depressed..101
By prettyice2007 •
“I start to feel like I can’t maintain the facade any longer, that I may just start to show through. And I wish I knew what was wrong. Maybe something about how stupid my whole life is. I don’t know. Why does the rest of the world put up with the hypocrisy, the need to put a happy face on sorrow, the need to keep on keeping on?... I don’t know the answer, I know only that I can’t. I don't want any more vicissitudes, I don't want any more of this try, try again stuff. I just want out. I’ve had it. I am so tired. I am twenty two and I am already exhausted.” -14..:(
Why all the time you are telling what i am thinking?!!
:-)
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Light travels faster than sound.
This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak
Behold the Smokester is finally back in QL after a long time away tending to "personal issues" lol. Damn Dr.Ksarat is upto his old tricks again of pretending to help depressed ladies eh?
Anyways Prettyice trust me on this when i tell u that i've just been there done that, and feeling depressed isnt going to solve anything. Surround urself with ur close friends and when ur alone just CRY it out. different people have different ways to deal with depression, just dont keep urself alone, talk it out with ur friends. Like i've told my good friend Ksarat before "Even a Wise man cant take his own advice at times" so u need to share ur troubles with others, and look at things from their point of view too.
That being said dont depress urself further by pm'ing ksarat he's just looking for people to pay for his coffee dates! Me on the other hand have more evil intentions....oops did i just say that out loud?
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Well Khanan...
Regarding "The Magic of Communication" i think we need a Ksarat or DaRuLe that can communicate to one and all, irrespective of barriers of sex,language, education, demographical and cultural differences.
And both of them have the powers to play this role, in the same way that it entertains all and sundry, age and language being no barrier.
LOL...sorry I was just kidding, thats a very valid point you were talking!!!
There are people out there who might think you have it ALL...think about them and spend your time with them so as to get your self-confidence back...and GET BACK ON THE GROOVE!!!
remedy fr depression; make ur self socialise; help poor ;make friends;pets;there r people who needs help u can help them with ur talents,read great p[eople biographys
The magic has been unleashed on QL my friend...the Magic of Communication...LOL!!!
And as I have always said, we 4 can make a damn good team PLS NOTE...FOR THE LADIES!!!
i had on my finger will show you tonight lol
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Dont be selfish...I told you, I already have a therapy where I Will be sending all of them to you, if they are good and curable let them into the QLSG if they are not then end their life and dont bother about sending them back to me or Smoke...LOL!!!
i still didn,t get wat the hell happened....????
i was worried about my ......??? you knew it...
well i never asked about your hand...how are they??
and tell you one thing it was adventure to get that cake..
lol..KSA....i m in your league....but you know i have to learn alot to come out with writings like yours......:)
post hijackeed by the masters!!!!!
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If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.
come to me and will make sure to end your life in 1 second :D
Yesday Khanan was saved by a tiny bomb damn it blasted in my hands.
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FS...WTF...hell no they arent being spared...what crap, just bcos Khanan is married doesnt put him out of this counsel office, he is always there with his timely cheeky dialogues and ofcoure then me or smoke have to intervene reminding of the ring on his finger otherwise that finger is gng up his azz.LOL!!! And DaRude is a Rare species...what crap...well he is running the QLSG where I m gng to send few of my clients you seee....so he aint going to be spared also...but yes overall, thanks for the good read compliment... and yes if I am up for it, I can do a damn good job, but now its time for the 2 girls to get their azzes in and read all the crap that I put up...LOL!!!
Dracula...well you know me atleast an idea about me by now, there aint any damn thing in the world thats FREE my friend...LOL!!!
azzi
She/he is "twenty two and already exhausted".
Do you give him/her any chance?
This quote-threat belongs to Elizabeth Wurtzel an american author and actress.
Liz told us : "The biggest problem that women have is being ambivalent about their own power, ... We should be comfortable with the idea of wielding power. We shouldn't feel that it detracts from our femininity.”
Azzi:
That's the thing about depression: A human being can survive almost anything, as long as she sees the end in sight.
But depression is so insidious, and it compounds daily, that it's impossible to ever see the end.
The fog is like a cage without a key.
Then better shoot yourself!!!
" LOL...naaa well I better get their PMs...soon...LOL!!!"
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no more pain for poor 2 ladies...
last night i was very busy :)
now i am "full tank" and tired!
Good morning.. interesting read buddy..
you should seriously think of opening a counseling centre soon..you can mint money. We are in need of good counselors in Doha LOL
Please spare Khanan he don’t fit in your and smoke’s category LOL and our Darude is a rare species LOL
hi prettyice..stop sulking within the 4 corners of your home. you need a break! get out and get more life in you. dont let this feeling nail you. theres so much thing in this world to be happy with.
and as they all say...BE POSITIVE!
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
Well apart from touching I hope the two ladies see this and you know something something happens...LOL...naaa well I better get their PMs...soon...LOL!!!
Morning...QLGC lovely members!!!
Touching, ksa!
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Light travels faster than sound.
This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak
How can I ever forget your lazy azz...never and ever brother...LOL...
Well arent we few here...just for refreshing the depressed souls and all of the few of us to have some good laugh and some good fun company paaji...i seriously have to thank you all for being a part of my life...I'm not sentimental, I'm not crying, I'm not Dull, its just something that I wanted to say to all of you...
DaRude, Khanan, Smoke ( Well I pretty much know that all the 3 of you and meself sound like the Gay Community...LOL) but you guys are just so wonderful to know buddies...Ladies dont get upset, I was talking about the few MEN in here...you ladies know you are all a part of me...LOL!!!
to make depressed soul refresh....
and my name in the article make it even more interesting....
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If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.
Well Paaji,
Wasnt it a good read anyways...tell me that...
Good morning pajee....
How you write all these...?
qiute a read....
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If you look at what you do not have in life;
You don't have anything.
If you look at what you have in life;
You have everything.
Crisis Intervention for a 22 yrs old girl, hell no,,, her Crisis Intevention dont you think can stop at ME...LOL!!!
Go to the crises intervention in Rumailah Hospital the can do wonders for you.
try to look on a bright side of your life trash all the negative things! Opportunity often disguise as hardwork...
PRettyIce: Hmmmm, ch ch ch ch, you are only 22 and you are depressed...
You know girl, sometimes staying in a place which is not HOME, which is away from your friends and family, can get to you, but I think it is just at this time that you need to look up even higher(not when you are driving though, keep your damn eyes on the road...LOL!) but yea you need to keep pushing forward and striving through the strong waves of Depression that are pushing you to the coast where you cant be able to swim freely (makes sense, I hope,LOL!) but you need to fight thru and get to the middle of the ocean (of Happiness) so that you can sleep well, dream well, and wake up to a NEW AND BEAUTIFUL AND OFCOURSE EXCITING TOMORROW!!!
Trust me, stay positive, it works, if you dont believe me try this little excersise ( i always quote this when I see people tell me they are depressed and unhappy and disturbed), think of something that has happened to you in your life that is so beautiful and absolutely fun (could be your friends gathering, your family gathering, the birth of your new-born family member, something that is memorable and absolutely delightful), after having thought about this, try and I bet on this girl, TRY TO GIVE YOUR FACE A DULL LOOK, A GRIN, A LOOK THAT IS NOT HAPPY, HELL NO YOU WOULDN'T BE ABLE TO DO IT BUDDY!!! Because you are already thinking of something that is real good...
In other words, dont listen to your heart when you are depressed, cause the HEart is more sensitive, think with your brains on, you tell your brain how to feel...not the other way round...
Hope this helps...if this all doesnt help, I told you the other day as well, my PM Inbox is open, my coffee dates calendar is a bit open for now (if you are paying the bill that is) and you could always send me a PM, LOL!!! And ofcourse you could always join in on our regular QLSG Meetings, and trust me, we are like the BEST COUNSEL OFFICE in TOWN TO BRING ANYONE's AZZ UP TO BEING WITH A SMILE I TELL YA!!!
And for you Stress-in-babel, well your damn name is itself in a freaking stress I say...hmmm...no friends, no this, no that is something that you said...
Well girl *sneaking into your profile quickly*, aah yes GIRL, come on mate, its been just a few hours that you have joined QL, so first of all, Welcome to QL, and you have reached the right place on QL, to cheer up, the KSA Counsel Office, and I am recommending as a treatment to the DaRude's QLSG Therapy weekly once or twice to be taken only in the Evenings...after that we shall start continue your treatment with the KSA's Coffee Date Calendar (You Pay the Bill ofcourse) or the Smoke's Pussy......CAT Lapdance Therapy...Trust me they are all a part of the continuous treatment which is prescribed for all the ladies who are quite depressed by the QatarLiving Members Association, where Khanan is the Chief Finance Officer...
Away from all this, seriously if you look into what I said, you would find that, you need to join us on the gatherings to make some friends, if you are in a hurry, then you could always remember (and this is handy information) my Inbox capacity has just been upgraded to have more PMs...LOL!!!Come on people, cheer up, heads up...and Move Forward,
Trust me, there is so much to life than what we normally keep seeing, its all in the power of the DREAMS that you see at night, wake up to a new and fresh morning ( i know the weather at the moment is s5it but thats alright), and come on girls, keep those smiles on, you know I like you'll with those Smiles on...LOL!!!
Seriously, CHEER UP and HAVE A LOT OF FUN, Cos you only get ONE SHOT AT LIFE, and then again, if you dont have the present times to think about and cheer up, then this is the only time that you would have to take a step into the PAST and recall those lovely memories and smile upon them...IT WORKS MAGIC PEOPLE!!!
AND OFCOURSE< ME THE MAGICIAN ALSO HELPS!!!
Have a Fantastic Day!!!
And remember, we are all here to look out for each other, so stop worrying, stop complaining, cos trust me the people who can make a difference in the actual form, arent able to listen, we are the ones listening, so OBEY US !!! LOL!!!
No anxiety there then.. lol.
I'm just talking about when your sense of humour really does pack its bags and leave the building.
First and foremost, I'd advise getting hammered with some good mates. Sometimes it just takes the company of your pals or your family to make you laugh at yourself.. but what if P'ice doesn't have that luxury?
Gosh, this is gloomy. Where's Drac gone?:)
But am the opposite. When it comes to stress and hypocracy. I LMAO, do not feel depressed, do not give up, do not feel tired. Wonder if this is an indication of a sudden collapse.
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It's all over the news in the UK at the moment about young women being prescribed and consequently becoming addicted to antidepressants- when all they have is serious PMT.
Check your hormones aren't going mad... and even if they are, do some writing. Write a heartfelt poem or something about what's really bugging you. Guaranteed you'll vomit a little later on at what you wrote, but it does help at the time:) And it also makes you realise next time you feel like this, that life is just a series of up and down swings.
I always take comfort when I'm really low that it must mean there are some wicked times ahead. And I'm usually right;)
Get some kip and be good to yourself.
Oh yeah, and remember that nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition..
x
gee Dracula, you are really insensitive in this thread..keep your jokes to a lighter thread....obviously
prettyice is in a bad state and your advice s**cks.....
Im glad others were sensitive.....
Your advise, is more familiar of a Superior Mother perch in a convent window, yelling her orders at the group of disorderedly nuns....
Good Advise from you...
President Bush,In a message to Tehran, he said: "You bet you have a sovereign right, absolutely, but you don't have the trust of those of us who have watched you carefully when it comes to enriching uranium."
He is a ghost:)
"RAKIJA connecting people"
got yaaaa...
M....m
G....a
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dont wory I'm still your buddy
if u die everybody in qatarliving will know that there is for sure life after death and that ghosts do come back to shoot people. spooky...
ok, deal!
after you shoot yourself, please shoot me!
ok?
u really don't think qatar is stressful? :/
noooo, not again!!!
Somebody to shoot ME!
Living in Qatar makes me head ache and I'm slowly falling into depression. I have no friends, no job, no ways to have fun, no hopes for better. :((
What you need to do is spend time alone being honest with yourself to really get to the root of what is bothering you.
Maybe you should get some counselling if you feel that drastic.
You can run but you can't hide.
wow! thank you guys for all the best advises...
God bless you all....PEACE..
**if yOu love sOmeOne tell tHem bEcause hEarts are oftEn brOke by wOrds left unspOken**
TRUE friends, you mean. NOT friends that uses you.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
wat u need is a lot friends
pretty maybe you deserve a chance!
Seems you can stil faith for yourself.
You may have never done it before, but you know you can do it.
That's faith in yourself.
"The greater our faith, the better we become," said Earl Nightingale.
should write ourselves positive notes, and put them on the mirror, just for this very circumstance. "I am positive." "I believe in myself." "I have faith in myself." "I am capable of accomplishing anything." "I am worthwhile." "I am loved."
Without faith in our worth and in our abilities, we can't accomplish anything.
"If a person believes he's not much of a person, that's what he is,"
Our faith -- or lack thereof -- becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, forever to determine our future.
It can lay the groundwork for exciting, vibrant days to come, or can forever condemn us to becoming an also-ran; a has-been; or, worse yet, a "never-was."
In order to succeed, it is essential we build up the faith we have in ourselves, or develop faith if none currently exists.
GOOD LUCK!
NEXT TIME, NO MERCY! :p
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Everybody should believe in something. I believe I'll have another drink."
-- W.C. Fields
...that I almost wanted to commit suicide. A miracle happened. The truth DID set me free AND friends didn't let me down.
There is proof that because you don't cheat that doesn't mean you always suffer. Miracles happen. I am now my own proof.
And stay away with my serious post, drac.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
saw your comment. understand how you feel. I felt the same way. anyway this is 1st time I am doing this. buf if you feel like losing hope, how about some or few dreams of yours? write them down.
thanks for making me feelin better...
**if yOu love sOmeOne tell tHem bEcause hEarts are oftEn brOke by wOrds left unspOken**
Feeling depressed, can't see the light at the end of the tunnel...... Lift your head up and notice the world around you. There is alot going on that will show you the hope out there.
Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes.
- Ben Franklin
Deal.Alcohol
And Bloody Mary phone number!
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"Look aroud and you'll see that there are people worse off than you.."= Ahem,ahem... me???
You're only 22.. You've got your whole life in front of you..
Look aroud and you'll see that there are people worse off than you..
Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...
And...always look on the bright side of life...
Always look on the light side of life...
life is cool if u take it in the right way .. it is just that u have to go thru it properly .. every thing that gilters is not gold //and not all gold gilters ..
filter ur friends .. chose the best and humble .. and always keep in mind give some time to relax ur mind ..
if narcotics aren't available then try alcohol. it cures everything!
As i too gets these DEPRESSION attacks more frequently now than before.
Women are more open in expressing their thoughts and emotions ..sometimes WE cry over petty things...
Just direct her to the right group...QATAR BLOGS.
Go get yourself an ICY COLD "BLOODY MARY"...to cool your hot blood. :-P
Can't offer you my small tub of Hagan daaz here...lol
thought a vicissitude was a fizzy drink!
You must be low blood now coz you're cranky :-?
just a suggestion...hope you don't mind :-)
Shoot yourself!
You're lost!