen frm al the above comments. . come on cheer up... v have a lot more distance 2 travel, my teacher had once told me tht our life is a drama directed by God.. so v r playin our role... if v get deep sorrows, thn God will surely bring us some happiness in 1 way or the other.. so wait 4 ur gud luck.. may b u r goin 2 get the very best in futur...

Visper, You Are A Strong Girl And I Know It, And You Are Getting Through It Step By Step..............

i already forgot Rishimba :)..

and he's forgiven :)..

flan, thanks.

got it visper...so have the tears dried or still rolling?

flan, you promissed same to ME!

Rishimba, when u caught someone lied three times in a row, expect that everything may also be a lie. :(

so all those times i thought i have a boyfriend was just a lied he made.

lol flan :D

i'll help you get over him.

@ic1770, thanks. maybe you are right. things happen for a reason...and definitely not end of the world...though im still telling that to myself over and over again just to ease the pain even a bit.

make new friends...socialize...try new sports..be surrounded by people who loves you... and you'll be back on track in no time :)

i'll help you get over him.

i'll help you get over him.

you too..visper? who dumped whome?

no Saad, that's for me..:(

you will get over him.. sooner or later.. everyone has gone though that at least once..

It Will Take Time But Inshallah You Will Be Fine...... Be Strong, Be Brave, Fight Fear..

That Was For Me Visper :(

im trying to get myself busy, but at the end of the day i still think of him...just praying and hoping that i'll get thru all this pain that im feeling right now.

get another boyfriend..:))

~look who's talking... :(

I Tend To Disagree A Little Bit. There Are Some Men, Who Love From Bottom Of Their Heart, Like In My Case I loved Her A Lot, A Lot But It Was Beyond My Control To Save Her...... She Loved Me To, We Were Really Happy But Suddenly She Left This World And Was Gone For Ever.:(

Aww.I Have Been Through This Also, But It Is Really Hard To Get Over It.

Try To Get Busy, Go Out In The Evenings For A Walk, Come On QL, Sometimes I Also Get Sad But This Is Called Life. Be Strong, Be Brave, Fight Fear......

Inshallah You Will Be Fine, Try To Watch Tv..

And After All We Are Here For You.

y broke up? seems like u still luv him.....option 1 = try to out new activity that u like most

spend most of your free time here posting stupid topics in QL and you will get some buddies in the long run..

you may overcome your depression too..