SURVEY SAID....ARE YOU IN OR OUT???
Hi guys!
Everyone said that were already in the modern and liberated world...
Forget the old traditions and culture...
Does it mean we really need to forget EVERYTHING???
How about the solemnity of love, commitment & vows?
Some said its just a piece of paper...
Some said its much better to try it first & lets see the compatibility?
Survey...
Survey...
Survey...
Are you IN or OUT?
Which you preferred MARRIAGE or LIVE - IN and WHY?
I'm just citing an example.
If a man like that exist...only one thing to do...
RUN away, girl...and fast as you could...whehehehe
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
QS is right you can have both
- live your life as simple as you are
- money doesn't create man, but it is the man who created money
- don't do what others say, just listen to them, but do what you feel good
You can't teach experience...
BOTH at the same time?.. let's say to be married one guy and "Live-In" with other?
hey hey hey .. just kidding.. don't stone me!!
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marriage, but live in for some time first...
Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.
Before marriage might be a good Idea....
To see if you can actually stand each other full time...
You can't teach experience...
i prefer "living in" with "sex maniac" "drunkard" female
Vages
I think that is the most honorable thing a man can do.
It's always the small things that make big differences.
for sure,sure,sure
:-)
On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur, l'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.
(Antoine de Saint-Exupery)
You can't teach experience...
Azilana, you said,
"... HOWEVER... I also believe in LIVING-IN (for a certain period of time). You would only get to know someone during their unguarded situation. What if you got married to a drunkard, wife-beater (like my father used to be), a sex maniac ..."
Since when has a drunkard, a wife beater and a sex maniac all been classed in the same bad category?
I'll take either.
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for sure!
I prefer Living-in...
No waste of money for divorce if you realize one day that he's not good for you...lol
"Living - in"
ADVANTAGES
= Getting to know each other more
= Building dreams together
= Once the things dont work out - Good bye!
= Less pressure and less commitment
DISADVANTAGES:
= Unstable no assurance
= Investing too much emotions, time and money
= Unwanted children
"Marriage"
ADVANTAGES
1. Risk of incompatability is diminished
2. Idea of divorcing is unthinkable
3. Extended family support has its benefits
DISADVANTAGES
1. Inability to make up one’s own mind
2. Love takes second priority
3. Interference from extended family
"Even if LOVE is full of thorns, embrace it. For in between those thorns there is a ROSE that's worth all the PAIN."
Marriage..
I do (and still) believe in the sanctity of MATRIMONY.
And it's what binds two people together and be considered "one" in the eyes of MAN(society) and GOD (faith/religion). It guides the couple to respect and fulfill their vows to love, care, and be with each other "till death do US part". All women would like to be called a "bride".
HOWEVER...I also believe in LIVING-IN (for a certain period of time). You would only get to know someone during their unguarded situation. What if you got married to a drunkard, wife-beater (like my father used to be), a sex maniac, ie.
Back then, there is that STAGE they called LONG ENGAGEMENTS. Couples take time to really get to know each other and make sure they are doing the right thing. It's still being practiced, I guess.
Nowadays, it seems like...Oh, let's get married! If we don't clique together, we could get a DIVORCE, LEGAL SEPARATION, MARRIAGE, ANNULMENT...duhhh.
Sorry folks...it's a narrative...a piece of my thoughts...lol
Or to make it short (for the liveing-in part)...BEEN THERE, DONE THAT...got a lot of T-SHIRTS (and other stuff) to prove that...lol
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
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Aunt Polly
Of course, marriage.
Get married only if one is absolutely sure .
living in means no committment.
For people who cannot make a committment , living in may be a temporary solution.
my marriage :D
tra la la
i am a liberal person, living in is an advantage before proceeding into marriage...
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
I prefer marriage.
In marriage, there's a commitment and a vow for an unconditional love to each other and most importantly, there is a blessing from God.
"IF YOU THINK YOU KNOW EVERYTHING...THEN YOU KNOW NOTHING AT ALL"
i m totally liberated . live happily till u die without any one bossing u all the time.
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im liberated,
but i prefer marriage if i meet the right one for me.
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i'm confused? the what? In where?
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