Women keeping the third party a secret on you

heero_yuy2
By heero_yuy2

What hints do a woman show that she secretly hides her boyfriend or some other guy she loves on you?

Lets just say I never usually ask some girl out if I know she already has somebody she loves and I just dont want to make things complicated for a girl and I know my limits. So I usually try to love somebody who really is single because she still has her own sense of individuality and I like that...and that is rare. But sometimes when I felt that I should start getting serious in my relationship with a certain girl she suddenly pushes me back all the sudden. By keeping myself back to the same barrier in parts time I suddenly realized she already has another for months or years back and she never tells me ever since and she only uses the rejection (which usually is a lame answer) as an indirect approach to not revealing it.

And I had been in this situation for about 4-5 times in my entire life.

So the next time I will try another girl out, I just wanted to make sure if she really is THAT single before asking her on getting serious.

So how does a woman keeps it? Why all the fiasco to let the woman delve me into falling for her when she already has somebody?

And to all the previous girls I have loved before, I just wanted to shout out that I have been faithful to each and every one of you at that time and I dont flirt another in between those days. Books, TV, movies, music, and family responsibilites kept me in faith.

By wild_lyone• 22 Oct 2009 18:26
wild_lyone

i dont mind at all

By anonymous• 22 Oct 2009 10:56
anonymous

vice versa?,,,,,

We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.

By wild_lyone• 22 Oct 2009 10:27
wild_lyone

i would love to c that tatoo in detail

yummy

By foci3173• 21 Oct 2009 23:42
foci3173

WALA NA NABANG IBANG TOPIC DITO KUNDI GANYAN?

"Don't Dive with Me if you can't take the PRESSURE"

By chinx_lady• 21 Oct 2009 22:41
chinx_lady

malesh hero soon she will find you, no need to look for her...just dont feel bitter for a woman who don't deserve your goodness.

By heero_yuy2• 21 Oct 2009 22:36
heero_yuy2

After several of such failures, I now begin and continue falling in love with a girl who doesn't treat me nicely lately. :-)

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By wild_lyone• 21 Oct 2009 22:33
wild_lyone

there must b somethin missin in u heero. how come a girl dare this without a reason

By greentea• 21 Oct 2009 22:25
Rating: 4/5
greentea

when a girl treats you nicely, dont misinterpret it into something else, dont assume anything... that way, you dont always-almost-fall-in-love... some girls are just "malambing" but it doesnt mean anything, not always in a romantic way... cheer up, someday you'll find the girl that is really meant for you :)

By heero_yuy2• 21 Oct 2009 22:23
Rating: 3/5
heero_yuy2

And THAT lasted for years! 12 years older than me.

The best part of that was she was honest that she's married and has a husband and kids. And she didn't even pushed me back on getting serious.

But just like you said, flan, I will not go back to that kind of life anymore.

I didn't have any offspring from her just to let anyone know, people.

She even gave me nice parting words: "Go get married with a real single girl of your age."...and then came Doha. :-)

You can say that I was that woman's third party at that time.

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By yousefmsh• 21 Oct 2009 22:12
yousefmsh

If you r serios in the relationship and u want only one girl ask her to married you , then u know the reaction .

By Dracula• 21 Oct 2009 22:03
Dracula

"heero truly is a heroe!"

by magicdragon as I do not plagiarize! :)

By chinx_lady• 21 Oct 2009 21:59
Rating: 4/5
chinx_lady

if she has plenty of alibis to you when you ask about her whereabouts she will overly defensive.pay attention to her behavior and personality...be a keen observer.

By flanostu• 21 Oct 2009 21:54
flanostu

welcome to my life man. i've decided to change so i don't date married women anymore.

By one_shot• 21 Oct 2009 21:37
Rating: 4/5
one_shot

she is using u as a spare

you know ?!!!! it is a longg road , and no one knows what could happen

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"It could be a picture

It could be a medicine

it could be a bullet

depends on how you see it"

By heero_yuy2• 21 Oct 2009 21:33
heero_yuy2

Any more of you willing to help give me some precautions as to not let me jump on the next possible failure?

Or are anyone keeping the fact that almost all women are really adept to keeping a third party behind a man's eyes and ears?

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

By _noms_• 21 Oct 2009 08:52
_noms_

now,, are you trying to get few more gals from this post outta sympathy?! ;)

~noms~

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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein

By m_e_j_a_s• 21 Oct 2009 08:13
m_e_j_a_s

Somethings are just meant to happen...

Try to think that it just happen for a purpose...

and live another day... =)

By GodFather.• 21 Oct 2009 08:10
GodFather.

Heero.. you missing your family again?

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"HE WHO DARES WINS"

Derek Edward Totter

By tinay2285• 21 Oct 2009 08:07
tinay2285

heero u are so prone! 4-5 times! lols good luck in finding the one that is truly and exclusively for you.

By Don Robert• 21 Oct 2009 08:05
Rating: 2/5
Don Robert

Lol heero, maybe they don't want to hide it from you in the first place but they prefer not to tell you coz they wanted you to keep on running after them, just like FA's of qatarairways, they are trained to be nice to people so when somebody courts them, some guys misinterprete there kindness thinking that she also feels the same way towards him but in fact, she was just treating him like one of her passengers on board.

By anonymous• 21 Oct 2009 07:44
anonymous

heero truly is a heroe!

By avishai• 21 Oct 2009 07:43
Rating: 5/5
avishai

sad...

but try looking at this, it ain't your lost friend, it won't always be for you are true to your feelings back then even if the other party won't return the same, from the moment you stood out for love, it's mere effects on you should be enough for the efforts you make, you'll only get a jackpot if it doubles when the other responded well.

just try remembering the lessons learned.

^_^ and don't listen to me, ok? (l0l)

By anonymous• 21 Oct 2009 07:33
anonymous

Interesting. A guy being a faithfull partner :-"

We were given: Two hands to hold. To legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.

By teepatter• 21 Oct 2009 07:23
teepatter

..

By britexpat• 21 Oct 2009 07:17
Rating: 5/5
britexpat

We men are mere putty in their soft manicured hands..

Just sing our mantra ..

To all the girls I've loved before

Who travelled in and out my door

I'm glad they came along

To all the girls I've loved before

To all the girls I once caressed

And may I say I've held the best

For helping me to grow

I owe a lot I know

To all the girls I've loved before

Come on Heero - SING!

By WitchStix• 21 Oct 2009 06:54
WitchStix

aww Heerp, u are too sweet. one is a gazillion!

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