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i been working here fr almost 4 year n i preety quiet n work is everythg 4 me n i x hv any complaints when comes 2 work.i got 2 knw a guy 4 almost 6-7months n he confessed tht he is married 4 ten years and had 2 kids and abt 1year ago he separated with her but not legally but still staying in the same roof coz of children.his wife hv got good influence with the locals and holding a gd positions n he is the opposite.whtever she sd abt him every1 believs esp the bad 1.so he was depressed and once he met me he sd i m very different as i alwyz motivate him n supports him whenevr he need help.so he was closed n he sd finally his fly bck home knws the true colour of his wife.she accused him having many girlfrens n etc.he said the family n frens knows abt his problems and no 1 could help him.his wife had couple of affairs with his close frens and he said he can't live with her nymore as she is not the right person for him as she used him.he was trapped coz of the children n he loves them so much.she found out abt me n went to my management n made a complaint tht i m having an affair with her husband n office called me n said i was the reason 4 ruining his marriage n took me off frm work n its almost 7days nw.they don't want to listen to ny of my stories and blamed me for everything?i was so sad as i was punnished like this n only god knows hw felt abt it.i m a person who x go out nywhere,no night life and came from a respectable family and i was really ashamed with people who i met in the office as they are looking as i m the bad person.i x explain nythg as i was blamed for everythg.i did not c him for almost 8 days nw n he is already divorced.my management did not give me an answer yet as the ceo got to approve n grant me bck my job or else terminate n sent me bck home.i m so sad reg the whole issue n still waiting for a reply frm my management?pls help
thank you
can u give me the details of his mans wife
Don't shoot married men that fool around. There are lots of women out there who need to experience the challenge, and do.
A human can do mistakes but have to learn from mistakes, i know that its really difficult for you to talk with your management as you mention that they dont want to listen anything from you but dear, find a way,,,if one door is close thats means 1000dors are open, just find one, be relax, ask from GOD, he will guid you and trust and believe on GOD and believe on your self...be positive....this situation is very bad but insha ALLAH, everything will be fine but you have to be possitive, think positive, believe on your self, and pray to GOD,,forget his wife and him, just focus on your future and family....my best wishes with you and insha ALLAH,,soon everything will be fine....dont worry, thats all from GOD and if GOD gives you trouble so he give you solution also, just ask from him........take care and dont worry, try to celebrate EID...
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anteeca
when i was reading your post my tears was rolling on my cheek n thank you very much for such an advice n i m doing wht u tld me to.i m praying everyday and hoping for the best frm it.thnks again
in qatar living, guys only pulling the leg, will blame you but never guide you, never give you advice, may be you wrong or may be you right but here who cares, just pulling the leg and make a fun...anyways...
I dont know the reall truth but i only know one thing that u never post a thread here if you WRONG. situation is very bad as now its all about your and your family reputation, no body understand this that you not fear from termination, you fear the bad image which will develope after your termination, no body will trust you as no body knows the truth, so sister, my advice to you that forget everything, pray to god because he is the only one who knows each and everything, pray all the time, ask from him, God will give you, but you should pray, muslim or non muslim doesnt matter but if you pray, believe me, GOD will help you. HOPE for the best. try to speak again with your management, search sources, insha ALLAH, everything will fine.. be brave, pray and try to talk with your management, insha ALLAH, everything will fine..
now i am ready for war of words.............
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yeah, why not? disregard any humanitarian acts. it is for a better cause lol
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We can do with such punishments in India mind you, May help to control the population ;)
sandee...women facing the firing squad for falling in love with married men. lol
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Who cares?
What is fair Wacky.. Women falling in love with married men or women facing the firing squad for such act.. Sorry I didn't get you..
why not sandee? all is fair...
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Most of the time, sandee. I forgot that little thing.
"They are always loyal to themselves"- Priceless
women don't do this, sandee. They are always loyal to themselves.
could be. well there are some lucky ones i guess
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What about women, those who fall in love with a married man knowing that they are married, are they facing the firing squad too?
Could also be that the remaining 10 % are not worth it.
then earth will be a better place to live in lol. and men would have the word loyal engraved in their brain.
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Could be that 90% of the male population would be dead then.
that would be nice. firing squads will truly enjoy the job. and i mean female firing squads.
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Married men who fall in love with someone other than their wives should be shot on the spot. Would save a lot of problems.
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never give a fool guy a chance in entering your good and moral life.
Once again you know him for a very short time,,and that long time work that you planted, was harvest earlier on its deadline..
married..period..turn your back..
and feel free to have anybody that is yours without any strings on him,,,
as britexpat says,,,
"As usual , the moron gets away with it and the "other" woman gets the full blame...
explain the divorce then....
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
He is happily married but has you on the side, he was lying when he said he hates his wife, separated, and only staying for the kids.
If he had to choose between you and his wife, he would choose her. (Even if he says otherwise)
p.s. English only on the main forums x 1,000,000.
hmmmmmmmmm, sounds like a bad word to me ;)
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phoenixx2009
"pihak atasan" means higher management like ceo
andeee
thanks for the lovely reply and let me say something here,yes i admit my mistakes n i learned nrver trust ny1 but is it ok if u r married 1 day n ur wife got affair with someone u know n u keep ur mouth shut n keep living with her?gd luck
i didn't, i just said it's a bad word, now i need translation :D
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phoenixx2009
you are really smart for posting the meaning of "pihak atasan" appreciated
ccrew
i should have known that beforehand when doing work with malaysians:S anyway, never too late :D
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mmmmm andee, harsh truth and reality!!!!
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lol....for u to find out
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
The marriage was already wrecked!
Moral of the story is "stay away from married men" - sorry but you knew he was married and still you went ahead with it - did you not think of the consequences?? no obviously not...
SO you got what you deserved .... maybe next time you will think before you go ahead and wreck someone's marriage...
What do you think a guy who is tryintg to get his leg over is gonna say to you....yes I am in love with my wife - everything is great - but hey how about it ???
Of course not - hes gonna tell you that she is like this and that and does not treat him well so you feel sorry and feel you are the special one....
Wake up and smell the coffee....
ccrew, "pihak atasan" is a malaysian bad word i guess? good to know :D
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kasturi, was this an sms you sent to someone and got posted here by mistake? lol
my dear, i don't understand what help do you expect here? you've done it or not? if yes, you've had it coming, if not, then just be glad to leave this country with only sad memories about something you didn't do, better than about something you will do!
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babe..
u can do that...just to show the pihak atasan that u're really menyesal for what had happen,...
but an advice from me,since they'all dah bercerai,and i bet u really need ur keja....lupakan lelaki 2 and tell the pihak atasan that u x tahu pun lelaki 2 dah kahwin....tipu la a little bit..kite dtg jauh2 tuk keja,remember that.....some of us had families back home that rely on us....with this kind of problem...i guess u know better how the pihak atasan will deal with it...so,again im telling u(since pompuan 2 ade bukti)cakap ngan pihak atasan that u xtahu dia dah kahwin and u have no attentions on memusnahkan rumahtangga org lain....
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
Nishamani
he is not working in the same office with me.his wife only complained me.
Some men r really lucky..
They manage to get 2, when i dont even have 1.
tell me kasturi do you nd this guy who is married whom you had the affiar with work in the same office. and didnt the management do anything t his job
Kasturi.. Was she worth all the hassle? If you can't do the time don't do the crime..
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English only x 3.. :/
hi
thnks alot for ur advice and may god bless you.
English in main forum please...
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you think it's a gd idea utk jumpa pihak atasan sebelum apa2 terjadi kat keje aku?at least minta maaf dan etc.thnks 4 the advice.god bless u
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babe...im so sorry to hear that
dont worry to much,relax,try to occupy yourself with things that u enjoy doing or go to the mall with your friends,sit and enjoy a cup of coffee/tea just to avoid yourself from thinking about the problem that your currently having,atleast for the time being until the management decides.....nothing u can really do for now...do take care
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
what I do not understand is, why it can be written in correct wordings? We don't pay anything to write here, so why budget the letters?
FU, if that's the in style of writing, i'd rather be obsolete... :P
anyway, if you're not guilty of anything, why be afraid... :/
It's us who are obsolete...
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I don't understand a word.
Any professional translators available?
Should I copy and paste her text, hoping that any on-line language translator will decipher the context.
“terrorists rely on an endless supply of people living in extreme poverty, with no other options in life. The only chance we have to see the end of terrorism, is to end extreme poverty.”
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Well yeah..your wrong..u know from the start that he is married (legally)... u should have settled your rules before continuing with the relationship. Telling that you cant let him go because u know he is good & takes pity on him will never change the fact that you are wrecking another family.
It is a wake up call for you. sorry bout that...
with a husband like that. Maybe he's built like a bull. Does to her and has the energy to do it with another one.
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ok sorry..
im just advising her that if she has done nothing wrong like what the wife had claimed her doing with her husband...she has no reason to fear of being terminated or feel ashamed of what people might think about her cause the truth will reveal...
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
dia ada proof suami dia dtg jumpa i sbb dia ada record daripada sec guard and i mengaku je.moral of the story suami dia dah bercerai dgn dia n he dah keluar rumah and duduk on his own.dia kata apa2 pun dia akan support i.i tak jumpa dia sampai hari ni sbb sedid teramat sangat.
thnks 4 ur advice
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babe...suami pompuan 2 pernah x dtg flat u..???
atau pompuan 2 ade x bukti suaminye ada affair ngan u..??? kalau xde...jgn risau & jgn skali kali mengaku(kalau mmg u ade affair pun ngan suaminye)....just nafikan...kalau pompuan 2 xde bukti...management xkan sewenang wenangnye dapat terminate u....so fingers crossed...good luck
^^^fools rush in where angels fear to tread^^^
Not to be racist, but I honestly I think they need to do a crash course with all Asian women who come here on why you shouldn't sleep with married men and why you should never believe what they say.
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She fell for married guy who sweet talked her into doing naughty things with him.
His wife found out and reported her for destroying her marriage.
Her company has suspended her till further notice.
As usual , the moron gets away with it and the "other" woman gets the full blame...
im sorry but now i need Panadols after reading that... :/
in english this time...
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And the moral of the story is don't sleep with married men. You should have known better.