FILIPINO VS FILIPINO (FILEX )

hard to digest mamu.

wag kang matakot as long as nasa tamang lugar k,.... ako nga reporting sa business development manager at GM namin... ok lng yan... basta gawin m kung ano tama... coordinator din ako kaya nauunawaan kita hehehehehe

sabi nga lagi ng admin assisstant namin, do not take it seriously, be happy hehehehehe

Ask yourself this. Who is paying you? Your boss or your co workers? Be fair and honest. Fulfill your duties professionally. In the end you must insure your own security. If you lose your job will the people you cover for support you?

or shall we say in a "good" position, we use our position to help the betterment of our fellow "kabayans". Small things can be cover-up without making negative effects to your "boss" or to the company. But if the mistakes is already affecting the work or the company negatively and substantially, talk wit your subordinates first or co-employees. Give warning as you are in the position as you say. If they don't heed in the warning, then you can report it to the management with the intent to remedy the situation and not to dismiss erring employees. MAke your reasoning justified and constructive in nature so you won't feel any regret. If they see the positive wisdom in your reporting to the top management, who knows?, maybe it will result to a positive change (for betterment).

"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"

you know a lot of us are having that kind of situation. we don't know what are the things we need to prioritize like in your situation. you are in between of choosing who will u consider first but as what you have discussed you should tell exactly what's happening with your boss the more you will be honest the more you will gain trust. not all people are well given enough of trust. and for your co-workers you need to let them understand that you are just doing what is right and what is fair to everybody.

WatdaPak!

mga taong ganyan dapat ibiting patiwarik sa flare ng ras laffan. Anyhow its their problem not yours. As long as you're on the right track with right intention and conscience then go. you have to enjoy ur job regardless! Isipin mo ganun tlga, kahit san ka mag punta pag may pinoy may tsismis, may grupo2x, either kaisa ka nila or kalaban ka.. pag nag play safe ka naman mamaya aawayin ka na.. expect mo yung pinaka tinuturing mong friend ay titirahin ka paharap. mahirap mag tiwala sa kapwa kahit kalahi mo pa. patigasan dito sa abroad, pag di ka marunong sumabay sa agos talo ka. pag sumabay ka naman, humanda-handa kana...

SMILE ka lang bro try not to let them affect you...

Mag pa-pogi ka ng todo at ipakita mo sa kanila na ang gwapo2x mo!! yaiks! go!go!go!

pusang iring ^__^

I AM PROUD TO BE KAPUSO DIAY...

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I AM TO BE KAPUSO...

"less talk, less mistakes"

do your job, go home, eat, talk to your family, sleep - do it daily

spend your time in productive things.

Kabayan, alam natin yan ang problema halos lahat ng mga filipino, pero sana di mo na dinagdagan ang panglalait sa ating sariling lahi, totoo ka, pero dapat sa filipio expat group at tinagalog mo na lang, pano pa tayo i re respeto ng ibang lahi kung kahit tau walang sarileng respesto sa kapwa natin filipino. Isa nga sa problema natin ay Crab Mentality, bakit di mo muna, kausapin mga kasama mo baka madala sa usapan. Hinay hinay lang sabi mo nga 3 months ka pa lang, marami ka pang malalaman, baka di mo mo pa rin alam, deceiving minsan ang ugali ng iba, akala mo tunay pero peke din pala. Baka sabihin buti pa kahit ganyan kalahi natin pero sa oras ng tunay na pangangailangan ay dadamayan ka rin pala. Im proud to be Filipino

never cover up for them, especially if you know that what they're doing is wrong... you should know better than that, so what if they're our kabayans, if they do something wrong in the workplace, it will also affect you.. you have a responsibility to the company and it should come first and foremost, not covering up some ass..

i think you should be professional and if they all under you then you also learn the art hoe to deal with them if they is positive support with out effecting work or professionalism then give them favor no problem

after all ... at the end of the day, everything will be ok

Which is which here, yours or Tates..

"There's nothing we can do to change the past, if it teaches  you a lesson profit from it then, forget it."

if you feel and believed that your doing it right, then continue, regardless if its your "kabayan" or not.

as for me i trust in "HIM" for guidance and wisdom all the time.

at nakakatulog ako ng mahimbing...GB

it happened to me 1st 2 months of my job here and still have the culture shock then, i was glad there is one filipina that i thought she could help me with my predicament and all, its so happened & i found out later on she is jealous of me professionally and wants me in the eye of every boss there that i dont know my work, i even ask her to some files which the boss wants me to look at and when i asked for her help since she is the one filing it, she only says just look around somewhere and you'll find it (imagine the nerve of the kabayan??!)

well, now i'm 6 years here i experience a lot of FILIPINO VS FILIPINOS as you say.... hirap kasi kapag pinagbigyan mo isa pagbibigyan mo na lahat....

As long as you are doing your job well and you think its for the best then continue doing so without any hesitations or regrets... who needs friends when those friend were the one who will pull you down later on??? Be professional and later on they will understand I HOPE...

GOODLUCK.....

I am not surprised at your predicament, but then again, it is a well known fact that loyalty factor is at its lowest in most filipino employees...hence you find very (very) few filipinos in the management team of reputed major international companies.

just do your work and treat them professionally....even myself sometimes i did not feel comfortable with my one fellow filipino here in my office...but i tried to work with him professionally....i have lot of friends filipino and other nationalities but to my one filipino office mate para hindi ko feel na friend kami...

with the saying "Familiarity breeds contempt?"

you should by all means distance yourself away from them as being close to them you might lose your objective in evaluating their performance.

for you,what is more important?gaining friends in the workplace or gaining respect from your boss?

if they feel you are being strict thats because you are on top of the team and every mess-up that they do will all be reflected on you and only you alone.

if you let yourself be bullied, its your loss.

if you know and believe that you're in the right position, stand your ground!

kultura ng mga payabangan at gulatan ng mga nakauna sa pwesto!

kung papagulat ka eh talo ka, kung may katwiran ka

ipaglaban mo :)

i would suggest that you just go with whatever you must do.

don't try covering other people asses or mistakes, since if worst comes to worst they (the ones who tries convincing you doing the cover-ups) would not care at all nor support if your boss find the crime... and you can't keep the dead bodies in the closets for long. they will stink eventually and be found out.

hence, you will be left behind on your own feeling sorry.

out here in the corporate wilds, it's up to us and to each his own covering self's ass.

"trabaho lang walang personalan"

so leave behind the culture of subscribing to ineptitudes back home :(

.there are kabayan who are meanni to fellow kabayan.....

.they will exist if you let them.....

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so stand up and fight for your rights

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another day, another pay

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Dont Try to listen them...Just go on wat u want to do......