Regardless of whether your marriage is brokered or you met your spouse on your own with no go betweens, you still need to marry a person you know you will be able to love and respect. Any marriage requires hard work and mutual dedication to work out. It takes two hands to clap after all. And yes there should be love and attraction between both parties!
this is very subjective issue and not one can reach in general answer as it depends how the couples and their families make is succeed their relationship. therefore, the best thing is both couples and their family should be happy with the union from which direction comes either from love or arranged ..... :)
Its a matter of luck and nothing else... Love Marriage or Arranged marriage, u cant blame either for not working out... There are times when Love Marriages fall apart but there are times when even well planned Arranged Marriages dont last...
Its a matter of understanding, trust and most importantly luck that makes a marriage successful...
The truth is that adjustments and compromises will decide the longevity of the marriage.
Doesn't matter get in bed this way or the other .. :P
But seriously, i believe its not the "kind" of marriage which makes your marriage life successful .. its the 2 people in it !! i have seen extreme cases in both types of marriages, love or arranged doesn't matter.
if u love someone then marry her but never leave her n go for arrange marriage becoz of someone wish as u will never forget ur loved one n u will always blame the one u married and nt the one who arranged ur marriage..
and if u dnt love anyone then go for arrange marriage and love will come after.
You are correct. Am seeing so many marriages / relationships failing. Seems that people are not willing to put in the effort required to make things work..
Ofcourse Love Marriage. How come you can live a life with a person whom you are seeing for the first time on your wedding day? And hoe come you are gonna sleep with someone whom you dont know at all.
Hate arranged marriage. I am from India and its common over there!
arrange marriage seems to be better in long run... love marriage seems doesnt last long when LOVE run out. Arrange married are arranged in way that involve family involvement
I mean it's not an endless discussion, but letting people choose for YOU who YOU will be staying for maybe the rest of your life is just plainly unthinkable, unless you have some really bad self -esteem issues that you can't do it your own.
@JJH And congratulations, hope you'd be prospering till eternity !
This debate is indeed an endless one. Usually, those who are comfortable in their marriage would always have you believe that it is arranged marriage or love marriage, whatever their specific case, which is better.
On the contrary, those who are not happy in their marriage will always claim that the form of the marriage other than they had is better.
The fact is that there is simply no way to tell which one is better. For some people love marriage works magic, for others arranged marriage opens the heaven's door.
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Anything but arranged marriage...
Either way, most people get miserable after getting married lol.
Love with arrange
Well, since we have 2 species now, the arranged marriage and the love marriage, let things go full circle and invent the "arranged love marriage".
Regardless of whether your marriage is brokered or you met your spouse on your own with no go betweens, you still need to marry a person you know you will be able to love and respect. Any marriage requires hard work and mutual dedication to work out. It takes two hands to clap after all. And yes there should be love and attraction between both parties!
Arranged marriage to a 6 year old is poplar in some parts of the world. More like child abuse to me
useless talk why this topic .... people please don't waste your time
this is very subjective issue and not one can reach in general answer as it depends how the couples and their families make is succeed their relationship. therefore, the best thing is both couples and their family should be happy with the union from which direction comes either from love or arranged ..... :)
9 years and counting,. and yes i does need effort and time, giving and taking from both parties involved
Why do people label anything they can't understand to luck?
thanks.....Tahs.. :)
God Bless
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Its a matter of luck and nothing else... Love Marriage or Arranged marriage, u cant blame either for not working out... There are times when Love Marriages fall apart but there are times when even well planned Arranged Marriages dont last...
Its a matter of understanding, trust and most importantly luck that makes a marriage successful...
The truth is that adjustments and compromises will decide the longevity of the marriage.
very true
very true
Doesn't matter get in bed this way or the other .. :P
But seriously, i believe its not the "kind" of marriage which makes your marriage life successful .. its the 2 people in it !! i have seen extreme cases in both types of marriages, love or arranged doesn't matter.
if u love someone then marry her but never leave her n go for arrange marriage becoz of someone wish as u will never forget ur loved one n u will always blame the one u married and nt the one who arranged ur marriage..
and if u dnt love anyone then go for arrange marriage and love will come after.
it take a lot of effort to make marriage successful, whether love or arrange...
my opinion chill and let others chill too .... and no two persons can have the same expirences ... its your journey do it your way
Is that some kind of reversed psychology?
Arrange Marriage :)
If it were not the first love for both, then it amounts to 'divorce' / 2nd or / serial marraige.
Who will give / take count of abortions ?
You are correct. Am seeing so many marriages / relationships failing. Seems that people are not willing to put in the effort required to make things work..
Ofcourse Love Marriage. How come you can live a life with a person whom you are seeing for the first time on your wedding day? And hoe come you are gonna sleep with someone whom you dont know at all.
Hate arranged marriage. I am from India and its common over there!
again???
Yawwwnnnn
love marriage is better AS U CAN GET TO KNOW THE DEVIL ATLEAST 1 DAY AHEAD...
It all depends on the couple to make it succeed.
love marriage with blessing from both parents is the most successful marriage.
What ever suits you!
Both can work and both can fail. Both need hard work to succeed.
arrange marriage seems to be better in long run... love marriage seems doesnt last long when LOVE run out. Arrange married are arranged in way that involve family involvement
I mean it's not an endless discussion, but letting people choose for YOU who YOU will be staying for maybe the rest of your life is just plainly unthinkable, unless you have some really bad self -esteem issues that you can't do it your own.
@JJH And congratulations, hope you'd be prospering till eternity !
18 years still going strong!
both suck..
and why to chose?
alternate every couple of years..
This debate is indeed an endless one. Usually, those who are comfortable in their marriage would always have you believe that it is arranged marriage or love marriage, whatever their specific case, which is better.
On the contrary, those who are not happy in their marriage will always claim that the form of the marriage other than they had is better.
The fact is that there is simply no way to tell which one is better. For some people love marriage works magic, for others arranged marriage opens the heaven's door.
To a large extent, it luck.
both ... its different in the beggining but later same .
personally i will say love because i neva wanna be with stangers .
Love marriage.
Why?
Because I'm old enough to make my bed....