Pls advise me to control my temper
I have this friend, he became nice to me lately......he bought me watch also...and i guess he wants favor from me...To come up to that, a favor he wants is to use my bedroom to date with his gf....I was with his wife last month and i always went out with her daugther in kids parties....I deal with his family because i respect him.......now, he has a nerves to use my bedroom????Does it mean that he does not respect me? He is billionare and having bussiness in Qatar and in his country....why can he not go for a hotel??????I am very furious this very moment and i can not focus on my work....Please anybody from you advise me what should and how should i handle this????? i am so angry.........
bring it onn...i'll be at the front of the line to be able to kick his ass...dont worry... say say no to him..if he doesnt listen.. tell me i will gladly kick him....
i'm so pissed off only by reading your post...i cant imagine if i actually see this guy...
relax retahman....take a deep breath...count 1-10, drink something that would comfort you, cold juice, water, tea or eat ice creaaaaaammmm .....this would make you control your temper and forget about this (for the time being)....
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"Only in Dreams never in reality"
Who said i am afraid???? Please think like standing bull not a sittiing bull....
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
haayyyyyyyyy(exhausted sigh) ....i will say NNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO......i will ...and i will not shout .....i will tell him in very peaceful way...I hope he will understand....thank you
Why are you so afraid of him if you have the money to rent room.house for yiu and yr family?
Unless he rentst the room/house for you......you may also be agnry because he is screwung someone else instead of you and just wanna make a scene in here. LOL
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
thanks..but wife can not visit my house personally to catch them....she fly to America with the daughter..... and even....Some friends sharing their rooms with other friends i understand also as they explain in PM but .....its diffrent with me....i understand...friendship but our friendship is not deep as that....we are only friend in bussiness....My friend can borrow my room to sleep but not to bring gf inside or not to bring bf indside...u knew what i mean???
Psychological point of view it looks like : Eg
You being the younger sister NOW you are not getting choclates, and more choclates and care are given to the elder one,
the way you have opened your mind looks like that
hope you got the point.
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
Why he will rent the house for me???? I have my own money to rent house for me and my family........ Thanks for the comments.....
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
Yes i will and i will talk to him nicely but if he will be the one getting upset i will screw him. He is weird and abnormal......im sorry, he is good before but because of urge, he doesn't have brains now, he have only ___in his mind
retahman...don't complicate it more....(you will suffer emotionally, sige ka)...say NO (no further explanations, as he would be so dumb if he would ask you "why?" and return whatever material things he gave)...then, for a while try not to see his family as you wouldn't want to get yourself in further troubles later on, would you?
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i agree with gypsy gal...give him the room, call his wife and do her a favour by catching im in the act..then she can take his money and find a man who will respect her...obviously this isnt a one off....
A couple went to a sex therapists office at ABC Hospital.
The doctor asked, "What can I do for you?"
The man said, "Will you watch us having sex, for your expert
analysis?"
The doctor looked puzzled, but agreed.
When the couple finished, the doctor said, "There's nothing wrong with the way you have intercourse, " and charged them Rs.300.
This happened several weeks in a row. The couple would make an
appointment, have intercourse with no problems, pay the doctor and then leave.
Finally the doctor asked, "Just exactly what are you trying to find
out?" The man said, "We're not trying to find out anything. She's married and we can't go to her house - I'm married and we can't go to my house.
The Hilton Qrs. 2500, Ramda Qrs.2000 , Le Meridian charges
Qrs.1500,
We do it here for Qrs.300, and I get that back from MediClaim
Tell ur friend for mediclaim
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
No i let him use my room and bed and bathroom........I tried not to mingle with his personal life...let him have his gf even i knew what that girl wants to himm....(I knew where the girl came from, He is using him, i saw her w/ other bf dropping her in work how many times/ This girl is not calling my friend but if she have probem for visa extension or no money or no load etc..he is calling and telling to him "I love you...i miss you.... you are hondsome.." Heck...how come my friend is homdsome? His body is as big as 2 drums????
hey retahnam.....
give him the keys and give me his wife/s number
rest I shall handle with care////
it will be the last time he will ask you the keys and room.
Just say no u cant accept.
...AS FOR YOUR TEMPER.... THERE R A LOT TEMPER CONTROL INSTITUTIONS AROUND. JUST TAKE YOUR TEMPER TO THE STREETS. THEY'LL BE CONTROLLED AUTOMATICALLY.
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"Only in Dreams never in reality"
I am angry..why he choosed my room to do sin? I am angry because i knew his family....I am angry because why he will buy me watch and exchange for my room??? I am angry......my apartment,,its my house,,,i can not imagine what they will do insie....I am cowboy i am not so delicate but i can not sleep in my bed, sit in my sofe, dance in my rug imagining things...i hope you knew what i mean...
And i need to harden my heart to be mad for so long until he will learn his lesson
I have this friend, he became nice to me lately......he bought me watch also...and i guess he wants favor from me... bla bla bla...
YOU HAVN'T TOLD US HE RENTED THE HOUSE FOR YOU ALSO.
YOU LACK BOTH THE GUTS AND THE BALLS.
GOOD LUCK.
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"Only in Dreams never in reality"
He is not Qatari he is not white also............he can do hotel ...he can do room ...but he is too much ichy picky......
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
Tha'ts te problem......he doesn't have balls to spend even 1 riyal for his personal necissities...he wants all free...... that's why ....i always have patients to himb being a friend and a partner but on this point.....this is the point of Return
If he is your friend he should not ask you to put yourself in this position - gifts mean nothing then he thinks he can use you.
He has a family to take care of already and no kind of urges permit him to be unfaithful to his family.
Money is not everything but character is.
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
thanks..you have point also.....but how if he will get angry.....and involve also our partnership in bussiness, he have bigger share than mine....but i am angry now.... if he wants to buy my share...let him but if he will understand my side also....there will be no problem
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
why i ruin my day with this kind of person???? but huhuhu....he ruined my morning already and i don't know what i am doing now........i am so hurt by this "friend" But i will tell him really No no no....actually, i texted him and call him in 20 mins.....i think they're just driving around
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
THat sayings i think is not fits on thios situation....i call him a friend because i am nice to him i am calling him brother and calling me sister.....
The thing is that he can not think straight because of his urge maybe.........uuummmmpppp
This guy is weird... it didn't sound like friends ...
Just return the things back and say no...
I agree with you, he definatly does not have balls. Then he can kick on his ASS TWO Time
"Keep Smiling"
Many people loose their self esteem when it comes to this...let him use it and give an anonymous call to his wife ..let her handle him...grrrrrr such men/women don’t deserve any respect or any friendship.
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
he does not have balls......................he is not a man and no principles
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
I will do that really......... and i will do it this afternoon...i can not wait for the time to go look for him
Many in this town would appreciaete you...
You can't teach experience...
Ask him to rent a Warehouse in Industrial Area. It is big and spaceous. Also Discreet. Just ask both of them to refrain from making noices. It will attact unwanted attention of the workers.
Are you angry because he asked you for the room or because he is cheating on his wife and family?
Sorry i'm a monogomous person...
But just say no is good enough.. and give him back his gifts if he is only giving you the gifts because he want the room....
Goodluck and do be mad for to long....
Look at the sun and the shadow shall fall behind you...
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
I want to kich his big stomach.....he doesn't have balls.....If he have, why they will not go in hotel or pay 1 room for 1,500 to 2,000 (that amount is only dirhams compared on his profit monthly?)...and he is not ashame to go and ask my key to my brother...my brod ask "wait i need to inform her"...he replied "no. she will not mind.".......so my brother call me spend his load to fight with me....."I can not enter your apartment with out your permission and why your bussiness assciates telling me that you will not mind?" so i am also worried because i hurt my brod...............darude, he doesn't have balls to kick off....
That we adore...
We can do that
You can't teach experience...
Looks like this is the hot topic this morn
You can't teach experience...
But Qatari or other can't chance that...
Neither will the girl...
You can't teach experience...
He can rent my flat for 2000K an hour???
You can't teach experience...
If it is a large hotel and she comes in after him and just goes to his room it is not necessary to show the marriage document.
the gifts, explain firmly that you respect both him and his family and wouldn't like to become involved in his "affair" and spoiling friendships.
Tell him to rent lovers flat...
Cheaper than hotel anyway...
You can't teach experience...
don't loose your temper, just say no to him. why ruin your day or weekend with this kind of friend.
do as directed by DARUDE and recommended by t2s...
learn to say a big "NO" when required..will make life much easier for u.....
Is this person really your friend?
Do you know the saying?
Show me who your friends are I will tell you who you are!!!
I would think about this
"Only in Dreams never in reality"
I was just trying to make good things for him and his family but not to the extend that they will go in my apartment and use my bedroom...and this gf....i hate her she dont know even how to say hello to me....and she is going inside my house???? Is she not ashamed????
go straight to the point..."NO!..you cannot and will not" if he bought material things for you...then return it, tell him that this does not work this way....and that you respect his family...
shameful...very shameful, he should be with himself...
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I agree with you Dardude even better after that kick his ass
kick his balls.
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I really dont understand wat kind of ppl are there in this world.....
just say him "NO' n why to friend with cheater like this...
really dont understand....