Do NICE GUYS Really Finish Last?
An old cliché...well, I guess that term IS quite overused and everyone has their own opinion on what constitutes a "nice guy" status.
As the world change everyday , the concept of ‘nice’ also keeps on changing. It is really worth mentioning that nice guys just like the sexy gals have more demand in reality… but still, there is no hard and fast rule regarding this pre-conception.
To the ladies: How do you define what a “nice guy” really is? What would be in your the list of traits to consider for a man to be your "Mr. Nice guy”?
And to you all “nice guys” out there…do you believe this phrase still “holds water” nowadays?
Or you can make the "bad boys" look like the jerks they are?
What you are is what you have been, and what you will be is what you do now. - Buddha
thread frozen by moderator. again, thanks to the guys/gals trying to calm things down.
Qatar Living. Where do you live?
about the IP addresses that can be detected by some software, it will also show the computer ID or name which is unique. With this, you can determine who is the REAL TROLL here....
so if you dont have any proven data, no one here could accuse MYSTICA! so i am not surprised why she is acting like this because you are pointing your fingers to HER without any evidence at ALL!
we can't blame her on this if she reacted this way. She saw all the accusations from you as you posted here. But from your part, everything you said about Mystica were totally baseless.
Let's just wait for Orcha's report to set the things straight.
PEACE!
Mystica darling -->You dont need to prove anything here, i know that you are NOT the troll! and i know that its not one from us either. But one thing am sure, we fed the troll!
So please, am begging you let's stop all these personal attacks, leave Azilana alone and let's have a peaceful life. She has her own life and you have your own beautiful family, I know you are a sweet person in real life.
Gypsy honey--> I can understand how you feel for Azi, same as I do to both of them, coz to be honest i am embarassed for all these Filipina catfight in QL, as i am a filipina myself. I tried not to interfere in this but its getting worst and nasty.
I have an idea to share but upto you to decide. What if we stop naming names as we still dont have any basis or proof to link mystica at the moment? Believe it or not, we were also wondering who the h*** is this Orcha or Milesaway! These trolls must be one from some group who knew us very well, and I just wish that our admin will help us solve this issue.
Too sad that we will ALL end up like this Azi & Mystie :(
----->Forgive and Forget!
To: Adey, PM, Gypsy, Jauntie, IOU, Tcom, Jakcmohan, Mystica and Azi.....
I wish you ALL a peaceful, healthy and happy Ramadan:))))))
It's ok, YOU ARE THE GOOD PERSON HERE IN QL! All for your decency and my rudeness to you!
Cheers!
Actually if you read other peoples posts, lots have concluded that its her. She's done it before and she'll keep doing it.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Making Mystica bad, you are the one posting a comment that look likes her, and you are the only one concluded that it's her!
Cheers!
orcha said Ms. A7037 ...
Unfortunately for you Ms. A7037 etc etc
It's only YOU GYPSY is SCHMUCK!
Cheers!
Just keep digging yourself a bigger hole "ladies". By the way has anyone noticed that Orcha (who writes just like Mystica) disappeared after I called him/her out?? And have you noticed that Azzy hasn't lowered herself to even comment on Mystica and IOU's silly accusations. Once again "The ladies doth protest too much"
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Now I know of a Special software...which will tell me not only about the IP address but also how pretty the user is!!!
Some people are really lucky getting away from the "evil deeds" they've done and deceiving other people to get into their side.
SAD BUT TRUE!
Cheers!
THAT SCHMUCK! (whatever it is) STARTED TO MENTION MY NAME!!! that's why me and my friend replied! that silly orca is one of their playing troll to get an attention and they plan to point it at me. this people come in and out and imitating the way I post comments. My Poor friends always get affected because they know who I am and the other person in real life. In fact she had lost some of her friend from here when they found out who she is and how she behaves, she maybe quiet here but bad mouthing most of the people she met.
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Hope you are happy with your bickering.
Ochra was the only one to start like this about another QLer.
Millesaway had started on the other QLer in the pet forum as soon as his name appeared as an ID.
Go figure
That our friend ORCHA aka Mystica(?)or a cronie of hers, began the slanging match.
I can't be bothered with all this nonsense any more.
azilana7037
said hmmmm...distasteful millesaway ...
lol...but if it's as LOW as you can go...enjoy yourself...lol
Sat, 08/09/2007 - 7:24pm
orcha said Ms. A7037 ...
Unfortunately for you Ms. A7037 we now have a clear sight of your ISP records. some experts just informed us how petty you are! Pretty amazing to troll yourself as well. You must be that insane. What for? Wants people’s sympathy? You poor thing. You’ll do everything to destroy someone else due to your nastiness to your fellow country people? Is that how desperate you are? Wow! You’re unbelievable. You even troll yourself. You’ve got everyone paranoid to someone who’s totally friendly for real compared to you? Wow! you are pretty amazing to convince people of your drama. If you don’t stop you’ll regret it.
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 8:06am
Gypsy said
Her ISP records? Orcha you do know that the vast majority of Qatar shares the same ISP number right.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 8:54am
orcha said
yes gypsy ... we do have 1 server which s qtel but n each computer we have different computer #'s and we do not have the same number as it appears n which can be only traceable if you have this special software. like what we used in a different forum. had enough of this mischief from her group so we decided to track them. next time they do it I will published here who's with her doing all this misbehavior. have a nice day.
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 2:48pm
Gypsy said
Get a life Orcha. This is just really sad on your part.
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 2:49pm
orcha said
listen to your own advice girl ... you also have different username like me. afraid that your friend's secret got reveal? I dont have a life too to be hassle by your bar girls (just like myself) mates. sad for your friends and me and your part not to those people.... you're very funny girl you don't have life yourself IMAO LOL...come n see me at Paloma I'll show you how biatch I am. you'll never forget if you try me too. IMAO LOL...
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 3:13pm
orcha said
hey gypsy ... I'll wait for you on Friday 9's try me you won't regret it...
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 3:14pm
Gypsy said
ooooo Mystica I'm scared, ... really, Shaking in my boots. Grow up.
One thread, she humiliated Mystica, which is his choice becasue his being honest too on the other thread telling that Mystica is dishonoring him by being one of his buddy and he would like to delete her on his friend's list, which again his choice and by the way, it's not her lost!
I am just being honest also telling him I didn't find him a decent guy then you picture me being "RUDE" what can I do?
Cheers!
so orcha is the bad guy...and he comes first?
End of thread.....or is there some more to come?
"ooooo Mystica I'm scared, really, Shaking in my boots. Grow up."
She backed up this accusation to Mystica on another thread that has been deleted.
Cheers!
Not sure why I bothered, however I did.
Gypsy in no way started anything. In fact it began when IOU misunderstood KH's post saying that IOU had no need to thank an idiot like Millesaway, which IOU took completely the wrong way.
Prior to that IOU defended Azi and Gypsy against millesaway and Gypsy defended Azi from same person
Suddenly someone calling themselves 'orcha' stepped in and began began the slagging off and name calling.
Who, pray, is orcha? Cos whoever it is, she/he was pretty nasty and made comments about other qlers personal lives.
Schmuck?
Cheers!
What nasty words?? The only ones using nasty words are you guys. Seriously your hilarious, keep this up, watching you "ladies" fly off the handle is a lot of fun.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
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I don't know what has happened in this last week to you - you have turned into Mr Hyde from Dr Jekyll. You were never like this before
:o(
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I am sorry if I failed your expectation on me, in this thread seriously, I don't care losing respect for backing up a friend because I do believe Gypsy Schmuck (only into this thread :-) doesn't have the right to tag her name into this.
I told Mys, Mi Amiga that I will handle it and don't response or anything because I can't take all those nasty words for her. She chose to fight back the way you don't all agree and to be honest I don't fight like that but we all have our different ways to converse specially if we are hurt.
On this thread, I want some schmuck to apologize that she accused my friend but I know she will not. She will not admit that she speculates as well and I don't know why? Like, I said if she can proves it then she is is right!
Cheers!
I guess Mr. nice guy will not turn up now for them!!!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
This was supposed to be the nice guy thread..
(ducked to avoid a pancake on my face)...
Mystica ...if anybody provokes ....you have the option of not reacting to it.
The girls are busy fighting ...how can you expect good guys to cum at all. Gosh I guess there is a typo somewhere!!
Yes, I advised her not to mention any names, I also advised her to ignore it, I also advised her just to response back if they are being nasty to her "in this thread" which she did not open until the accusation of that schmuck.
Is that fair? Schmuck is that fair?
Cheers!
Can't you see? GYPSY is the one who's backing her up and uses strong nasty words. IOU stop me to mention names here unlike them pointing it directly with accusation and you bet the TROLL person started this troubles are laughing on us!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
schmuck is that a German word? lol! I use effin to swear and yet this people uses direct rude words and they think they are HERO! lol! darn! world is getting worst music are all with swears as well must be the new generation. :(
Judge not! that you be not judged!
tell us which friends you are referring to. If you want us involved then spit it all out and get it over with - quit the inferences.
Just fed up with you whinging over something which happened between you and others which no-one else is interested in.
Go and sort it out with whoever it is you had this squabble with - don't keep trying to drag the rest of us into it. It's too monotonous for words.
At this rate you will have us ALL as trolls, siding with some unknown adversary of yours, every time someone says ANYTHING which you consider to be against you (which I've noticed often it ISN'T - so don't talk to me about paranoia, go look in a mirror).
sigh. That's it - I'm out of this thread.
Peace all
My tagalog wasn't deleted by the moderator. I edited it as I only want the biatcha to see it for one day I just forgotten to edit it last night! guilty person hasn't come out for excuses but sent her friends to mess with us instead so it's up to you if you want to support them.
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Its high time we put a stop to this type of negative naggers
Barking dogs seldom bite n if let to bark alone will get tired n keep quite
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
Mys, Mi Amiga is not talking about you Madam Jauntie because she know you are not one of them.
Maybe you could also advise that schmuck who started to accused her of being responsible of those complaints against Miss Azzy!
Thank you.
Cheers!
YOU DON'T JUST TAKE ONE SIDE, SO YOU DON"T GET PARANOID THAT IT WAS YOU I"M TALKING ABOUT. WHY ARE YOU SO BEING DEFENSIVE? WHY ARE YOU ONE OF THEM?
Judge not! that you be not judged!
I don't know what has happened in this last week to you - you have turned into Mr Hyde from Dr Jekyll. You were never like this before
:o(
on another qler was taken out by moderators - take note why don't you!
He/she just provoked me to swear in this thread! My modest soul chased by her/his schmuckiness!
Cheers!
you're getting really nasty and it doesn't suit you. I've seen no one but YOU chucking dirt around since you returned from your holiday, seemingly intent of dragging up the past which is of no interest to any of us.
How DARE you accuse us all of 'flocking together in bars looking for men' !! What IS your problem - jealous because you aren't allowed out alone to prove you are more attractive than everyone else???
Sheesh - I shan't be involved in any thread I see your rubbish in ever again (hopefully!). Unfortunately that may be easier said than done since you wish to infiltrate everywhere with your insinuations.
Let it drop and save us all the ear ache and sore eyes from your childish display of petulance.
Mis Amiga don't be surprised! birds at the same feathers flock together! and this is not the first time they created trouble here too! must be lacking of attention hmmm! with who? darn THEY need more men! they haven't get one, that's why they are hanging out in the bar and yet throwing dirt on us!!! hang on! what's the other member said about them? PROVOCATIVE!!!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Please clarify your accusation to my friend here in this thread, guess you schmuck don't have the proof!
Is that your concern advice? Or you just escaping the fact that you accused someone you don't know.
Cheers!
how was ur get together last night.hope u had a nice time. jauntie did u overcome ur fear lol
do it right - the first time!
Well said Jauntie. This isn't the first time Mystica has done this, and it probably won't be the last. She really needs to grow up.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
you could use this to avoid this topic : http://www.qatarliving.com/tracker to view the "recent post" if you really don't want to read this thread.
Cheers!
No need for swearing right FFS you? If you don't need this to be read by your student and want them to learn, you should have not start it with ur abbreviated swearing.
You too should grow up as well, you might not understand why she's fighting on this accusation, you may not accept the way she answered back, she just need a valid explanation why some "schmuck" putting her name into this thread? Is it fair? Did she post any comments here before that "schmuck" accused her?
Please read the whole topic again and be fair enough to judge who got a dirty mind.
Cheers!
could not do much of mingle n jingle
hope to next time ....wont leave u so lightly
hehehehh
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
how's you this fine day :D Sorry didn't get much of a chance to swop anicdotes last night :D
Have a good one !
hehehehhehehheheh hahahhahahhaha hohohohohoh
what else can i say u guys dont sleep or what
have a nice day
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
YOU SHOULD READ WHAT THIS PEOPLE WROTE FIRST FROM THE BEGINNING. WE ARE ALREADY QUIET SINCE YESTERDAY BUT THIS ADEY HAS TO ADD SOME MORE AND IT NEEDS TO BE ANSEWERED!!! YEAH RIGHT WHAT A WAY TO WAKE UP WITH THIS EFFIN PEOPLE TOO!!! HE IS NOT INVOLVE TOO WHY HIS SO NOSEY? GET IT???
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Phew - what a way to wake up lol
Seems every time I click on a recent comment in the last 2 days I get thrown back into this thread!
Coffee is needed, methinks :D
As I keep trying to explain to you, we DON'T WANT TO KNOW. You keep dragging whatever is bugging you into EVERY SINGLE THREAD. Why won't you listen, before you cause problems for yourself with others here.
Since most of us aren't in the slightest bit interested in the squabbles going on between you and your friends, behind the scene, PLEASE quit bringing it up all the time.
Every single person that speaks up is accused of being one of 'them' (your enemy) or a 'troll of one of them'.
WE AREN'T INVOLVED AND DON'T WANT TO BE
GET IT???
Come on, hon - it's getting really boring now :D
I suppose you will now deem me to be another Public Enemy No. 1 :P
FFS yourself! It's non of your effin business what we have here. you should know the background before you try to get involve with this LUNATIC TROLL and tackles people! nosey? you don't make excuses to attack people if you don't know the root of the story.
ie. the troll will get so cruel and bashing people and we found out who those are so what would you feel and do? you should try to sound things out first before getting involve with this messy people.
Have a goldmine of pure English(ie UK) Anglo-Saxon terminology that would make your delicate colonial ears....er, do something or other! :D
A bit prissy in N America at some of my language last time I was there, tis the land of the free until it comes to some plain speaking Anglo-Saxon profanities. LOL
I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.
Not who... but what. FFS means For F**ks Sake!
I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.
FFS. (I'll translate if you wish) As a
pure ,married , sensitive woman you have a dirty mind. Why are you doing this on a public forum. My 15 yr old female students would look down on you with pity for your immaturity. Stop it and grow up!!!!
I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.
You are nuts and full of nonsense yourself! you are held by the nose with your pros GURU? go have fun and good luck searching in that bar for your Mr. nice guy but don't forget to share it with her. because that's your fun together.
Judge not! that you be not judged!
in my humble village there is to be a drama company it is to be calling one person show. (one people director producer writer)
he is to be dressing like clown, AFTER dressing like juicy girl, AFTER dressing like villian man, AFTER dressing like good baby. firstly peoples are laughing and laughing so much that putting water in eyes and pants but AFTER putting drama person in cage.
Try no to contemplate that because she mean about herself and she will always come up with the gossips to spread about you.
Cheers!
Good morning.
A translation please?
Did you guys ever hear the phrase "She doth protests too much"? Perhaps you should ponder that.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
she's a "schmuck" herself remember. Ignore her.
Cheers!
WTF was all that nonsense? Just cause your married doesn't mean you aren't nuts.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I might as well say it since you have lost my respect to you girl. I am in this category! men beg me to love them not me begging man to love them. And hang on to clear this to you, My husband is the first man to me and I am for over night and years stand! FYI, just to let you know so you don't pick on me again and don't throw all yours and your friend crap on me! FYI, I am a decent woman with a decent reputation and not a disposable one.
Read this dedicated song from my husband.
LOVE ME
by Michael Cretu
Love me and do not ever leave me
You're the only one
You're not just for fun
Love me, don't believe them when they say
I don't really care
That just isn't fair
REFRAIN:
`Cause babe, I believe you so
I will always be true to you
Never mind how I sometimes act
My feelings are the same
CHORUS:
Love me, need me
That's all I want from you
Love me, believe me
And always be true
Love me, don't leave me
Without you
My life would be blue
Love me and don't ever doubt it
At the very start
You were in my heart
Show me the way into your feelings
I'll do ev'rythin'
I'll give you a ring
REFRAIN:
Whatever you want from me
If you love me or will agree
Be my queen and I'll be your king
Wouldn't that be exciting?
CHORUS:
Love me, need me
That's all I want from you
Love me, believe me
And always be true
Love me, don't leave me
Without you
My life would be blue
Love me, need me
That's all I want from you
Love me, believe me
And always be true
Love me, don't leave me
Without you
My life would be blue
Love me, need me
That's all I want from you
Love me, believe me
And always be true
Love me, don't leave me
Without you
My life would be blue
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Mys, Mi Amiga,
Time to sleep and will pray that someone will have the proof tomorrow and be brave enough to support their claim against you and against all of being accused here.
Truth will prevail and that is you Mys, Mi Amiga!
Peace to all!
Cheers!
He or She? lol
Cheers!
Wearing a dress.
Mannerisms
Flower in the hair
And I used to work with the serverly mentally handicapped. Thiis is a very famous piece of film.
I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.
he's talking to you because no one pay attention with him being nosey. lol! poor thing! IOU forgive him for he don't know who is he being nice and rude with! lol!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
must be the top she's wearing, that's how you know it's she right?
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Nice guys are those that you don't lose sleep over. If you do, it's because you're too happy to sleep.
Cheers!
.......is a she not a 'he'
I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.
He is very amusing! but, if we have to be all look like that to appreciate fun? lol!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
He's so cute! Like he really doesn't care what's going on but he can only see fun in everything!
Cheers!
I like the way you adopted that signatures lol! nye!
Judge not! that you be not judged!
like the res! Another aspiring candidate of being Mr..hmmnnnn, what is the right word for you?
Cheers!
Did you hear about any nude beach or nude club house:D
nosey all the time? oh yeah I guessed you are bored too and had nothing better to offer to solve this issue but being nosey!
Cheers!
is right, Mys, Mi Amiga, we know you have nothing to do with all of this nonsense.
Let her/him bark that all she/he can do, while having an absofcukinglutely pathetic life and in search of her/him mr nice guy!
Cheers!
Darn! I was excited planning ahead our swimming pool party and this is what I see here? Hey! call Cyman. while it's early maybe you should come with us tomorrow to get stock.
Judge not! that you be not judged!
Alright Mystica, let's just leave it this way. Other people is accusing you for now, but at the end, the truth will prevail. We are 100% certain that you have nothing to do with this.
it is absofcukinglutely PATHETIC!
Cheers!
You leave me alone too! I have nothing against you and I don't really know you and her! I haven't done anything to her so you keep me out of your paranoia. Thank you.
Judge not! that you be not judged!
are you vanilla or butch?
You guys are pathetic. Get a life. Leave Azzy alone.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I just received this text from some concern member here that you are talking about me! why mention my name? what do I have to do with this? they are guessing as usual I believe! Why Azzy never stop with her drama? what are you guys been taking lately? why always paranoid? Mr.M told my friends earlier that Azzy is paranoid with Apple? why Azzy don't stop doing this drama here? FYI, I am married woman why would I waste my time with you people? I don't need to talk to CID etc. to waste time and money with all their crap! your not my fellow country people Gypsy and you don't have an idea who I am. I am not a problematic person like her when it comes to money to the extend that she has to approach most of people she knows to borrow money. I don't know any of you and I'm not interested to get involve with all your mess. Gypsy 1 rude person is enough for me to lie low and I don’t need you paranoia on top of that! Han 19 knows I am a very sensitive person and I am glad she's always there to keep me strong with this chaos here.
No you don't :)
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
It's pretty obvious who Orcha is. Just look at the way she writes.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Why you are so against my friend Mystica? What did she do to you Gypsy? Sorry I have to ask this to you, but its okay if you do not wish to clarify this accusation to her.
Mystica is a friend of mine and I knew her and like Gypsy she's Azzy friend actually she mentioned on her previous thread that Azzy is her relationship guru and I understand why she is also bothered whenever someone attacking her friend Azzy personally.
Cheers!
"I am sorry if my presence in
My friend Mystica being accused again here?
Mys, Mi Amiga, don't bother about this accusation ok. I'd met you and you got a happy life to be bothered by this non-sense.
If you got all proof on your serious accusations to anyone here I dare you to be brave enough to show the proof please.
So, we can clear this issue once and for all.
Cheers!
"I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry"
ooooo Mystica I'm scared, really, Shaking in my boots. Grow up.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
I'll wait for you on Friday 9's try me you won't regret it...
you also have different username like me. afraid that your friend's secret got reveal? I dont have a life too to be hassle by your bar girls (just like myself) mates. sad for your friends and me and your part not to those people.... you're very funny girl you don't have life yourself IMAO LOL...come n see me at Paloma I'll show you how biatch I am. you'll never forget if you try me too. IMAO LOL...
Get a life Orcha. This is just really sad on your part.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
we do have 1 server which s qtel but n each computer we have different computer #'s and we do not have the same number as it appears n which can be only traceable if you have this special software. like what we used in a different forum. had enough of this mischief from her group so we decided to track them. next time they do it I will published here who's with her doing all this misbehavior. have a nice day.
Her ISP records? Orcha you do know that the vast majority of Qatar shares the same ISP number right.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Unfortunately for you Ms. A7037 we now have a clear sight of your ISP records. some experts just informed us how petty you are! Pretty amazing to troll yourself as well. You must be that insane. What for? Wants people’s sympathy? You poor thing. You’ll do everything to destroy someone else due to your nastiness to your fellow country people? Is that how desperate you are? Wow! You’re unbelievable. You even troll yourself. You’ve got everyone paranoid to someone who’s totally friendly for real compared to you? Wow! you are pretty amazing to convince people of your drama. If you don’t stop you’ll regret it.
lol...but if it's as LOW as you can go...enjoy yourself...lol
be very much thinking may be for more than 5 hours and now i am knowing that millesaway is a salesman in condom factory. also very good idea to speak like this wear condom wear condom and sell.
wut the hell is that ... where are the moderators ??? is there any ..
someone should delete that ... and someone needs to be banned ..
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Am sorry for you being whatever.
Wonder if my comment for you that irritated you or my comment to millesaway that really irritated you.
You are telling me to answer topics and not members' responses? So why did you thank milles and who gave you the right to distribute your blessings on members?
Am not interested in reading your comments and it never meant anything to me. Having read what you said after failing to get drunk, would expect from you nothing but nonsense. And I do not care for whatever you say or you do. I am very keen on not wasting my time reading your sermons.
May I suggest that you takeover the management of QL and impose your new wonderful rules and amazing values.
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You do not have to thank a jerk. He cannot delete his post.
It was deleted by the moderator.
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You do not have any right to dictate to me who I would like to thank for!
Please note that I do not wish to speak to you on QL (am sorry if I am being rude but I am just being honest. I do not find you a decent and nice guy here in QL.
Should you please concentrate on answering topic on this thread and not the responses of other members?
I understand this is a public forum and you can post or you can pick any other comment which you feel like needing your opinion.
The next time you will call me, please do not feel I am disrespectful if I will choose not to answer you again.
Thank you.
Wow this topic has wandered off. Milesaway, I really don't think you should be bragging about your sexual conquests on line, and I really don't think you should be implying anything about my friend Azzy. She's a great girl.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
i am thinking you are cat who is first eating hundred mices and than going for a pilgrimage.
i am not to be understanding many things about you. why are you telling your juicy jucicy bed stories and also telling not to be making one night love ? why you are making love and also 3 in one night with many difficulties? so your sexy girl frind is running away to indian man and than making you cry. answering me this is small english and not big big english.
The more you insinuate, assume and presume about me...the more people becomes curious whether it's true or not...the more ENIGMATIC "I" become...lol (sorry folks, I'm gloating here)
You can say whatever you want to say, millesaway...you're not the first who tried to discredit/malign me and you won't be the last, too.
I post topics I find interesting, people post comments based on what they think or understood about it , others react to the topic or to other people’s comments (positive or negative)…it’s what makes PUBLIC FORUMS alive and interesting. ..
hmmmm.that’s why QL is sooooooo interesting.
Thanks, Qatari! We owe it all to you :-)
I believe we are facing an era of sex impulse and liberty, where many people's main focus is on themes related to sex like A7037, passion and not self-control. This has occurred due to the big sex oppression. It will eventually vanish, and sex, even a one night stand or a long-term poli relationship, will not matter, or simply won't a be a whole discussion topic. Maybe sex addiction will cease to exist, who knows?
But oh well, maybe I just posted nonsense right now; I think one night stands can be regarded as fun, as long as you know who you're doing it with.
But I'll answer you point by point...
IOU said I didn’t think that the topic is anything sexual; I strongly believe that the way you discussed the above topic has something or should I say indirect inclination with sexual matters (like many of your previous threads)
MY ANSWER: You implied it…not me :-)As I said earlier, the moderator/web administrator will automatically DELETE the thread (if it is what you claim it to be)and BAN me from this site.
And from your comments/posts, I think you never heard of the old INNOCENT “cliché” that NICE GUYS FINISH LAST…SO:
Trivia1:
Leo Durocher (a baseball player) coined one of the most famous terms used in every major sport around the world even to this day — 'Nice guys finish last!'
Trivia 2:
"Cliché" applies also to almost any situation, subject, characterization, figure of speech, or object—in short, any sign —that has become overly familiar or commonplace.
Because the novelty or frequency of an expression's use varies across different times and places, whether or not it is a cliché depends largely on who uses it, the context in which it is used, and who is making the judgment.
The meaning of a particular cliché may shift over time, often leading to confusion or misuse. An example of a cliché is "It takes one to know one..."In the meaning "Are you thinking to use the same tactic that I was thinking about?" the cliché would be "Are you thinking what I'm thinking?"
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IOU said Speaking of Innuendo, what are you trying to imply when you say “If you read carefully, it's about RELATIONSHIP AND/OR FINDING RELATIONSHIP - the nice and the bad guys and how "us WOMEN" can and will find the "NICE" ones”?
MY ANSWER: Would you prefer I will write “women” and delete the “us”
word? My dear, I’m also a woman…that’s why I included myself…so what’s the big deal?
IOU said Like I said, “I am a woman but I am not looking for a relationship nor looking for a nice guy especially not in QL or any online site”
MY ANSWER: Who said you were looking for one? Again, you assume…
IOU said: You speak like you represents all the women but okay, I’d like to thank you for making an effort from your busy schedule to research about this topic to help women on finding a relationship and a nice guy.
MY ANSWER: I never said I represent anyone or "ALL" women?....Geewiz ….it’s a simple, innocent topic (take my word for it or not...it’s NO skin OFF my nose)
IOU said: I have nothing against you Azzy, I don’t know you in real life so why should I will take you personally?
MY ANSWER: I KNOW you have nothing PERSONAL against “ME” (YUP! You don’t KNOW “ME”). You’re just stating YOUR OPINION about the TOPICS “I” created. Of which, I appreciate very much.
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I welcome your opinion...thanks for participating in this thread. I always find your posts/ comments in other threads are informative and entertaining...Good day to you!
“And the funnier part is...you and IOU think that this topic is anything SEXUAL...sorry to burst your bubbles my dears...IT'S NOT...”
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There's nothing "sexual" or even pertains to sex in this topic thread so I'm TOTALLY AMUSED/SURPRISED of your comment/post... NOTHING SEXUAL? REALLY? – my comment
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I didn’t think that the topic is anything sexual; I strongly believe that the way you discussed the above topic has something or should I say indirect inclination with sexual matters (like many of your previous threads)
If you are going to say you are innocent or naïve about it, then fine!
Speaking of Innuendo, what are you trying to imply when you say “If you read carefully, it's about RELATIONSHIP AND/OR FINDING RELATIONSHIP - the nice and the bad guys and how "us WOMEN" can and will find the "NICE" ones”?
Like I said, “I am a woman but I am not looking for a relationship nor looking for a nice guy especially not in QL or any online site”
You speak like you represents all the women but okay, I’d like to thank you for making an effort from your busy schedule to research about this topic to help women on finding a relationship and a nice guy.
I have nothing against you Azzy, I don’t know you in real life so why should I will take you personally?
The above is my opinion.
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
Thank you for your sincere recognition that I meant no harm on my comments and on defending Azzy from millesaway.
I really don’t care if she appreciates it or be thankful for it, I just felt that millesaway gone overboard.
Whatever his/her issues with Azzy, I really don’t know and I don’t want to know and I don't care.
I am confident that I am a nice person:-D (like my real friends in real world says)
Thank you again Greeker.
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
"You do not have to thank a jerk. He cannot delete his post.
It was deleted by the moderator.
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You do not have any right to dictate to me who I would like to thank for!
Please note that I do not wish to speak to you on QL (am sorry if I am being rude but I am just being honest. I do not find you a decent and nice guy here in QL.
Should you please concentrate on answering topic on this thread and not the responses of other members?
I understand this is a public forum and you can post or you can pick any other comment which you feel like needing your opinion.
The next time you will call me, please do not feel I am disrespectful if I will choose not to answer you again.
Thank you.
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To Moderator,
Thank you.
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
I just came back from partying and friends did not succeed on getting me drunk so I am here in QL?
I better start re-reading this thread! :-D
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
to start using my other nicknames and disappear as KH:))))))
didn't azi say she thought she knew who it was? so I guess they can sort it out without our interference.
That's Plan 1
Plan 2 is run like heck!
guess milles is what the Americans call, a "breather". It's those people who call anyone and simply "breath" loudly at their other end. LOL. what an expensive breathing:)))))))))))
he actually said 'yum yum nice doggie to eat' or something like that. So my first reaction was right
Saw this a few days ago when Azi wanted to find a home for her precious wee doggie 'storm'. I didn't know what Millesaway was at the time, I simple responded to what I thought was a nasty post:
I like dat dog plees
Submitted by millesaway on Sun, 02/09/2007 - 1:25pm.
how much. col me 5490590
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Submitted by jauntie on Sun, 02/09/2007 - 1:35pm.
I don't think it's on the menu, millesaway :P
Thank you for drawing our attention to the dangers of one night stand. Would require your advise and recommendation about what type of rubber should we use if you have do's and dont's list that would be helpful.
In this regard, would like to inquire if - as you say - one night stand is not good, then do you recommend a one month or one year stand. Would it be safe in such case?
Wondering, in which "head" are your brain cells located. That is important to help us decide whether to assign certain brain cells to understand what do you mean or if it would be better understanding you without using brain cells.
You can do he guys here in QL a great favor bu giving them names and numbers since your information is that reliable. That would save a lot of effort.
Did your give you the consent to talk on their behalf? Wonder if the are handicapped and unable to talk about their own experiences and adventure.
For your own safety and that of the like minded persons such as your "friends", you better stick to your own hj and would recommend to use it with your wife also if you decide to marry. coz people like you will definately have their wives cheating on them and would result in STD which is your main concern. If you have the urge, use rubber with your wife coz u cannot take the risk in such case.
Am sure that you and your "friends" are fake people whose whole life is a complete failure when it comes to women affairs (assuming you and your "friends" are males)
hello my fellow insomniacs...glad to hear u like all guys jaunt....not too sure about all tha gals though lol
unless and until they prove to be otherwise, all have the benefit of the doubt.
You cannot generalize. When you talk about the unavailabilty of nice guys, then you would be talkig about the guys you know only.
and I have a very strong "gut" feel who millesaway really is...
3 weeks with 10 points...a lurking troll, perhaps....
GTG...I got a week load laundry to do tonight...
Goodnight, lynnie...goodnight QLers
I am from vietnam story comes from my indian friend who you know 100%. u are superwoman no doubt. go n see a doctor u'll soon find out.
Liar liar pants on fire. Good catch.
Your profile says you're VIETNAMESE...
but now you're saying your INDIAN...
Hmmmm....this is becoming VERY interesting....
Ah ok. One of those guys.
I just want millesaway to stand by his claims as he seemed so well-versed with it...
The more he say something about it...the more it becomes clearer that he's making up stories...
if you really want to know about it just google it. I did cause I had no clue what it was. I am still not sure. I checked wikipedia and it wasn't too informative. Oh well.
because I don't have the slightest idea who you're talking about...lol
Your (or your friend's) story is intriguing...like Hollywood gossip...he said, she said kind of tall tales.
Tantric smazic-whachamakallit...you know it, I don't...TOUGH LUCK!!!
And to think that someone like ME whose been working 16 hours-straight every day / 6 days a week for the last 4 weeks...with LESS than 5 hours of sleep EVERY night....KNOWS THE GIRL you and your friend are referring to...
My dear....I'm SUPER WOMAN...lol
since you have the knowledge of it..why don't you share it with the rest of us...
Qatari knows that I won't be doing anymore topics that pertains to anything sexual...so please do the honors, since you brought up the topic...
comes from a friend n you know about it don't play naive.
Relationship based on sex never lasts...it's so superficial...
LOVE, RESPECT & HONESTY are what the factors that make a relationship work...sex/making love is just a small part of intimacy to sghow how much you feel for each other....
I guess, millesaway...you need to read an old thread of mine..."what's the difference between 'having sex' and 'making love'?"
You know what I mean, figure it out.
we're talking about an old cliche...nothing sexual or anything pertaining to it...unless you put another meaning to it(which I believe some already did)...
Sorry my dear...I don't have the slightest idea "who" you are talking about.
I'm just plain lazy tonight (and tired from work) to google search it, so please amuse a late 30's Old hag (ME) what is "tantric sex" is?
Or better yet...you start a topic on this...
Relationships that revolve around sex will never last. You must have more than that. That is why once sex comes into the picture things become more complicated. take the stories throughout this post. If you aren't strong enough without sex you will never be strong with it. That's why waiting to have sex will ensure that you are seeing the person for who they are and not what pleasures they give you. So many people stay with someone b/c the sex is good even if the girl/guy is a loser. Stop basing your relationships on sex and instead the things you have in common and how he treats you outside the bedroom and that's when you will know whether it's right.
It's Thursday I'm lounging around tired but recent posts prompted me to post my thoughts on nymphos.
OK, in my opinion, sex should be spontaneous. If it becomes scheduled and expected a certain number of times, then it loses its charm. That's just how I feel.
So I went out with this woman recently; met her through here (where all the nymphos hangout, it seems wink ). First date, we are chatting, and she says guys get real clingy on her. Why, I asked, out of curiosity. Well, she says, "because I give great bj" (insert "whoa" here; I'd known this lass for less than an hour). Needless to say, I'm intrigued (what can I say, I'm a guy).
After that, most of her emails revolve around "tantric sex". Apparently, she thinks that I, being Indian, am somehow an expert in this. Now, I do like sex; but not enough to become a Tantric Sex Master. Plus, a lot of that crap is hokey bulls anyways (from what I can tell). She starts identifying classes in tantric sex in the Bay Area (apparently there are....), and wants to see if we can go sometime. Mind you, this is after the first date. Needless to say, I try to ignore her attempts at higher learning (but I still want to see her, to see if the first claim is true or not. What can I say? I'm a guy..)
First suitable weekend rolls around. She comes over. She suggests that we have sex before dinner; after dinner; once during the night; and, of course, morning sex.
Now, I do have a healthy sex drive. But scheduling something like this bothers me. But what can I say? I'm a guy (a recurring theme in this diatribe). So we screw before dinner. After dinner, we get some dessert, come back, watch a movie and... yeah, we screw again. By this time I'm tired. (Aside: for the past few weeks, I've been up till 2AM every day, working on some super-seekrit stuph which I'm testing on people like you big_grin ).
I'm out like a light. Fukc the midnight sex; I want my sleep baby.
Morning, OK, we go at it again. But by this time I'm losing total interest. It was starting to become a chore. Enough of this. And she made it a point to tell me that we had not woken up in the middle of the night as planned (my fault, it seems; she likes to be woken up by the stiff prodding of a woody).
After I dropped her off, she went off with my other friend the next day.
Moral of the story: while a nympho sounds good in theory, my experience is that it becomes old pretty fast. It starts to feel like work.
Over the years I have seen so many of these truly "nice guys" get involved with WOMEN (Plural...meaning it's not ME...geeez) who took advantage of them, became controlling, took them for granted, and after getting everything they could from them... kicked them to the curb.
Go figure.
These women stated they wanted a "nice guy" and then they treated him like a bag of trash.
Or, maybe even a worse case scenario is the woman that DOESN'T kick her nice guy to the curb but rather continues to take advantage of him, treat him like a doormat, and abuse him for years.
These poor guys are left with virtually no self-esteem, wimpering, powerless, unhappy... and with no idea how they got themselves into this situation in the first place!
Thus, the "Nice guys finish last" phrase comes into the picture. Well, yes in this case I guess that's true.
...about the post/comment made about me. This time, the "troll" tried to hit me directly...by hiding under a new "handle". :-)
One thing I can say...SOME PEOPLE are really getting VERY, VERY DESPERATE to HURT ME and would stoop so DOWN low to do so....lol
It's just your post came in first than mine...I appreciate her defending me. And as far as I can remember, she did it before in some other threads when someone did the same...
I'm not that bad...as they want to picture me to be...though sometimes I really wanted to...hehehehehe
Actually...I am also surprised by your posts but since it's a public forum, everyone is entitled to THEIR opinion...
I can't blame MILLESAWAY AND YOU, IOU or anyone in QL to think that this topic is or has sexual innuendos because I ALWAYS start/make controversial/debatable issues like the "size" topic...BUT I KNOW MY LIMITATIONS AND BOUNDARIES OF WRITING AN ARTICLE....I do research and before I post a topic. I make sure I can defend them....
And THIS IS WHAT PUBLIC FORUM IS ABOUT…..
I think IOU was being nice and was siding you. I saw what the milesaway, just seven posts old in QL at the time, had told about you. Beleieve me, it was really bad. But before i could ask him to take it off, he deleted the comment. Milesaway is a creep, accusing people who he doesnt know one-on-one.
As to IOU, i think shis a nice girl who handled the situation correctly.
You do not have to thank a jerk. He cannot delete his post.
It was deleted by the moderator.
MILLESAWAY said..."but one night stands just isn't the way to go like what you do every weekend to my friends."...who? ME?....lol
How I wish I could do that...lol
Unfortunately...I think you mistaken me for another person...because the last time I went out was with a group of QL'ers and that was weeks ago...I haven't set foot in a bar/club since then...funny you!:-D
And the funnier part is...you and IOU think that this topic is anything SEXUAL...sorry to burst your bubbles my dears...IT'S NOT...
AND IF IT IS...QATARI/AHMED WILL BE THE FIRST TO DELETE IT AND BAN ME FROM THIS SITE...
Chill...I know what you're up to...
and thank you for deleting your comment last night so lets have a nice weekend :-D
Settle it with her privately!
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"I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
I know it's not me what you are talking about and it will never be me.
The comment you were asking last night was to directed to Ms. Azzy and I personally believe that personal attack like that should not be broadcast publicly.
It's a shame what you said about her whether it's true or not, I just don't care its her business anyway. As as I said, I am a woman too so I just felt for her IF she did something like that and someone spill it in public it's not proper and it's not decent.
So, be a nice guy ;-)
Morning!
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
sorry not you.
They are not living their lives . They don't care . It looks like this.
They , wanna enjoy for the moment.
Can't have a clue why aren't they thinking about the prob. & diseases associated with it .
please that's too personal, can u just talk about it PM? be a nice guy besides you are not sure, if its true or not?
I am not her friend but I am a woman too... this things should be kept privately, don't you think so?
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
But I just want to ask this since I think it will link to the above topic.
How do you define a nice lady?
What should woman do for you to love and keep her so she will not cry?
For the last couple of days, QL has been flooding with these questions about guys, relationships, sex (indirect question), who supposed to finish last, does size really matters, etc.!
It’s always been what the guy should do? What the guy should be? What could be a nice (meaning to finish last otherwise he will tag to be a jerk) guy?
Should women always have to become first in line for a guy to be called a decent guy or a nice guy? Should women always to be pleased all the time to make the relationship work otherwise they will claim to be the victim?
What about the feelings of the guys, isn’t it important to consider as well?
I know it’s not easy to accept that someone doesn’t love you anymore but do you even consider as individual he could be the most amazing guy in the world but unfortunately, he doesn’t love you anymore?
Maybe he tried he’s best, maybe at first he thought you are the one, maybe that period of courting and convincing you that he likes you, maybe he was sincere!
So, guys who do you think or what for you is a woman to keep?
Thank you.
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" I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
----->If you read carefully, it's about RELATIONSHIP AND/OR FINDING RELATIONSHIP - the nice and the bad guys and how "us WOMEN" can and will find the "NICE" ones...so where did the ONS came in the picture????
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but I am not looking for a relationship at the moment :D
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There's nothing "sexual" or even pertains to sex in this topic thread so I'm TOTALLY AMUSED/SURPRISED of your comment/post... NOTHING SEXUAL? REALLY?
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And though you have a valid/good point, it really didn't connect to the thoughts of this thread.... It didn't connect I agree with you on this but milesaway, you can call it a NYMPHO ;D
What is a nice guy for me, he should simply not to be a "KISS AND TELL GUY" applies with women as well it doesn't matter if he could not finish it last or what's his size as long as he respects and tolerates me and my individuality.
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"I am sorry if my presence intimidates you, I never meant to do that. I am just being me but for that I am not sorry!"
i respect the fact that everyone has their own opinions and thoughts on stuff...but i think 'craving for one night stands' and actually doing it is two very different things...i mean i understand when ppl feel the urge to have sex and everything...but one night stands just isn't the way to go like what you do every weekend to my friends. it degrades the human race entirely as we're supposed to value this intimacy of having a relationship with someone. not just sleeping with them out of lust...
I know they do...met a few of them. The only problem is...all of them are taken/committed/married...lol
They still do exists but only hard to find...coz most in not all the time, we women gets hoodwinked by the "hunk" genre that we fail to notice the "essential"....the man's character.
We easily get attracted to the physical features and take in the character later on...
Just think of the situation – you have a friend, who understands you well, who knows you and would stand beside you in all situations; he/she is certainly the perfect match for your romantic life.
The most important thing is that your have to be pragmatic enough to make her/him understand the situation, otherwise everything will be lost in the wave of time.
There's nothing "sexual" or even pertains to sex in this topic thread so I'm TOTALLY AMUSED/SURPRISED of your comment/post...
And though you have a valid/good point, it really didn't connect to the thoughts of this thread....
If you read carefully, it's about RELATIONSHIP AND/OR FINDING RELATIONSHIP - the nice and the bad guys and how us WOMEN can and will find the "NICE" ones...so where did the ONS came in the picture????
Hmmmmmm?
I dun really agree with the perception put forth by the writer, we are currently making ourselves more prone to the invasion of STDs by having one night stands. Well, I strongly do not agree with that. If the chances of getting STDs are high, why do people still practice one night stands? Wouldn’t they be worrying about the consequences they will face after having a one night stand?
The matter of fact is the chances of getting STDs can be vastly reduced, if extra precautions are taken. For instance, using of condoms and IUDs whenever you involve in sexual relationships.
However, it will be inappropriate to support the practice of one night stands if pleasure and fun are to be used as excuses to cover up their immature act. Think of the babies who are born due to the irresponsible practice of one night stands, if preventions are not taken. What would happen if their parents are unable to support them, financially and mentally? Wouldn’t it be cruel if you abort these innocent babies?
Due to so many consequences, I firmly come to the point that one night stands should not be practiced among societies. It will not only cause the killing of innocent babies, but it would also bring many drawbacks to the women themselves. The women are the ones in disadvantage, not men.
To me I think to sex addicts consider one night stands more as a hobby rather then something to be afraid or worried bout.Maybe its because they're not aware of the damage it might cause them in da future.
From what I know, good guys don't finish last :
1. Good guys from my shool were first to solve the problems in the class
2. They were in the classrom first
3. They're even first in the office these days dammit!
4. Good guys finish their food early, thats what mom said
5. Good guys goto bed first
7. Good guys wake up first
Wow so many more to list! Whoever said good guys finish last?
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Well, it's a fact!
People are weird in this way, aren't they?...i mean "we"
We mostly give all the crappy statements, that this or that doesn't matter, but in the end we go for the nicer behind, bigger "front" and that kind of stuff ;o)
And, at the same time, if I have a very good friend and I'd have to chose between friendship and "possible" relationship that might not work in the end.... I guess I'd rather not lose a friend.
After all, who is going to help me go through all the crappy guys that would brake my heart if not a good friend? ;o)
Ahh, what can I say...HUMAN NATURE!
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
I don't know though, can you really be friends with someone that you realize you have feelings for?
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Is that right?
Can't bother to read those lines from before. Its my second post here and dare any girl try to kick a guy's azz in my presence. :P
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Yeah Good Ol Irrysa.. She's definately the Xpert :P
Seems like us guys always get wacked out here with all these ladies always kicking r azzez .....
Irrysa gave a perfect reply to your last post! LOL
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Well Gypsy, so what if they even do exist if most of them (if not all of them)we treat like brothers...we somehow don't see us with them.
If you're looking for a problem, you're probably gonna find one.
That's coz u never gave me a trial run :(
Unfortunately for me
Nah, they don't exist. And if they do, I'm never going to find one. :(
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Awww Gypsy! They do exist, I'm sure they do; otherwise, there wouldn't be such happy couples. It's just that men like that are rare...very rare!
Speak for yourself millesaway, I for one am defintely not addicted to one night stands. :P
Nice guys....I don't think they exist anymore I really don't. :(
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
nowaday ppl is kinda addicted to sex and they could be referred as sex maniac??so one night stand is probably normal for them to perform and if they really think about the consequences of having one night stand which makes them vulnerable to the STD then they won't do it..for most of the people who are addicted to sex would not care about it..what they care is the moment right now which is having fun just as the buddhist always say ' live in the present without looking back and worrying about the future'
Naah it wasn't u, it was ur other "hillbilly" personality...what was her name? Oh yeah Becky! And let's not forgot Melisa and Cindy oh and George! Say hello to all these people in ur head :P
Did I say that?
Corne knows what Jauntie meant, Corne knows what Jauntie meant nanana booboo! :P
You said: I still don't get what ur first comment meant! Send this poor lil fishie a PM and tell her!
I sent you a PM to explain but you've gone very quiet.
Anyone here got any smelling salts?
Women knows what they want, work for what they want...but despite the toughness, women are women...who likes/would love to end up with a nice guy.
Bottomline is...No matter how strong or independent a woman is, she wants a man that is stronger and offers her protection and security. Yet, she depends on the man in her life to treasure her and hold her in such great esteem that he would never use his strength and direct it towards her. There is no greater blow to a woman's sense of security in a relationship then to be on the receiving side of her partner's anger or rage. Simply put, women want men that are tough with other men, but gentle with the woman that they love.
That's my epitome of a MR. NICE GUY...
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Unfortunately some women mistaken a loving son for a Mommy's boy.
And a women can tell the true colors of a man by seeing how he treats different people: his boss, his friends, family and most importantly how he treats people of a lower class or less fortunate than him.
a loving son and a Mommy's boy....women should be able to know the difference....
I still don't get what ur first comment meant! Send this poor lil fishie a PM and tell her!
I don't like feeling left out, it bad enough they wouldn't let me play with the other kids in school cause I would always talking about skinning people and then hanging their eyeballs on the wall! :-( I tell u...those kids were weird!
glad I gave you a laugh to start your day ;o)
Exactly, I mean how can u expect a guy to be nice to people outside his family if he can't treat his mother well ?
One way to show a woman that you are a genuine nice guy and win points with her is to treat your mother like gold. Most women have an understanding that the way a man treats his mother, is the way he'll treat his wife. If a man isn't nice to his mother, most women will see this as a sign that he is not to be trusted and won't make a good partner.
In other words...women want a MAN. All those "bad boys" aren't men at all. They're just immature kids.
My definition of a MAN is a guy who treats his lady like a princess, and knows her worth and should therefore be ready to protect her and their family at any cost, a MAN is a guy who u can depend on and know that he'll be there for u no matter what cause ur the most important thing in his life. A MAN doesn't only love u but also respects and admires who u are.
The question is...does a man like that still exist ? I'd like to believe so.
...want men who are nice to them (LADIES), but ALSO know how to hold their own when they are around other males.
More specifically, women want a man that is a "nice" guy when it comes to issues such as marriage, raising a family, treating a woman with respect, but they don't want to marry a man who is so "nice" that he acts like a wimp, or can't hold his own.
They also want to know that a man is "tough enough" to protect their woman if she is in a dangerous or threatening situation.
I am totally bushed with work lately...I sneak a peek at QL only at night time till I'm off from work...These days...FREE "time" is a "bliss" for me...
for the right "kermit" to come my way...no like kissing "frogs" along the way...lol
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I am a simple poor man. But it so happens that me and your hubb are from very close areas and very hot tempered and boil very quickly
Off for lunch and then nap and then (won't tell you) LALALALALa
For telling me this.
Wonder if you have checked my profile, so guess one of the two competitors will be terminated hehehehe
**Alexa said Nooooooo. don't ...
**Nooooooo. don't go......pretty please?????
**(This day is getting worse by the minute)
It reminds me of Shakespear's Julius Caeser
et tu Brut
(Then fall Caeser)
OK OK will try for another 36 hours.
Tomorrow, would like to invite you for 2 drinks at the Paloma:D
Then can tell where is the cure exactly
Just packing my things and bye bye
seeing is believing :)))))))))))
always finish last....women always want the rogues, must get them moist or something..
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I'm still laughing at Jauntie's first post :D
Those who want me to call them tomorrow PM me their numbers. ill make sure to pass them to mental hospital tomorrow and let them call you tomorrow and come pick you too for a lil electric shocks :/ am a nice guy right caring for ur mental disturbance :D
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in every individual's life when it comes to teens and jus after teens...have i found the right guy, have i found the right gal...
First thoughts, its very uncommon in these days to actually be finding 2 ppl trying to settle with what they have within each other at the moment in a single relationship...always they want to go out of their way to keep looking looking looking...for the "RIGHT" person...i guess its upto the individual to actually decide whats right and nice for him/her rather than complainin i havent got THE ONE...i jus read way few posts ago somebody was expressing...THANK GOD I M MARRIED TO A BAD GUY TURNED NICE GUY...now thats the way to be ladiess....or gents...vice-versa...take it easy...relax...if u r with a person try and see if u can find all the NICER things in him, if u dont find a few then try and compromise...if u dont find any...move on...u wud know that in a couple of meetings for sure...trust me...
So ladies and gents...have a fantastic day...i m sure for all u lovely ladies here on QL and ur freinds...there sufficient men around here...and NICE ONES...take a chance...the guys wont let u down so easily...dont worry...
NICER GUYS always wait for THEIR WOMEN TO FINISH THE RACE WITH THEM RATHER THAN FINISHING LAST OR FIRST...
CHEERS!!!
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r7...no need, we have a movie date upcoming right?...:P
wehehehehe...what i am sayin is yeah right, they do exist AT FIRST, but in the long run, as Darude is sayin they will beat the hell out of the gal (shoot! early in the morning full of negativisim over men...lol)..
and my buddy monty, with limitation..nice guys (?) would know when and how to chek on their gal without being a pain in the neck
nib..you are right on that statement...nice guys are somehow synanymous of being boring..:D (how to differentiate them? later will answer..have work now..lol)
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Nice Guy is the one who will beat the hell out of you in no time and will own ur soul for goooooooood. :/
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Owen I think they still do exist... should i pm u my number :P
u wud be bored of that kind of nice guys checking u everytime:p
what is the difference between being nice guy and a boring guy? a guy can be both or no?
Some gals will accuse us of spying on them or not giving them enough space
nice guys are in general gentlemens, checks on you every now and then, concerns of your emotions/feelings, listens, and hmmmmmm...am i being wishful thinker here? do they still exist? :D
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Math's Teacher: If you have 12 chocolates and you
give 5 to priya ,
3 to Anitha and
4 to kavitha
what will u get????
Student : 3 New Girlfriends Mam!!!
i cant decide wheter to be good guy or bad guy. someone pls help me..
Every Guy has a wild side to him no matter how "Nice" they seem ... without which every guy would just b really nerdy n BOOOOOOOOOOOrrriiiingggg ..... No for all u ladies who keep complaining about guys who r not boyfriend material n stuff tht's coz u always go for the boys with the cute smile n empty head :P
Nice guys don't always finish last Azi sometimes the nice guys end up on top and gets to look down at the "Bad boy" who he stepped on .....
you misinterpret me.. we all have our individual standard platforms. Kissing frogs is really meant to be 'getting into a mismatch' relationship where one gives more than the other, it is not all lip service.. and it i also for men too... they too have to kiss a few 'frogs' as it were... before 'she' comes along - it's life... finding the right mate
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
Good night.
Watch my nose prints at your window :D
I have a gem finder tool that would detect gems among 1001 azz wholes:)
.. meaning that it just happens!
oopps, no pun intended
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
U r wrong there are thoisands in this world who dont measure up to standards.... What are standards defined by you? Is it your opinion or some sort of subjective thing that one retains after kissing a hundred frogs--- its just like u r willing to jump into a prostitution racket to kiss all the frogs until prince charming turns up one day........
Life changes --- Is resisting to change natural or is it the quality of risk takers? Or are risk averse individuals take time to reach those standards?
it takes both of you to make a go at something. The feelings in all aspects have to be mutual, both of you willing to meet halfway. There is NO effort to do anything for the one you love
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
You did hurt me and I have to see my shrink soon.
Guess u will miss my ugly face here for a long period. Coz everytime I go to the shrink, his prescription would be just to avoid QL and more specifically not to talk with the girls here.
He told me just to hang out at The Pearl on Monday and Paloma on Wednesday
LALALALALAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
Just remember.. it's your choice to kiss those frogs while you wait for 'him' to come along - but somehow it's just not worth lowering yourself to someone who is not gonna lift up to your standards. If it's a frog with high standards in general, then why not - as long you know that 'this is not the one'. You will know 'him' when you see him...
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
I'm gonna hit the sack too. *yawns*
Take care and keep smiling!
I can offer u some company if u r feelng lonely....How abt that?
A nice guy actually wants to be your boyfriend and doesn't settle for less, or try to convince you to settle for less. It's been a hell of a long time since I've met a nice guy. :(
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Did I say that am nice gentleman :(((((((((
That would be insulting for me being the King of bad naughty boys (well ot boy any more)LOL
has found me, he ain't letting go
Now that I've found him I will be holding on too :)
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
No like getting "warts" either :-)
Seriously...we can see them frogs around...but it'll be like "kiss" and "miss" kinda thing? ...I'll rather wait for the right "rib-bit" to come along until I "croak" ...yaiks..frog jokes ;-))
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GTG for now...need to go home...see you tomorrow night...
but well worth the wait, I promise..
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
I don't understand what the prob is ... it's a nice, fun thread!
and you're so lucky/blessed to have someone who's sensitive, thoughtful and sweet...one of a few traits of a "nice guy"...
Isn't this all about that old saying 'you have to kiss an awful lot of frogs before you find your prince'?
for 'frogs' say 'bad boys'
I see our feisty Jauntie revving up...lol
I see what you are talking about now.
Kelly responded to something you said, and he replied "Alexa ...
Are you talking about me? Just dated jauntie :(((((((((((("
As in he was sorry he couldn't date you because he had said higher up that he would call me lol
:D
the men say that women should act like a lady on their arm, then let loose in the bedroom... so it should be with the men: the absolute gentlemen in public, and oh so sexy and open in the bedroom, giving his all to his lady...
Also: nice guys follow through on their promises. "I will call you tomorrow" means that he will do just that, and if he can't due to other things, like work, meetings, etc. then he does his utmost to let her know - most of us all have mobiles, a quick text message should be enough.
Mine phones me 3 x a day.... sometimes just to say 'hello sweetie, I love you' - if he can't then I get the text message to say he is unable to call...
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
To know how can nice guys square it off with the bad boys? ;-P
We (single)ladies need to know how we can find the "gems" in a huge pile stones...
Well a really subjective statement these days when will people show their true colors god knows the same applies to women too....
Thats where faith comes into perspective...
About what?
NOW I understand!
Give me the bad boy every time - don't wanna be messing about with creepy mother's skirt huggin' bouquet brandishing scaredy cat goody goodies.
On the other hand ..... I always dated the guys who had peddle bikes when the others had cars and was always terrified of the dangerous types who I knew I'd fall for and so avoided like the plague :D
It's supposed to come after the thread "Why Good girls Love bad Boys"...but got sidetracked...
is the one who waits for her... then it happens
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
hmmm Amazing stuff this internet malarkey, isn't it? Never saw his hands leave his body! (as the audience said of the magician)
YOU (A NICE GUY) date a girl you really like and you do everything right for this chick. You find time and means to know “all about her”, be a total gentleman like your mother taught you to be...
Next time, you call on the lady-love for another meet-up…she turns you down and hear her confess that she’s (either) seeing someone else or she’s enamored with some “jerk”- who never brings her to dates, don't return her calls and treat her like a S***T..
Is it enough to convince any sincere, sweet guy that he can’t win at love…and wonder why, at this present times, women still fall for the “bad boy” type? Or fight for his love and prove the knuckle-head girl he's a better choice...
BLUSH!
Simply BLUSH!
I'm sure you are the ultimate Nice Guy who will always come first where winning the girls is concerned.
And if you aren't, then let me know and I'll go and have a strict talk with them!
I think I made enough faux pars on this thread already! Now I'm in a hole I'm gonna quit digging :D
Isnt guys supposed to last? So what if the guy is last, if he lasts enough, then i think its a worthy race to run!
I dont know if i made sense, maybe i have started thinking in circles!
sigh!
so what is your definition of a 'nice' guy and a 'bad' guy. If you explain then maybe I can understand what you are getting at.
nice guy brings flowers; bad guy doesn't?
nice guy too soft with the gals; bad guy too hard (in their approach I mean)
nice guy loses gal to bad guy
I don't think I understand the question
finish last? huh?
I'm just not with it tonight ;o/
I just want to know how our nice guys can be at par with the "bad boys" without losing their "nice"-ness (is there such a word- yaiks!)
Are you talking about me?
Just dated jauntie :((((((((((((
Which marathon are you talking about :)
You always make me blush :D
I WILL call you tomorrow :P
But I think we are falling for our little friend Azi's double entendres.
Who was it who said 'OK! No more Mr Nice Guy'. Someone who decided he was losing out to the smoother bad guys when it came to getting the gals?
Is that how you meant the thread, Az?
Am I the only one who didn't get Jauntie's comment ? Arghhh...
Anyways a "nice" guy is just a down-to-earth, genuine guy with good intentions who u can trust and respects u for who u are.
And in my opinion, "nice" guys don't finish last...I think "nice" guys are the ones who actually finish cause although it might take them more time to find a woman, but they end up finding the right woman, unlike the "bad" boys who end up alone.
my experience is limited to high school journalism class I choose to escape doing geography & trigonometry....lol
Are you SURE you don't freelance as a writer for a 'Dear Marge' column in a teen magazine?
Or maybe collate all the posts under the threads you create to write articles in those magazines? Cos if you don't, then I think I may start printing up these threads and do just that! lol
GASP!
I didnt know i made JoanT's mom turn in her grave, sorry matey. I didnt mean it as a pun either, but i aint putting any notes in my post! Well, doubters can see for themselves, at their own risk!
:P
I really need to drop a few decades to join in these discussions :D
Believe me...no pun intended in my last post...
ROFL, Jauntie, methinks the thread is more innocent than you!!!
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Love is the answer...
But I TOTALLY disagree that it's bcoz of the "SIZE"...buddy :-P
You're just too shy...;-P
NOTE: wrong choice of word...sorry, jauntie
Or did my mother just turn in her grave for what her daughter just said :#
but the ones who know what they are doing, finish last - if not MUCH later!
Hi, my name is Mr. Nice. I finish last not coz i'm nice, but more coz of my size!
:)
P.S: I changed my mind. I didnt mean 'size' size!
just finish later.
It takes them a little longer to find that special someone that actually appreciate for who they are.
Herine ..So the nice guys are those who call next day
Have a nice time all the time !
why put off for tomorrow what u can do today ………..... night is still young ……lol
There are three sides to every argument: your side, my side and the right side
i will never ever call you :)
not even you azi :?
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herne can i call you tomorrow??? lol ...lol.....ha ha ho
Nice guys are honest, friendly, funny, faithful, understanding...and not that bastards which just take advantages of girls and tell them "I will call you". Nice guys say:" I will call you TOMORROW" and they really do.