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What If We Responded to Sexual Assault by Limiting Men’s Freedom Like We Limit Women’s?
Posted on January 10, 2013 by Amanda Taub
Calls for Men to Be Blindfolded in Public
In response to claims that men are unable to restrain themselves from committing rape if they see women in skimpy clothing, members of law enforcement agencies around the country have called for men to blindfold themselves when they are in places where they might encounter a female wearing a tank top or a short skirt.
“For years, we have been told that men don’t understand how to respond to the sight of a woman wearing, say, gym clothes – that as far as they are concerned, if they can see the outline of her body, then that’s an invitation to sex that they are simply unable to refuse,” said one police chief. “If that’s true, then we have no choice. We want women to be safe, and there is apparently no way for some men to reasonably restrain their own behavior once they catch a glimpse of cleavage, so all men will have to cover their eyes while working out, going to bars or clubs, or relaxing at the beach.”
Popular radio “shock jocks” Skeezer and the Gooch have gone even further, arguing that men should be blindfolded at all times while in public, on the grounds that “it’s not just skimpy outfits, some dudes get turned on by random stuff like women wearing athletic jerseys and sneakers,” making situation-specific blindfolding insufficient to preserve women’s safety.
Unwise to Allow Men to Go Out Alone at Night?
A local coalition of religious leaders, concerned about recent studies showing that an average of 6% of men will commit a sexual assault during their lifetime, and that nearly all sexual assaults are committed by men on their own or in groups, are urging parents not to let their sons go out at night unless they are accompanied by a mother, sister, or trusted female friend.
Mens’ groups have responded with concern, pointing out that this may leave some men unable to complete the tasks of daily life, such as going to school, working, or socializing.
In response, the religious leaders said that they “understand that this may be an inconvenience for some men,” but that “the minor difficulties this imposes on men are nothing when compared to the lifelong horror sexual assaults cause their victims.” “Really,” said the organization’s leader, “almost any limitation on men’s freedom is better than the risk that they might sexually assault someone. That’s just common sense.”
Time to Admit That Some Jobs May Just Be Too Dangerous for Men?
Recent allegations that Jimmy Savile raped numerous children while working as a television presenter for the BBC, have led to widespread calls for television stations to avoid allowing men to do similar jobs.
“We know that not all men are rapists, and that some men can probably be trusted to present tv shows safely,” said the director of Televisions Within Borders, a professional group that promotes the welfare of TV hosts and the people they cover. “However, now we know that some men can’t. And why take the risk? There are plenty of qualified women who can do this job instead.”
Voices from the blogosphere agree. “You wouldn’t send a cocaine addict to do a Good Morning America segment about a big pile of cocaine,” said a blogger who calls himself “UltimateMindz.” “Letting men be TV presenters is basically the same thing.” That post has since been shared more than 180 times on twitter, and has garnered nearly 2000 Facebook “likes.”
Supporters of this movement point to the fact that there has not been a single recorded case of a football coach raping a child since all college football coaching staff were replaced by women after last year’s Penn State abuse scandal.
Deans of 25 prominent journalism schools have taken a more moderate position, however, urging television programs to do more segments on bodybuilders and military contractors – subjects who are seen as safe for male presenters to interact with because their physical strength leaves them less vulnerable to assault. That way, the deans argue in a widely-circulated letter, male presenters may be able to remain in their jobs, albeit in a role with less visibility and almost no opportunity for advancement.
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Nor the eggs and the fingers of your hand are not the same as their length is different
An open minded people will not put all people in the same basket
It is not correct to judge people by their appearance
i can see the sticking of topic to arab terrorist :/
hello highness how r u , did u have dinner :)
ah theo, than he is not so far off....:P
LP dont u feel scared ur in an arab country
theo...how many eyes does he think you have?????
why only arab LP a asian man or western man in a beard is not terrorist ?
How can you tell that i'm a troll? Does a NEW account with few post automatically means i'm just trolling?! And what's your basis that i'm just here to get the male's attention huh?! Well if SOME of you has mentality such as tahsinmin, i think i joined the WRONG forum to research about Qatar since it will be my FIRST TIME to work overseas...
Tahsinmin is a possible reason why there are BAD IMPRESSIONS towards a certain culture or nationality..
If my posts here will only be treated maliciously and i'd be disrespected, i'd better just leave this forum and find other SITES where I can learn more about qatar and where people knows how to respect somebody else!
I'm SO DISAPPOINTED! :-(
but not a stare when it comes to man or woman as some said it is rude, so if it is rude why should some one do it?
Indeed, I need to look at everything so I can find my way!
I understand your meaning. I don't stare as I consider this to be rude, however I notice men and women around me regardless of what they are wearing, and I don't see anything wrong with that.
If I lower my gaze, how will I be able to see if a perverted man is about to attack and try to rape me?
and can you and your friends comments on the ten points I wrote.
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But do all men thinks in good way and will control them selves?
I suggest let us make the ten points which I wrote few hours back as a pool and later we will see how much here in QL agree in the points I wrote 1-10
I totally agree on this. Women wear clothes that boost our confidence and make us feel good. We don't intend to seduce/lure/crave for attention by wearing "revealing clothes". Girls just want to have fun that some men can't resist or feel tempted with! :-)
-POV
the way i see it, rationalizing for, debating for and questioning the definitions of the term rape itself is almost the same like.. defending it!
wtf is going on with you guys?!
rape is rape. it must me condemned, eradicated.
women (same with women) do not deserve to be raped. no questions asked!
and you call yourselves MEN?!
Say if you agree on these points or know:
1. A drunk guy may think badly and rape an innocent woman with disregard to her dress
2. A woman or a girl who wear a sexy dress in a part or on the road will let some men who look at her think badly and some of them might dare to follow her and wait for the chance o rape her.
3. Not choosing good friends and staying with a group who does know the right things from the wrong things.
4. Lack of education
5. Lack of of good values
6. Staying in an environment which have no respect to women.
7. Bad websites
8. Absence of strong punishment for rapists.
9. Staying in a broken family will give a probability of raising children in a wrong way which will harm the community and one of these children might become rapist or a drug dealer
10. The woman and the girl who speaks with strangers in a seductive way (un respected) might put her self in danger of being raped.
These questions were asked were asked here in this post but not answered:
1. What is the definition of Rapist?
2. Does the fashion designers make some dress which can make some women look sexy?
3. If the woman wear sexy dress and here husband or boy friend gets excited then is it possible if some other men see her get excited and might think badly?
4. How does the mechanism of rape starts?
5. If start by a number of factors then what are the easiest factors to over come them and how?
fellow men, why so defensive?
why can't we just say that let us respect and protect women whatever they wear, whatever they think etc etc?
women must me protected, respected and cared for like every other human being in this planet. period. geez!
@ Miss Mimi
Just going through your thread and the subsequent replies to various comments that you've posted. Your statements are contradictory to one another:
"The whole world doesn't follow Islam" - Agreed, so it's not about religion then. Rapes have taken place in all parts of the world regardless of the religion.
But then you say "In other countries, no. A woman can go out and wear a mini skirt and not be stared at like a piece of meat. Sure she might get appreciative glances. Nothing wrong with that, women give them to men to, it's natural. But not stared at the way men stare here" so my question is which countries are you talking about? As earlier you yourself admitted that rapes has been happening everywhere regardless of religions or regions.
And ya at one instance you talked about "Nuns getting raped too"
So which country was it? So it was not "here" right?
Bashing someone without facts and confusing statements, won't help you defend your statements.
Though i like the intent of your topic but really you need to be clear first in what you say.
And sure dangerous if continues between the two without pure intension to have clean relation ship where both are loyal to each other.
nomerci...nah, I am not insinuating....that was a response in general without limiting it to 'here'..:)
To answer my question if combustion engine in a car can be manufactured repeatedly without understanding the principles of how to manufacture a combustion engin?
Also here some tips Miss Mimi
Repeating stares with a thinking after the stare will give a probability to spoil the mind of the man who stares some will say why?
It is simple did not see a woman infront of him will he be attracted to her?
Next question is interesting
When a man sees a woman and each of them get attracted to each other from the first look, what causes this attraction to happen?
I believe it is the staring of both of them towards each other
As there is no reply
Engine because he is the one who made it burn the and convert it to energy so the car operates. Now our body can be resembled as car which receives fuel (food and drink) to convert it to energy (calories) and it hen our body function properly, so who manufactured our body? Is it the Mother Nature? What is the definition of the Mother Nature ? Where did the Mother Nature came from? Did it come from nothing?
Forget the above questions, as the main question to you Thelonius is can something be manufactured repeatedly without understanding?
Could a combustion engine manufactured without understanding how to manufacture it?
About the combustion engine in the car, yes it is not necessary how it functions to drive a car, and this answer is from what you said in the previous comments in this thread.
Your recent replies here indicates you agree 100% that it is not necessary to see something to verify it exists.
I will give you simpler questions:
1. If you do not know how to write English does this mean there is no English language?
2. If the evidences that there is a country called Australia not with you does this mean this there is no country called Australia?
See Thelonius when you said no body understand physics quantum, this means that quantum physics can not be used to explain how things work, a man with a good way of thinking will refer to things which have an explanation and will not refer to things which do not have explanation.
Happygolucky, let us be precise and truthful here .THIS is what was said...slight difference to what you are insinuating :
. The issue here is what's BEHIND those stares. There's looking at a woman and thinking "Gosh she's good looking, I wouldn't mind having sex with her if she'd let me." and continuing on your way and there's staring at a woman with the thought "If I could only get her alone I'd rape the crap out of her." The latter is how men look at you here, and it's because they haven't been raised to respect women.
Read more: http://www.qatarliving.com/node/9019521?page=2#ixzz2IFLTCAq9
There can be a car but it is not necessary for me know it functions if it helps me to achieve my works.
Can you know 100 % or 50 % what a writer wants to say if you can not understand at all his writhing and what he wants to say?
I am happy that women on board have given their acceptance for a deep long stare so far it doesnt culminate into a rape. Fair enough..:) out to find someone for it with a print out of these pages, just in case...:)
Can you know 100 % or 50 % what a writer wants to say if you can not understand at all his writhing and what he wants to say?
Also the below question is to Miss Mimi
Why in this post you say men are not animal and previous topics you insist that we are animals? Are you contradicting your self?
Thelonius you sayed "no body understand physics quantum" then how come physics quantum or quantum physics be used to explain things?
Because if no one understand then how can the explanation be true and verified?
Are you sure I have not seen a car?
Tell me is it necessary to see a car to a driving license?
What should we do to get the license?
Either drive a car or make a simulation.
You say " my very best friend" and this means a very small percentage of Qataris and not all of them.
I will answer your question I can get a driving license without seeing a car by paying money if I want and I will not do this kind of payment at all.
Come on are you serious.... At the beach, pools etc etc... And yes I look as I have eyes and that's what they're for...
let him drink he has betrayed sumone he is washing his sins
I saw them strolling down the street, he was wearing a bathing suit she wasn't... Isn't this the norm here??
So why do I see men wearing bathing suits, and their wives fully covered simmering in the heat?
I mean to each their own, wear what you want, I have no issues, but again it's the way it is because of MEN....
Tahsinmim, and that is exactly what I shall do from now on.:)
and Canada will disagree with you, as in the life there is always areas which are gray.
There things which are right and things which are wrong and things which are in between how many of you agree on this?
Things which are doubtful some time may hurt us if we try to discover them do you agree on this?
if a lady is in FULL VIEL today and in a BIKINI the next day does she become Beautiful
So, to make a very long story a little shorter.
What the men and some women here are saying is this: If a woman wears sexy clothes she must not be surprised if and when she gets raped.It is her fault, as men can't control their urge for sex if they see a sexy looking woman. and that is perfectly ok.
Now, what can we conclude from this :
This is the reason why women in certain areas on this planet have to go to extreme measures to cover themselves...because the men have no respect for them as people, they have (some do) respect for what they wear.
Hmmmmmm.....
Tahsinmim, can you please stop to degrade people for what they do or do not believe .It is cheap and tacky and smacks of ignorance.
"Nobody "understands" Quantum Physics" then how people can speak and use things they do not understand to explain things.
My question to you Thelonius:
How can you understand what does the writer wants to say if you do not understand what he/she is writing?
Thelonius assume this valuable and expensive thing is in your house and you know it is very valuable and expensive will you break it it for no reason
Some men can not control their disgusting urges towards women, regardless what we are wearing.....Solution blindfold.
Men can wear whatever they please, so why can't we? Again because some men are perverts, and can't control themselves. So tell me why should we women have to suffer the right of wearing what we want when we want, because certain men can't control their disgusting urges? You're the ones with the problem, not us...
By the way how much you are speciallized in physics quantum?
25 % or 50 % or 75 % or 100%
do not see something wrong if a woman goes to a mall in USA or CANADA in bikini dress.
This is the way she think so let it be and the same time she should not be against those who have different opinion.
Miss Mimi I ask you:
if you have something very very valuable and expensive in your home will you allow to be broken for no reason?
"Men are not animals"
and many of your previous posts you wrote:
"We are animals"
one sentence contradict the other one, this proves that you are contradicting your self Miss Mimi.
What next .. Chop of our THINGS so that you can roam around naked ??
yeah right !
miss mimi suppose u r in a full viel today - 17/1/13
tomorrow u will be in a bikini for example - 18/1/13 will u look more beautiful on this day
No parents teach the men to be pervs and stare.
according to u women who expose are beautiful, a woman needs to be beautiful from her heart not her body
all rapist had bad parents teachers and surroundings who did not teach them how to control?
Yup. There parents or their culture did not teach them to respect women.
Are you gay BG that you don't think an attractive woman in a bikini looks good?
So you want me to believe that all rapist had bad parents teachers and surroundings who did not teach them how to control?
Are we lagging still about resources which teach men to respect women?
I dont think so.. we have almost all these resources..
Practically if you ask men say at least 6 out of 10 they will say that they dont get any provocative lusty feelings when they see a women properly dressed in public.
miss mimi were is the beauty when one is in a bikini its just a piece of body showing off
No. Every man can control regardless of what a woman wears. Men are not animals. Have more respect for your own gender.
Some women yes BG.
I am not talking about a single women I am talking globally...if we want thieves to respect others property, rapist to respect other women and so on...why we have laws prisons and punishments...why governments are spending so much of money...cuz evil feeling are naturally bounded in human...which is not predictable in some situations..
If you are 100% of something then you can try what ever you like but in case if you are not sure you have to be prepared...
If you wanna go out in direct sunlight and dont wanna wear proper sunscreen and you want sun not to destroy your beauty it is obsoletely irrational...nature has signs for us to learn...
mimi u mean a bikini makes a woman look beautiful
because I believe that all men have feelings and some get excited and control it and some can not.
EVERY man can control it. They need to be taught to from the time they are babies that it's not appropriate to hurt women. THAT is the way to stop rape, not covering women.
here is what you wrote earlier
1. A sick mantality can cause the rape case to happen do you agree? Yes
2. Education of the negative consequences of raping can help to reduce the raping case do you agree? Yes
3. A woman who is being raped is a victim of sick men in many times do you agree? Yes
4. A woman dress can be sexy and it can excite some men do you agree? Yes
5. These excited men not all of them will control their excitation and just go away do you agree? Yes
6. A proper dress can some times reduce the chances of a woman to be raped? No
7. The man who decide to rape should think that this might to one of his family (mother, daughter, sister, wife) do you agree? Yes, but it doesn't happen
8. A strong punishment rules can reduce effectively the rapists from hurting women do you agree? No
To lessen rape we should:
blindfold men
Not allow them out unattended by female family members
Not allow them to work in certain fields were they will have contact with women.
6 questions you said yes and 2 questions you said no and this means your opinion is in line 75% with my opinion.
just one question will a woman look less beautiful in full veil , or will she look more beautiful in a bikini
Depends on the woman. I've seen some stunners in veil with that beautiful eye makeup who are easily as sexy, if not sexier, than a woman in a bikini, and vice versa.
" There's looking at a woman and thinking "Gosh she's good looking, I wouldn't mind having sex with her if she'd let me." and continuing on your way"
That's ok. That is a natural, respectful way for a man to react to seeing a pretty girl. He wouldn't MIND having sex with her (because it's natural for straight men to want to sleep with women) BUT only if she is interested to.
because I believe that all men have feelings and some get excited and control it and some can not.
just one question will a woman look less beautiful in full veil , or will she look more beautiful in a bikini
is acceptable?
I don't need to do a case study Straight Arrow, if most women would kill for diamonds there'd be a hell of a lot of dead women lying around.
Straight Arrow you contradict yourself with every single sentence.
for a percentage of woman which might be high, but the word Most applies for the majority which is higher than many, did you make a case study and reached this conclusion for what you wrote?
HGl, I could care less if a man stares at me. The issue here is what's BEHIND those stares. There's looking at a woman and thinking "Gosh she's good looking, I wouldn't mind having sex with her if she'd let me." and continuing on your way and there's staring at a woman with the thought "If I could only get her alone I'd rape the crap out of her." The latter is how men look at you here, and it's because they haven't been raised to respect women.
landoverreview, I've worn them in Kenya, I've worn them in Mexico, Egypt, Vietnam, Sri Lanka, India....any other 3rd world countries you want me to mention?
The woman type of dress is one of the factors which can let her be raped by some sick men with sick mantality, normal men will not rape a woman for what ever she dresses, a normal man will just see any woman wearning modes dress or not and will just go away without saying or doing anything to her.
But I will always believe that dress type can cause women to be raped but at the same time this does not give any man to rape a woman for what she dress.
RAPE SHOULDNOT BE DONE TO ANY WOMAN WHAT EVER SHE WEARS BUT UNFORTUNATELY THE DRESS TYPE SOME WOMEN CHOOSE MAKES THESE WOMEN SEXY AND BECAUSE THERE ARE SOME SICK MEN WITH SICK MENTALITY THE RAPE WILL HAPPEN.
RAPISTS WILL RAPE EVEN IF THE WOMAN INFRONT OF THEM WEARS DESCENT DRESS.
RAPISTS SHOULD BE PUNNISHED IN SUCH AWAY THE RAPE CASES WILL BE REDUCED.
"Only crazy people lock them up and never show them to anybody"...the watch word then is 'show'...then why all that frown at stares...what if I want to see it closely requiring a longer look cos I find it worth having a deep long stare at...:)
Try it in 3rd world countries not here where laws are strict.. (:
"Many women will die to get diamonds am I right?"
No. Most women aren't that shallow.
Yes Lonius if you are sure that blindfolded men wont rape...may be blindfolded men will claim that ohh I thought you are my girl or court will call them no guilty cuz they were blindfolded...at the end of the day it is not practically helpful with respect to the context.
Yes of course one cant show she has got diamonds to everyone in the street unless someone is ready to die or lucky to escape from death.
I wear them on my fingers, how is that not showing them to everyone on the street? Nobodies attacked me for them yet, and 3 of them are quite big if I do say so myself.
"Miss Mimi if you have something very very valuable and expensive in your will you allow to be broken for no reason?"
That depends. Can the thing speak and think for itself? If so, then yes, I will allow it to do what it wants, because I can't really OWN something that can speak and think for itself.
I love my son more than anything, but if he decides to go skydiving, or shark diving or something else that might hurt him when he's an adult I can't stop him. He has a mind of his own, he doesn't belong to me.
This is the problem with people who dont understand the physics as they think they are...You cant apply a single solution to all the similar problems..
Sometimes if you get stomach pain you have go to toilet, sometime you have to go to hospital sometimes you have to take other steps..
If someone asks to remove all the diamonds in clothes, beautiful flowers in corniche and wants them to be locked he is like he wants her girl to deliver a baby in toilet cuz she got stomach pain.... (:
Yes of course one cant show she has got diamonds to everyone in the street unless someone is ready to die or lucky to escape from death.
Apart from inner respect (which is impossible in 100% men's population I repeat 100% population)In my opinion dressing also matters...if it is not then why women were sexy dress to turn their partners on and for what all these fashion industries working on? So if it could turn your partner on who is obviously a man why could not it turn on a man outside?
I am not asking all of them to wear hijab but I am against this " We will wear what eveR we want but you dont have to rape us you have to respect us"
Thelonius you talk same like my one eyed pal named "Linconpirate" !
Rofl Thelonious
when we say that women are diamonds, we refer to the meaning that women are very valuable and no one should hurt them, now tell me Miss Mimi if you have something very very valuable and expensive in your will you allow to be broken for no reason?
When we say women are diamonds it is refered from our Arabic Literature where we resemble valuable people by diamonds.
Many women will die to get diamonds am I right?
MM can i plz see tat diamond set ? :(
And in regards to diamonds, I'm currently wearing mine in attractive settings and I've got them all shined up so they look as sparkly as possible. What's the point of having diamonds if you can't show them off? Only crazy people lock them up and never show them to anybody.
Hold on mates, I said women are more precious than diamonds which of course doesnt mean they are diamonds as long as you understand the exact meaning behind it...
No Straight Arrow. What a woman wears doesn't matter.
Ur right nom..but even men respect their own self they wont pick others diamonds or look at them with lusty eyes... but practically it is difficult to inculcate this in men's population as it was tried by all spiritual, political and leaders in academic hence we got these strict laws...
If 100% men have the respect you are talking about then would will become heaven with no such crimes but historically we know it is not really possible for the world to be heaven for a long time...
Women are not diamonds. We are thinking, breathing human beings with a right to dress, live and do what we please.
The woman in full hijab who speeds along D Ring Road with her small child unsecured jumping around in the car...OR the woman who shows her shoulders and knees, driving according to traffic rules with her child safely strapped into a car seat?
i will respect the woman in full hijab who drives within the speed limit and who cares for her children
n/a
Never mind.
But now I really men to answer this question, please as many as possible
Does the a certai type of dress of some women can make them being raped by some sick men?
in other words is the women dress type has a role even if it is minor to have some rape cases?
Only men to answer
I am sorry for being late... Miss Mimi allow me to join please. ((:
Well.. Naturally when we compare women and men, women are physically weak but precious than diamonds.. hence we always protect weak and precious things...A beautiful gorgeous women can catch 1000 Men's attention whereas a beautiful alpha male can probably catch maximum 10 to 20 women only...
It is easy to protect a diamond than catching all the thieves.
It is easy to build a boundary wall than packing all the water in a ocean or river.
So in a nutshell women are prone to get picked not matter how ugly she is as the anatomy a man want is kind same in all women. Pardon me if you dont get it.
Consider it as example..we have parking sensors in our car..just imagine what will happen if we have sensors both in front and back...You cant really figure out which side is close to you..
About MM comment "Do you think all women will be raped? Why do you need to cover all women then? Why not just the really attractive women and let us fugly women wear what we like?"
A ugly man has to wear nice clothes to look sexy whereas a ugly women just have to remove them. (:
Very nice topic I love it.
Abbosi I'm being sarcastic when I say men should be blindfolded. Obviously that's not an answer, neither is covering women from head to toe, neither solution works because men don't rape women based on what they are wearing. They rape women because they:
a) Hate women
b) view women as sexual objects and nothing more
c) Believe they have the right to
d) have not been taught to control their sexual desires because they've been raised to believe they are "uncontrollable"
What needs to happen is a change in those 4 attitudes. Women are not to be hated. Women are not just for sex. No man has the right to sex with a woman. And EVERY man can control his desires, regardless of what a woman is doing/wearing/saying/acting.
Babu, please tell me, who, in your opinion deserves more respect:
The woman in full hijab who speeds along D Ring Road with her small child unsecured jumping around in the car...OR the woman who shows her shoulders and knees, driving according to traffic rules with her child safely strapped into a car seat?
A woman in full hijab, mistreating a sales attendant, or a woman showing her shoulders and knees treating a sales attendant with the respect every human being deserves?
See, IMHO it is not about what we wear, but how we behave.
Babu, I know a lot of people think that way...unfortunately.
Women of the past ages suffered wearing those monstrosities so let the men be encased (pun intended) and chastised.
respect is earned when one cover's up
who is tahsinmim?
what does this guy want in general what he post any reply?
am trying to follow up.. What a weirdo lol
See babu, respect, that is what it is about.:)
No, but there's a chance that they could be picked. But people are taught not to pick the flowers, same as they should be taught not to rape women. It's called respect.
now if u compare a rose n lily with women there r no chances of rose n lily getting raped
And why not babu? Is beauty not there to be enjoyed?
Do we hide a rose or a lily? No, we do not. We respectfully enjoy its beauty.
Isn't it amazing how nature shows us the perfect way? :)
beauty is for what showing ?
Do you think all women will be raped? Why do you need to cover all women then? Why not just the really attractive women and let us fugly women wear what we like?
to respect men, it should be from both sides.
The boat will have big chance to sink if the left side is heavier than the right and vice versa do you agree?
weldone, but do you think all men are the same attitude?
Then why you do not say some men?
As I said before an open minded person will not put all the people in the same basket.
Women have been covering for thousands of years and rape is still happening. So covering women doesn't work. Now it's time to try something else.
Vicariously, you could stop blaming women for rape and start educating men to respect women.
Lol you know what?????
I vote we all go back to when Adam and Eve were created......NAKED
Yes..all men should be blindfolded, why do you think horses have blinders..:)
If men who cant control themselves must be blindfolded, then they need to stay in so not to blindly bump into women and touch them to block their fall....lol
yes blindfold men n let ladies roam ard naked
1. A sick mantality can cause the rape case to happen do you agree? Yes
2. Education of the negative consequences of raping can help to reduce the raping case do you agree? Yes
3. A woman who is being raped is a victim of sick men in many times do you agree? Yes
4. A woman dress can be sexy and it can excite some men do you agree? Yes
5. These excited men not all of them will control their excitation and just go away do you agree? Yes
6. A proper dress can some times reduce the chances of a woman to be raped? No
7. The man who decide to rape should think that this might to one of his family (mother, daughter, sister, wife) do you agree? Yes, but it doesn't happen
8. A strong punishment rules can reduce effectively the rapists from hurting women do you agree? No
To lessen rape we should:
blindfold men
Not allow them out unattended by female family members
Not allow them to work in certain fields were they will have contact with women.
HGL what will happen if a lion is hungry for months and suddenly bipasha basu bumps into him
BG.. either the lion will kill her or just go away after staring for a while ...:)
Dont get what is the fuss about...women are free to wear whatever they want and we are (or should be) free to stare (rape not accepted). So let them wear and not ask us not to stare. Both survive happily together. Khallas....:)
P.S.: No personal questions would be entertained.
If we assume that woman is responsible for being raped (I think the woman is one minor and negligible factor but the most crucial and key factor for raping is the sick mentality of the rapist. All the blame shall be thrown on the woman because there are many good women who are mothers and sister and teachers who are there helpping us and supporting our community to grow):
1. A sick mantality can cause the rape case to happen do you agree?
2. Education of the negative consequences of raping can help to reduce the raping case do you agree?
3. A woman who is being raped is a victim of sick men in many times do you agree?
4. A woman dress can be sexy and it can excite some men do you agree?
5. These excited men not all of them will control their excitation and just go away do you agree?
6. A proper dress can some times reduce the chances of a woman to be raped?
7. The man who decide to rape should think that this might to one of his family (mother, daughter, sister, wife) do you agree?
8. A strong punishment rules can reduce effectively the rapists from hurting women do you agree?
(My full respect to all women who respect them selves according to their cultures or beliefs)
I mean that some men get attracted and excited towards sexy women
im a man and ill admit, im weak. ill gladly wear a blindfold.
although not literally. i dont want to hit anything thatll hurt me out on the street.
fellow men, its not the womens fault that they are attractive. let us please help each other to control these "urges".
let us blindfold our excessive aggressive sexual urges
#1, think of our mothers and sisters
No if No But only Jatt:)
for your kind information all the men are not same.....i tudy in china for last one year....it all depends on you....for the men....i would just say if your mother...or your sister wear that sports kind of clothes..by which you get turned on....what would you do???or how you will feel that if other men get turned on by looking at or your mother or sister....change the way you think....we are human beings...not animals
and for the girls....try to protect your self....if you wear some decent clothes no man is going to do anything to you....
tah only answer agree or dont agree he questioned for u to answer
Here is a small survey
1. A woman can be sexy due to different factors do you agree?
2. The dress is one of these factors do you agree?
3. Some men get attracted and excited quickly do you agree?
4. Some men can control their feelings and excitation do you agree?
Probably would be QDCLover!
Yes Brit if it was not for the WOMAN we'll all be living in Paradise!..
Oooops I guess there would be no us then!
Probably would be Thelonius!
Brit, men have won for a very long time. and now they are desperately hanging on...well, at least a few are..;)
Damn.. we men just can't win :O(
Then we won't be able to reproduce thelonius, I think the above suggestions are good enough.
Should be good for a few laughs if nuffin else...I wouldn't trust all men even in a blindfold though. I'm sure they'll beat the system somehow!
thanks Brit :)
Was not aware of that.
So now we poor men have to not only guard against those bumpy bits, doey eyes, but also enticing aromas :O(
""A man and a women are sitting in a bus. Both are reading their favorite book. They both just happen to look at each other at the same time and both of them are reasonably attractive. In this situation, the man is more likely to look at the women more than the women will look at him. She'll be able to concentrate on her book longer than he will and might probably even forget about him unless she senses him looking at her or just happens to look up and remember the man. For any feminists reading this, this is where men and women can't be equal. A man's psychology is different than a woman's psychology. The simple fact is, men are more into sex while women are more into establishing relationships""
The explain for the difference in phsycology to the difference between man brain and woman brain.
A question why you say men Miss Mimi and you do not say Miss Mimi?
This atitude is not acceptable for an open minded woman, it is the attitude of narrow thinking.
i hope u remember the lock and key system used in the film 'ROBIN HOOD',,. that seems to be like a nice option :P
shoot the government officials, they are the most corrupted ones....:)
prevention is better than cure... shoot b4 sight
lol rizks
"time to start punishing men for not being able to control themselves, not women" yeah punish them in the same manner - rape them....:)
a lot of people indulge in theft/crimes because of hunger for food!
similarly men who are deprived of sex might end up raping women! that always doesnt seem to be the case though!
its the powers of mind and morale that controls humans actions!
one who cant control his animal instincts end up doing crimes!
there are many who control their animal instincts and there arent many who doesnt as well!
end of the individuals should choose to behave morally at any situation which seems difficult for many!
Fact of the matter is women dressed "appropriately" for thousands of years and were still raped.
Since its men who do the raping, and since women wearing clothe to their ankles doesn't seem to work, time to start punishing men for not being able to control themselves, not women.
apparently Vaseline is good for the hair, but remember to blow dry..:)
i really dont know Thelonious, all i know is tat some males have started becoming homo's.....:(
udey putty??
http://pjmedia.com/blog/ask-dr-helen-can-a-man-be-raped-by-a-woman/
is this putty in relation with kutty
Remember the funny time you confused vaseline with Putty ?
Your windows fell out :O)
Who's uday shetty?
Women makes peace ?
were they in veil when they got raped
Read the articles yourself BG.
I just posted 3 sources saying nuns have been raped. Are they not appropriately dressed?
What if someone breaks into your home and rapes your wife, is that partially her fault?
The trouble is men being unable to control themselves, and attitudes like yours show that it's because you've been raised to believe that women deserve to be raped.
You should be blindfolded.
Rizks, or a pathan practice.....:P
Lols normerci
"but putty" wat the hell is tat ?
sounds like some mallu dish.....:)
Yes BG, nuns do get raped:
http://www.asianews.it/news-en/Orissa:-raped-nun-forgives-aggressors-and-recounts-her-sufferings-23381.html
http://cnews.canoe.ca/CNEWS/Crime/2012/09/14/20200791.html
http://www.realclearreligion.com/index_files/9700d87ecef59271ce15f9554f57fe47-436.html
Men are but putty in womens hands..:(
if u cant control urself,, why enforce it on others??
Abbosi, please make the SOME men's brains...not all men are like that.
rizks i m goin to Rap how abt u
why will a fully veiled women be raped, has anyone heard of a nun being raped
we hav heard many debates regarding this subject,, and I still cant believe that some come with the stupidest reason for covering a woman saying that GOD DESIGNED MAN to have sex with woman and The man cannot control this..
Monkey is tat a question are you goin to rape someone ? :)
It's funny how we keep "religion aside" when it suits...lol
So if a fully veiled woman is raped, it's her fault?
abbosi, from what I read, the men were ready for s e x, as they went with prostitutes...is that then rape? Just because their semen is sold? I don't know....i still think if a man is not willing, then nothing 'moves", no matter what.
tahsin you mean ladies should clap when they see any men ? :)
So rapes a woman's fault tah?
Theer have been documented and proven cases of men being raped by women.
Remember rape is defined as sex without consent..
britney spears has raped 11 to 12 men till now
Exactly mak18. Even fully covered women get started at, harassed and raped, so the only answer left is to blindfold men! They can't rape a woman if they can't see her!
I had a narrow escape in Inland Sea from three beautiful ladies.
"Also mimi..do they know that by wearing such small skirts or dresses, definitely there will be people staring at them...yes or no"
Here yes. Because men here haven't been taught to control themselves and respect women.
In other countries, no. A woman can go out and wear a mini skirt and not be stared at like a piece of meat. Sure she might get appreciative glances. Nothing wrong with that, women give them to men to, it's natural. But not stared at the way men stare here.
haven't you heard of abaya and veil clad women being harrased ????
Get a Life dude!!
Do you want me to post a link to a video (captured by cell) where Muslim/GCC guys harrassing fully covered Muslim women?
Abbosi can u please book a seat for me too to Zimbabwe? :(
Exactly thelonius, and if they were good virtuous boys they wouldn't go out without being accompanied by their wives, sisters or mother. To keep them in line.
Men can't be trusted.
will you shut the **** up! don't preach and you don't know anything. You are making mockery of yourself and religion you following cuz of your stupid comments.
here you go!
Tahsinmim was also a fierce predator but now his a tamed lion after he got married..:)
Women should wear what they feel comfortable wearing and what makes them feel good about themselves. If a short skirt makes a girl feel good, why shouldn't she wear it?
If men can't handle it they should be blindfolded.
I didn't say it Uk! Tah did!
Everyone being forced to become Muslim isn't the answer either Tah.
britey, can i drool at that pic for 2mins and 59seconds plz ?
"A man's psychology is different than a woman's psychology. The simple fact is, men are more into sex while women are more into establishing relationships"
Really MM and I thought they were only after the money..:)
Abbosi, just post it here :http://www.qatarliving.com/node/9019521
basic instinct can make everything possible
Miss Mimi nope not yet !!
ill try to learn!
tahsinmim, not true. These are not facts, this is an opinion. Nothing more, nothing less.
"A man and a women are sitting in a bus. Both are reading their favorite book. They both just happen to look at each other at the same time and both of them are reasonably attractive. In this situation, the man is more likely to look at the women more than the women will look at him. She'll be able to concentrate on her book longer than he will and might probably even forget about him unless she senses him looking at her or just happens to look up and remember the man. For any feminists reading this, this is where men and women can't be equal. A man's psychology is different than a woman's psychology. The simple fact is, men are more into sex while women are more into establishing relationships"
Exactly why men should be blindfolded. Thank you for proving the point.
pls post in religious teaching if anyone want to discuss islam or any other religion
I'd like to know how a woman can rape a man. Seriously, how is that practically possible?
Other than that, yah, it would be hugely entertaining to see these blindfolded men run into lampposts etc....rofl!
sumhow Islam comes into discussion
Iamthexxx, you do understand sarcasm right?
and I am not talking about you MM..:)
If this happens then I feel pity for all those women who go out of their way to dress up and put on make up just to be noticed!..:)
bullocks!!!
both men and women should be in veil next and none should be allowed to see anyone else apart from their house including children!!
wow great trust in the society and future!!
next generation is so blessed !
Saw that in the Daily Fail today Brit. :)
good one.. It should have posted in funnies :O)
Regarding Jimmy Seville case and banning of men. You will agree that there have been cases lately where females have abused children ..
lastly, speaking of skimpy clothing and men's urges.. i would "urge" you to look at a recent peace of art where a female artist
http://www2.canada.com/calgaryherald/iphone/news/latest/story.html?id=7818819
In fact the VAST majority of the world doesn't follow Islam. So they aren't told to lower their gaze.
The whole world doesn't follow Islam Tah.
LOL LIQ. I know! I'd love to see men only allowed out blindfolded. :D
I sign?
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