why do people cheat their partners?
By x_albhertz •
why do they have to cheat.... why not if their over with the girl/boy .. why dont he just be frank to her and end up their relationship... so the instances of having two girls/guys at the same time would not be needed?
guys explain urselves y do u have to cheat?
Lack of attention and so on which is awful just to make themselves happy.
" AN END DOES NOT JUSTIFY THE MEANS"
aside from our partners. but it should not be an excuse to cheat since we all have a choice. we all can control our actions and stand up to it.
why people cheat? Maybe beacuse they can get away with it (after all some women thinks men cant afford to be monogamous ), or they dont know what they really want; they dont know how it is to RESPECT a partner; they thinks its acceptble after all 'were only humans' (who cant think rationally?)
but lipstick was closest:
"because we are only human"
We can't help who we fall in love with, and as someone who has 'cheated', I was racked with guilt. But I found it a transitional stage - to leave someone you love for someone you love more is difficult, and not a day goes by when I don't think I could have made it easier for the previous partner.
I also have been on the receiving end and I know it hurts, but that is life and we are only human with all our foriables.
"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."
I absolutely agree BritExpat.. People make way to many excuses for their behavior rather then owning up for it!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
I am not trying to be a saint... I would rather people owned up, then make feeble excuses.
Don't you think you are causing more hurt to your partner and children by pretending all is well and cheating on them..
guy, so that cant be true....
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
Irresponsible feckless men not taking good care of them.
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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM
If they have a big willy its so they can show it off to the world.
If they have a small willy they are trying to prove size doesn't matter.
You may have a point.. My own thought is that it depends on yourself. you can make a hundred excuses for why you cheated.. no intimacy, no warmth, no attention etc etc, but at the end of the day, the fault lies with yourself.
If you're not happy with a relationship and can't work to iron out the difficulties, then END IT. Don't cheat.
why do people cheat their partners?
because we are only human.
chaud
Interesting.. I wonder what were her biases in the study. And how truly reflective it is of reality.
I am sure quite a few people cheat who are too comfortable with intimacy (hence need it all the time) and interested in but do not get equal committement from their partner and hence look elsewhere to satisfy that need.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
they're BORED?
but I think its because of the thrill of knowing you might get caught...would make it "forbidden" so therefore all the more dangerous...and sexually stimulating..
I know a guy who married his long time mistress and then complained that the sex life wasn't as fun and exciting as it used to be when they were cheating...well, duh...
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
Gypsy may have something..(Hope its not catching)
Anyway, A research study conducted at Swineburne University (Au) suggests that it's not the relationship, it's really you. Your personality traits affect the way you love or commit to a partnership.
According to psychologist Julie Fricker who conducted this study, people who were unfaithful were uncomfortable with intimacy and uninterested in commitment.
Sure MD, there's no cheating going on in this part of the world
hahahahahahaha
i was kidding on the last one.... but it's true i never cheat...
whoever said im a cheat, MD? i always get cheated....
Cos they are evil and deserve to rot in hell......there.....
but you said you never cheated, mjamille, not even at school. Or am I wrong?
they think it's an exam, so they cheat... lol
lol MD...
It's an invention of the bad West. Freedom of Speech, Freedom of Choice. See, where it leads to.
not receiving enough love and affection
that was before and i changed already! =( because i believed in kARMA =(
.xalbherts..i'm never a cheater...
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.are you?
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coz he's a selfish son-of-a-*****
animals and like animals, somewhere hidden deep in our subconscious is the urge to produce as much offspring as possible to keep our DNA going. Unfortunately we see this as an itch that needs to be scratched for pleasure.....
"Your born, You Live, You Die, given this premise, one can conclude since we have no control over when we are born and when we die, the only thing that matters to us should be how we live, simple really?" Mis-Cat to her philosophy Lecturer.
cheating if he tells her.
are you guys talking about.
GET ABOVE THE BELT :/
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or someone richer came
because someone better comes along...
hey at least you can still spank them pretty hard and they won't feel a thing!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
One is paralyzed from the waist down and can't perform anymore.
one of them sucks in bed but otherwise is a brilliant partner in life!
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
TRUST is very important in a relationship
because their is something lacking in the relationship and the partner who cheats has little patience or loyalty.
Maryum : Umm Hasan bint Abdullah Alshabrawishi
"The best way to predict the future is to create it".
Because they're unhappy with themselves.
Greed is the answer!
because he doesn't want only one, he wants TWO or more...