How can love die in a one day.....
Well i'm just wondering how somebody can stop caring and loving you in one day...one day everything is perfact and another without a word...gone...without any reason, just because...one day you are the most beautiful irresistable peron on the hole world and another you are nothing....
love csn't just die in a day..anyone will say so is a big liar..
Believe me when i say it didn't happen in one day... he'd probably been cold for sometime before he decided to blow u off... maybe he had lost his feelings for you and found someone else. Reality Bites!
Go find another one... :)
love thread again. LOL
sometimes things are bound to happen even if u least expect it. One should be ready to move on and accept the reality of life.
Women are the most brutal of the species on the face of earth…Always have a backup ;-))
But don’t worry Kompa…I found that out the hard way too.
I only wish I realized that before and was a little wiser.
Nobody's PeRFect.....PrOMiSes are made to be broken ....and No SucH WORds as FoReVer.....
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Agree with you about "unconditional love". Two points from my side:
It works both ways - Women , as well as men can be jealous and ba$tard$ when it comes to relationships.
Love - Many of us like to believe that its love, when in reality , it isn't.
Thread got resurrected. A timeless classic... with QL, at any rate. :P
Letsee now... (budding writers/poets aside)...
alone again said "this is realy happening ... that love may fade but its not just for overnight. i came here bringing wonderful hopes and plans for our future but then I ended up breaking up with him. not because of the distance but because I realized of my worth that I can live my life and even have myself better without him."
- Ditto & ref. my "lame duck" comment yesterday or so. In the absence of a supportive man who's genuinely confident of himself (and not merely pretending to be so), it is better to be alone.
/I heard on QBS yesterday about a sms query about why guys are jealous - and the variety of answers showed their normal but flawed and immature thinking, which is the root of many problems. Only one person I heard gave an intelligent answer - he said it was because the guy is selfish and does not love the girl unconditionally - very concise, precise and accurate. The rest of them said crap like it's because they love the girl, etc. so we should be happy that our guys are jealous. Yeah, who're they kidding? It's not a sign of love but rather lack of self esteem and a weak character. Possessiveness is a clear sign of fear and lack of trust - not only in the partner but in their OWN judgment/choice of partner.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
love never die nor finishes in a day..may be it becomes weak coz of some reasons
lol this thread just celebrated it's 1st anniversary yesterday,.... errr, ,maybe 1st death anniversary.. :P
not love at all?
brit, are you asking me or kompa? i have seen kompas forum comment have been hanging for long. just wondering. = ) ciao!
worst, flan, worst!
that's the worse thing about sobering up.
"focused attention on your beloved" means just that, sonam. You turn a blind eye on everything around you. Horrible. I hate Chemistry. (I love Physics)
love is always blind any time can happen any tihng.
same happneed to you.
mY nEPAL
mY pRIDE
love is always blind any time can happen any tihng.
same happneed to you.
mY nEPAL
mY pRIDE
brit, I think they also used it during the Tour de France. Maybe Lance Armstrong can help you.
Wouldn't mind some of the Dopa-yours .. Does it come in powder or spray ?
High or low, Fran? Anyway, sleep well.
Ha. Night night.. I really AM going to bed this time:)
Ok, Fran, you got me.
Me, please:)
The main chemical involved in love is dopamine, which produces feelings of euphoria, energy, sleeplessness, and focused attention on your beloved. Biologically speaking, you’re experiencing something similar to a cocaine high. Who wants to be high all the time?
How long were you "apart" before you realised this ?
You can't teach experience...
As an Expat, you often get thrown into situations which wouldn't ring true if you were in your own environment. I guess it's a lot to do with security and more to do with temporary holiday feeling?
Water finds its own level and you weren't on his, he'll want to erm, flow, as it were. Off to bed now as I'm full of sh*t. Lol
that love may fade but its not just for overnight. i came here bringing wonderful hopes and plans for our future but then I ended up breaking up with him. not because of the distance but because I realized of my worth that I can live my life and even have myself better without him. Sometimes he comes into my mind and touches my emotions for no reason where the night is silent and the coldness of the room is spreading within the four corners of it. I dont bother to call or get in touch with him. I will not talk to him just because theres a single moment that reminds me of him. If you have decided to end up with your partner you have to stick with it and face whether you decided for good or not. The answer will not come to you now maybe after 3, 5 or 10 years. The "what if? - What if? " quote will always be there. you'll never know it until it comes your way or until you lost it... thats tasting the flavor of life the essence of being a human.
ok..
"I am brave, but I take a view. It is an educated view. I am careful. I am not reckless."
You can't teach experience
BRITNEY HUH..
"I am brave, but I take a view. It is an educated view. I am careful. I am not reckless."
You can't teach experience
vEGAS WHO MADE A MISTAKE?
"I am brave, but I take a view. It is an educated view. I am careful. I am not reckless."
You can't teach experience
communication is essential...it bridges the gap between two people...if theres a problem in your relationship talk about it...
but does thing really happens? i mean..one day? sheesh.....
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are you married?
well I've been in this kind of situation.it's difficult when you lost the magic in the relationship.you want to assume that everything is just normal but it's not..
then i met this guy..
..but i chose to stay in my relationship..my marriage and my family.trying to find the magic that i lost..
"I am brave, but I take a view. It is an educated view. I am careful. I am not reckless."
few months?? on distance? it definitely didn't happen in one day.. or even two. he just wasnot sure about it.. once he is sure, he broke it up.. it's normal..
maybe he talks out of his behind....
maybe that was never love...
If this is what happened to you then it was never love to begin with.
Time kills Love but Love(True) can never die in 1-day and that is a sad facts:(((
"APPEARANCE IS REALITY FOR ME and FAKERY TO YOU!" ;)
One day, the guy wants to be with you all the time...then all of a sudden, he gives you the LAMEST EXCUSE ever...PATHETIC, isn't it...
As in thanks for the happy times, but the buck stops here...duuhhh????
im also asking myself why?...........
it hurts me a lot.....
thinking of the same ... When the children come into the picture something really do change, the father get serious and the mom get busy and between taking care of life matters and issues, in addition now the kids ... they forget about having sometime for themselves like before ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
appears from no where and run to you daddy daddy mommy is calling you there.
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welcome to the club kompa, i had the same problem as yours and it still hurts like hell
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
...equally fickle. It's one of the few gender non specific characteristics I know and have experienced.
we just do always ignore that while everything around us would tell the truth ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
Dance like it hurts,
Love like you need money,
Work when people are watching!
OHHHHHH king what happened
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Love is there.Always.NO myth!Reality!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know that.
:D
love anymore ... it became a myth and almost impossible to be ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
OK true love can't die overnight, if theis wasn't true love how can somebody simulate love and pretend for two and half years...
It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all
Agree. Its very difficult to have long distance relatinships, even with good communication..
Communicatin via phone/chat line/video is not the same as being there physically..
and yes,true love dies not overnight.
but we are not made to stay alone for a longtime i think
we need the beloved one close to us.
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well,thats only how i think,maybe others would disagree
I know that, but still, diconnecting people who love you and care about you from your life is not the solution...maybe it's easier to cope with this hard feelngs of loneliness when you cut the communication...this is how love can die in one day...
Communication is the key,
whenever things are bottled up,
Cabang...it will burst in one second...
But I do think it was not true love, or else things will cool down in a few moments and all will go back as befor, if not better ;-)
Math 4 All
Sorry to hear this, but its quite common for expatriates..I had a friend who worked abroad for four years and got taken for everthing...
WOMEN!
well, thay say we can;t have both sides of the world...and one of my friends even said it's not worth coming here without the family with you.
keep your options open
Distance does not make the heart grow fonder..
It's hard for both parties...
It happend with me, just because I left home and come here to earn money for better life, everythig was fine for few months and than one day cold shower...without any reason...well there is reason, change of address, distance, lack of communication, but how can feelings die because of that...
Before Marriage - - -
Boy: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.
Girl: Do you want me to leave?
Boy: NO! Don't even think about it.
Girl: Do you love me?
Boy: Of course! Over and over!
Girl: Have you ever cheated on me?
Boy: NO! Why are you even asking?
Girl: Will you kiss me?
Boy: Every chance I get!
Girl: Will you hit me?
Boy: Are you crazy! I'm not that kind of person!
Girl: Can I trust you?
Boy: Yes.
Girl: Darling!
1 day after marriage - - - SIMPLY READ FROM BOTTOM TO TOP
We men are impulsive creatures .. Loving, caring, but act on instinct..:) Was it the ady after you told him about the afair ?
can it really happen in one day?? i have never seen that happenin...
You Paid How Much For That? :) _________________________________________
If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings
maybe, he didn't really love u anyway
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keep your options open
but when you are not used to talk about problems for sure it will look as it came overnight.
so it is very,very important to talk to each others very open and straight,but not in a hurting way.
:)
Thats life
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