NTN...come on there is nothing with me and food...o u just have to highlight that one single thing out of everything u girl...anyways...have a nice weekend...
Ray ...bro u too have a good weekend njoy urself...and take care...i m outta here now...nothin bout the lunch man...o hell no...Haraaam dude...its required...chal then...bye
Shreeya...take care and prepare nicely...
GG...bye dude...sure u can join in for lunch...
Depressed: Chill dude...no offence meant from anyone of us...take care God Bless U and Njoy life...
Was just thinking about this guy DEPRESSED. Imagine if he were to come and check on what people have posted to gee him up only to find all the crap and non-sense from us! LOL.
Alrite you beautiful people, have a great weekend. Am out too.
Alritey folks! My weekend starts in about 20 mins from now. Gonna go for a smoke, get back post a line or two and head out to lovely hot Doha!!!! Yeeehaww!!!
NTN : Muh baby!!! Why have you been so silent since morning? I'm sure she's plotting another way to slaughter a goat called Rayyz for a treat at Chingari!
Kamasutra : Dude, wtf is with you and the FOOD. Spare a thought for that mighty paunch of yours! At your size even thinking of food is Haraam!
Hey babe...welcome...kahan thee aap...o not at all...look at that bugger DEPRESSED...ya right...taking his name only gets half the crowd Depressed..saaala...paagal kahin ka...
anyways whats happening with u...crazy morning for u????????
Shreeya...babe...now that was indeed touchy...infact i shud say...that it was fabulous ur post...after all that i have done to him u come along like his Fairy god Mother and give him this...atleast this shud make him feel alrite...
so what r u doing Shreeya...whats for lunch...or waiting forur dear hubby?
I would say the guy is genuinely depressed Novita. People who are truly depressed do tend to become "attention seekers" and "drama queens/kings" Simply because they can't deal rationally with the wealth of emotion they are feeling. They tend to lash out and reach out at the same time. There's really nothing anyone can do, because he has decide for himself to get help.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Though all her children are same to a mother sometimes it happens that mother tend to incline to a particular one. It is not always because of money. You yourself can analyze this. Your brother with whom your mother is living now may be quite likely weaker than you in one or more aspects. Being a mother she must be taking care of the weaker son. Think again, she knows that you are capable of taking care of yourself. Thats why she is giving more attention to the other child who must be weaker than you. Money doesn't matter always.
Come on, show her that you are really a strong boy.
GG : Read what Gypsy has to say. I've really gotta concur with what she just said. Come on how could one help this guy online! There whole world out there. And after what we all have fought over, its about time he should have posted atleast one more line in his defence.
HH (On definitely not Her Highness - That's reserved for Sheikha Mouza) : Didn't I predict there's something between you and Mother Teresa!?? My next idol is the new Indian Idol to be crowned in 7 weeks from now. So cheers to that. As for lunch, since I'm a veggie, and they've started this new Indian Veg-Only restaurant. Just can't wait to get outta my office and hog on something good. So what kinda consultancy do you do?
"GG if someone has come to a public forum to talk about killing themselves chances are they won't do it. It's when they don't talk about it that you should start to worry."
----> i guess you call this 'an attention seeker?'
Ray...thats ok i guess being a thursday i figured ur dinner MEnu thats why i didnt ask...and ya lets not talk bout him...yeh tho zindagi mein chaltha hain...
Look at GG...all fired up and emotional touchy moment...all senti and stuff...
GG if someone has come to a public forum to talk about killing themselves chances are they won't do it. It's when they don't talk about it that you should start to worry.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
He said he feels like committing suicide...if he don't care for his wife and kid..he would have now been a Alcoholic or drug addict..than sitting in front of this damn PC and posting his problems..
You are happily living with your parents..you wont understand the pain of that guy who already lost his dad when he was young..and now his mother is also ignoring him...and giving all her love to his brother…..its really painful..you don't need to be a Mother Tressa to see common peoples problems.. Damn the only feeling I have is Sympathy!
Have not been through major hardships, as I may sound as if I pour sentiments. You should see my other side when I am angry or mad at someone…!! FIREEEE
I just act based on my belief that we all come from the same mold, carrying the same needs but we come in different shapes and colors.
By the way, Mother Teresa is one of my idols.
And about lunch, because I consumed my time talking to lovely QL friends, I passed lunch time eating yogurt and apple!! Lovely?
From my experience with depression there's nothing we can say or do that's going to make this guy feel better. What he needs is a shock or a swift kick in the azz to make him go seek help. My being compassionate all we are doing is feeding his delusions.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Alrite buddy...no crossing...take over pls...so what else hows things going...now i m cool again...man that guy got me fired up with that question MOTHER OR SON...o sick...
Anyways whats happening...whats for lunch...or rather WHO is for Lunch...?
My dear, he doesnt need to specify seperately that he isnt taking care of his son...it shows in his intentions to commit suicide he is nt concentrating on his family...he is too worried...bout his MOTHER...i thought ppl were only worried bout MOTHER_IN_LAW
That's the spirit!! you really got me smiling now(not that I am Ms. VIP that you should entertain), but I was so unhappy with where the dialogue was going and what it represents in the general sense.
And who said I have big compassionate heart! Just that I don't rule out the 1% of a possibility that someone might be needy. Yet very aware of how people like to play on the strings of passion….good girl huh?
Good suggestion..appreciate it...this is what we all like in you!
But if I were him....I wont be comfortable to meet a total stranger and tell him my life story... the best part of net/Forum/Chat/blogs is that you can telling anything to a the whole world without reveleaing your identity..... we know that they are not gonna judge you.
Hey Happy my dear...i totally agree with Ray...ask him to come out and stand in the public...ask him to discuss the situation who can be near him sit next to him, put a hand over his shoulder and console him and take him out for a couple of drinks, and then that makes sense...he needs to meet and ask for help from ppl in his REAL LIFE and not REEL LIFE (QL)...if he is in that a DEPREZZED Situation...
Hey he is forgettin that by asking whether it is MONEY or SON, he himself as a FATHER is not taking care of hiw OWN SON...now u tell me how does he have the right to question what his mother did was correct or not...he is an absolute useless piece of S%IT...for sure...100%...this I DONT DOUBT...Ray atleast is giving him the Benefit of Doubt about his problem being Genuine...ME o Forget it...he is Bull-S%%ITTING his A%$...
You know what? I don't need to show compassion just for the heck of it on QL. What Ksarat is saying is so correct and 100% agree with him.
But I think I'll take up this passing on love and compassion thing against my instincts.
I ask this guy to PM me his Mobile number. I promise to meet him up in real life and help him as much as I can. People who know me real well from QL also know that besides clowning around I am quite sensible at times.
Any day discussing to a person in real life is always more helpful than asking people to comment on his pitiful state. Lets see if he's for real or not. Happy now Happy Happy?
My dear...i guess if u read the previous post of this guy Ray, myself we have all posted our compassionate thoughts with him...and then only i m giving him the S5IT...so pls its not only u who has a heart we also have the heart...we understand his situation but we r trying toshow him the brighter side of things...
Apologixe my A$$, its not like i didnt give my share of feelings and compassion with him...many ppl did...but still MONEY OR SON come on mate...get over it...that guy has a kid and he is expecting one more... christ...he has to take care of other ppl so he has to get out of this...meet new ppl and hang out...have a couple of chilled beers...and look at the more brighter side of things...
So hell no i wont apologize to him...with all due respect ofcourse...
Do not worry. He has not drained us for money or even company!! is too much for you to put up with someone wants to, at least, be heard.
Did it ever occur to you , just to the minimum level of 10 % of your thoughtful mind, that he might be really going through ordeal or just tough time.
QL members are not silly and quite cautious to any kind of scam or fraud under any pretext, let it be suicide or love to hang around with you.
So calm down people. Consider it charity or a good deed to spend 3 minutes writing someone a calming message. Or avoid the whole thread in the first place, why bother?!!.
Come on champ, we all know this site is open to all...but not open to AZZ...i truly understand the social, economical and whatever crap i just mentioned...infact we also tried helping his poor little DEPRESSED AZZ...but he doesnt want to take it in the right spirit so u might as well come out with a little bit of this words...so he can get into his mud-s5it brain that HE NEEDS TO GET ON WITH LIFE...
Other than that no offence meant to him or his family or his millions of other DEPRESSED AZZES...
Seeing a Psychiatrist is not as easy as seeing a general Physician. at least in this place…..first of all these people who are depressed realize it much later that its a medical condition. What he mentioned in that thread is quite possible in a middle class Indian Family. So I dont see any thing wrong in it.
He did mention he is working in a studio or something…. do you expect him to have net access like us??
GG...well truly said bout venting their feelings with QL and not real life freinds...but hey why do ppl forget that...all of us here have our own problems...if each one of us start posting probs then this site wud become more of a phil site or a problem site and not a place where we can have a decent time...come on GG...i understand the guy's feelings, but i saw it other day when he wanted to Commit Suicide as Ray had mentioned...i left that alone...that guy was talkin crap even after ppl had told him to relax, shown him the brighter side and all that...u as a matter of fact told him to see a Doctor havent u...
After all that this bugger, piece of trash wants to come up with this one-line thread bout Money or Son...what does he think, that we all are here to spend our value time(no matter if u arent doing anything at work) at answering his stupid remarks...come on GG u must be jokin...we arent here for that...we play around, pull another person's leg, like Gypsy started another thread the other day of havin some good-exciting time pass, we r here for that...any information on Qatar is given here...but not these stupid relief operation suggestions...
And to ur other question, if it was a girl, then also ppl wud have given HER also the same answers as we try to help anyone and everyone but to a certain limit not all the way till he or she jumps in the Corniche or from the top of these many many tall blgds...come on GG...u need to realize that we r also here for some quality time...to make freinds, to hang out, to get valuable suggestions, to flirt around, to kick some AZZ of unwanted ppl as well figures in that list...
So take it easy GG...i m not saying this jus for it...its a thing that guy has to realize that he not only is screwing up his time and life by pndering over that F*%#@D Situation he is...but also killing our time...
Thats why i gave him that a strong reply...there was no offence meant...
If someone does not like a thread, they should avoid it or not interfere in a cynical derogatory manner.
This forum is about who you are and what you want to express in a cross-cultural pool.
Please do not take this advantage away from this forum. Or it will turn to be just another small mock (mimic) of the outside world, politically , economically, socially….etc.
Be thoughtful, you do not where life where take you next.
That was a bit rude...such people who write these things here..is doing it to vent their problems, which they don't want to discuss with their real life friends.... but I feel this is not the way to answer. (no offense meant) If it was a girl, there would have been more people to offer help!
Depression is a serious condition which needs medcial help.
We are ppl like u who all have respective problems...so get ur a** out of this website cos we r trying to have a good time here...cos this is one of those places where we can have a good time...meet new ppl...talk talk bout various things...which cud bring some good old memories, good old smiles, good times and on top of all peice of mind...
But what the F*c* man u and ur freaking name is disgusting and it can screw a lot of the people's living daylights...so u better change ur name and get it reframed cos nobody wants to see anybody depressed so get ur AZZ up and walk or rather continue over life...dont dwell over s5it things...
This life has only 1 shot...what u did for ur family is great...but dont expect anything in return...its ur family dude...if they r there be with them if they arent then dont...remember man u have got ur own set of ppl depending on u...so screw the life in front of u...
Please dude...sorry for being so rude...but thats the bottom line...get ur AZZ up and live life to the fullest...dont FU%K around with out happiness here...
I read many articles and seen it on TV how parents, under poverty line, specially single mothers, are forced to sell their own flesh and blood children, for adoption, in return for money.
According to an article, parents feel they are doing a favor to their sold sons and daughters, as they are providing them a better life, food, lifestyle, education opportunity and more.
Surprisingly, some parents are so poor to the extent that they do not negotiate well and get peanuts (little amount of money) in return.
There is a lot of unimaginable choices humans forcibly make.
Mahtma Ghandi said it before "There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread."
Two women came to the judge with the baby, and each of them insisted, that he is her son and she wishes to raise him. The judge thought how to learn which of them is a real mother, and he has thought up. It has told: well, we shall cut the child half-and-half, and everyone will take her part. One of women at once has cried: no! No! DO NOT CUT HIM!! Better let her take my child and raise him!!.. So the judge has learned who is the real mother.
As jassKat has said, if she changes the son for money, she is not mother any more, and he is not her son...therefore there is no issue.
Disappointment or not If you are 18 and over, You don't have to provide a darn thing to an adult.
Unless they are in college is still my responsibility to provide some kind of income not the tuition cost.
If him or her is working then they will have to share the cost of living, utilities and food expenses. Other wise get your own place.
Is the 21 century not the medieval days.
Otherwise I refuse or will not allowed them to drag my life into their parasite behavior.
I raise my kids to be self supportive and educated at 23 they move on with their lives. They got their own families, jobs and lifestyle ad still call me "FATHER".
oooohhhh..........my God..!! what is wrong now with you "depress"?? first you were depressed, now you are in dilemma? will there be a time for you to "stand firmly" in the future? i'm looking forward to hear that yeah my friend..:) hehehehe.....
anyways, i'm not yet married (promotion :) ) but if i were ask to choose between my son and money, i would choose my SON. because son could accumulate money for living and he can always stand beside me. but if i choose money- NOT just money couldnt 'buy' a son, but soon or later it will finish and i am left with nothing.
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Actually I have to agree with Red Pope. If the son is an adult and capable of taking care of himself then the mother should be more concerned about money. There are things like retirement and aging comfortably to consider.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
lol ... he is a pain in everything ... probably you can call it a 'single child syndrome', i always do alot of things with him ... once he did not get his own way ... that would be the end of the world for him.
i think your son need you more than need money specially if he is still small.the best thing can make any mother is to take care from her child and keep husband to work and earn money.
nothing can replace my son ... i know my son is a pain and a monster ... but nothing in this world can replace him. Not now and not later. Not for any amount of money.
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NTN...come on there is nothing with me and food...o u just have to highlight that one single thing out of everything u girl...anyways...have a nice weekend...
Ray ...bro u too have a good weekend njoy urself...and take care...i m outta here now...nothin bout the lunch man...o hell no...Haraaam dude...its required...chal then...bye
Shreeya...take care and prepare nicely...
GG...bye dude...sure u can join in for lunch...
Depressed: Chill dude...no offence meant from anyone of us...take care God Bless U and Njoy life...
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U too.....:(
Have a nice weekend......Enjoy urself (which you will)Take all he protection with you...LOL we wldnt want another depressed on QL....
Chal enjoy...be safe
Cheers
Have a nice weekend you too.
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Keep the faith!*
Its not even 2.30 yet and all have left?
Was just thinking about this guy DEPRESSED. Imagine if he were to come and check on what people have posted to gee him up only to find all the crap and non-sense from us! LOL.
Alrite you beautiful people, have a great weekend. Am out too.
Cheers!
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Bye.....have a nice weekend.
GG will call you.
how can you?I walked in and you are walking off..............NAHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII...LOL
Bye bye.. NTN...shreeya... Ksa.. Ray..
Ray - Dosti Dosti...bluff master! am trying to reset my thinking..lol
All of you have a wonerful weekend...NTN call me if you wanna go on saturday okay? you know where..
Missed you all ...muah muah muah
Was busy with work...had to step out in this hot weather....ahhh
I doubt Ksa going to take you for lunch today for sure...LOL
Ray no plotting now on I dont want to meet asian bit its only me and GG u have chosen not meet so i guess no point insisting...:)
Alritey folks! My weekend starts in about 20 mins from now. Gonna go for a smoke, get back post a line or two and head out to lovely hot Doha!!!! Yeeehaww!!!
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LOL. That was a good one! Yeah maybe you're rite, asking about everyone ele's lunch plans, he then decides what to treat himself with!
GG : Girl, no offence meant with by being anti-depressed. Still friends right?
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Off to kitchen now......thanks to Ksarat....
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Thand paa ji.......class seems to be getting onto you on day one ....LoL
NTN : Muh baby!!! Why have you been so silent since morning? I'm sure she's plotting another way to slaughter a goat called Rayyz for a treat at Chingari!
Kamasutra : Dude, wtf is with you and the FOOD. Spare a thought for that mighty paunch of yours! At your size even thinking of food is Haraam!
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We missed you here....was busy outside or at home?
KSa is gonna gimme lunch bcos I am tired of arguing with him from morning..you wanna join?
Rayyz,
Your word 'sympathizers' has reminded me a phrase which was popular on QL sometime ago....."Tea-boy sympathizers"
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Hey babe...welcome...kahan thee aap...o not at all...look at that bugger DEPRESSED...ya right...taking his name only gets half the crowd Depressed..saaala...paagal kahin ka...
anyways whats happening with u...crazy morning for u????????
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all onto lunch with everyone......LOL.Just a question does it help you decide what u want to have by asking everyone whats for lunch???????LOL
Depressed suicide commit kare nah kare...tum log aapas mei ek doosare ko zaroor maar logay at this rate!!!!!LOL
Shreeya...babe...now that was indeed touchy...infact i shud say...that it was fabulous ur post...after all that i have done to him u come along like his Fairy god Mother and give him this...atleast this shud make him feel alrite...
so what r u doing Shreeya...whats for lunch...or waiting forur dear hubby?
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I would say the guy is genuinely depressed Novita. People who are truly depressed do tend to become "attention seekers" and "drama queens/kings" Simply because they can't deal rationally with the wealth of emotion they are feeling. They tend to lash out and reach out at the same time. There's really nothing anyone can do, because he has decide for himself to get help.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Welcome to the club of the compassionates & sympathizers!
Hear boy hear! Another leaf to hang onto.
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Dear Depressed,
Though all her children are same to a mother sometimes it happens that mother tend to incline to a particular one. It is not always because of money. You yourself can analyze this. Your brother with whom your mother is living now may be quite likely weaker than you in one or more aspects. Being a mother she must be taking care of the weaker son. Think again, she knows that you are capable of taking care of yourself. Thats why she is giving more attention to the other child who must be weaker than you. Money doesn't matter always.
Come on, show her that you are really a strong boy.
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Gotta give me more action and drama while I am preparing which weapon to use to fire at you..:))
GG : Read what Gypsy has to say. I've really gotta concur with what she just said. Come on how could one help this guy online! There whole world out there. And after what we all have fought over, its about time he should have posted atleast one more line in his defence.
HH (On definitely not Her Highness - That's reserved for Sheikha Mouza) : Didn't I predict there's something between you and Mother Teresa!?? My next idol is the new Indian Idol to be crowned in 7 weeks from now. So cheers to that. As for lunch, since I'm a veggie, and they've started this new Indian Veg-Only restaurant. Just can't wait to get outta my office and hog on something good. So what kinda consultancy do you do?
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"GG if someone has come to a public forum to talk about killing themselves chances are they won't do it. It's when they don't talk about it that you should start to worry."
----> i guess you call this 'an attention seeker?'
Ray...thats ok i guess being a thursday i figured ur dinner MEnu thats why i didnt ask...and ya lets not talk bout him...yeh tho zindagi mein chaltha hain...
Look at GG...all fired up and emotional touchy moment...all senti and stuff...
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GG if someone has come to a public forum to talk about killing themselves chances are they won't do it. It's when they don't talk about it that you should start to worry.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
Who the hell do you think you are han???
Now common fire at me :D
Hey mind you i got RPG ok :D
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He said he feels like committing suicide...if he don't care for his wife and kid..he would have now been a Alcoholic or drug addict..than sitting in front of this damn PC and posting his problems..
You are happily living with your parents..you wont understand the pain of that guy who already lost his dad when he was young..and now his mother is also ignoring him...and giving all her love to his brother…..its really painful..you don't need to be a Mother Tressa to see common peoples problems.. Damn the only feeling I have is Sympathy!
Folks,
Have not been through major hardships, as I may sound as if I pour sentiments. You should see my other side when I am angry or mad at someone…!! FIREEEE
I just act based on my belief that we all come from the same mold, carrying the same needs but we come in different shapes and colors.
By the way, Mother Teresa is one of my idols.
And about lunch, because I consumed my time talking to lovely QL friends, I passed lunch time eating yogurt and apple!! Lovely?
What’s for lunch?? Heavy meal?
Blessed Creature.
From my experience with depression there's nothing we can say or do that's going to make this guy feel better. What he needs is a shock or a swift kick in the azz to make him go seek help. My being compassionate all we are doing is feeding his delusions.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
LOL. Dude. The SHE is for after dinner party. Lunch all by myself.
Alrite, respecting the views from GG and Happy Happy, I wouldn't wanna talk much irrelevant stuff here and end up hijacking this thread.
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Alrite buddy...no crossing...take over pls...so what else hows things going...now i m cool again...man that guy got me fired up with that question MOTHER OR SON...o sick...
Anyways whats happening...whats for lunch...or rather WHO is for Lunch...?
GG...what r u doing...whats for lunch...
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Watch out! Now you're trying to cross the line. Thats my area of expertise. :P
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Now that u r happy...good u realize that we r playing on the strings of passion...
so MS.VIP...what u upto other than compassioning ppl...
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You sure have been thru troubled times girl! And I bet no one was there to stand by you.
Those words echo such sentiments, otherwise we have another Mother Teresa in making!
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My dear, he doesnt need to specify seperately that he isnt taking care of his son...it shows in his intentions to commit suicide he is nt concentrating on his family...he is too worried...bout his MOTHER...i thought ppl were only worried bout MOTHER_IN_LAW
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No PM yet!
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That's the spirit!! you really got me smiling now(not that I am Ms. VIP that you should entertain), but I was so unhappy with where the dialogue was going and what it represents in the general sense.
And who said I have big compassionate heart! Just that I don't rule out the 1% of a possibility that someone might be needy. Yet very aware of how people like to play on the strings of passion….good girl huh?
Where did he mention that he is not taking care of his son??
Good suggestion..appreciate it...this is what we all like in you!
But if I were him....I wont be comfortable to meet a total stranger and tell him my life story... the best part of net/Forum/Chat/blogs is that you can telling anything to a the whole world without reveleaing your identity..... we know that they are not gonna judge you.
Hey Happy my dear...i totally agree with Ray...ask him to come out and stand in the public...ask him to discuss the situation who can be near him sit next to him, put a hand over his shoulder and console him and take him out for a couple of drinks, and then that makes sense...he needs to meet and ask for help from ppl in his REAL LIFE and not REEL LIFE (QL)...if he is in that a DEPREZZED Situation...
Hey he is forgettin that by asking whether it is MONEY or SON, he himself as a FATHER is not taking care of hiw OWN SON...now u tell me how does he have the right to question what his mother did was correct or not...he is an absolute useless piece of S%IT...for sure...100%...this I DONT DOUBT...Ray atleast is giving him the Benefit of Doubt about his problem being Genuine...ME o Forget it...he is Bull-S%%ITTING his A%$...
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You know what? I don't need to show compassion just for the heck of it on QL. What Ksarat is saying is so correct and 100% agree with him.
But I think I'll take up this passing on love and compassion thing against my instincts.
I ask this guy to PM me his Mobile number. I promise to meet him up in real life and help him as much as I can. People who know me real well from QL also know that besides clowning around I am quite sensible at times.
Any day discussing to a person in real life is always more helpful than asking people to comment on his pitiful state. Lets see if he's for real or not. Happy now Happy Happy?
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My dear...i guess if u read the previous post of this guy Ray, myself we have all posted our compassionate thoughts with him...and then only i m giving him the S5IT...so pls its not only u who has a heart we also have the heart...we understand his situation but we r trying toshow him the brighter side of things...
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Apologixe my A$$, its not like i didnt give my share of feelings and compassion with him...many ppl did...but still MONEY OR SON come on mate...get over it...that guy has a kid and he is expecting one more... christ...he has to take care of other ppl so he has to get out of this...meet new ppl and hang out...have a couple of chilled beers...and look at the more brighter side of things...
So hell no i wont apologize to him...with all due respect ofcourse...
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you are one big silly wolf!...happy?
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i am QL member. did some one call me silly :/
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Do not worry. He has not drained us for money or even company!! is too much for you to put up with someone wants to, at least, be heard.
Did it ever occur to you , just to the minimum level of 10 % of your thoughtful mind, that he might be really going through ordeal or just tough time.
QL members are not silly and quite cautious to any kind of scam or fraud under any pretext, let it be suicide or love to hang around with you.
So calm down people. Consider it charity or a good deed to spend 3 minutes writing someone a calming message. Or avoid the whole thread in the first place, why bother?!!.
Come on champ, we all know this site is open to all...but not open to AZZ...i truly understand the social, economical and whatever crap i just mentioned...infact we also tried helping his poor little DEPRESSED AZZ...but he doesnt want to take it in the right spirit so u might as well come out with a little bit of this words...so he can get into his mud-s5it brain that HE NEEDS TO GET ON WITH LIFE...
Other than that no offence meant to him or his family or his millions of other DEPRESSED AZZES...
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Gotta take my words back, but I'll strongly back my instincts on the fake theory.
Where's that weirdo Ksarat, he should profusely apologize for beign so damn harsh on him!
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Seeing a Psychiatrist is not as easy as seeing a general Physician. at least in this place…..first of all these people who are depressed realize it much later that its a medical condition. What he mentioned in that thread is quite possible in a middle class Indian Family. So I dont see any thing wrong in it.
He did mention he is working in a studio or something…. do you expect him to have net access like us??
GG...well truly said bout venting their feelings with QL and not real life freinds...but hey why do ppl forget that...all of us here have our own problems...if each one of us start posting probs then this site wud become more of a phil site or a problem site and not a place where we can have a decent time...come on GG...i understand the guy's feelings, but i saw it other day when he wanted to Commit Suicide as Ray had mentioned...i left that alone...that guy was talkin crap even after ppl had told him to relax, shown him the brighter side and all that...u as a matter of fact told him to see a Doctor havent u...
After all that this bugger, piece of trash wants to come up with this one-line thread bout Money or Son...what does he think, that we all are here to spend our value time(no matter if u arent doing anything at work) at answering his stupid remarks...come on GG u must be jokin...we arent here for that...we play around, pull another person's leg, like Gypsy started another thread the other day of havin some good-exciting time pass, we r here for that...any information on Qatar is given here...but not these stupid relief operation suggestions...
And to ur other question, if it was a girl, then also ppl wud have given HER also the same answers as we try to help anyone and everyone but to a certain limit not all the way till he or she jumps in the Corniche or from the top of these many many tall blgds...come on GG...u need to realize that we r also here for some quality time...to make freinds, to hang out, to get valuable suggestions, to flirt around, to kick some AZZ of unwanted ppl as well figures in that list...
So take it easy GG...i m not saying this jus for it...its a thing that guy has to realize that he not only is screwing up his time and life by pndering over that F*%#@D Situation he is...but also killing our time...
Thats why i gave him that a strong reply...there was no offence meant...
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If someone does not like a thread, they should avoid it or not interfere in a cynical derogatory manner.
This forum is about who you are and what you want to express in a cross-cultural pool.
Please do not take this advantage away from this forum. Or it will turn to be just another small mock (mimic) of the outside world, politically , economically, socially….etc.
Be thoughtful, you do not where life where take you next.
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Well luckily he isn't a she!
Have you been reading his other thread where he says he wants to commit suicide? I have a strong feeling its all fake.
If you're reall deep down into it, go see a shrink! Why QL?
Worse still, he's just put up a one line tag and gone on to commit suicide and here we are posting like 50 answers to one stupid question!
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UR son of course, This should not even be a question for discussion.
That was a bit rude...such people who write these things here..is doing it to vent their problems, which they don't want to discuss with their real life friends.... but I feel this is not the way to answer. (no offense meant) If it was a girl, there would have been more people to offer help!
Depression is a serious condition which needs medcial help.
Just the day i stay away all this xcitement... :)
Some good quality reading here ...
Depressed could actually now complain to Qatari to get you banned from QL for using the F and the A word oh so many times! Hehehehe.
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ROFL ksarat. :D Poor guy.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
please be calm... just cool guys...relax.
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Way too funny dude! Rocking post! LOL. I am still laughing here.
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Dude...u need to take it easy and chill...man
We are ppl like u who all have respective problems...so get ur a** out of this website cos we r trying to have a good time here...cos this is one of those places where we can have a good time...meet new ppl...talk talk bout various things...which cud bring some good old memories, good old smiles, good times and on top of all peice of mind...
But what the F*c* man u and ur freaking name is disgusting and it can screw a lot of the people's living daylights...so u better change ur name and get it reframed cos nobody wants to see anybody depressed so get ur AZZ up and walk or rather continue over life...dont dwell over s5it things...
This life has only 1 shot...what u did for ur family is great...but dont expect anything in return...its ur family dude...if they r there be with them if they arent then dont...remember man u have got ur own set of ppl depending on u...so screw the life in front of u...
Please dude...sorry for being so rude...but thats the bottom line...get ur AZZ up and live life to the fullest...dont FU%K around with out happiness here...
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Folks,
I read many articles and seen it on TV how parents, under poverty line, specially single mothers, are forced to sell their own flesh and blood children, for adoption, in return for money.
According to an article, parents feel they are doing a favor to their sold sons and daughters, as they are providing them a better life, food, lifestyle, education opportunity and more.
Surprisingly, some parents are so poor to the extent that they do not negotiate well and get peanuts (little amount of money) in return.
There is a lot of unimaginable choices humans forcibly make.
Mahtma Ghandi said it before "There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of bread."
hey, why dont u join us at the bowling event!!!
da..
lets recruit some pins!!!
Two women came to the judge with the baby, and each of them insisted, that he is her son and she wishes to raise him. The judge thought how to learn which of them is a real mother, and he has thought up. It has told: well, we shall cut the child half-and-half, and everyone will take her part. One of women at once has cried: no! No! DO NOT CUT HIM!! Better let her take my child and raise him!!.. So the judge has learned who is the real mother.
As jassKat has said, if she changes the son for money, she is not mother any more, and he is not her son...therefore there is no issue.
whom should a mother choose, when it comes to decide between money or son ?
wake up..your only dreaming.
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You wouldn't let your dog go round biting people....so why should you let your son?
I think that MR.DEPPRESSED IS TRYING TO DRAG US INTO HIS DEPRESSION!!
Guess what buddy?
Eat your own crap and drown on it!
If is that you are trying to do!.
No more pity from me to you. Just harsh words.
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
what kind of a question is this...of course the son...money is money can be earned..son, duh, you cannot replace em...
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Who cares? I sure don't
Disappointment or not If you are 18 and over, You don't have to provide a darn thing to an adult.
Unless they are in college is still my responsibility to provide some kind of income not the tuition cost.
If him or her is working then they will have to share the cost of living, utilities and food expenses. Other wise get your own place.
Is the 21 century not the medieval days.
Otherwise I refuse or will not allowed them to drag my life into their parasite behavior.
I raise my kids to be self supportive and educated at 23 they move on with their lives. They got their own families, jobs and lifestyle ad still call me "FATHER".
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
You just lost urself seems like nothing is left for you in this life.
you are just gettin against ur mother with ur silly thoughts.
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This son sounds like a loser.....keep him with you so that he doesn't depress some other poor woman!
You bought him into the world, he's your responsibility so don't burden others....
You should have thought about it before you had the little blighter
oooohhhh..........my God..!! what is wrong now with you "depress"?? first you were depressed, now you are in dilemma? will there be a time for you to "stand firmly" in the future? i'm looking forward to hear that yeah my friend..:) hehehehe.....
anyways, i'm not yet married (promotion :) ) but if i were ask to choose between my son and money, i would choose my SON. because son could accumulate money for living and he can always stand beside me. but if i choose money- NOT just money couldnt 'buy' a son, but soon or later it will finish and i am left with nothing.
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Actually I have to agree with Red Pope. If the son is an adult and capable of taking care of himself then the mother should be more concerned about money. There are things like retirement and aging comfortably to consider.
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if she/he brought up properly ... he/she will never disappoint you when they become an adult.
Did you see a Doctor yet? You need a Doctor's help its never too late.
Gypss if you read his previous thread..you will get the answer.
He is talking about a grown up son (thats him) and his mother.
If he/she is over 18 not doing crap for their life's, then Money.
Why should I denied myself money behind a parasite?
I rather get rid of a PARASITE and enjoy my money after I gave him/her plenty of opportunities to succeed.
I rather move on, instead of being a martyr raising a full grown adult with no respect towards his life and others.
Is not criminal intent, Is survival intent and personal happiness.
Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery
None but ourselves can free our minds..
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I agree with you 100%. Well said!"
---> thank you for agreeing. :-)
lol ... he is a pain in everything ... probably you can call it a 'single child syndrome', i always do alot of things with him ... once he did not get his own way ... that would be the end of the world for him.
btw ... have you see that movie?
i think your son need you more than need money specially if he is still small.the best thing can make any mother is to take care from her child and keep husband to work and earn money.
this my advice.......
You better come and see me and after that it will be a son for mother to care about.
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was he a pain and a monster before he made you see fantastic four?
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novi-
I agree with you 100%. Well said!
nothing can replace my son ... i know my son is a pain and a monster ... but nothing in this world can replace him. Not now and not later. Not for any amount of money.
But then again ... it is just my opinion.
How much money and how old is that son?
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
What a question!!!!!Of course the son!Money comes and goes,you can make it and loose it and make it again.But your son is special,unique and forever.
*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your
spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.
Keep the faith!*
If she chooses money over her son, she is no longer a mother to the son. How could any mother want money over her own child?
What a horrible position this is.