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Good night Bubbly,

Remember, fora are just text... emotionless black on white letters that compose a sentence. Hence, interpretation is key.

You, judging your remarks, I guess you choose wisely.

Cheers mate!

"It is easy for me to give a solution if I don know the problem.. or the seriousness of it... or not attached emotionally to it..."

ASH, i can relate.... SIGH...

yeah provocations and personal attacks and biased reactions are usually the spice of QL...

keep on climbing!!! a restful night

Shoe - I have learnt one thing here...

It is easy for me to give a solution if I don know the problem.. or the seriousness of it... or not attached emotionally to it...

but if I know... how deep it is...

I prefer being silent...

Coz Not motivating is better than saying something which I myself would not listen to and saying something which might have a risk of causing more pain...

Damn,... its shait late... before I go more Lucid..

Good night people...

FS - Nice post.. thks... living in present is an art we have to learn from the kids... :)

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Bubbly,

Unfortunately I do enjoy a verbal joust.......

Unfortunately, sometimes, provocations lead to interesting discussions or excessive cum emotional reactions.....

It is the nature of the beast.

But you are right, the right response is the nuanced and mature response to any response.

Thank you for this late night lesson!

climber,

why didnt u just drop the blasphemy and the mocking words from the start?

YOU did say sensible things...

if shoe retorted, think of it as "it's his post..."

and yeah people are free to talk, albeit i hope it will be with MORE EMPATHY...

P E A C E

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Shoeaddict,

You indeed do not need to justify your reaction, so why attack me on mine?

Rude, you? Maybe, maybe not.. what do I know, I just judge text. You might have a bad day.

If I can help, anyone, why not? Get them a job, give them advice... it only costs me energy, so yes I will.

My maturity.. ow, I could do better... Insanity, as long as it is temporary, no probs.

No need to thank me, thank you!!

a reaction.if you think im rude,then thank you.

if you have to help people less fortunate than you,then do it.

if your purpose is to counsel,then feel free.

as for my depression,well ill get over it.

you seem to be a mature person,so,,deal with my temporary insanity...

again,

thank you.

But shoeaddict....what rudeness you display here...

Whom invited you to this post? Nobody, same goes for me.

Oh wait, your perception of the world is 'I' and 'ME' and the rest can choke.... bloody shame.

You may disagree with me, but your failure to remain polite says more about you than me. Or was a snare, which you prefer not to see, moved?

You see, each individual can choose its neighbors. I choose neighbors that are less fortunate than me in order to be able to count my blessings, and if possible help the less fortunate. Unlike choosing neighbors that are better off, as they would need to help me.

I doubt you will be able to understand the analogy, if you do... please do respond, it is a public forum where everybody is invited to join...

and if this drivel bores you to no end why read it?

you dnt know shite about what people go through.

and if its depressing to you,why do you care?

go crawl back to the ice cage you ame from and stay there.

no one invited you to post.

Jesus Christ...... I will say it out loud....

What the fcuk is wrong with people on QL and their ever depressing posts....

HAPPINESS IS NOT DEPENDING ON OTHERS. HAPPINESS IS YOUR OWN STATE OF MIND.

- it lies in your way of living, poor or rich

- it lies in your capacity to put into perspective the negative

- it lies in your approach to life in general

If you are poor, do not think richer people are happier. If you are rich, think of how poorer peoples seem to have less worries. Each and every individual has his/her own perception of happiness, the unfortunate just have a weak spirit/mind/mentality.

Not early enough to not have come here, risking my freedom but luckily early enough :-) Is really the blo... money so important??? what makes civilised and rather well-off people become greedy? no hijacking threads, just wondering. Money seems to be really the great Evil...aaargghhh

thank God you found out early.

See.. You can count yourself as a lucky one..Life could have ben worse.

Sad, very sad, or I should be thankful to Doha that I discovered the real nature of the man I was meant to wed: a totally greedy and money minded person. Thanks Doha, I found it out just on time.

thanks a mil...and ive seen different points of view.im luckier now that a lot of us have fought and lost,and then will fight again another day.

starfaith,you just made me a phoenix.

lilbo,,,just bought a pair,,,

stone cold, flyer,,,im learning from you both.thanks

formatted,,,may God bless you for sharing your insight.

LOL Oryx. Bit from Column A, bit from Column B. Good pay and a good boy make Gypsy a happy gal. :D

Stop corrupting threads with your anti- Muslim propaganda...

you bring over your heinous western behaviour and set a bad example to decent people....

Why aren't you nicely married to your first cousin?

May I invite you to read Malcolm X and the Qu'ran so you may be purged of your vile behaviour which comes from eating diseased animals like pigs

Peace be upon you KHALID

I thought it was the pay check ;)

LOL. My "newish" BF and I have been dating 7 months now. :D But yes he is one ofthe reasons I'm happy.

Gyps... I thought the reason for your happiness ... a newish Bf?..lol

FS what's a newish?

hmm... why let them take ur happiness away from u?

well, i dont... when someone tries to do that, i fight hard... and if i dont win, well i just find myself another reason to be happy. ;)

Forever we are in past or future the going back & forth in the flashback

or the attempt to guess the end of the thriller when the movie is hardly half way does not make the experience enjoyable

a person is always scoring self goals

brooding, dissatisfied he creates his own problems & spends the life time trying to solve them in the process tying himself in knots again & again

I wonder why we cannot be simple & child like why can ‘t we be free like a bird, river or a gust of wind!!

Did you get a newish....?? lol

NFH - easier said then done! When feeling lonely and a little depressed, its hard just to make yourself happy and turn it around! Circumstances that are making you unhappy might be very hard to change!

brit......you're right!

Shoe..........Go buy yourself a new pair of shoes!

Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.

I'm perfectly happy at the moment. :)

NFH i agree, happiness is a choice.. noone is in charge of your happiness but you.

we have to choose what will make us happy.

Feel Free To Hate Me

Well said! Too often we gripe and whine, but don't realise how lucky we really are or how many of the problems are of our own making..

IMO, happiness is a choice.

The world isn't responsible for my happiness...I am responsible for my own happiness.

Something making you unhappy? Change it.

"Die, another day?" so where does happiness lies when life is short. Make the best use out of it, before it robs you out.

I'm legend", with Will Smith? there he tells the story of Bob Marley being shot before a show, and still days later Bob goes and performs on the stage. So people ask him why insisting, and Bob replies: the darkness never takes a brake on making evil, so why should we stop fighting? Shine it trough, baby, shine it trough...

Majidmajidi -- I feel sorry for the real Majid Majidi.

I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM

shoe, yep it was more of a statement than a question...

and it is only YOU who knows about YOU...

didn't it ever cross yer mind that YOU may have been happy afterall?? by making others happy?

maybe the REAL happiness was unconsciously covered by DISCONTENTMENT(on yer part) because you felt that you were not doing yer best...

shoe, how do you define HAPPINESS??? by how you define it, that's where you should start...

or maybe about time for you to REDEFINE happiness...

"Let mad dogs bark at the moon...in solitude."

----> I like that.

i was just existing?making everybody happy?

im answering myself...

learning one's self is really tough...

shoe, complicated as it may be...

we have to "LIVE",

not just "EXIST"

and "TRY" (hard as we can)

to be HAPPY

again...

WHOEVER SAID LIVING IS EASY HUH.....

*** bubbly reaching for tissue(shoe made me cry too)***

complicated history,complicated life.aaaaarrrrggghhhhh!!!

and thanks its never too late to be happy again....

Shoe - Man... had not read that cry forum when I wrote the first one...

saw it when you mentioned tht....

Its real tough ...

But as I mentioned there..

Best I can do is pray for you... and things shall be good..

B T W - Hope you remember that Rocky Balboa thing I had copy pasted last time on a forum of yours...

And Me ??????

m diseased... I smile a lot... and it is infectious.. and contagious....

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There is equal amount of Good and Evil in the world!

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SHOE, let those words ALWAYS ring in yer mind... it has been my NUDGER...

"the villains, the dictators, the imposters,the double crossers,..." were ,is and WILL always be around.

if you let them IN you, if you "breathe them in", then YOU allow HAPPINESS to stray away from you...

hey SHOE, we will always have our shares of unhappiness yeah, but to be "ROBBED of it" - for 30 years???

NEVER TOO LATE to be happy again...

HAPPINESS IS ALMOST ALWAYS AN INSIDE JOB....

all the best

for 30 plus years...i had been robbed of it.

now is the time to take it all back

shoe,

HAPPINESS IS ALMOST ALWAYS AN INSIDE JOB....

nobody can take that away from you UNLESS you allow them to...

i am happy, very much. i can not demand more.

or has the world robbed you of your happiness?

have you played the role of a villain or are you a victim?

Shoe - ????

And What m I suppose to write here ???

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