is it ok?
hi QLers, please advice. my friends' boyfriend came to visit here in qatar around 2 months ago. now my friend is worried she had a positive pregnancy test but might be having a miscarriage. She had spotting and severe abdominal pain. Can she go to a gynecologist for check up? Would she be questioned why she's pregnant when she's not married? Please advice. thanks.
I dont think the private clinics will dig deep.You will need to give the ID and phone number to register.
Better to go with the boyfriend not to arouse suspicions.
big trouble to face! there is no way she can say she forgotten her marriage certificate, as when they ask for her Qatar ID and they can then find out that she is not married. this is the reason why hospitals check on your ID's especially pregnancy case or miscarriage. very dangerous situation. better to run and leave the country asap if you can otherwise it's very risky!
Have a nice day!
Could he do that on a visit visa ?
but i think she already miscarried, she had bleeding, if she go to the OB will they still report her when the pregnancy is gone?
"Is not the flute that plays the sweetest of music, the same that was hollowed out by knives?
no chance of abortion.... or... it's against law...
safest, leave the country...
if she can't, go see a private doctor, and ask them to do an ultrasound on her (trans v*g***l))... tell them that she is married, they don't really ask for details...or if they do follow DEEDEE's advise...
once it is confirmed that she really is pregnant and might be miscarriaging, there are meds that willl help...
then, get out of here fast...back to the number one option...
uhhh and PRAY...
hope she will be ok....
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no its not ok. she must go out somwhere ... they will report to the CID and they ll come.
Hmm, if she is reported deedee it will be pretty easy to figure out.
I know of someone that had this happen to her a few years back. She didnt have any issue when she went to a private doctor rather than a private hospital.
Even if she is not miscarrying how does she propose to pull this off when it is time for the baby to arrive? She will have to leave Qatar before she starts to show anyway.
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from this mistake.
anyways, tell her to go to the doctor. If she's not pregnant, then no problem. If she is and they ask her if she's married, she can say yes. If they ask for a license, she can say "I did not know I was supposed to bring it, I will next time" then she needs to leave the country ASAP.
Silly girl!! I hope she is ok?
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Another possible unwed pregnancy situation.
What tangled webs we weave...
well, hopefully, the OB's main concern would be her situation, and examine her..advise her to consult an OB-GYN now.
I don't think she has a choice, she should go to her OBGYN and cross her fingers that the OBGYN won't rat her out to the authorities.
they should've taken the necessary precautions beforehand, but nevertheless, she should consult an OB-GYN immediately to be certain as to her condition...