Is this how you care?
tell me when we say the truth is this insulting man and women?
Those who do not advise men and women are bad people. For example they like to see the women being insulted and selling her body in the street.
I am sure a wise man does not want his sister or mother or wife to be insulted or lose her respect.
If you love some body you will always advise him in the correct way.
Some people say oh I will let the days teach him and then nothing can be done because the person you love might have been gone forever.
In this life there are many facts and some of these facts are being born and dieing, let us also think about the other facts.
Love is shown by your action in terms of verbs and words, the verbs and words should match.
Let our love grow in the right way and not let it a fake one.
You have to know that persons bring good and bad things to them selves by what they do in their life.
true PCG else we get pissed off sometimes by their response ( attitude )
unsolicited advice sir?
dine in or take away?
should only be given if it is asked for :-)
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knowledge has the right to choose between right or wrong,yes?
if you give sound advice,still the person will eventually follow his/her mind yes?
so it would be incorrect if i force my opinion on the person right?
so no unsolicited advice right?
RIIIGHT???
Alright he's "advising" and he seems to think that those who don't also wish to spout of their beliefs to all who will listen are morally deficient.
He is not enforcing anything... he just writing what he feels is right..No one is asking you to listen to him when 100 poeple read this... maybe 1 will think his way...
If ones morals are acceptable by majority of the people....then no harm in spreading that!
I guess we have to agree to disagree FS. I don't agree with enforcing my morals on people. Khalid thinks it's his duty to do so. Therin lies the difference.
Gypsy ...its how you look at it...you are free to disagree..that wont make him wrong!
He never asked you to do as he says or cover up...if that was the case then you comments are valid... its up to us to listen to him or not.
You are an atheist..doesn’t mean those who believe in God and follow his path are mere fools…if you think so that’s your ignorance!
FS - I agree with u
Looking back at the mistakes and the wrong turns we took in our life, we do even complain why ther was none to direct me.. or say NO to me.
There are many mistakes ones committed can never be corrected in life, how abot them?. Let them also learn from their mistakes for the next birth?
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I think our opinion of what's good and bad is entirely different.
And I suppose, by your own logic, you aren't very good at giving advise.
If some one can not advise correctly then the other people will dislike him.
Always try to find the best way to advice and remember that you should not make people do what you want but express your opinion whether others agree or disagree because you have the freedome to speak and those who are confident will not take it personally.
One of the greatest things you can learn in this life is to listen to others even if you disagree or do not like what are they saying
Personally I think that Gypsy wants to see the good things as they are and watch the bad things as they are and enjoy watching bad things as they are in the name of freedome.
Ok let us remember that you can do what you want but in this case the thing you do should not harm you and not harm others
ooops double post
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And the nights Brit can't make it. He PM's me to attend on his behalf to advise these poor unfortunate souls..
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gypsy ... thats the nature of every human..
we will do those things which we r asked not to do,
and we will not do those things which we are adviced about..
for eg, if there is some book which a child is not allowed to read and its hidden from him, its likely that he steals it out and read and read it again... he wont be at rest unless he reads it...
if u want people to do what u want them to do, then request them and not command... thats something i learned recently.. owing to the nature of rejection..
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i want to learn until i die, if u have some knowledge then share it with me.
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LOL, Well you just keep trying Brit. :P
It is not easy. I often take it upon myself to vist the Ramada area regularly and offer advice / companionship to the ladies there. It is not always well received or appreciated :(
Also many people don't respond well to unsolicited advise, and are more likely to do the opposite. For example: the more Khalid the Tiger harps on about how I should cover so I'm a pure diamond blah blah blah the more irritated I get and the more likely it is that I'm going to go strolling through Villaggio wearing only a g-string tonight.
Sometimes even the 'wrong' thing, will turn out better for you. If you follow advice, you miss out on potential experiences which may alter the path your life takes. Don't leave those experiences up to someone else's decisions and end up resenting their input.
Sure, I look for advise from my parents, however if I did everything they advised I wouldn't be the person I am. Sometimes people HAVE to figure things out for themselves.
I believe each one of us has the power to choose whatever we want. If you look at this from a religious perspective... didn't God give us all free will??
Live and let live...
I go agree about his other posts...
But this one he is just sayin in general...how to care about the ones you love. I see a point there..its hard to see our loved ones learning from theirr mistakes!
Everyone has their own right and wrong...but there are some common rules set by the scoeity/culture we live in and followed by ages..some of you dont care about that and live your life. But at least once in your life you would regret that... if someone was there to guide me or if I had listend to my elders .." I would have not made that mistake"!
advise but don't impose... in the end, the decision should rest on the person himself.
usapa na...
FS, it depends what the advise is really. In reference to his other post about women covering, I'd prefer if he kept that advise to himself.
The only thing that determines good and bad, as you put it FS, is religion. So peoples values of good and bad are variable. So who is anyone to judge what is good and bad, let alone differentiate the two.
It's like some people can not see beyond their religion to be able to see the point of view of people who do not follow it. You may believe something is good, and we can acknowledge that you see it as good. But show the same depth of thought and acknowledge that other people may not consider it good.
Khalid I agree with you...
Gypsy that’s your perspective...doesn’t mean others agree with you! there may be many people who just do things because they cannot differentiate good and bad... if someone show them the right path they may walk through that! If he can make one person realize his mistake…he is making a difference!!
Just because you think something is the truth, doesn't mean the person you're "advising" agrees with you. You have to let people live their own lives and make their own mistakes. If they ask you for advice, that's one thing, but if they don't well....better to let them figure it out on their own, and be there for them when they do.