Traditional Women
In Praise of Traditional Women
May 7, 2009
(Revised from Jan. 2004)
I am grateful that I married a traditional woman.
I do not sacrifice any freedom for love. I am in charge. My wife is comfortable with that. I am twice as free as when I was single.
My wife is passive by nature. Passivity is the natural female principle. The marriage of active (male) and passive (female) is the basis of heterosexuality.
But it is heresy to say so.
Women are actually ashamed to want to be homemakers. How did this happen? How did motherhood go from being honored to being stigmatized? This change in attitude is the trajectory of Illuminist subversion of America. Obviously the Illuminists prefer women to be corporate widgets rather than wives and mothers.
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A woman needs a man to love her. The notion that she should be "independent" and career oriented is absurd. As if fighting traffic, or pounding a mail route is superior to making a home and caring for loved ones. As if obeying a boss is superior to assisting the man she chose to love and marry.
There is no greater blessing than a woman whose grace, beauty and love warms a home like sunshine. There is no greater gift than the precious love she gives husband and children.
THE PASSIVE (FEMALE) PRINCIPLE
The passive principle is the earth principle. The earth receives sunshine, water and seed and produces life. A woman receives a man's love and seed and performs the miracle of giving birth to a human being.
Carrying and nurturing the young is the essence of female psychology. The denial of this reveals the Illuminists' desire to override nature and control all human life.
Being a wife and mother is what makes a woman tick. She needs to be intensely needed and loved by her husband and children.
These roles are passive by nature. They involve a great deal of adaptation and self sacrifice. But they also require that she is not taken for granted. A wife and mother must be cherished and honored for his priceless contribution.
A woman is not going to be loved permanently for her appearance which is transitory, or for her accomplishments. Love is not like that. We love the people who sacrifice for us.
Men also sacrifice by working to support their families and providing leadership and love. Happiness can only be found in love, not self-seeking. Love is self-sacrifice. Human beings were designed to look after each other.
In contrast, Illuminism sees "freedom" as self indulgence. This is not the "truth that will make you free."
The model I am describing used to be second nature. It has become esoteric knowledge. It is not for everyone. I offer it to those looking for an alternative to feminist dysfunction. You will find your own balance.
Marriage is under constant assault. This formula has worked for centuries and still works today.
THE ACTIVE (MALE) PRINCIPLE
Women want to look up to their husbands. They tend to seek men who are older and more successful. Why? They want their husband to be like their father was (or should have been), capable, reliable, protective and nurturing.
More than anything, they are seeking emotional and physical security. They feel most secure when they feel possessed by a strong, loving man.
A man should prepare himself for this role. He should have a clear vision of what he wants to do with his life. If he is lost, he might ask God how he can serve Him. What was I born to do?
A man's work should be his first priority and source of challenge and self-confidence. In contrast, a woman was not designed to get meaning from career. For her, career is secondary to being loved and needed.
Despite what feminists say, a man should never show weakness. The essence of masculinity is power. If he is weak, he loses a woman's respect. If he lacks confidence, he should gain it by setting goals and achieving them.
A man should never think of a woman as a sine qua non. That puts him at an immediate disadvantage.
A man should never succumb to emotional blackmail. If a woman is withholding love or sulking, he should give her time to get over it.
A man should know what role he wants his wife to play. A man usually chooses on the basis of sexual attraction. What else does he want? I appreciate my wife's reasonableness, intelligence, competence, and sense of humor. Think of the long haul. You need someone who is easy to live with.
Most women were meant to be wives and mothers. A man should think about becoming a father and the responsibility this entails. He is not only providing for his offspring, but also teaching them how to be human beings. He is creating a new world, a family.
A man will not care about something that doesn't belong to him. He should find a woman who is prepared to surrender power in exchange for love. A creature with two heads is a monster. A family with two heads will go in two directions.
Marriage is about dependence, not independence. It is about union, two people becoming one. For women, surrender of power is the essence of love. If a woman can't trust a man with her whole life, she doesn't love him and shouldn't marry him.
Marriage is about possession and being possessed, which most men and women crave. A successful union is the only thing that satisfies the spiritual hunger underlying the sex drive, and prevents wander lust.
The heterosexual contract is this. The husband has the power and he does his best within reason to make his wife happy. A man cannot love a woman if he doesn't have the power to grant her wishes.
But a man must keep his end of the contract, or the marriage is off. He must be loyal, and show every day how much he appreciates her.
CUTTING THROUGH THE FOG: THE STALINIZATION OF LOVE
The vast majority of people find their identity and values in family. Destroy the family and the state is in control.
Incredible as it sounds, the Illuminists are building a world police state. The international bankers finagled the right to create money out of nothing and collect interest on it. They need a police state to protect this racket and make sure no country defaults. They own the mass media, politicians, and dominate big business.
Feminism is the cover for a sophisticated illuminist propaganda program. We have been brainwashed.
Nobody has a problem with treating women as equal to men. Feminism treats women as though they were men. It portrays heterosexuality as pathology and degrades and discriminates against men. Women are favored for jobs so they won't have children and men can't support families.
Society is being sabotaged. Alas, this is what the "war on terror" is really about, enslaving the world, not protecting it.
Bella Dodd, a former leader of the American Communist Party revealed: "The bourgeois family as a social unit was to be made obsolete." The aim was to "create a new type of human being that would conform to the world they confidently expected to control."
The bankers use Communism is to overthrow the Christian foundations of civilization and put themselves in charge. This is the true meaning of revolution.
The Rockefeller Foundation funds feminism. I searched this name and "Women's Studies" in Google and got 137,000 entries. They have funded population control and eugenics research for decades, here, in the USSR and in Nazi Germany.
clark.jpgWith women usurping the male role, we are becoming a homosexual society. There is a difference between accepting homosexuals as human beings, which I do, and allowing society as a whole to become homosexual.
Sound extreme? Consider this.
Homosexuality is the inability to form a permanent bond with a member of the opposite sex. It is commonly characterized by an obsession with sex, promiscuity and explicitness. Sex becomes a surrogate for love. Doesn't this describe society today?
The Illuminists aren't afraid of gays, single mothers or children. They are afraid of proud strong men who have families to protect. This is behind the degradation of men.
A current ad for Swanson's TV Dinners goes like this. Working mom asked for a big bowl she can eat on the run. Swanson responded. Kids wanted something for after school. Swanson responded. "Dad wanted to wear mom's frilly under things!" Picture father with a goofy smile. "We didn't know how to respond."
"First You Get the Women, Then You've Got the Children, So Follow the
Men" -Adolph Hitler
CONCLUSION
We can fight the New World Order by having strong male-led families.
After many marital mishaps, I now have a frictionless marriage. My wife and I complement each other. She doesn't compete, criticize, complain or try to control. She tells me if something is wrong. I try to make her happy. She's part of me.
Because of her passive nature, I don't feel like I must constantly live up to her expectations. Rather she allows me to propose. Usually, she assents. When she doesn't, we compromise. Her acquiescence empowers and completes me.
I love her. She commits the unpardonable crime. She is good to a man.
before he starts to show is true colours.... copying and pasting peoples arguments and the name calling....
An official welcome back Airsupply.... its clear your multiple personalities have now changed gender.... lets hope you make a better female than male...
Word of warning people... if you see anything he has posted thats defamamitory, do take a copy and paste of it yourselves, as our friend here likes to delete inflammatory posts after the fact and then denies ever having said it....
"if you don't like the heat... get out of the kitchen... but stop trying to fan the flames before you leave... it will burn you on the a** as you go through the doorway...." ME
visit www.qaws.org
I'm a feminist and proud of it. I don't see why feminist is such a dirty word?
yeah I do need to that is why I am selling your comments on the Darwin Awards for idiots< made loads of money out of your stupidity. Thanks Drongo.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
I've got a new one too, Umm Jake...Cubic Zirconia...fake diamond...at least the troll's got a sense of humour ;)
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...and you're probably half right.
Thanks for my new nickname -- ummjester! :-)
At least I won't have to get new monogrammed towels made up!
I kind of like it here in Qatar, though, so I think I'll be staying awhile.
As Bette Davis said, "Fasten your seatbelts. It's going to be a bumpy ride."
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
Get back to that popcorn stand of yours. You're loosing out on 2 riyals per bag. I know you need that money to help make ends meet at home.:-)
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
Good luck to you mate taking on this lot. Oh look....Swiper is swiping!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ola!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
bleu said
I believe in the Quran "لكم دينكم ولي دين"...
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What's your point?
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
sarah dear, that doesn't make sense and you're picking the wrong guy to annoy.
So you thought u picked the right gal to annoy? You're the one who started mouthing off at me..."sarah, i have no doubt that you're barefoot and pregnant but in the kitchen?
i hope your maid cooked a wonderful dinner."
How do you know I have kids?
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
I believe in the Quran "لكم دينكم ولي دين"...
Well bloody said mate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
sarah dear, that doesn't make sense and you're picking the wrong guy to annoy.
but if you must know, yes i can cook and find it a great hobby. sure i need to refer to a cookbook sometimes but hey.
i suggest you get your sorry arse off the computer and play with your kids. i see more kids in this country showing more love towards their maids rather than their mums.
sadly i would class you in the 'has no farking idea' category.
Maybe I do have a maid. Since you don't, then play the role of the maid and cook that bland stew for your wife...if you have one.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
Yes, I'm a racist alright against airheads like you.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
And I am very suspicious of somebody that is overtly racist, sh&t stirring c&w like you. How is Swiper by the way. Still with Dora?
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
Ethnocentric discussion ,let respect the manifeattion, creativity and imagination of human brain and enjoy.
Nothing is personal in this forum.Cheers life is too short to discuss and not enough to judge others.
You're not exactly the most polite dame I've ever come across.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
Show me where I'm arguing with non-Muslims for no reason.
I am suspicious of Muslims who have non-Muslims who speak against Islam on their buddy list. Don't forget that we will be raised with our companions whom we loved in the dunyah on the day of judgement.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
sarah, i have no doubt that you're barefoot and pregnant but in the kitchen?
i hope your maid cooked a wonderful dinner.
That is a sweeping statement and quite a bloody rude one actually.
Nobody as far as I can see minds anybody talking about their religion or beliefs as long as it is not racist but to link all others to drinking, fornication and adultery is very wrong. I think you need to go away and think about what your point is, why post a topic like you have and then feel free to insult people.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
"QL is full of people from different religions, and people with no religion, and no matter how much we repeat our beliefs, they will not become Muslims."
"Sarah,
and I'm sure you'll hate this.
I don't like to open up my religion for discussion among non-believers.
It would be much more effective to post this kind of posts in a Muslim forum, where everybody agrees with you."
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I'm not trying to convert anyone to Islam. From what I've learned, give dawah only to those who want to hear it. But on the same note it doesn't mean that I can't express my Islamic view on things. After all, the non-Muslims here are spreading their dawah...drinking, fornication, adultery, etc. all over this forum. Sounds like double standard to me!!!!
I agree with you on putting certain topics in Muslim forums. And even there, we are not free from non-Muslims entering our forums and making stupid comments.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
don't bother. "he" or "she" only purpose is to pissoff PM & ummjake.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
I do agree in part to what you have said.
The man does need to focus on his job, whether it be here or at home and I also agree that family life is important.
Something has to give for the man though and if he is the one earning the most money then sometimes family life on occasions does take a back seat. For a woman that works she has a finer balancing act (unless you have maids/drivers/cleaners etc), it is the women that pick up the pieces if a child is sick; normally it is the woman that phones into work for the day off if childcare is needed for hat kid, as she MAY earn less and her job MAY be less 'important.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
Sarah, you're arguing Islam with non-Muslims for no reason, do you think this is self-gratifying?
Brit I don't agree with everything on this article...only the principles that are in line with Islam.
We as Muslims know that the practice of Islam should be the first and foremost priority before work or family. We have to put everything in it's proper priority. Give everything its due right and everyone will be happy, or at least one would not be an oppressor in the sight of Allah.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
begs a similar question... if you know what we're like, why torcher yourself.....;-)
"if you don't like the heat... get out of the kitchen... but stop trying to fan the flames before you leave... it will burn you on the a** as you go through the doorway...." ME
visit www.qaws.org
Not wishing to prolong the argument.. I do not belive that a role relationship as suggested above is possible in today's world.
I am also surprised at the paradoxes within the posting..
For example:
"A man's work should be his first priority and source of challenge and self-confidence"
Surely if he is married, then his family becomes his first priority.
Hear! Hear!
Most profound statement I've ever read on QL:
"QL is full of people from different religions, and people with no religion, and no matter how much we repeat our beliefs, they will not become Muslims."
I'm looking forward to the day when you will practice your profession elsewhere..out of Qatar.
XENA:
I'm a new user but an old follower of QL. I like to scope out the players on this forum so I know who's who.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
interesting that you should say 'What's with this AIRSUPPLY stuff????????? Every time a new member joins QL and and doesn't subscribe to the QL wannabe thug teams,you all accuse him/her of being AIRSUPPLY. You QL wannabe thug tag team must have an "OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE AIRSUPPLY DISORDER or is it AIRSUPPLY POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER'
if you only just registered... how would you know....
"if you don't like the heat... get out of the kitchen... but stop trying to fan the flames before you leave... it will burn you on the a** as you go through the doorway...." ME
visit www.qaws.org
I myself am really looking forward to the day that you might say something intelligent.
Bon appetit!
Sarah,
and I'm sure you'll hate this.
I don't like to open up my religion for discussion among non-believers.
It would be much more effective to post this kind of posts in a Muslim forum, where everybody agrees with you.
What a crock of sh&t. Did they that find that in Homemaking for Dummies???????????
It's 2009 darling not the middle ages. Women define themselves now and that includes all nations.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
My Eyes!! What a colorful animated sig.
Sarah,
I am a Muslim, and I don't like to Quote non-Muslims to prove a point about my religion. This has been done here on QL many times under different usernames (which makes it suspicious).
I'm against Women's "Liberation" in some senses (Liberation Extremists) and all for "Traditional" women, when it's a woman's choice. I would say all Muslims (both men and women) should follow their religion, but it's every person's choice to go to heaven or hell.
If you search for my writings on QL, you'll also know I'm against Zionism.
QL is full of people from different religions, and people with no religion, and no matter how much we repeat our beliefs, they will not become Muslims.
p.s. you write like somebody who's been on QL for a while, so excuse me for still suspecting you're a regular.
Guys, gals, and its...it's been a great pleasure ruffling up your feathers for those who hate this non- Muslim man's article :-) .
Now it's time for me to go cook a nice "traditional dinner" for my loving husband. Alhamdulillah, my husband loves coming to a peaceful and tranquil home. He doesn't mind being the only bread winner and I don't mind being the bread baker among other roles :-) Kudos to the traditional women who know how to take care of their men and children.
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
What's with this AIRSUPPLY stuff????????? Every time a new member joins QL and and doesn't subscribe to the QL wannabe thug teams,you all accuse him/her of being AIRSUPPLY. You QL wannabe thug tag team must have an "OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE AIRSUPPLY DISORDER or is it AIRSUPPLY POST TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER?
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
I thought it was a nice article written by a non-Muslim who still has some Fitrah left.
I hate people who are anti conspiracy because they refused to use their brain properly to examine the message. Maybe they are supporters of Rockefeller (Zionist Jews).
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
bleu, Thanks for the info which I am considering.
I don't like people too who do mysterious tricks and make you suspecious.
However, I don't see a problem in copying and pasting from a newspaper or the like because we get exposed to info which may be valuable to know. It might be better if the person supports or illustrates a certain argument to give a direction to discussion but not necessary.
sorry for inconvenience anyway.
"And you seem to be the same person registering new users to post here, you posted this 1 minute after you registered on QL."
Pointless statement man!!! Since when do you have to be an old user to post something. Are you the QL police? And quit crying about copy and paste...do u want some cheese to go with that whine?
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
CBD, I hate the people who register a new username to post some copy/paste from somewhere.
It's never their opinion or their own content, it's just copied from somewhere.
The person who posts usually comes back in their own username to reply to the comments, and sometimes they reply in the fake username created for this post.
To the poster who calls themselves sarah this time:
You should be
1- brave enough to use your own username if you have one
2- never create a username for a post like this.
3- saying your own opinion without copy/paste
4- discussing your opinion, and accepting criticism.
So what do you do with it...dye your hair red or use it as face paint?
Truth is Timeless, and returning to Truth is better than continuing in Falsehood.
- Umar al-Khattab
Sarah..
Nice article..
I don't know why it is hard for some people to understand people's point of view..
It is thier life though!
Each time this subject is brought up, there must be a confilict of definition which subsequently leads to a conflict of opinion.
The article here is titled, in praise of traditional women! it is not meant to liberated women!
so why are you bothered!
However, it is a problem when someone else tries to impose his values and culture on you in every aspect of your life without knowing what your culture is all about.
Women are discriminated everywhere round the globe.
Why do we not see any critique from you guys on women in the west??
Just because they can dress revealing clothes and travel on thier own make them treated well??
Canada has shocked the UN for discrimination against women.
How did the western philosophy eliminate such a crime??
I am referring to Canada here as an example though many western countries lack in women's rights!
Why are all these copy/paste QL posts so loooooooooong?
You could have included the link without pasting the whole page here?
Why are they posted by muslims, quoting non-muslims who seem to agree with them (personally) on certain things?
Are you also going to copy/paste the rest of his website to QL?
You'll love these:
· The "Jewish" Conspiracy is British Imperialism
· Is the New World Order "Jewish"?
· Politically Incorrect Advice for Young Men
· Illuminati Sex Slaves Paint Horrifying Picture
· Zionism: A Conspiracy Against Jews
· How University Betrays Students
· Conspiracy Too Monstrous to Conceive
· Rothschild Conducts Red Symphony
· The Devil's Work: Feminism and the Elite Depopulation Agenda
· Be Afraid: The New World 0rder's Fascist Pedigree
· Banking Cartel is the Cause of Humanity's Woes
· Illuminati Defector Details Pervasive Conspiracy
· Does a Satanic Cult Rule the World?
· Bush, Bin Laden Serve the Same Masters
And you seem to be the same person registering new users to post here, you posted this 1 minute after you registered on QL.
would definitely affect the kind of world we live in. Those with strong voices is always on the headlines and tends to influence the silent types. To each his own, a lot of men prefer passive women as a lot also prefers active one. End result of such unions justifies whether one made a good or bad decisions in choosing his Better (bitter) half!
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
"dgoodrebel is not plastic"
Let it "pass"...
What a load of utter and total pish!!!
I do not sacrifice any freedom for love. I am in charge. My wife is comfortable with that. I am twice as free as when I was single.
This is where I stopped reading
When you were single your parents were in charge so no freedom
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I lost interest after
"Passivity is the natural female principle."
lol
Lost interest after a while
'What's for you won't go by you'
I didn't read the whole thing...
But sounds like you got a good women...Only thing is I know I love my wife n I ever screw up I still love her..I give her my life....I will always be there for her...
You can't teach experience...
If women so much want this traditional lifestyle, why the hell are we fighting so hard against it.
If change is happening, it is because people want it to and are making active steps to achieve it.
The majority of women DO NOT want this lifestyle, it is plain to see when you talk to any woman. I also imagine the ones who are in the traditional role, never even gave any other role a thought, because the options were taken away from her before she could ever learn to think for herself.
Yep....popcorn
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G'day Oryx...you go girl :)
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feeding trolls again?
passive female - oh dear too late for me now!
Actually I was always very active and always will be....
i dont believe that passivity is a natural female trait...
lots of women do incredible things for their children, family and community
I am happy I dont need the approval of a man to feel good about myself or my role in life
This utter tripe is best seen as a hilarious joke. Whoops, I forgot to laugh.
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what ever happened to empowering women?
Ohhh...didn't check how long sarah had been a member.....wonder what the previous id was, since 'she' is a fan of PM......making the popcorn ;)
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...I am not! An independent, intelligent, self-supporting woman, I am. There is nothing wrong with being a traditional woman, but a lot of things have to fall into place for it to work as the blog suggests it should. If that's what works for you, that is the direction you should go in, and God love you for doing it.
(Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug...)
FEMINIST ALERT...I thought you would find this offensive.
theory and reality are miles apart! I do not need a man to define WHO I am. I have a man because I choose to have him in my life; not because I need him!
(Sometimes you're the windshield, and sometimes you're the bug...)
Insulted to say the least!
"Being a wife and mother is what makes a woman tick" So what was I doing that made me tick before I got married?
"First You Get the Women, Then You've Got the Children, So Follow the
Men" -Adolph Hitler
Anything hitler preaches, I take with a grain of salt...that guy asked every to worship those with blonde hair, blue eyes, tall etc, all the thing he was NOT! He did not talk the walk......did hitler have children? Why does history refer to Eva as Eva Brown and not Eva Hitler??
Could go on...and on....and on!
Just to stir the pot....if this is true, the womanth maketh the home, then maids are not required.
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...but I'm not signing on for THAT.
Please don't presume you speak for the rest of us necessarily.
Interesting to learn that all these feminists and independent-thinking females are the result of some big plot of the illusionist subversion of America...
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou