A Guide to Controlling One’s Sexual Desire

I think i would rather stay as i am, and if i start felling horny, then let it be....forget the flowers eh!!

Hmmm...I'll think about it.

ice from where?

need to buy a fridge! :P :)

Fill a bath tub with ice and slide in...Much cheaper option...

To cut myself? Aaaa no!

then, buy 2 smaller :)

Well I'd like to find xl fridge, but problem is nobody is making such a big size.

If you dont have cold water ,buy an extra-large fridge.

With TV inside...

I.brrr..fff..oouu..brrr.nndd....brr...it..vorrrr...k..ssss brrr

Mr.fridge eng. Brr...ruth

Thanks Dr Ruth for this advice, but I am affraid there is some misunderstanding in this "socializing with my self".

But anyway I need cold shower, not only me,it is very hard to find it nowdays in Qatar. If you find somewher let us know:)

May I suggest that everytime you feel like "socializing with yourself", you take a cold shower instead..

I haf found it vorks..

Yours

Dr Ruth

1- I got married on a time and have a nicest woman on planet.

2- I am not eating chocolate and other afrodisiac food.

3- I am Christian Orthodox and I am fasting on Wednesday and Friday, also during Christmas and Easter faster.

4- I have removed all photos of my wife, in my walet I am keeping photos of Gerge Bush, Teddy Bears and Vini Pu. Instead of love and romantic songs I am listening only Ramstein.

5- My best friends are priests and members of Opus Dei.

6- I am keeping myself busy in worship and spiritual acts.

7- I am an active on forums where people speak only about politic

8- I avoid to go near Sofitel, Ramada, Rydges etc. I am sitting at home and socializing with my self.

9- My house is like a jungle with lots of flora and fauna.

But still I have a problem, sometime I catch my self thinking about s*x.

Need serious help, am I a bad person? What to do?

hahahahahaha

Remember an article about an ER medic: "Half a sweet-potato in the hole(to hold up a sagging uterus)"

Removing that was more than his sensitive gag-reflex could handle.

He has never eaten a sweet potato since that day.

He's got a good point.. Certain objects can become wedged or even do internal damage..

cant it be concluded as "Stop Living"

please , dont look at me like that!

i have GF, i swearrrrr

Mrs. Palmer is history... :)

Drac, dare i ask how you come across this information. Good article though.

You obviously saw "There's something about Mary"..

I wonder if the theory actually works?

Yusuf Qaradawi, Rocket Scientist and Gynecologist, and Sex Therapist

"Female masturbation is more risky than male masturbation"

http://vwt.d2g.com:8081/2006/11/yusuf_qaradawi_rocket_scientis.html#more

zenon, hahaha sorry didn't see your comment.

it would solve a lot of problems though.

As I suggested earlier - why don't we reaquaint ourselves with Mrs Palmer?

and it will be cold off.....

spanky to the BATCAVE!!!http://www.qatarliving.com/user/spanky1423

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try masturbation before going out.

The More you restrict, the more you become obsessed.

A dog let free will be much calmer and matured than the one kept locked.

realsomeone...

Are you for real?

Are you normal?

If the answer to both is 'Yes', please revert with proof from a medical practioner.

The poor female ferret if she doesn't mate when she is on heat then she dies. How does this relate to the thread, I have heard many a man say "if he doesn't get laid he'll Die"

Not to desire about the females in your visibility..lol

only illegal sexual desires...Islam encourages legal sex and Allah rewards for having legal sex.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

Forgiveness is life...:)

well how ever you take it , what i mean is dont lie about me... he doesnt know me of course and i dont know him. so its absolutely offending to say something like that about me.

he maybe feeling its fun to joke with Gypsy about this but it isnt fun near me to be called non Muslsim.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

Yes I think you are. Just make sure it's a decent filly.

And I hate to be a pedant - but realsomeone "dont ever make false lies about me" - come on, are lies ever true?

I am a BAT

And half-dead!

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Who wants to be zoophil and necrophil?Huh? Any lady?Gypsyyyyyyyyyy????????

Feed me back!

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I'm also into Zophilia and Sado/Masochism...

Do you think I'm flogging a dead horse ?

rami thats really very outrages and really stupid thing to say, you dont know me please watch your words.

if you dont like Islam its upto you, but dont dont ever make false lies about me. i guess i am clear. i dont joke about Islam and Allah so watch your words.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

I'm dead against it!

hmmm, you know rami-leb, you could be right.

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I guess when you can't get a cold shower here in Doha, you have find another way to get something cold to smother your body!

It's especially nice when it comes out of morgue... all icey and refreshing. And if it's at the right stage of rigor mortis... I'll leave that there I think.

Gypsy/Brit Expat...

Haven't you worked out by now the Realsomone isn't muslim? In fact he hates the religion and Allah and all that muslims stand for so much that he ridicules it daily on this webpage to make people like us hate Islam more, and Muslims feel embarrassed and ashamed by their hate-filled, sanctimonious, pious, condescending, violent, intollerant, naive, hypocritical blabber.

sorry just thought it had to be said.

When looking at the flowers make sure you do not "de=flower" any as I and others were told not to do as students heading off to the colleage ball...

eeeeeewwwwwwwww. :S

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thank u

Gypsy's comments about forbidden S*x has me worried.. I always that that Necrophilia was fine, but now I am unsure..

What do you think ?

Must be going senile....reading but not absorbing.

ok Mr Paul good for you if you are happy, but never forgot "life is a journey" and it has clearly goals and its short so trying to ignore religion is very dangerous and has consequences in this life and the hereafter.

but i guess in the end the Christian system is unable to integrate life and religion together because of human manipulation.

Realsom, i' m not a Christian !

But my next point is....If yer a practising Musllim, then yer should already know all the Quran and teachings, and i' m guessing that a lot of other faiths dont really care ......

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I mentioned cold showers! But you're right Dweller, good luck finding it.

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Look at the beautiful sand dunes............now gerrem off!

LOL...dweller look at the beautiful sandunes and salt flats n get ur high!!

Somebody told me, "You are what you eat".Now I know why I'm nuts!!

How many flowers in the desert this time of year?

Nobody has mentioned cold showers yet but I suppose in a Qatari summer really cold water is hard to find!

The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it. Resist it, and your soul grows sick with longing for the things it has forbidden to itself- Oscar Wilde

Somebody told me, "You are what you eat".Now I know why I'm nuts!!

post so be it. That's why I'm saying you also have to give Realsomeone's thread the same level of understanding. Why do you defend (are you?) Gypsy when you are saying that she is just answering an earlier response from me? Was it a personal thing again?

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Wouldn't Item 8 worsen the situation (i.e., increase your desire)? For me, talking & interacting with women decreases my sexual desire. If I'm just looking at them, I look at those "bumpy bits" (as Britexpat called them) that shouldn't be looked at. When I talk with a woman, I think she's a regular human being -- same as me. Not a sexual creature to be stared at and obsessed over.

it could be good idea but i just posted the thread as it was from the source. if you see the link

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

and it should be posted in Religion/culture section. We cannot force our religion on others. This islamonline fatwa was for muslim child.

You are right.. By using the title I suggested, the posting would have been read by both. The Muslims would have used it to enforce their beliefs and the non Muslims would have used it to learn that islam offers solutions for all aspects of daily life.

Rami, I agree with u.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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CB

You are the one who started blabbing, I just went with the flow. No one asked you to pull my leg, your action was just a waste of time for me and u both.

The hat doesnt fit, your way of putting things is like "just cuz thexonic was talking to a girl, means he's sleeping with her" thats the only thing that I can figure out from your argument and nothing else.

I dont falsly accuse people, I will talk based upon your own behavior towards not just me, but many other people. Insulting a group of people using foul language, infront of everyone at a resturant doesn't seem appropritate to me. May be in your dictionary its allrite. You see I dont like this dirty business of exposing others in public, something you like to do. So Lets leave my case alone, I clarified myself more than crystal clear. You on the other hand are a bit twisted up and I dont know whats going on in your mind, I dont even want to know. So like i said lets leave our personal lives away from the forum, even if it is an open forum.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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nope i dont agree, this points can be useful to non muslims too.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

Hear! Hear!

With respect, i don't think it is irrelevant.

if the posting title had been "A Good Muslims' Guide to Controlling One’s Sexual Desire " then it makes sense. But the way you have approached it , you are trying to enforce your ideals on everyone.

Would you agree ?

Usually this emoticon :P means what I said is in jest.

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Gypsy was responding to the earlier reponses. It could be tongue in cheek or serious.

If she had initaited a thread saying "Forbidden s** is the best kind", then it makes sense for people to counter with the Islamic argument.

But, what purpose does it serve as an ad-hoc posting ?

who is getting angry here and what danger does this post cause to anyone or Islam? britexpat your comment is irrelevant to this thread.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

A Guide to Controlling One’s Sexual Desire

#10. Come in Qatar, work 12 hours/day and drive 3 hours/day to/from accomodation. sooo tired...you dont need even food...

to her. So anyone could already opine on what kind of personality she has. But she is entitled to it. We just suggest our advice based on our religious conviction, but to her, what is wrong is right and what is right is wrong, then so be it.

One thing is for sure, we go separate ending. FORBIDDEN is teh key word>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Couldn't agree more britexpat, there was a time, when I first joined this site I actually had some respect for Islam or religion in general. Some of the people on this site however made me realize Islam (or any religion) wasn't worth respecting.

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I seriously wonder why people initiate these types of postings. They seem to do more damage to the image of Islam then enhance it.

By all means use examples as these within a discussion to support your argument, but posting ad-hoc and then getting angry when people make fun makes no sense.

The best way for Muslims to forward the cause of Islam is through actions and deeds, not words.

you're a man and not an animal. So if you find some of the suggestions absurd, so be it. Were you hurt by Realsoeone's suggestions. View it in his context not yours. I told YOU, I also disagree with some or maybe all, but if you picture it and if you have the same level of God or Alla-fearing behavior as we will give Realsomeone the benefit of the doubt, then his suggestions stays!!!!!!

PICK WHAT YOU WANT AND THROW WHAT YOU DON'T LIKE. IF YOU DON'T LIKE ALL OF IT, IT MEANS YOU'RE NOT SEEING LEVEL TO LEVEL!!!!!!!!!!!

Give your opinion, but don't hate the Guy!!!!!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

I agree with rami-leb. Your self-control should be able to prevent you from having 'illegal' sex. You shouldn't have to think of ways to avoid or distract yourself from the temptation. If you can't control yourself, you need help.

Forbidden sex is the best kind. :P

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thanks dmigtysolomon of course what i am talking about is Illegal sex, Islam encourages legal sex and indeed you get rewards from Allah by having legal sex.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

Thanks for the clarification solomon. I was really confused.

The point is that some of us find the advice patronising and pointless. We avoid extra-marital sex by just having some self control and not having extra-marital sex.

If you need advice for how not to have sex outside wedlock, then you should be seeking professional, psychological guidance.

Seeing a woman in Carrefour doesn't make me want to strip off and jump her. I'm a man, not an animal.

How the flip do some people many to make an argument out of everything??? No wonder lots of regulars have left QL.

ok Mr Paul good for you if you are happy, but never forgot "life is a journey" and it has clearly goals and its short so trying to ignore religion is very dangerous and has consequences in this life and the hereafter.

but i guess in the end the Christian system is unable to integrate life and religion together because of human manipulation.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

forbidden sex. Some of the suggestions should be viewed by his intention not necessarily per letter or word.

Like suggestion no.1, it should be viewed as if you want legitimate sex and not commit sins by making intercourse with not your wife or husband.

Everybody is entitled to his or her opinion. Anybody can interpret his thread in many wrong ways but his intention is about avoiding what he consider is forbidden SEX.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Actually I don't know what you are babbling on about and this is an open forum so I can take part in it if I like.

You are beeing offensive so I guess I hit the nail on the head with you, I don't agree to things if I don't believe in them and I am not judging you but if the hat fits wear it.

"CB, I would judge myself before judging others if I were u, u claim to be a muslim and u dont even act like a proper christian".

Don't present things about me that you are not sure of a because you just don't know and false accusations is worse than lying.

I think we are seeing the same problem and the same solution, but from two different angles.

My sole point is that enforcing strict separations between people and what they desire leads them to desire it more. Dietians will tell you that the worst way to lose weight is to go on a diet, because your mind becomes obsessed about food. It's all you can think about. In the end you want it so badly you actually eat more than a person who isn't conscious of their weight.

It's the same with sex.

If people treated one another like adults and they just mixed in ordinary social environments, they wouldn't have such a desire to have so much sex.

Preaching that people should control their urges and avoid sex and women and alcohol and drugs and speeding in their car and fast food and pornography just makes people want it more.

CB, I would judge myself before judging others if I were u, u claim to be a muslim and u dont even act like a proper christian.

I never claimed to be a proper muslim in any case, cuz alot of things that I do might be offensive in Islam and religious people do avoid it, like smoking, socializing with women, going to clubs or bars etc... these are not haram, these are makrooh which means they are bad for me but not a sin. Where as I dont do drugs, I dont drink and I dont sleep with women and I avoid having a girl friend.

I find it inappropriate to open my mouth about other people in public, so I would appriciate it if u get off my back please.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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I go through life perfectly happy thank you.

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Rami, I agree with u 100%. People do such things because of lack of attention or to much attention. If parents raise them with proper and balanced attention, they might aswell think straight. But the thing is not about west or east, cuz I've met people like "thatguy" and a few others from the west who are married at a young age and they are living a very happy life, rather than being lost and chasing their hearts. I've also met a few arabs who are single and are above 24 yrs and live happily, I'm one myself. It all depends on what kind of attention we get in our childhood. I was a spoilt brat back in the days, but my mom slapped me and that is what made a real man out of me. It's like they say, some people learn it the hard way, I had to go thru it.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Are you serious??? You are surely joking!!!!! I do wonder.

He surely has valied points according to Islam but I percieve that this is actually from a man's point of view and more meant for men. I heard at one point a man thinks about s*x every 17 seconds a woman every 13 what about that??? lol lol

"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

If you agree with the statement above, then you would naturally comply with that statement because you believe in it. However, going to an island and swimmiing with half naked women and interacting with them in bars etc. is not quite what I would call convincing - in my eyes.

Yes it does relate to the subject and very much so.

1- Getting married as soon as possible, even with little furniture and humble accommodation.

--- I AGREE with that…coz you have your HUSBAND/WIFE to “do” it with….BUT REALITY CHECK: it’s a known fact that most married men do likes to flirt (or play with “fire” as well (whatever nationality/religion he has)

2- Observing moderation in eating and drinking in order to avoid stimulating one's desire.

--- I heard/know about aphrodisiacs…is this what you meant?

3- Observing fasting, because it bolsters one's faith, preserves chastity, and protects one from evil thoughts. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said: "O youth, whoever of you is able to marry, let him marry, for it spares one looking at what one should not, or lapsing in adultery. And if he cannot marry, let him observe fasting, for it is a shield against evil."(Reported by Muslim)

--- Fasting, virtue of Chastity….in short…CELIBACY…depends on the person, I guess

4- Keeping away from anything that is sexually stimulating, such as pornographic pictures, erotic films and love songs.

- I agree with the 2 items mentioned but “love songs” ????

5- Choosing good and righteous friends.

-- I agree… but the word “righteous” …kinda steep requirement you impose for anyone to qualify as/to be your friend.

6- Keeping oneself busy in worship and spiritual acts.

-- I believe in praying/spiritual activities would keep you pre-occupied but you need to enjoy other things in life…like going out to see a movie with friends, go on a trip, socialize….

7- Interacting with activities of the society in such away that it keeps a person away from thinking about sex.

-- PLEASE cite an EXAMPLE…I do wanna know….

8- Avoiding gatherings and places that bring men and women physically close to each other.

-- how physically close do you mean…and how far apart (physically speaking) could we do it? NO MAN IS AN ISLAND….

9- Trying to admire natural things such as flowers and beautiful scenery, which do not stimulate one sexually, instead of admiring girls and women."

------>admiring girls and women doesn’t always lead to sexual stimulation…unless the person has a very high LIBIDO….

BOTTOMLINE: You got some valid points…but at least you could have expounded it b’coz at first read, it do seem to sound ludicrous….

Like I said , just my views….

Long time sexual abstinence is harmful for your health..

If this has happened to you, you are totally normal, do not worry ... you are a healthy person

If not, then the bus must have been so crouded...

I do admire nature .. specailly beautiful sexy women on the beach .. with the sea and sunset .. really nice..

"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

CB, U r the one who is trying to relate something that has nothing to do with this subject and not me. I do have alot of social contact thats true, but that doesnt mean i am sleeping with one.

By the way one more thing, I don't agree with a few of the things that he has mentioned above, but I dont disagree with them either. In the end I am just a human who doesnt commit adultery and believes in being a virgin until after the marriage.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Please don't misunderstand me. I totally understand your beliefs and I can why, intuitively, they seem sound.

This culture here thinks 'tell people not to have so much sex and then they won't'. They expect this to work, in the same way that western cultures tell people not to take drugs.

We in the west have a few years more knowledge about these things. We know that they fail.

If you look at the US you will find high schools that teach 'abstinence only' programs, which basically tell students that the only way to avoid pregancy and STDs is to avoid sex altogether. This is true. Avoiding sex will avoid pregnancy. HOWEVER tell people this does not work. They need to be educated with the tools to deal with their sexuality, not have it brushed under the carpet.

To date there have been no scientific studies that have shown that teaching children that abstinence is the ONLY way to avoid pregnancy actually works. Some studies have found the reverse, that schools that tell their children not to have sex actually end up having more sex and higher pregancy rates.

mafi, there's a difference between acquentence and knowing someone.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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How would you know that?? Lol!! How are you? Yes he knows me and I met him at other gatherings but he is right I don't know him (character situation).

the topic is about "A Guide to Controlling One’s Sexual Desire"

It is not about me (and believe me I don't have a closed mind)or your lost joke it is about your comments I just wonder where the undermentioned fits into your ideas. one thing you are right about I don't know you and it irrelevant to your comments.

" Trying to admire natural things such as flowers and beautiful scenery, which do not stimulate one sexually, instead of admiring girls and women."

Thexonic - you know CB personaly. She was with you on last Dhow Trip onboard the same Dhow :)

Cannary bird u dont know me, so I will not consider being harsh to u as an appropriate thing. Anyway, going to rydges with someone was only so i could get in... not so i could take her home and fornicate her! and the reason why I said that was because u were going alone. Now if u think with your close mind and u still have grudges against me for a joke, then I'm sorry to say but "GET OVER IT"

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "Woohoo...whatta ride!!"

U just proved my point and realsome's point. Arabs need to be a bit more open minded and mutual, where as west needs to be a little more conservative. They both r living on extremes, none of them are neutral. Where does it say in Bible that having a boy friend is appropriate? or in Quran, we make up some bullsh*t of our own, just to justify our desiers. Anyone who fears god or loves god, avoids such things. But not in today's world, in today's world people have an excuse called "oh those rules were 1400 years ago, now the times have changed" yes they have changed, they have gone worse and its not gonna get any better, it will get even more worse than it is now.

The priests and nuns that u mentioned above, I'm not a christian, but the rule that they have of not getting married, is not right, they are humans too, they have desires.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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I do wonder about your comments especially after you making remarks on QL about wanting to go with women to the Rydges and you have a lot of social contact with women in QL social gatherings - correct me if I am wrong!!!

Eco-savvy, life lesson no. 1...people have different opinions.

QL is a forum where most people come together to discuss toics and issues with a variety of different opinions.

Calling everyone garbage because they don't share the same opinion is incredibly narrow-minded.

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Tyra is garbage, but it makes me laugh. That's why I watch it.

Realsomeone's Taliban was of living 'life' (if you can call it that) is garbage, but it's funny, that's why I read it.

God gave people sexual desire, but we're supposed to believe that it's evil and wrong.

I dont have separation between life and religion, its all same and interconnected...life without religion is "broken"

religion sets borders and rules for living.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

post on other topics, or is religion the only thing yer know about ?

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"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

no, no i am not trying to convert anyone, remember "whom so ever allah guides non can misguide and whom so ever allah allows to go stray non can guide"

i am just trying to contribute to the community.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

If you can't control your sexual desire at "gatherings and places that bring men and women physically close to each other" then you should probably be locked up!

Self-control is the answer, not avoidance and distraction.

even my plants will stop breathing ,if this QL garbage is converted into fertilizer.

they bring people close to each other and encourage sin and sexual arousal?

"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

Westerners who dont have any sense of decency and scruples, so basically we dont care !!

And i dont ! He can live his strict religious life following his God, whilst i will just party and have fun !

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We've seen all this before. Let's be straight.

For the longest time in the west, people thought that celibate priests and nuns, particularly Catholics, were pure and holy because they weren't having sex. It then emerged that huge, huge numbers of them were engaging in the most depraved acts involving minors and non-consensual sex. Their outward, public behaviour and preaching was totally at odds with their private lives.

It's the same here. In all the countries I've been to, I have NEVER met a people (the Qataris) who are so sexually active. A typical weekend is a trip to Dubai or Bahrain involving a hotel room and a dozen prostitutes (boys and girls). This is a country where cars with window tinting is banned because too many people were having sex inside. Where stretch limos were banned because too many girls were raped in them. Where housemaids are raped every day.

Seriously, at least in western countries people can have healthy sex lives. Here the guys just want to screw everything that moves because they are told day in day out that they must be celibate. If you've never met a Qatari (or 100) who is cheating on his wife with numberous prostitutes, you are living with your head in the sand, my friend.

Wise up.

Who is out of control here?

What’s is wrong if both parties involved are okay with it?

Its not harming you or the society in anyway?

Do you really think they do it because they cannot control themselves...Lolz

On the night is my world

City light painted the girls

In the day there is nothing matters

It`s the night time that flatters

In the night no control

Through the wall something`s breaking

Wearing white as you`re walking

Down the street of my soul

You take my self

You take my self control

YUP all these makes a great sense for someone who is open to listen, specially the first is so true, i did myself :) it works.

anyway, this list is for someone who wants to stay away from sexual desire and i guess you guys are running for sexual desire. so its the opposite for you.

"He who does not thank people, does not thank Allah" prophet Muhammed (pbuh)

Mr.P, the threads where he's being an extremist... I avoid those, but sometimes his treads r right too. If we think outside the box.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Your justification would be the reason for my penis to burn in hell forever, Hell fire is also free. Perhaps, I don't like making god unhappy and facing karma.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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If yer not Muslim then yer scum and not worth his time !! Sad, very sad !!

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

preach QLRs about how to lead a pure life away from sex temptation .. I am sure al QLRs know what is best for them.

Asfar as for your advise sexual desire is not reduced by marraiage .. it increases by marriage ..

"The best way to predict the future is to create it".

He didnt say a joke that everyone is laughing. Be open minded and give him a little respect.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Mr Paul, I think the Funnies section would be even more appropriate!

8- Avoiding gatherings and places that bring men and women physically close to each other.

NO !!!!!!

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

if you're getting married, why would you want advice for how to have LESS sex? Surely that is the reason for getting hitched in the first place? Sex on tap? And free, too.

I'm so grateful to realsomeone. He finds the funniest sh1t to put on this website. It's like when you find an edition of "Ladies Home Journal" from 1956 and laugh about how people used to live in times gone by.

I bet he has all sorts of advice for getting beetroot stains out of linen, and how to starch damask table cloths, and the proper way to buff silver.

Wonderful post. I am thinking of getting married soon Insha'Allah.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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This should be in the "Funnies" not in here for sure :P

Can we NOT get into the sexual organs of a damn flower...LOL!!!

Watch the movie "Kandahar". Mullah teaches young boys of the technique of getting rid of Sexual desire in Mullah's way :)

You should follow the same system :)

Eat lots of papaya.. it lowers libido.. lol

I guess it would depend on the flower. Perhaps they are bisexual if the flower has bother androcecium and gynoecium reproductive parts.

Or maybe they are unisexual if they are looking at an angiosperm.

Sorry rami-leb, guys who look at other guys and feel sexual desire are called gay, guys that look at flowers and stuff, are just....Asexual?

Visit www.qatarhappening.com

They forgot "Sit in a tub of ice" or "take lots of cold showers."

Visit www.qatarhappening.com

you must be bloody kidding,

specially about "Getting married as soon as possible" part....

Guys who look at a chicks and feel sexual desire are 'normal', according to most of the posters on this site.

Guys who looki at chicks and would rather be looking at flowers, worrying about their diet, and leading a lifestyle that allows them to avoid contact with women are called GAY.

If you don't want to bone a chick, fine, just stop preaching all your gay love messages to everyone. Let them chose their own path.

No.9...ROFL...oh god, that's the funniest.

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Oh..Love songs are sexually stimulating..

Lol...look at flowers and natural beauty, well my friend I have to add in here at this point that, there is no BETTER NATURAL BEAUTY than a Girl my friend...LOL!!!

culture " section ?

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

When I'm coming down like a bitch I don't have any sexual desire, so my advice would be to get doped up on some top notch powder.