Why staring at someone is a problem?
By Straight Arrow •
If a man stares at a woman then his heart may like that woman and run after her if she shared the same staring with him and the same when a woman stares, then if he is married or she is married the problem become worse do you agree?
The best thing in my opinion is to practice not staring at some one you do not know.
If that guy is Norwegian,the Pope is American...
I agree about the norwegians.
Rezy,
Rezy writes "sometime kinda positive response creates confusion and man feels like girl is interested towards him...."
And so what?! In that case, are you going to jump on here right there or what?
I have the impression that certain cultures or habits, being so paranoid in gender segregation, handicaps men to behave as Men!
(Your comment shows that you are not a Norwegian. Norwegians are open minded, civilized and educated enough to deal with these trivial facts of life!)
i had been to city centre... stared at one filipina beauty... and when she noticed ... she smiled at me....! simple...:)
sometime kinda positive response creates confusion and man feels like girl is interested towards him....
I can't really understand why he doesn't take his religious agenda to the religious preaching forum.... except that he wouldn't reach the audience he is trying not so subtly to convert. :-P
I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM
it stops u from a lot of evil, thats what the religion says.
marie_2, if someone wants so much to stare at somebody. I guess getting a slap is better than nothing!
Anyway, women in Doha are sophisticated, they don't waste time damaging their nail polish, they just SCREAM!
cruveck, wow. that's a good idea
remove your glasses and stumble on her. goodluck if she wont slap you hehehe
...listen to the sound of silence....
Bajju,
starring at one spot is not good to eyes so you have to blink and see again the beauties.I have a doubt bajju, why this much make up needed for them, so when we cross them , it is a starring look to see the over makeup and wondering about it our self. But it is not intension but purely a kind of automatic action.Bajju are u still in Philliphines wd walky baby?
When will you return to doha?
kumaran
Bluecrash,
LOL...you are funny ;)
Oh Defensive! ANyways, just peace and go ahead! take care engneer.
Bluecrash,
I don't understand your question. Why are you asking that?
I am an user in QL, this is the only contact I have with QL users.
Aren't you in touch with him for quite some times here in QL, are you? Sorry just curious. Anyways, goodluck to him. Happy living!
Bluecrash,
Unfortunately, I do know what he has been publishing here in QL.
Check his foot path here in QL and see what type of posts he has been posting and what kind of comments he generally has against what he implies "the disrespectful western lifestyle where women are not properly protected".
He used to be very direct in his attempt to promote his Islamism agenda, but he has been often repealed and redirected to the Religious Forum.
Now he comes back with a different strategy, pretending that he is discussing universal common sense values, with a hidden agenda!
Nic, do you know him a lot. It seems that you are very much angry to him or just only to explain something...
Of course its natural, its just Khalid has an Islamism agenda. His mission in QL is to spread his vision of his religion and that is why he approaches subtly and innocently (lately, because before he has been innumerous times kicked back, he was more direct) as if he is talking about universal common sense.
Khalid, go out and look at the world, stare if you inner desires tempt you to do so! Nobody is going to rape or (i hope) you won't do it to anybody else, just by an exchange of flirting eye contacts. All that is good energy and that is what makes the world go around, buddy! Be open minded, START THINKING (follow the advice of your Sheika) out of that tiny box that consumes you and bothers those that you try to trap in to it!
Looking to somebody;s eyes is natural. What's the matter of that. It differs only of you stares a lot, that would be a malice!!!
anyway, just forget the married woman situation. I am talking about the case when you see a girl alone or with her friends.
pajju!! you wrote my name like english people pronounce it :) :)
There is a trick to this technique of staring down another person. Never look directly into the other person's eyes. You can't win if you do that. Instead, pick a spot in the middle of his forehead just above the level of his eyebrows. Keep your eyes glued to that one spot, and no one will ever be able to stare you down. Eventually, the other person will have no choice but to lower his gaze.
me shy
pajju is deviating the thread from staring to smooching...:D... tiger...jump on him...!
wacky ** Muwah ** :D
and i hate the way ... you said wacky honey...:(
purple is one of my favorites... plus 1 point for you little pajju :P
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rezy sorry i hate 3some :P
wacky well unfortuantly now purple thong ::( u can consider me ?
i liked it too....wacky ...no need to change it...
where u staying in filipine pajju... me in the flight to filipine.... hope we have a great time.... :)
if you are still wearing that bright pink thong i might reconsider pajju ;)
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so u dunt like me ?
i can't change the tattoo anymore pajju. i like it as it is ;)
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rezy grrrrr u envy .. yalla go n sleep .. me just wokr up here is 5 am .. am in phillipines now :)
hello rezy...yes i am.
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look, i told you b4 he is not a sincere pal... come back into my life wacky....:)...
my one n only sweet heart wacky :) nyway dunt fgt to chage ur tatoo :P
lol pajju... i'm at my home country. and who is that you're talking about??? you're meeting somebody else behind my back. you cheater!!! :/
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rein is busy with MD...:)... love birds....
wacky... are u out of country...?
r u dreamin or wat ? u cheater no i will not come tommorrow :)
i didn't say i like your eyes...you have mistaken me for somebody else. you bloody drunkard ;)
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wacky yes honey so do u like my eyes ? in villagio u said my eyes r great .. that time i am really ** blushing ** u know :)
pajjuuuuuuuu! ;)
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rezy no she did PM me .. the place is secret :P lol :)
pajju,2moro she might be going to traffic dept... for renewing her driving license...go there...dare to stare...at her....:D
anyway i noticed I stare at people very often. but not only girls...whoever. Eye contact is a sign of friendship for me. Sorry if this is not commonly felt.
Me, too, rein.
rein u goin tommorrow anywere ? i really wanna stare at u
They won't 'see' much when they stare. They'd be blinded by the light.
wear sunglasses :P
i really dont know if a person is staring at me or not, because i dont stare or even look at them several times.
"Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people appear bright until you hear them speak."
marie_2 better still...just act like you are blind just stumble on her. Lol
well, dont stare!!!!! just take a casual admiring glance and dont fall in love. Just fall off the chair lol
...listen to the sound of silence....
i like to watch around me ,but you have a problem with ur ego -think so and as well perversive behaviour,next time stare ur shoes when passing by me.cheers!
ur saying reflects the true beliefs of ur PM ...... lol
A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose!
I am sending a message on the dangerous of staring, but as you know some people have a narrow mind.
For example when I said in some previous posts that women are like diamonds many got depressed and said how can we be diamonds?
Aren't diamonds valuable? If you have a diamond will you not protect it?
I want to ressemble the value only and offcourse from my point of view women are more valuable than diamonds.
I am sure every natural woman want to be appreciated.
By example the explaination becomes better.
Khalid uses a tactic he learned in the mosque. Always ask suggestive questions (give the answer already). The proper question should have been: "Is staring at someone a problem?"
Khalid,
There are millions ways of staring, from discrete admiration to perverted looks. It’s up to the upbringing of each individual and the situation to choose the one he/she thinks it’s more suitable.
So man, if you stare at a woman all the time in a perverted manner that is your problem, just don’t assume that the universe thinks the same way as you!
Some of us are better equipped that just religious rules, to walk in this world and admire respectfully its beauty!
Khalid is happy now... his thread expanding... early comments made him guilty....
Rezy, I can assure you, you're not staring at MY eye!
morochiado ?
Some others, Khalid, not all others.
between glance and stare.
I am sure all of you agree than moore than 50 % of attraction cases started with staring.
Some people might say that staring is ok, but let us be honest and agree that staring is not something that others like.
whaaaaaaaaaaaat are you looooooooooking at
i m staring at your eye...snessy!
How can I not? when you wear a one inch shorts and walk around..lol
next to dont stare when you see me around in villagio ok
u are absolutely right, snessy... you should initiate a new thread like...'different useful ways to stare at women'....lols
happygo...thats why most men need glasses after 40..lol overuse..lol
After the initial glance, you should be able to judge whether or not you should look again. If she is with her husband, you shouldn't. It's disrespectful to stare knowing she is with someone.
That would be too normal, mauro!
its ok, if i see a beauty ... i would stare at her ofcourse w/o a wink... but not at locals,sorry... :(... i dont wana go back so early...!
FS...visual rape....hahaha... reminded me of good old college hostel days where sitting in the canteen outside college campus, we would visually strip each girl passing by...lol
snessy....sometimes a glimpse is just not enough...lol
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I cannot understand you. Staring can be offensive, ok.
But then how are you supposed to flirt? yo go to speak to a girl/boy you just glimpsed on??
I accept the fact maybe we (italian especially) are rude in approach sometimes. But couldn't a girl just ASSUME we are looking at her because she is beautiful? And be fine with it?
staring at any body part is down right rude...
i think...i think...????
i'm sure, u r 101% male, and there is a bit hope for me in case of Khalid ;)
A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose!
when somebody stares at me,i have a feeling something is not right....i go check in the nearest reflection to see if i have a hair sticking out of my head or something like that.and i usually do it in front of them...which strangely kinda snubs them coz at almost every instance,the person suddenly turns away his face :-D
Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor
I agree with kinimoto. It's ok to glance at someone, but to stare is darn right rude!
if i stare at u ?
just glimpse don't stare...
"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"
A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose!
There is no problem if you stare at a single lady or girl, might be she will be happy. It will become a big issue or unethical if you stare at a wife especially if her husband beside her....don't do this dude....
“The fool speaks, the wise man listens”
erm Khalid,it's plain rude to stare @ someone...but of course you know that already right?...:)
Kids stare at everything new and exciting, because they are curious. Where's the crime?
Khalid you are ofcourse correct..
"The best thing in my opinion is to practice not staring at some one you do not know."
Otherwise you may get a smack on the nose ..
FS it was u last weekend who asked me ?
and that way you wouldn't be so worried about everyone else or even know that they are staring.
I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM
some men stare because they don't want to end that first sight as they are warned not to repeat...
Phoenix and Happygo... did you hear what he said? it can cause problems.. Btw...Visual rape is an offense..lol
I dont look at people…I mean I don’t make eye contact with strangers .. so I dont know who is staring at me...I don’t mind as long as I dont see i.…if it makes them happy let them be..lol
When I go with my friends, if they tell that that guy is staring or following… I turn around and ask him why he is staring/following? Normally they stop it…
Staring will cause eye problems. The muscles will become stiff and you will see less from then on.
Pajju the obvious....Nothing!
Khalid, what is with you and these thread?
First filipinas + habibi = love....
Now staring at someone = love....
whats next? Looking over your shoulder at a blind spot while in traffic, might make someone think you are proposing they follow you home?
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Khalid,
Grow up, not all of us are immature or naive to that point.
Stop preaching here but if you insist, please be just a little bit more intelligent.
But sometimes just can't resist....what to do yani...
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i like staring at b**bs, it will make me live 4 to 5 years longer, right QL??? :)
Yalla!
the story is like this he wanted to say.."i stared at the women, she replied that why me starring at her if she is married,better me go away & stare at some other girl who is unmarried and whom i dont know very well..'...lol
I want to say that staring can cause problems
so let us try not to stare
because staring is rude
and what is goin on ?
Khalid...loool What are you trying to say?
To stare or not to stare?
Why to stare at someone you know....when he/she is with you all the time...you can look at them passionately no need to stare..lol
Bur how do you know he/she is married until you look at them? lol
"The best thing in my opinion is to practice not staring at some one you do not know"...... challenging the natural instincts....lol
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