Your wife may be a great mom, but beware: Once you slips that ring on her finger, you’ve adopted his family!
-- not just the immediate family, but every long lost cousins, third cousins, fourth and so on... That’s a lot of people who could show up uninvited for your party o madalas --- uutangan ka pa... ;)
I wld prefer LOYALTY to the family rather then on personal happiness..It implies both in the case of men n women..Since i m married and has a little kid as well, i can't think of nething else except taking care of my little baby and my husband...It gives me much satisfaction and makes me responsible towards them and to our sweet home..I don't think no men or women will go for their PERSONAL HAPPINESS if they r happily married with lots of mutual understanding,commitment,sentiments,emotions & compassion....especially in my case i can't leave my family behind to enjoy some night parties or to visit ne country alone..Atleast, i want my small family to be alwasy with me..This is what my thinking is..
personal happiness is very important in our life and we can have it without sacrificing our loyalty to our family by continuously supporting them on their needs. thats what i practice and im very much contented and happy in my family life
hmmmmm ok boston i interpreted his post as the family i started my life with since the title is talking about marriage, but you're right "god i hate to admit it:S" he needs to elaborate.
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I would have to go with parents, men are disappointment personified.
*I can't stop staring at the gif on Vivo Bonito's signatute*
Vulgarity is the conduct of other people, just as falsehoods are the truths of other people.
i prefer both lolzzzz N Marriage is union of 2 familiez
There are many things in life from which you cant choose one. You need both in this case.Its all about balancing :)
Your wife may be a great mom, but beware: Once you slips that ring on her finger, you’ve adopted his family!
-- not just the immediate family, but every long lost cousins, third cousins, fourth and so on... That’s a lot of people who could show up uninvited for your party o madalas --- uutangan ka pa... ;)
FS..lol
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"HE WHO DARES WINS"
Derek Edward Trotter
MJ lol
Good... at least you wont be able to choose between them
...listen to the sound of silence....
Phoenix wrong logic dude... you can get another wife, but not another father..can you?? lol
Marriage is union of two families
I wld prefer LOYALTY to the family rather then on personal happiness..It implies both in the case of men n women..Since i m married and has a little kid as well, i can't think of nething else except taking care of my little baby and my husband...It gives me much satisfaction and makes me responsible towards them and to our sweet home..I don't think no men or women will go for their PERSONAL HAPPINESS if they r happily married with lots of mutual understanding,commitment,sentiments,emotions & compassion....especially in my case i can't leave my family behind to enjoy some night parties or to visit ne country alone..Atleast, i want my small family to be alwasy with me..This is what my thinking is..
i won't be able to save anyone, they might end up saving me instead as i can't swim.. :P
let's not go to boat-sinking issues lol...
...listen to the sound of silence....
LOYALTY
personal happiness is very important in our life and we can have it without sacrificing our loyalty to our family by continuously supporting them on their needs. thats what i practice and im very much contented and happy in my family life
Ur question has the answer..........
Considering Personal Happiness = No Family
No Family = No Happiness
Suming up = u end up unhappy Personally.
**Everyday is a gift, thats why they call it the present**
Drac it can be a double decker boat! Did I say honeymoon?
A little bit of e-bashing is not detrimental to your health!
ROFL DRAAAAAAAAAC wow what an answer:D:D:D:D:D
save your wife man, can't get your father pregnant can you??? just being polite by saying pregnant;)
Yalla!
who is "stoopid" to go on honeymoon with his wife and his parents on the same boat!???? :P
save first who are nearess to you...
"We cannot change the past, we only learnt from it"
Boston, you know very well who I am!
A little bit of e-bashing is not detrimental to your health!
Suppose you are in a boat with your family and it starts to sink. Which one will you save? your father or the wife? You can save only one.
A little bit of e-bashing is not detrimental to your health!
ok po...
about getting married, think about it many many times...
"We cannot change the past, we only learnt from it"
edifis, sounds like you are an Italian.
hi drac.youve got me thinking.....
but, i wanna know your answer first.......
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hey guys, this is an open question for everyone.
........Not for me........Not Me......
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But for the Sicilians, especially for the male, the parents family and the brothers come first.
When you choose between the 2 the wife is second choice always. She must keep silent and not ask too much questions.
A little bit of e-bashing is not detrimental to your health!
seriour na talaga.... for me the secret is to follow your heart dictates...
whatever makes you happy go for it....
"We cannot change the past, we only learnt from it"
as long as you're happy malley, go for it..
definitely drac and boston, \
mallrat, your approach is a deadend, your parents, siblings, relatives? who r these people? they don't exist on my happiness scheme :)
"family" is something i start, i make, i believe in.
Yalla!
Some boys never grow up, drac.
Malley...what is more important for you:
1)To be a SON for your father
2)To be a FATHER for your son...
Think !
Thanks, mallrat. Then my answer should be clear: I will always go for my chosen family. That is, the one I chose to live the rest of my life with me.
Hi Boston
When i wrote Family,
i mean the parents/siblings/relatives.
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In my opinion the first preference goes to the family... if you're smart enough... then you'll be able to get your family support tactfully...
phoenix, like your answer. 'My family' is the one I start with 'my chosen partner' and 'my kids'.
Then you should marry your parents, ghazalz.
hmmmmm ok boston i interpreted his post as the family i started my life with since the title is talking about marriage, but you're right "god i hate to admit it:S" he needs to elaborate.
Yalla!
i don't ever want to come to that point where i have to choose..
phoenix, there are two families: the one you come from and the one you start with your wife. I just wanted to know which one is meant.
i prefer both...tough decision making...
boston:S he's talking about marriage man, not sober yet??;)
Yalla!
What do you mean with "Family"?" Your parents or 'your family', your wife?
they come together, otherwise, you are either living a dog's life or a childish selfish adult with dependants who might face the consequences
Yalla!
i wouldnt choose between them
...listen to the sound of silence....
you got both! lol