Is lust as important as love?

Love + Lust = Happy relationship

The trick is to keep the Lust buring even after 10 +years of Love

You can be HOT or COLD to me, spare me LUKEWARM!!!!

again Farhan again!! i love repetition! lol

H

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call the ghost busters.

Fire Still Burns

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and you can't even comprehend my posting? Anyway, you are entitled to your opinion! Look beyond the comment!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

personal and private legal affairs at Home...No comments!

Are you staying in Gulf country? then be aware!

solomon..

What does my nationality have to do with this ?.. I could be anything man, Point is I am not hurting no one ( not raping not molesting not causing any harm ) If me and my partner are into something that makes us happy in the privacy of our home, why would someone object?

Why even call what i am into lust and not personal interest?

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from someone with that kind of profile!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

DMS.....his comments was deleted being offensive and against our social, cultural and moral values :)

Somehow, It plays a role in maintaining a good relationship...

...listen to the sound of silence....

a German belonging to the Lebanese Group, and with all that money you earn, I'm not surprised about your mentality. Go on, make an orgy and be happy!!!!!!!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

the way the pedophiles, rapists and murderers define their actions. Don't ask who we are, ask yourself, who are you?????????????????????????

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

dude you people need to realize that everyone SHOULD do what makes them happy in life.

Stop defining things according to what you think is right..No I am not in any industry and I did not say I do that or enjoy doing it, but even if I do, if it makes me happy, who are you guys to say this is bad or immoral.

Not everything revolves around what you and others have been taught!

u know what i mean?

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Tutor1,

Are you in P**n industry? Here we are talking about sensitive people. You people have special rights man. Your love is also special! Just enjoy yourself!!

foreplay should not be associated with lust! Lust is for people who don't love each other. For strangers who wanted to consume it! It could never be lust between two people in love! Period!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

Repeat

We can't separate the Two.....

Lusty sex happens very casual and rarely;

while love placed a respect in your heart for your partner and remains forever (I hope so).

Intimacy bring both partner closer and felt loved and even that intimacy takes over by lust many a time.

So can I say that even intimacy plays an important role in Love making process..

Love=Intimacy=Love=Lust=Love again :)

there is time for lust alone, for both, and for love alone..

even very intimate foreplay if done without love will remain a lust and unless you're just doing it as no emotion or feelings, either party will feel the senselessness of the act!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

ahahah

I think lust is more important! Lust needs viagra while love needs some sleeping pills...

so how can we differentiate it...

LOVE is like the chocolate cake your eating LUST is the coating of that cake, so you can live/eat with or without it

LOVE is like the special food u eat LUST is the thing that makes it taste special...

So the question is "Is love enuf without lust" or you will live by lust without love"?????

LUST is not actually important as LOVE but you have to balance both to have a happy and contented life with your partner :)

but I have to agree with you, sex is sex, if you double it, that's thirty-sex! Lol!!!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

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lust results in watering of ur mouth

and love......................... no clue

Lust lead to Hair Loss !! :)

Love leads to gather and collect all the fallen hairs and start loving it again...lol

LUST = SEX = ORGASM = FLEETING/TEMPORARY SATISFACTION.

From my perspective (as a WOMAN), I prefer intimacy coz it makes a couple more connected in terms of mental and emotional aspects.

SEX is SEX and it's that...JUST SEX. After the ORGASM or the RELEASE...what comes next? You roll over to the other side and SLEEP? EEEWWWW.

madness desire that always result to hurting the other party!. You can never practice lust to your love one! IMHO!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

I repeat.....

With time.....We get maturity, act more responsibly, respect, understand and accept our desires and natural biological changes.

While lusts are sometimes beyond ones control.....Here one has to show self discipline :)

vic bhai,i too agree with you.by the time i pass 45 years from now,maybe only love will remain.but i'll be happy that in my heydays,it was different.it's like how a caterpillar(compare it to lust) turns into a beautiful butterfuly (love) :-)

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

....Lust will be over for oldies......

Only love work even after 45 years from now (if LUV exist at any point of time with your partner)...

check once reach that spot and confirm.

that's why i said lust should be channelized only and ONLY towards your own partner.if u don't harbour such feelings for ur partner then there is certainly something missing in the relationship.love is just a feeling...a virtual thing.but lust is reality.a relationship devoid od lust is,like i said earlier,a bowl of boiled veggies....good for health but best suited for oldies or for ppl with a troublesome stomach ;-)

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

character. If you have not felt it before, you wouldn't agree with Charize!

Lust is characterize by an extreme desire WITHOUT care or love. Precisely the reason it was called LUST! Love is different, definitely! If you mistake one from the other, then something is wrong with you!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

Love and lust are two parts of the same equation. The relationship is enriched when they go hand in hand.

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"We live life forward, but understand it backward"

ya right...

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very clever Hannah,

Arien, sorry, but you can see who is using foul language.

i was only joking so you are a real fake. oh god oh god oh god

Hannah, thanks

WK WP deserves a lot of rusty crowns.

Sorry Arien that your thread got ruined but well you have to accomodate these morons somewhere... Enjoy your online "Love story" jpa... You will get your crown for the Dumbest QLer shortly...

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caught and was deported.

Ok jpa.. you know take the title of the dumbest QLer.. Keep it up son...

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Ok let me repeat my question for THE THIRD TIME (SPECIALLY FOR A MORON LIKE YOU).. TRY WHAT??????

Can someone translate my question in tagalog please..

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really nice try

My sorrows????

Sorry to disappoint you but contrary to your desires I live a very happy life..

Tough luck about your online love though.. Nothing happening, is it true???

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again.

r u confused now by your sorrows?

Ok let me repeat my question.. TRY WHAT??????

Can someone translate my question in tagalog please..

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My sorrows????

Sorry to disappoint you but contrary to your desires I live a very happy life..

Tough luck about your online love though.. Nothing happening, is it true???

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dmigtysolomon ..yeah...lol

Thats when sex gets detached from love... maddness...onenight stands...etc...lol

dms

you are 100% correct.

but lust is inherent to rapist , molesters and pedophiles!

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

One can make love...but...one cant make lust...can you?...

Veriss... 45 years?? answer waiting at the heavens may be..lol

r u confused now by your sorrows?

Try what????

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nice try wk.

try again.

while lust is usually for the others!

Love sex is holy while lust sex is not! IMHO.

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"Why is my PM access blocked?"

Oh I am content jpa.. I am not the one going around posting love messages to an unknown face on an online forum..

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wk

that's the difference between CONTENTMENT and sorrow.

There is huge difference.. Love exists only in story books while lust is very much real..

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Love NO lust.

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just wait maybe another 45 years and you'll know the answer...

i've been happily married for nearly twenty years and i don't find any lust during those years.

we are blessed with 5 brilliant kids, all because of LOVE.

lust has nothing to do with a successful family life.

whereas LOVE, entails loyalty, respect, understanding, commitment and of course money.

thats what im talking about...if both of the partners lust over each other, then the true love will grow into both sides....

if any of them has a lack of lust for the other partner...then deep in there is something missing

street my friend....give and take!

What if the one you truly love dosnt lust over you!! Would you get the same amount of love in return???

....and i plan to follow in ur footsteps,snessy xx :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

SS, that's exactly what I did ;-)

*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****

and what if u manage to channelise ur lust ONLY to the one you love??? :-P i'd call that a match made in heaven :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

Love over lust. If I wanted to I could lust over many, but I only have one true love...

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ATTRACTION = LUST = LOVE

FS rofl.. you caught him by his neck(thin one) :)))))

Arein, Winn, FS, Smokey.........both goes together initially and later works independently with passing times:)

With time.....We get maturity, act more responsibly, respect, understand and accept our desires and natural biological changes.

While lusts are sometimes beyond ones control.....Here one has to show self discipline :)

i can only talk about myself,azam.but like i said,i won't exactly die by living a life eating boiled veggies.they are extremely good for health too.but then life will also be bland and tasteless and lacking excitement.that's all.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

Lucky are you C______??

I want to fulfill my LUST in Mombasa. any guidence MR. Arien :))))))))))))))))

I would say:

Only lust= a big no no

Only love= maybe

lust+love= a winner

no love+ no lust= :-(

So for me, Love has a bit upperhand to Lust though both are important in a relationship.

let's put it this way....lust is what adds that extra zing to a relationship.just like addition of a few spices to vegetables.i prefer my veggies to be spicy rather than just plain boiled.of course i can eat boiled veggies also....won't die if i do.but at this age,when i can have spiced veggies,then why not?i'd always prefer it over boiled veggies.i can have boiled veggies later on in my life when i'm old and my tastebuds don't work as well as they do now....

boiled veggies + spices = love + lust

boiled veggies - spices = love - lust

ROFL! :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

lust is not as important as love! lust is only about what you can get, but love is about what you can give and do for someone. its quite simple

that was what i meant to say.during the initial years,lust weighs over love....over time (and obviously age),love takes the higher seat.the 10-12 years thing was just a passing statement.i didn't mean it in the literal sense.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

You don’t need love to fulfill your lust!

lust can turn a man to a monster, but Love can make a man the most regimented.

Maggie - 10 to 12 years of lust to learn how to love?? come on :D , yes it goes hand in hand , together untill it dies with age.

I think its the strongest expression of love. Since there is physical involvement too,it obviously gets effected with aging, love remains.

agree with Winn on this....it goes hand in hand and helps a lot to cement a relationship in the early stages.so by the time u're like say 10-12 years into the relationship,u would have learnt to love each other too.elimination of ALL barriers,u see :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor

Winn you made yourself sound like an expert in the subject..lol

Smokey you are right..

FS: ssshhhh....! ;)

Again definition of lust would be a strong desire for something sexual or non sexual like money, power, property etc.

You can have lust for many but love for just one. Lust doesnt drive a person to make contact with the opposite sex, its again attraction, if we are talking about relationships.

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

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for me love and lust go hand in hand in a relationship.

-- come what may and lovin' it!--

mmyke .. yes , thats what I said in my first comment. Only Love is permanent. Lust dies.

Well, lust, especially during the initial phases of a relationship helps in breaking down a lot of the barriers between the two people in it. It makes them feel more comfortable with each other in their own skin. it also leads them to be open and honest about their inner most core. this inturn can help the longevity of the relationship even after the lust factor dies down.

On a flipside, if not reciprocated it can imbalance a relationship. Having had my share of relationships, I find lust a great ice-breaker. can be a deal-breaker too, in some cases.

Lust leads to rapes and other crimes too.

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

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It all depends what name you give it or how you see it...end of the day most of us just do it...either in the name of love or lust...seems they are also named depending on circumstances...:)

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One life to live, live it to the fullest.

In the long run....it’s Love that matters...

Hormones descend as we get older….so is lust!

....but love and togetherness ascends as years pass by..

comes out of old christianity which comes out of the Middle East which still is totally hung up and holds very unhealthy attitudes about sex and relationships,,,no?

I think they go hand in hand...love to lust for the first 5 years for your wife and then lust over every other female :P

The term lust in religious view is termed as a deadly sin. Something that must be avoided at all times. So then how can we put lust to go with something so wonderful as love?

Perhaps the term "attraction" would be better suited.

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

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had lust in their relationship,,,it had to exist at some point for healthy bonding to take place...

Depends mmyke.. a couple at their 80s do love eachother , dont they??

a relationship devoid of it, can you?

I love them both.

Lust is transitory whereas love is permanent....