what is the best way to do if the girl is pregnant now for 5months?
hello! i have found new friend she is in danger now!!! she stop working bcz she is pregnant for 5months now...shw have problem with sponsor also bcz she stop her work the contract not yet finished...now she is hiding now..she dont know what to do..i advice her to go to her embassy to asked assistance.but she is afraid to go there maybe her embassy well sent her to her country. she dont like to live her bf here..i told her to get married...
why she didn't take precautions, her b/f also don't know that things?
it's better for your friend to go back home...she is more safe there and the baby. If the guy is ready to marry her and stand for his obligation as a father then let him go to the girl's country and speak to her parents regarding their situation now...
do it the soonest....rather than the both of them will be in trouble...let her to approach her embassy and for sure she will be safe there and could give her protection too...
your friend needs to see a Dr and make sure her baby is safe and sound. She needs to grow up and take responsibility and needs to stop blaming herself or anyone. The issue is identified now solutions are required not blame or shaming anyone, we are talking about a baby's life here.
This goes to the "boyfriend" he needs to be a man and take responsibility and get married to your friend asap.
Find out if there is any association that can help her go through this.
We all make mistakes but if she's a beleiver tell God is forgiving if you forgive yourself and change for the better.
Bless you for helping your friend and let us know if we can do something.
I think the truth will come out soon, as her sponsor might have filed a case against her being absent from work and hiding for the time being. She will have to report to the authorities. As she is already in the fifth month of pregnancy, I can imagine what is waiting for her now. Here everyone is discussing that she has consumed a lot of abortion pills. If that is true I don't think she deserves mercy at all.
She should find a way to go back home ,if only for a vacation for any reason. What ever happen in her home town will be much more better then what will happen to her here if she decided to wait for 2 more months.
THINK & TAKE AN ACTION!!!
It's sad to see something like this happen, considering she's been taking abortion pills I gather It's safe to assume that she doesn't want the baby.
I hope that she doesn't end up hurting or killing herself in a "back alley" abortion.
I'm guessing the best thing she can do is come clean
Dear Friend of Pregnant Woman (Not girl…any more)
As a friend you are going to put your self into big trouble…what’s ever happened is illegal in the sight of Islamic law. Make sure you don’t land into Police custody.
Dear Friend of Pregnant Woman (Not girl…any more)
As a friend you are going to put your self into big trouble…what’s ever happened is illegal in the sight of Islamic law. Make sure you don’t land into Police custody.
she can contact me for advise at my [email protected] asap
find a way to go back to her country asap. theres no way she can stay here pregnant and unmarried. lots of "love cases" here and their situation now is really awful.
Children dont become autistic from "abortion pills". The baby will be born with undeveloped body parts and organs at best.
I think most people know that having sex leads to pregnancy, she should have been more careful but it happens. She needs to get married, if she delivers here she and her baby will go to jail until she is deported.
If she has been taking drugs AFTER she found out she is pregnant then the child is now at risk to be born abnormal. She was not so wise allowing herself to be impregnated, and she is still so unwise of taking any pills knowing that it will harm the baby. And where is the boyfriend amidst all these?? Should he a least be a gentleman to take steps in doing something to save not only your friend but the baby? If the girl does not want to go home, does not want to secure the assistance of the embassy, cannot marry the boyfriend, then her options have run dry. What advice can anyone else give her?
Where is he, i mean Boy freind
Is he hiding ?
can she get married with her boyfriend??
if yes she should ASAP
her best option is to go to her embassy and come clean. its unfortunate what has happened but there is always a way regardless of the price one has to pay. advice her to take action asap.the longer the more trouble.after 7 months she wont be able to fly, what then?
hoops this is not good at all please take action now.
if she want to go the sponsor cant stop anyway or let her got the embassy, if not she have to face more problam, and it will be more complicated.. all the best.
and her time is not much left. After 7mths pregnancy she will need to obtain doctor certificate to fly.
Have she tried to approach the employer, come clean and tell him that she want to leave and resign?
she can live the country even she is pregnant?but she cant live the country bcz she have also problem with sponsor
she can live the country even she is pregnant?but she cant live the country bcz she have also problem with sponsor
she can live the country even she is pregnant?but she cant live the country bcz she have also problem with sponsor
she can live the country even she is pregnant?but she cant live the country bcz she have also problem with sponsor
Both of Them are in for a long Prison Term.
she should leave the country a.s.a.p, if she deliver the baby here outside of wedlock they will take the baby away and send her to the deportation centre (jail).
they can go to her country and get married and come back here/do you think her sponsor well release her NOC? ONLY my prayers i can help offer her as of now...
i am worried abotu her situation now bcz i dont knwo if her baby is still safe and specially her.she try to take a lot of abortion pills but it doesnt work until 5months now she still taking abortion pillss..im sure her baby is not normal it might be authestic someday...please advice me what my friend well do?she is indonessians...