sexually harrass during interview

THE BEST TO DO KASI, AT THE MOMENT U INTEND TO APPLY FOR A JOB, DAPAT NAG PRAY K N KE LORD KAPATID, AT TURNED-OVER MO S KNYA LAHAT..

ANG MAHIRAP LANG KASI S IBA NATING KABABAYAN E, IMBES NA KE LORD LALAPIT, SA PATALIM KUMAKAPIT... TSK TSK TSK!!

dotdot, you deserve to be rapped [sic].

How do you feel about that?

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Now you know you should never say things like that.

OTHERWISE WHO WILL GO 2 SUPERMARKET FOR AN INTERVIEW?

this sickening and the victim should report this to the police altho dont have any evidance.

I hope the guy got punish somehow...

Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand

Heard that somewhere nearby they legalise some kinds of marital rape? Probably they have this kind of antique law here to allow such a thing.

I'm sorry.. noone deserves to be 'rapped' and I missed that..my point was that if you're not sure of something, you ask someone to go along and be on the end of a phone.. don't you????

Stolap- did she tell her friends where she was going?

why do your friend has to go for an interview post by some one in QL?

well its happen so ask her to GO to Police and report about it, if she can not DO that so just tell her to RELEX and look for other Job. but not in QL.

If an employer asked you to meet him in the matress storeroom and he was selling beds and you wanted the job enough, you'd go, wouldn't you?

Devil' s Advocate would ask if she was playing a game too.

Deserved it ... Shame on you dotdot.

This is the most disgusting and sick comment I heard on QL!

That's savage and I don't think any words can express my anger at your filthy comment.

Barbarian!

Salam

she deserved to be rapped, trust me!

Well you gotta learn that Arabs and Pinoys in a loney place not a good situation. Becareful next time..

do some research before going for an interview.

bring a company if your not sure to the place and person your goin'.

better yet, use your common sense. internet is handy at all times. duh?!

"a step towards the right path is two steps away from evil"

TSK TSK TSK!!! MGA GIRLS N KABAYAN, KUNG KAU AY MAG AAPLY NG JOB, FIRST, PWEDE KAU MAG CONSULT SAKIN, ANO ANG DAPAT NYO GAWIN.. AND I WILL GIVE U TIPS, ULTIMO CV NYO PWEDE NATIN BIHISAN; GAWIN KASI NYO N PROFESSIONAL ANG PAG APPLY S JOB, UN BANG MAHA HIRE KAU HINDI DAHIL SA SEXY KAU O MAGANDA, KUNDI DAHIL S MAGIGING ASSET KAU NG COMPANY.

ANG MAGANDANG COMPANY, MAGANDA ANG OFFICE,AT PROFESSIONAL ANG MGA EMPLOYEES; WALANG TOTOONG OPISINA SA LULU, SA KOTSE, SA ILALIM NG PUNO, SA CUBES, SA RESTO.. ETC..

Sick....

Incidence like these sometimes make me feel ashamed of being a Male...

why do we force our fantasies or Lust on the other gender jus cause of physical strength.....

This is less a lesson for females and more for us.. World is a sick place not because women .....its us .....

Roaming in new places is not wrong... roaming in new places because we men are often pigs makes it wrong...

Hard Work Doesn't Kill Anyone... But Why take Chances.

stupid who?

Scrolled down - didn't read all the replies.

But if any girl is desperate to get a job, Ok - why not? But never go anywhere alone. Always get a male or even a female friend to tag along.

Plus, you should report him, -- but your word against his.

But what if the policemen is the culprit's relative, brother or cousin. For sure they will turn the story upside down and out you go. Justice is very much un equal in this part of the world. Have heard of similar case. They will.. klok..klok..klok..kiss..kiss..kiss, and you are already wrong.

Report to the concern ASAP irrespective of the nationality, will teach a lesson to those who try to play

Mr. Stolap, whats stopping you from going to the police?

QL is not a police station, though u will get lot of words of sympathy on your story since you have made an allegation against a local here...and there are many people on QL who HATE the locals so anything against them is most welcome here even if its a self created story!

Anyways, have no time to waste on this faky thread, enjoy ur name calling(it does not make a diff) and u can create another story with another id too, if its against the local, dont worry people will come to give u words of sympathy!

Your friend's first mistake was to agree for such an 'interview'.The second mistake would be to not go to the police. She will not only make herself exposed to being harassed but she will also avoid warning other ladies who might fall into a similar trap.

Life is Beautiful...Indeed!

it is so sad to hear such story...best to do is to go to the police station and report the incident...hayzzz....=(

hope your friend is ok with the trauma she got from the said incident...

people...no need for you to pick up on king000000000...whatever his ID is....he just want attention...and be famous....=)

Mitzzyy Mitz '09

hey KING OF THE KING KONG007 , mr.super genius, mr super smart, super intellent and super of the super, how many time i need to tell that the interview did not happen in the parking lot of lulu, its inside of lulu theres a cafeteria or restaurant there....are you blind or just super IDIOT!!try to read the whole topic and not just making stupid comment!!

for everybody thank you very much for all your great advice even though im new here, i appreciate it very much...long live qatar living.....

You know king007, instead of making this thread away from the person who is newly joined QL and having some questions or story that are being answered by other QL members not thinking about how smart their replies are but only contributing and focusing on giving advises :)

Mallrat & DMS, let him. maybe in this kind of thread, he will find answers from his smart replies.lol.

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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."

So how did u help the topic poster, by believing his story of "Interview in Parking lot" or by giving virtual sympathy of words by just criticizing and blaming the local???.

If you really wanna help, tell ur friend to approach the police, if he is truthful about this story and also approach the media with proofs like how she came to know this "local"....how she contacted him, on which number etc, his car model etc etc.

Instead of saying police will not do anything, go and approach first, being in Qatar for longtime i can guarantee you that police in Qatar takes cases of women harassment very seriously even if its against the locals.

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it won't happen to your love ones, MR SMART King007!!!!!

Og.g!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

1) Well i dont know what nationality the girl is of.

2) And like you can blindly believe a FAKE story, I have every right to reject this story!

Well regarding my sister/lady friends, they are sensible enough not to meet an UNKNOWN man alone in a parking lot and then go on a drive with him and allow the alleged "sexual harassment" to take place in a strict country like Qatar!

And after all this do not approach the police but post on QL!!! Amazingly true isnt it?

but you have no right to say publicly that our kabayan is stupid. I think you are more stupid. If you can not say anything good or say your criticism nicely, don't tickle those keys. You are just adding insult to injury. I hope it won't happen to your sister or lady friends!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

Uuhhh! Come on queenofthedamned!!!

I can't believe a girl can be so stupid (girls are sensible, arent they?) to meet an unknown person alone in the parking lot of a shopping mall in a country like Qatar, whoever she is meeting whether a local, european or any nationality.

Like I said, the girl would be super stupid to meet someone in parking lot for a job!

And yes I cannot believe or Trust this all hazy story created by a person who just joined QL to post this story!

I would recommend that she report it to the police if she can provide any evidence. If she found the ad for the job in a newspaper, she should have that or if she has sms messages from the guy stating where and when they would meet for the interview. Because if she doesn't this would be "he said, she said" and this guy can turn the story around and tell the police that she is a prostitute. Sorry about this, but this could happen.

Maybe because they know your country very well as well as their countrymen and their law..

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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."

I don't know why many of the expats just assume that any Qatari is above the law...

Uuhhh! Come on KING007!!! give the person the benefit of the doubt. Everyone can express themselves or share stories or ask advices. We just hope that this will not happen to any female closer to you, either a Super Intelligent or Super Stupid. :)

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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."

how can people believe an allegation so easily? He is a new member (just 4 hours) and posting crap like someone called for an interview in parking lot that too a women in a country like Qatar?

Crazy? A girl has to be Super Stupid to meet any stranger in parking lot of a supermarket and that too for a job.

Gosh, I dont believe u...even 1 cent! If you are truthful then go and report to the police.

Either the story is FAKE or the girl is super stupid and needs to go back to school.

even IF the guy isn't punished, it will be on record and if he tries anything again, it WILL show up. Plus it will serve as a warning to this guy that not every woman is a naieve person....

If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.

-Mark Twain-

just ignore it becuz if he is a local, by reporting him nothing is going to happen and u are wasting ur time

if she is innocent then why she afraid to go to the police station? ???? Im 100% sure police will take action against him..... if she is innocent..

Tomultra.. whats the use of contact number to post here? for you to contact and hitch on the hump of that interviewer? am saddened of you...

come on, think thrice... dont ya know it's so very easy here to change mobile number?

company's name ... is more important to know which company he is representing than his contact number...

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You can still report to the police and if your friend received an sms from him, that will also serve as an evidence. But please be extra careful. A person might be a bit desperate in finding a job, but a bigger common sense and awareness will not put him/her in danger. :)

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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."

I'm so sorry to what happened to your friend but this post will be much appreciated if you have gone reported it to the authorities and start from there. They are the one who could truly help her. Thanks for the awareness though.

stolap, any chance to get the contact number of that nympho and post it here... just for a precautionary measure to our female job seekers.

make a formal complain at the police station, since she has the contact number of that maniac, i'm quite sure police will gonna ask assistance to qtel to verify the subscriber's name of that mobile number...go on kabayan.

see? you found it dude!!

as what amber2007 said...

its a clear modus operandi.. but not an interview

his method is done similarly!!

same place...

same preparations...

same set up...

think of it... how can u revenge...

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i remember when i applied for a job 1 man ask me to meet him at the lulu hypermarket to the same place, i ask this man why is the meeting place is in lulu hypermarket? and replied me because he just want to meet and conduct an interview in lulu but i was so lucky enough not to go on that interview as i and my husband have a bad feeling, this guy ask me if i am coming alone or with someone and replied him im with my husband then all of a sudden he make some excuses blah... blah... blah... ( is this the same man?) i just wonder

i took the company's telephone number and inquire if their company received my cv, i did call to their office to confirm if they are hiring then this woman (receptionist) told me that they didn't receive any cv from me, that they are not hiring any job related works...

As a lesson to this forum, always bring someone with you, friends, family member, or your husband or boyfriend, at least someone will protect you and someone can be your witness (just in case)

Stolap, tell your friend to be careful next time so she will be safe. If she can't do anything in case at least it serves as a lesson for her and for everybody... hope your friend is okey now....

THE BEST ADVICE I COULD GIVE YOUR FRIEND AND TO OUR KABAYAN..... PLEASE DONT GO ALONE INSIDE THE CAR WITH ANY MAN YOU FIRST MET EVEN HE LOOKS SO HANDSOME, CLEAN, KIND ,ETC, ETC......( He can not do anything outside even in lulu, restaurant,anywhere any place where there are lots of people will see you, any public places is safe) THE DANGER ALWAYS IS when YOU SUDDENLY APPROVE TO GO WITH HIM ALONE INSIDE HIS CAR...

she should have reported immediately to the police.. sigh, this should serve as a warning to everyone and to your friend it is better if she will be accompanied with a friend as well during interviews..

[img_assist|nid=12867|link=none|align=left|width=|height=0]Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

my goodness kabayan...

you are in good timing and in bad timing...

good timing: you posted quickly in QL...

bad timing: you're to late to report to the police...

dont report that to the police anymore... rather... disperse that company name here and the hiring person... i dont think that company could attract any pinay employee in the future... silent revenge! silent revenge!

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I would say:

1- Report him to the police.

2- Never ride a car with a stranger.

3- I've never heard of an interview in a supermarket, it should be in an office, it could be somewhere public like a cafe or a hotel lobby if they don't have an office yet (within a safe distance), the Office should be full of employees withing office hours, not empty. You should never be in a car (he could take you anywhere), or in a hotel room.

the world is truly full of sickos and perverts... lesson to be learned, only go to interviews that are in verified offices,..if the interviewer asks you to meet someplace else with all kinds of crap explanation as to why he wants to, don't go...

report him to police and its very thoughtful of you to alert others about it.i hope we learn from everyones mistakes...

live and let live

Report him to police. If u leave him like this than this means you are letting him do the same to all the girls & some might not be as lucky as your friend turned out to be.

she should report that ... Never trust someone like that, ask for their company location and don't accept these kind of interviews if you would be alone ...

I don't think that only locals or expatriates who do take advantage of these ladies only! It's sad to say that the first to stab you in the back are your own people ...

Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

nope itz not on the parking lot, itz on the restaurant i dont know the name but itz inside lulu hyper mart.that why she agree to go to pearl qatar coz according to her his a gentleman

i understand andee, im was also surprise when she told me what happen but maybe its her lesson to learn hopefully all female looking for a job here in qatar living will be smart enough and for those people who is using this very informative please stop your bad doing.....its not helping maybe here you will not be punished but time will come for you

agree Gypsy...

i missed this point it was in the parking lot.. ha.. it's a bit too much.. :)

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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Lobby of the InterCon/Coffee Shop, Mall Food Court, YES all safe places. Parking lot of Lulu, not so much.

Andeee, my friend went for the interview with Al Fardan in the lobby of Intercon. At that time they were establishing a new branch of Al Fardnan and they had no office yet.. .. my friend got an excellent job :)

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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

If she has his name and number then yes I would suggest that she goes to the police - but then would they do anything ?

Thanks for posting it on here and warning others - I did not mean to be so heartless ....

Sicko. At least she found out before she took the job what the guy was like.

Common mga Kabayan's bee tough and smart!!!

Kahit na local yan, may laban.

AND PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR JOB POST SA QATAR LIVING OR NEWSPAPERS...DONT GIVE YOU MOBILE NUMBER EASILY...USE YOU EMAIL ADDRESS FOR RESPONSE.

To Lady Filipinas! Take care and give respect to yourselves...dont let stupid expats here or locals take advantage of you!

Regards,

Doha777

thank you very much gypsy for your nice comment.....i just want to inform every body its happening here in qatar where they just take advantage of the women who is looking for a job

Does she know his name?

yes youre right, she made a mistake.but what i want is to ask for your help or any advice if she can go to police she still have the contact no of that guy.

I'm sorry to hear about your friend stolap. If she has his name and number I'd recommend you tell her to take them to the police.

This should also be a warning to women to excercise a little common sense when it comes to job interviews and meetings alone with men in this country.

No employer will meet a potential employee in a supermarket... come on !! Irrespective of where this NEW showroom is going to be built, you do not go and meet a complete stranger at a supermarket and THEN get in the car on top of that... its not the done thing.. common sense... am sorry to sound heartless but it is common sense....especially if your a female....

they just meet in lulu hyper mart since according to the guy the show room is not yet finish and then bring him there and have a look.there on the road he started his bad attitude

there's no evidence she just molested and sexually harass in the car, the guy ask her to go with him in pearl qatar to see the showroom where she will work.

First and foremost - I am assuming that this guy is calling from an office and she is going to this office for the interview which would be the logical way... if on the other hand she is just meeting this dude anywhere in the hope is gonna give her a job then she is not that clever... what woman would go and meet a stranger somewhere for a job - ????

Don't even wait, report it... and if possible, bring some evidence =/