True or false..True love comes only once in a life time

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Oh geez! Thanks..

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You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.

Albert Camus

Personally, i DON'T believe that true love comes only once in a life time. i had 2 great love and like swissgirl39 said i couldnt compare one from the other. they were both unique and special.

But sometimes we look back, compare, or afraid of giving 100% of ourselves again to avoid being hurt, IT IS OUR MINDSET that keep us from finding new love that could have been greater than the one we lost!

True love is only for brave men who are willing to become vulnerable.

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They say first love never dies..but for me I already forgot everything...

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You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.

Albert Camus

*Clapping hands* u have expressed a lot that i couldn't .. i exactly wanted to mean each word u said .. Bravo buddy !! 100% right .. that's it ..

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Well,my first love is just a far away memory and it is good so.Cant even remember his name nor how he looked like.Nothing.And i not border myself to try it.LOL.It was a mistake,it is the past and there it will be forever.Now i found whatever i was looking for,never felt better and so for sure i can say you will meet many persons from whom you think they are the one and onlys but till you find the real one many water goes down the river.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

lol buttercupryle

We all did

I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

so it means I had a lot of puppy love..

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You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.

Albert Camus

Deffination of puppy love

http://www.answers.com/puppy%20love

I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

Falling in love for the first time is the most beautiful, so innocent, so dare, so lovely but in the same time can be so painful if it was from one side. Let's not talk about the love from one side and let's talk about the love between two partners who are crazy about each other.

As most of you agreed, True Love or let's call it ... 'The First Love' in our life which is the one that we would never be able to forget or get over it. Time heals every wound, that is right ... But memories do open the old wounds and get it even worse spiced up with pain.

From my experience, I don't think that i can fall in love again the same way I'm now later on. I hate repeating myself again and again, love is no exception. Doing the same activities we did before, sharing the same emotions or feelings with someone else? It just can't be ... at least not me.

Every place that i would be going to with my new partner, everything we would do ... would always remind me with my 'First Love' when we were just exploring the world together ... going to new places and doing new things that we never did before. Doing that with another one would be boring, would be repeated, would not be genuine, would never make you feel the same way. It might let you feel even worse, i miss my old true love ...

You got some options:

1- let your old love hunt you forever and stay in your dark corner there alone doing what? Crying? Pitying yourself? Asking yourself silly questions such as: What just happened? Why did she left me? What went wrong? We were just fine? All of these thoughts would never end and take you anywhere and you can forever dream about those days and stay there.

2- Trying to erase that past, stand up for yourself and move on [easier said than done] and start a new chapter [with new relation or just forgetting about love and be on your own and that would be better] of your life that would be added to your life book. The book of life got everything, happiness, sadness, love, hate, etc ... We have just to read it from time to time to realize where we've been ... where are we now ... and where we might end up also ... Only the fool who come to read the whole book of his life and never learn something, technically we can't because the last chapter always end up with death where other people say their last words about us before ending that chapter.

Trying hard to forget, trying harder to accept ... no matter how hard we will try ... it is always difficult and almost impossible ... To forget the first one that you truly loved with all of your emotions

Best Regards

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

Yes it's a very very good morning so far

wish you the same

I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

never heard about it but sounds funny.

lol.

by the way good morning tcom.

:-D

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spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

that's called puppy love

I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

As with all human emotions, they are firstly human and therefore mean different things to different people. There are people who meet only one time in their life the great love, there are others who meeet several people who give them the great love emotion.

For some it is impossible to forget a lost great love, it is a memeory that detracts from any other realtionship, as it compares your lost love to you new. For others the pain of a lost love slowly melts away and they are later able to find or see another love as they are not blinded by their previous great love.

Love can be lost and found again, it can also be lost and never found again, it depends how we all look at live and love to whether we are able to love again.

cant remember my first love.lol.think was at scool,was about 14.but thats all.was not so impressive.lol.but teenager love is always so sweet.when i look at my kids(sorry young adults?or teens?)it makes me smile.thanks god im over it,now i know what real love is and im thankful for that and thankful for the love me and my sweetheart are sharing now.wont miss any moment with him.

:-D

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

Ram, once upon a time I would have agreed with you. The pain of a lost love is so intense it shreds your heart.

But, it really can happen again. Just you wait :)_______________________________________________________

Love is the answer...

senti, everything that comes first can't be forgotten...specially first love, this is the first time you experienced being played upon by your emotions...first time you question a lot of things going thru your mind and heart...:)

and true love happens only once...

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

I don't know true love comes once/twice/thrice........But i have to say,First love can not forget.(may be this is the true love)

"Drink Beer Save Water"

love is feeling.. it's not compatibility or match, or INVESTMENT (??)...true love is a sacrifice... and true love not necessary is the shared one… Unshared love might be a real love as well.. it even makes more sense..it’s easier to love when you are loved in return.. but Unshared Love is proved to be a real one…

I disagree with u too ..

From personal experience. You really can't.

u can love again i agree but it will never be the same as the REAL LOVE ... there is a difference in the feeling, emotions and in what u can give again ..

Beleive me REAL LOVE comes only once otherwise it's not the real love

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doing fine.....but you forgot to greet me last november 6...was checking the print out of that thread and you were not there...;( (now if you will ask, just PM me..and i will give you doze of dangs..lol)

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

i dont know whats true love means, all i know i always be able to love after a brokenheart. for me, life goes on after the hurricane/brokenheart. can anyone tell me whats true love mean? i am stupid.

Ram, I will respectfully agree to disagree with you. I know that you can experience great love more than once. From personal experience. You really can.

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Love is the answer...

oh thanks owen .. how have u been? hope u r alright

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yes, RR, it makes me think that love is not in a science lab...it is your spirit which takes flight and soars when you fall in love, then grows and changes as life unfolds. it is the best!

Now you try bottling that!_______________________________________________________

Love is the answer...

to know that!

Cheers!

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Stay safe.

Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?

by all means ram..*stepping aside*..limelight all yours...:)

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

You called me on it!

I'm not so certain science alone can explain it....and its certainly NOT how I explain the euphoria of falling in love with and marrying my soulmate....I'm just saying it makes you think ;)

Stay safe all.

Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?

I won't assume you always go to the altar of science ;-)

Cheers!

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would u plz give me the Mic. and leave a room for me .. that's my Fav. topic ...

I won't say too much .. Real Love comes only ONCE in ur life and u will never ever feel the same feeling with any other partener .. cuz wut u were having from love and tender were gone to the ONLY girl .. u may love after that but u will never love again the same way ..

"Though we know we will never come again

When there is love, life begins

Over and over again

Save the night, save the day

Save the love, come what may

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Come come now RagnarR...so scientific. Don't explain it like that to your wife! Where's your romance man?

On love. Don't worry everyone, you get a second chance, most often when you're not looking for it.

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Love is the answer...

maybe..

I think true love is based on the happiness we find in each other but not dependant on each other.

i dont think true love comes once in a life time, i think the love that i have for my family and friends is true. When it comes to the 'one' i dont think there's one perfect match out there for each person i just think that there are people that you are more compatible with than others and true love comes when one of those people is ready to take the risk in investing in the love you share just as you are. Now the question remains how would you find the person who is ready to make that kind of investment.

But before I give my opinion (please...no sarcastic remark how you are all holding your breath with anticipation =ppp LOL)....I think its important to define "love"....

I have heard the case made that it is only a certain sequence of electrical impulses sent to the breain that creates this feeling of love and that it CAN be duplicated in a lab....

I don't know if I believe that, but it makes you wonder....

Stay safe all.

Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?

we fall in love many times (to different extent), but there's one great love, this is the kind of love where you know that you can never love the same way again....and previous relationships MUST NOT compare with the past one...it's not right period...but merely use it as a guide to your present one ..

Is it true that if u lost the " one " that u deem the love of ur life , u can never love anyone else as much? n cant get the same fullfillment from any1 else?

--->for a while you will feel this way (upon losing of what you thought would be the "one"), and if you will continually stick to the idea of that one great lost love, and always thinks of the "what ifs"...you will never find fulfillment to your next relationship...and this would be totally unfair to your partner...

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

we can "fall in love" few (or many) times, and each time could be different.. sometimes we have stronger feelings, sometimes weaker... but real LOVE, one huge strong desire comes to your life (IF!) only once... and not everyone is so lucky to have it even once in his/her life.

LOVE, which makes you better, which discloses new sides of you…unconditional LOVE, when you endow yourself completely, you sacrifice everything, you give up everything, and you give away all you have…You forget your friends, your family, your close ones… You don’t “live”, you “fly, soar in air”, you feel high constantly, full of energy, nothing is impossible for you, you can move a mountain … I was lucky having this strong passion, desire, madness in my life… it was insane… if he told me at that time: “Jump from the 20th floor”, I wouldn’t think twice… not ever before not after, I didn’t have these strong feelings, not with my “husbands”, not “serious boyfriends”, as PM said… It is a GIFT given from above.

Somebody can say: it’s not a Love… well… whatever it is and whatever you call it, it is great to have these feelings.. And no matter how long it lasts and how it ends, I am grateful for having it my life…

How was your holidays welcome back to Doha.... did u get the light for me

I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here

Than a whole truck load when I'm gone

we can love more than one person but in different measure ;-)

Cheers!

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No I don't believe it only comes once but the first time is the time you never forget.

True Love comes only onece in a lifetime...... TRUE. Why?

I dont have ans right now but maybe after 10 years from now i would be able to ans it. :)

But one thing is true that experiece makes relationship better.

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."

Er...........ok then!!!

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I listen to cher everytime I feel that way HAHA. No I actually listen to Muslim Hip Hop since 2 years now. I cannot stand the so called pop hits or gansta rap!

Not at all. How dull and uneventful would the last 20 years of my life have been. "True Love", there is no such thing. Theres just Love and sometimes it lasts and sometimes it doesnt.

Do I love my wife? Of course I do, unconditionally and I hope we spend the next 50 years together, but if we didnt, would i want to find love again? Oh hell yeah!! lol

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Well, I hope it only comes once for me, cause I found my true love. On that note, I hope we get to grow old together :P

I think if your heart is open to find love you can find it, there is no limit.

tra la la

U cant compare one love with another.Each love is unique and special.

I know after many,many years finally i found my true love and i know i cant love another one like i love him.But there are many ways to love and each love has its special flair and spirit.

Thats how i see it and what life learned me.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!

i believe that there is compatablity with many people that just dont get the chance to find out because they are already in love or they met at the wrong times... or in the wrong situations...

so no i do not believe that it will only happen once... but once you found it dont throw it away...

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just hanging out and watching dvd's with helen keller... kind of a quite night.

Not true at all, in fact I believe it only gets stronger!!

'Our freedom is but a light that breaks through from another world'

Still looking for the first one...

You can't teach experience...