Anybody gone through their own personal wars?
By heero_yuy2 •
I will tell you the truth. I will be going through this kind of phase as of now for reasons maybe some of you were familiar with. But before I jumped into it, maybe some of you who went to such different types of personal wars can enlighten me with your story and the consequences that may arouse...so that somehow you can all convince me to contain myself in what I'm going through and ease or change my situation to normal.
So far I'll give you a hint of what happened: I now consider two of my former close friends as enemies...and I don't want to declare war yet. I don't need to state the reasons why. Possibly you all know it before...
Thank you all for reading.
heero
When friends become a drag just come out of it, amicably.
Adey was only able to invade Poland without anyone noticing because he walked in backwards and they thought he was leaving.... =)
They call it the American dream because you have to be asleep to see it... --George Carlin
Geeezzz....this is getting lower and lower...
their (your ex-friends) problem is N.O.Y.F.B.
You're the one getting affected...S1new is right...so much Drama just for this!?!?!?!
WTH is wrong with you?
then face them ..be a man
ooh! dont be teenage drama queen daig mo si lindsay lohan
"I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision."
heero, then wake up.. :P
Good luck to you.. you needed it.. and more prayers to you to overcome this probs to give you more patience..
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
You've been kind. I know everyone of you tried the best to help me out, humor or not...and I appreciate it.
I just wanted this nightmare to end...:-(
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
I agree with mjamille :)
Leave the company...but for the sake of my family, my grandma and the house loan...I will not.
All I need is to stop them from doing it. Kept on ignoring since but, as i said, it just...always...accidentally...get caught by me...and i'm getting tired of their stuff!
I tell you it's not easy, owen, since it's...everyday...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
heero, no amount of words we say here will ever help you in any way,...only you can deal with what u face right now...best of luck..
They should. Not me.
Sorry, someonenew. Can't explain the situation where I've been dealing with now. Try filling my shoes sometime to know the feeling...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
i see.. so i guess this isn't meant to be solved at all.. continue ignoring them, say nothing.. know nothing... if it's really getting into you and everything else is being affected.. leave that company..change workplace, change of people around you...
not easy..but you can't feel like this for long, right?
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
heero ur such a drama queen! why dont u grow up and be a man???
I dream of a better tomorrow where Chickens can cross the Road without having their motives questioned - Unknown
so dont...
Been doing this since my dad died when I was 14...
It didn't start through me. If it did I would've averted it or solved it from the start...
I just can't understand why I always 'accidentally' caught them in spite of ignoring it since...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
heero..just a thought.. would you reconsider reflecting at yourself.. maybe the problem started all from you... and from there you could at least solve this ongoing issues of yours..
just my thought buddy..
[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.
Maybe they just want you to start the war? and have been planning on it since day one.....
They meet in the morning when no one is around and in the afternoon downstairs with also no one is around.
Let's start the war, sha'we?
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
...but they're using work as a reason for them to do it.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
try to ignore them and if work will got affected bring it to your manager
They never ignore me.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
they matter to you? i can read here that all you can do is ignore them and not talk to them anymore, they don't deserve your attention
nobody's taking action,.. if they wont do something about it, then you make the move. if you want to put an end to all this, you should, rather than wait a lifetime for them to do something, which obviously, they wont...
It's them who made the one-year lies. Nobody's taking action. All they do is...walk pass by me and make me look silly. I'm getting tired of those BS their doing!
Re:chocolate
I have been veeery nice to them for more than a year. They only used my niceness. Will I do it again?
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
confront them, tell it to their face and work something out...
Heero try conquering hate with love. Be extra nice to them.
if he can...
scratch it and fire it off to face his 2 ex-friends...
Seriously Heero, confront them and after that ignore them... keeping it boiling inside may put you in trouble later..
Another one that I hate about them. They easily get gossip even if I haven't said anything yet. And this may be the only place they cannot reach me...yet...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
spilling your gut here in QL won't do you no good.
hopeless....
...but the problem is...they make me get more angry with what they're doing!!
I'm not sure if they're reading this as maybe they ain't interested in the internet or something...but if they do please, stop doing it! It's still pretty obvious! And insulting! You want me to make war on you two??
RE:Vegas
Because they are my officemates...and what's to do everyday than work and do their 'fake' stuff.
Heck! She even 'throw' my 1 Corinthians 13 letter!! It's for her to learn if you want me to forgive!
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
You can't teach experience...
Scarlett: Beg to differ. You are not a cracked/broken egg. You are an egg that cracks people up!! :-)
Heero: Call 800-SUPARI and negotiate a deal to take care of ur friends.
Lead me not into temptation....I can find it myself!!
just ignore them, after a while, they'll soon tire of pestering you that they will give up and die... oh did i just say die, i meant disappear.... :P
:)
"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."
kage bunshin no jitsu :x
attackkkkk
OK guys im off to bed ... I m probably an egg even I broke to two pieces ...I'm still make a good omelet right ...I hope so ...night - night everyone
Friends
are you ignoring us??
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
so if i call you an egghead, please consider it a compliment :D
cracked egghesd ftw!
Heck, I'm almost broken in two!!
Azi...sleep well...I'm off to study the inside of my eyelids also..
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
Thank you alexa ...im gonna keep reminding people that friendship is like an egg ....so sorry if you going to get sick by it ...he...he...
Friends
I'm off...mr. sandman is here...
ta ta
read this about friendship
Friends
:P..just kidding!!
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
who were pestering heero?
Shame on you....lol ;-P
those people are insignificant iota in your existence so why raise a fuss...
I myself have a lot of patience with OBNOXIOUS GOODY GOOD shoes...but once I reach my end of line. I will defo tell them to "F" off...
havent lost yet... and not planning to anytime soon :)
stop whining and face them.
Are you a mouse or a Man?
don't exist...that way it will get to them that they are so insignificant to you that no matter what they do, it won't matter...works every time, BUT, you have to believe in it too...or you will just be acting.
Grant me the senility to forget the people I never liked,the good fortune to run into the ones I do,and the eyesight to tell the difference.
sorry heero didnt get that before I post it ...well enjoy you life ...and keep up positive spirit coz that's all you can do right
That's fact #1
fact#2 you don't need to state the reasons why. Possibly "WE" all know it before
My question--> are they from QL?
fact#3 these 2 ex-friends always make you look silly
My comment--> aren't you already? (just kidding)
SERIOUSLY...unless your declaration of war includes erasing them from the face of the earth, then what's the point?
I think you're MAN ENOUGH to confront them that:
- you don't like what they they're doing to you
- you want the the acts to stop
have you tried TALKING to them?????
some grown up still do that you know ... even they claimed themselves grown up too .... but what I know ..im just throwing my thought ...We probably do that when we dont realize it ...if we do and they claimed we're not grown up ..is their problem ...we just live our life , right ...we all human being we all make mistake ...I think that's the point ...People Just Human Being ......... God love His creation ... what more us His best creation
'Old habits die hard.'
read my last reply to adey's post for the reason...
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
They speak to me! With all their usual alibis and lies!!
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
...is both of them are all grown up now and they continue doing it!!
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
dont speak to them,
"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."
...if they keep on doing it eeeeeverytime to make you look silly!
I am a man who always forgive and forget...but this time, I've learned my lesson...
>:-(
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
well heero ..when people do that to me and declare war to me ..I notice but you can't change what you can not change ...I just live my own life and go on with my life ...there is more friend in this world than the one who want to enemies us....keep up the positive spirit
God, isnt there enough wars going on, just forgive and forget..
I invaded Poland today!
No one noticed.
"Deaths in the Bible. God - 2,270,365
not including the victims of Noah's flood, Sodom and Gomorrah, or the
many plagues, famines, fiery serpents, etc because no specific numbers
were given. Satan - 10."