If you have found that your spouse or partner was cheating on you , what would your reaction be and what would you do ? put into mind that you have children from that cheating person , what would your next step be and how would you resolve the problem .
Qataria78, questions to help you evaluate your situation. Does he pray? Is he generous? Is he a good husband? Does he sleep with you?
Then, you decide if you want to fix it, or let it go and leave.
You should sit and talk to him, it all depends on your relationship with him. Ask him what you are doing wrong? If you are not giving him enough, if not, what does he want from you? Try to talk it out and solve the problem. Don't accuse him and get worked up. Don't let him know that you have caught him and that you are staying even then, because he might then do it openly and be so sure that you would never leave him.
I'm sorry.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
The way any one would behave in such situation varies in theory and practice. Its so easy to say I would leave him/her in a hypothetical situation, but god forbid such situation is actually faced in reality, lots of issues come into play influencing our decision like children, financial security, social status etc. I have seen many dignified and independent partners deciding to give the cheating partner another chance.
I agree FS. People can make mistakes once, but if you repeat that mistake chances are you still will. Good Sugar QTR, for a second I thought you meant with your first post you would.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Personally I feel too many women here turn a blind eye. It's one thing if your husband cheats once, for reasons like depression, it's another when they're off to Bangkok once a month.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Olive, it all depends on the person. If she wants to leave, then so be it. From her question, she wants to resolve and solve. Well that is what I felt.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
and to those asking whether she could be the reason, as not pleasing him in bed. I can assure you, from men themselves who admit, it isn't about the other person. A cheater will never need an excuse. If the wife wasn't giving him enough he could tell her, talk to her, make her feel wanted, sexy and needed. Vice Versa! So, it isn't always just about the bed.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
If he is treating you well, generous in his house to you and his children, then disregard. If you want your family to survive, Allah will reward you at the end. Pray for his HIDAYA and pray that ALLAH yi9a5rah for you and his family.
If all women were to run to divorce once cheated on, there would not be any marriages left in this world.
Good luck!
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
Honestly speaking you will have to correct yourself only. If you keep her \ him happy, spend time together make full use of time together and most importantly keep her / him happy in the bed.
are u doing best to keep your husband happy? or are u spending your whole time after TV socializing and looking after the childrens? if you dont give time to your husband and not satisfying this needs and wants then there are chances that your husband may go after someone..
And nothing is more important in this world than Babies, and no one will help you and you and only you who have to help your self only your husband will be there for you.. so please think 10 times before your divorce your husband.
you have to asses your losing if you divorced this other partner, you can menace his existance in the children's life, tell the family, make your own plan B, coz this is a crisis situation, dont take immediate fast decisions, take your time, and do what's best to you, i.e. the innocent part of this...but after all shit happens and may be its just a slip, see if you can tolerate it so try to forgive if not go for the bold actions but afterall let the divorce to be the last action thought of
_i would hurt him physically first, then sell his favorite stuff, rip his clothes off and fuck him like he's never fucked before, then we'll talk about how we'll proceed from then on...it will all be his decision...
After I finished throwing plates at his head, I'd look at the reasons. Things happen and people change during the time span of a marriage, and their could be any number of reasons why someone would cheat. You need to discuss it and see if there is a marriage worth saving.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Ahmed and Wa-il are two friends and later on Wa-il told Ahmed that the wife of the Mosque Imam (Imam is the person who we pray after him in the Mosque) wants to speak to me so Ahmed can you please chat with the Imam after the pray and at this time I can see what does the Imam wife wants? Ahmed said sure, and Ahmed started chatting with the Imam after the pray and Wa-il started going to the Imam wife and remained like this for days.
Ahmed became more honest and was affected by the Imam speach with him after each pray and then Ahmed decided to convince and say the truth to the Imam.
Ahmed said to the Imam I want to tell you that I was chatting with you not to know more on my religion but I was chatting with you to allow my friend Wa-il to date your wife and spend time with her.
The Imam said but I am not Married !!!
Ahmed was shocked.
Guys do you know who was Wa-il dating?
He was dating Ahmeds wife !!!
The Morale of the story is that if you hepl some one doing wrong and bad things then this person will betrayd you and throw your trust in him in the Garbage.
if you want to know cheating punishment in Islam here is the link:
what is cheating? can you define it? is it just the sexual act? cheating can start by a look at a girl with lust, talking on the phone with someone while fantasise, CHATTING with someone anonymously trying to trap her.
cheating has many faces, least could be a one night stand.
cheaters will always be cheaters even you give them a 100 chance....
Divorce/ Separation is so easy to say and do but later on it is always the kids who will suffer for the mistakes the parents did...what a sad drama of life :(
How do we know he didnt talk to his wife before jumping with the whore in bed.
May be the issue was of changing surnames, he did and she refused to change her surname *wink* and the whore agreed to be called by his surname but only for that period, the guy had no option, did he..:)
very very interesting topic...if my hubby cheating with me ...i will kill him BUT if i have kids then i,m thinking and give him more chance,and then if he will change his self then i forgive him ...if not then i will leave him...
u should sit with him/her in a living room full of fragrance and a/c on and then discuss with him/her what are the shortcomings in the relation and where did we do our mistakes and bring ur children and ask them to do some acting to him/her and say "LOOK AT THEM D U WANT TO MAKE THEM SUFFER BCOZE OF UR SELFISHNESSS????"
he/she will fall on her/his knees and cry and i ll guarantee that she/he will stay with u happily ever after
Every time i see a topic about cheating spouses it keeps reminding me that Humans are still animals. It really takes a lot of self control to NOT want to cheat. Every MAN at one point or the other in life is going to want to cheat...but just a handful of them restrain themselves from doing so...others just dont get caught, and some just dont care anymore.
Life's too short to be living it with someone your not happy with. marriage is just a society contract joining two people together to legally have sex and make legal kids.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
i can live without a cheating husband...if i gave him a second chance the relationship is still not working coz the bond of trust do not exist anymore.so why to suffer again?
I love the fact it's only men saying you should analyse the situation and see what was going wrong.
Right, if a man cheats on you, the woman should take time out to think "WHY?". Why the hell didn't he go to his wife and say, I'm unhappy and want to talk things through. No, instead he goes to the nearest cheap whore he could find and sleeps with her for his wife to pay attention to him.
What a load of cr*p!
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I think ,it needs cool mindedness to deal this sort of problem bcoz in this type of issues ,more than two lives will be affected.u need to analyse all the situations , possible reasons.The most important thing which we never thing in this type of issue is self analysis,that for this type of trouble how much i m responsible?Which factors i ignore in my past which leads to such consequence.Then if u justify urself,then analyse ur partner situation and personality traits.then think if u want to get divorce , what will be adverse effects on the children.ur partner may be a bad husband ,but most probably he would be a good father.
If u can forgive him and most important he is ashamed of his deeds ,then my advice is to forgive and go on with ur life.Life might not be same as past but time is a good healing factor.In the future,be careful and try to monitor his activities as much as u can.
AS there is no crime without a trace.
Good luck
Life should be lead by proper thinking and patince
Broken homes affects adversly on individuals personalities.
U know i would have shoot straight on the head of the cheating partner of mine n to his so called MUSE..lolzz.The matter would have ended for once n all..hez not liable to live so better make him free from this world and yes to that BITCH as well who dared to enter our happy married life..so better free them both and let them stay up in the heaven..this would be the best moove to resolve the pblm..
second chance in a marriage?no way....but i'm not one to create a fuss about it.the day i discover something like that,i'll quietly walk out of his life.no issues.the kid/s (if any) can choose to be with whom they choose.
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
I don't believe in second chances, if he cheated on me, I would have no qualms in walking away from our marriage no matter how long we'd been together. If he can do it once, he can do it again...
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If spouse, then decide what's best for yourself/children.
If "partner" well whats the problem? a "partner" is about as official as a handshake.
The LAST thing I would ever do is to come to QL (of all places) & ask for advice.
Qataria78, questions to help you evaluate your situation. Does he pray? Is he generous? Is he a good husband? Does he sleep with you?
Then, you decide if you want to fix it, or let it go and leave.
You should sit and talk to him, it all depends on your relationship with him. Ask him what you are doing wrong? If you are not giving him enough, if not, what does he want from you? Try to talk it out and solve the problem. Don't accuse him and get worked up. Don't let him know that you have caught him and that you are staying even then, because he might then do it openly and be so sure that you would never leave him.
I'm sorry.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
She would kill me.
we should not cheat but i love to cheat how can i get rid of it?????
Dump him like yesterday's garbage. If it's several people then he's showing that he has no respect for you.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
that can be called as hormonal imbalance
What if he cheated on you with not only one women with several women . So how would you face that ?
The way any one would behave in such situation varies in theory and practice. Its so easy to say I would leave him/her in a hypothetical situation, but god forbid such situation is actually faced in reality, lots of issues come into play influencing our decision like children, financial security, social status etc. I have seen many dignified and independent partners deciding to give the cheating partner another chance.
cheating is bad
I agree FS. People can make mistakes once, but if you repeat that mistake chances are you still will. Good Sugar QTR, for a second I thought you meant with your first post you would.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Olive, no one is mentioning the regular trips for cheap lays. I for one wouldn't tolerate it, with or without kids.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
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Olive if its the seecond one then chances are he is a cheat addict! lol
Personally I feel too many women here turn a blind eye. It's one thing if your husband cheats once, for reasons like depression, it's another when they're off to Bangkok once a month.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Olive, it all depends on the person. If she wants to leave, then so be it. From her question, she wants to resolve and solve. Well that is what I felt.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
What if he's doing a Tiger Woods Sugar QTR. Is that worth staying with him?
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
and to those asking whether she could be the reason, as not pleasing him in bed. I can assure you, from men themselves who admit, it isn't about the other person. A cheater will never need an excuse. If the wife wasn't giving him enough he could tell her, talk to her, make her feel wanted, sexy and needed. Vice Versa! So, it isn't always just about the bed.
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
If he is treating you well, generous in his house to you and his children, then disregard. If you want your family to survive, Allah will reward you at the end. Pray for his HIDAYA and pray that ALLAH yi9a5rah for you and his family.
If all women were to run to divorce once cheated on, there would not be any marriages left in this world.
Good luck!
~*Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret*~
Honestly speaking you will have to correct yourself only. If you keep her \ him happy, spend time together make full use of time together and most importantly keep her / him happy in the bed.
You will have a good life.
hahahaha poor old lady cheating with any animal...
Cheating ???
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are u doing best to keep your husband happy? or are u spending your whole time after TV socializing and looking after the childrens? if you dont give time to your husband and not satisfying this needs and wants then there are chances that your husband may go after someone..
And nothing is more important in this world than Babies, and no one will help you and you and only you who have to help your self only your husband will be there for you.. so please think 10 times before your divorce your husband.
GOOD LUCK
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you have to asses your losing if you divorced this other partner, you can menace his existance in the children's life, tell the family, make your own plan B, coz this is a crisis situation, dont take immediate fast decisions, take your time, and do what's best to you, i.e. the innocent part of this...but after all shit happens and may be its just a slip, see if you can tolerate it so try to forgive if not go for the bold actions but afterall let the divorce to be the last action thought of
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cheater knows how to end his ways or exit in undetect manner...
For imagination i could say i could kill him but practically nothing can be done other than a divorce but thn tat idiot will be happy....
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I agree with you.. I hope it wont happen to us.
well-said :-D
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
_i would hurt him physically first, then sell his favorite stuff, rip his clothes off and fuck him like he's never fucked before, then we'll talk about how we'll proceed from then on...it will all be his decision...
_I'am perfectly Imperfect....
After I finished throwing plates at his head, I'd look at the reasons. Things happen and people change during the time span of a marriage, and their could be any number of reasons why someone would cheat. You need to discuss it and see if there is a marriage worth saving.
"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce
Straigh_Arrow LOLz thats funny :)
he owned him :P
Ahmed and Wa-il are two friends and later on Wa-il told Ahmed that the wife of the Mosque Imam (Imam is the person who we pray after him in the Mosque) wants to speak to me so Ahmed can you please chat with the Imam after the pray and at this time I can see what does the Imam wife wants? Ahmed said sure, and Ahmed started chatting with the Imam after the pray and Wa-il started going to the Imam wife and remained like this for days.
Ahmed became more honest and was affected by the Imam speach with him after each pray and then Ahmed decided to convince and say the truth to the Imam.
Ahmed said to the Imam I want to tell you that I was chatting with you not to know more on my religion but I was chatting with you to allow my friend Wa-il to date your wife and spend time with her.
The Imam said but I am not Married !!!
Ahmed was shocked.
Guys do you know who was Wa-il dating?
He was dating Ahmeds wife !!!
The Morale of the story is that if you hepl some one doing wrong and bad things then this person will betrayd you and throw your trust in him in the Garbage.
if you want to know cheating punishment in Islam here is the link:
http://english.islamweb.net/ver2/Fatwa/ShowFatwa.php?lang=e&Id=87677&Option=FatwaId
My message to the husband who cheats his wife, tomorrow another man will cheat you and probably one of your friends.
hmmm...today only ;p
I think everyone should be given once chance, as people make mistakes in life.
except at wars.
Dad: Son (7-8 yrs old) would like some one to cheat you?
Son: What is cheating dad?
Dad: It is like not being honest, for example you friend gave you a toy and will take it later when he comes back and you broke it on purpose.
Son: of course dad I do not like some one to cheat me, cheaters are bad.
jaryz did that piss you off? ohh poor girl :)
i like you "moral" asif :)
...listen to the sound of silence....
with my experience girls will allow u to cheat in exam and they themself will help u to cheat in exams but not in marriage
moral: cheat in exam but not in marriage
i like your answer zuzaine...thats very good idea.
forgive and forget... if it happens again, forget the marriage and forgive if the pain is gone.
Talk to him and settle out your differences...
if it doesn't work, let him go. Maybe he will be happier that way.
But, believe me, easier said than done :(
...listen to the sound of silence....
size ????
what do u mean by size????
Cheating is Cheating..in any form or size. The issue here is how do you deal with it.
A)forgive and forget?
B)forgive but dont forget?
C)Forget but dont forgive)
D)Go cheat on your spouse to even the score.
E)Divorce
F)UCK it?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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cheating can be of diff. types:
exam cheating
sign. fogery
exam paper leaking
misusing of someone money without his knowledge
and lots more
exam cheating is my fav. i loved to do it in exams
for woman who cheat thier husband its hard to forgive.
what is cheating? can you define it? is it just the sexual act? cheating can start by a look at a girl with lust, talking on the phone with someone while fantasise, CHATTING with someone anonymously trying to trap her.
cheating has many faces, least could be a one night stand.
Yalla!
cheaters will always be cheaters even you give them a 100 chance....
Divorce/ Separation is so easy to say and do but later on it is always the kids who will suffer for the mistakes the parents did...what a sad drama of life :(
english only in main forum...and if you know what i mean..you'll get this message!!!
What about emotional cheating?
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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i expect him to do the same thing WK.what else.?
a very gud answer suzain,well down
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ٱلۡخَبِيثَـٰتُ لِلۡخَبِيثِينَ وَٱلۡخَبِيثُونَ لِلۡخَبِيثَـٰتِۖ وَٱلطَّيِّبَـٰتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَٱلطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَـٰتِۚ أُوْلَـٰٓٮِٕكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَۖ لَهُم مَّغۡفِرَةٌ۬ وَرِزۡقٌ۬ ڪَرِيمٌ۬ (٢٦)
Well Said !
tony an eye for an eye and the whole world goes blind ;)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Oh wow! i would be really happy, if my other half cheats on me . That gives me a chance to cheat on her too. jus waiting for the chance to prick on!
''Hip-hop isn't as complex as a woman is''
LOL WK, if I was married to you, I would cheat too! Hopefully I would get caught and you would have to leave me!
*****If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all*****
How do we know he didnt talk to his wife before jumping with the whore in bed.
May be the issue was of changing surnames, he did and she refused to change her surname *wink* and the whore agreed to be called by his surname but only for that period, the guy had no option, did he..:)
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very very interesting topic...if my hubby cheating with me ...i will kill him BUT if i have kids then i,m thinking and give him more chance,and then if he will change his self then i forgive him ...if not then i will leave him...
ok ok i m serious
u should sit with him/her in a living room full of fragrance and a/c on and then discuss with him/her what are the shortcomings in the relation and where did we do our mistakes and bring ur children and ask them to do some acting to him/her and say "LOOK AT THEM D U WANT TO MAKE THEM SUFFER BCOZE OF UR SELFISHNESSS????"
he/she will fall on her/his knees and cry and i ll guarantee that she/he will stay with u happily ever after
Chinx what if you cheat.. What do you expect from your husband then?
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Snessy I expect my would be wife to kill me if I am ever caught cheating.. Caught is the operative word though :P
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catch_madhu, in that case I forgive you ;-)
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Every time i see a topic about cheating spouses it keeps reminding me that Humans are still animals. It really takes a lot of self control to NOT want to cheat. Every MAN at one point or the other in life is going to want to cheat...but just a handful of them restrain themselves from doing so...others just dont get caught, and some just dont care anymore.
Life's too short to be living it with someone your not happy with. marriage is just a society contract joining two people together to legally have sex and make legal kids.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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i can live without a cheating husband...if i gave him a second chance the relationship is still not working coz the bond of trust do not exist anymore.so why to suffer again?
I love the fact it's only men saying you should analyse the situation and see what was going wrong.
Right, if a man cheats on you, the woman should take time out to think "WHY?". Why the hell didn't he go to his wife and say, I'm unhappy and want to talk things through. No, instead he goes to the nearest cheap whore he could find and sleeps with her for his wife to pay attention to him.
What a load of cr*p!
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straight arrow, i am a good indian guy!!
soniya,snessy: i was trying some answer on the lighter side 4 fun as the other posts were making this thread a bit serious..
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
tie him/her upside down and hit him/her with belt i say 20 combo hits he/she will regret the day when he/she was born
a relationship is like a thin piece of glass.it looks ugly and cannot be mended once a crack forms.
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
I think ,it needs cool mindedness to deal this sort of problem bcoz in this type of issues ,more than two lives will be affected.u need to analyse all the situations , possible reasons.The most important thing which we never thing in this type of issue is self analysis,that for this type of trouble how much i m responsible?Which factors i ignore in my past which leads to such consequence.Then if u justify urself,then analyse ur partner situation and personality traits.then think if u want to get divorce , what will be adverse effects on the children.ur partner may be a bad husband ,but most probably he would be a good father.
If u can forgive him and most important he is ashamed of his deeds ,then my advice is to forgive and go on with ur life.Life might not be same as past but time is a good healing factor.In the future,be careful and try to monitor his activities as much as u can.
AS there is no crime without a trace.
Good luck
Life should be lead by proper thinking and patince
Broken homes affects adversly on individuals personalities.
may be the partner/ spouse is not giving proper attention to his/her requirements.
As smoke said so many factors to be considered.
Divorce is not the solution, one has to think about the future of the children?
WK true true...its only a crime if you get caught and convicted. Innocent until proven guilty.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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It is always depend on the incedent, maybe it would be diffcult to control the temper...hope no one will expereince such case......
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
catch him red handed tie him/her to a chair and make her watch movie hindi called "RADIO" or "ramgopal verma's aag"
Is the most in accurate theory because he is simply saying correct the mistake by doing another mistake.
catch_madhu you represent the bad Indian people not the Good Indians in my opinion.
catch_madhu if you want to belong to the bad Indian people please tell us so we stay away from you.
I can get over the cheating but only fools get caught so I will divorce her for her stupidity.
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whaz that,dot.com?
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
that is to say that you catch him suddenly and I hope he will be honest and say sorry and not repeat it again.
Guys what reasons would let the married man cheat?
please put reasonable reasons so it can help both the husband and the wife, specially the wife.
catch_madhu, a dignified woman would never do the same what her partner has done..so just forget the idea of cheating from the woman side..
ٱلۡخَبِيثَـٰتُ لِلۡخَبِيثِينَ وَٱلۡخَبِيثُونَ لِلۡخَبِيثَـٰتِۖ وَٱلطَّيِّبَـٰتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَٱلطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَـٰتِۚ أُوْلَـٰٓٮِٕكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَۖ لَهُم مَّغۡفِرَةٌ۬ وَرِزۡقٌ۬ ڪَرِيمٌ۬ (٢٦)
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A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose! Dr. Choc
i will forgive them and forget the incidents....
catch_madhu, and she loses her self respect in the process??
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u also cheat him once!!!
Perhaps one needs to go to the root of the reason why the partner cheated. Many factors to be considered. Everyone's not perfect.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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LOL FS, great minds think alike or...fools seldom differ ;-)
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U know i would have shoot straight on the head of the cheating partner of mine n to his so called MUSE..lolzz.The matter would have ended for once n all..hez not liable to live so better make him free from this world and yes to that BITCH as well who dared to enter our happy married life..so better free them both and let them stay up in the heaven..this would be the best moove to resolve the pblm..
second chance in a marriage?no way....but i'm not one to create a fuss about it.the day i discover something like that,i'll quietly walk out of his life.no issues.the kid/s (if any) can choose to be with whom they choose.
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
Rizks if not independent...then no much choice...like how Bella is tolerating you now! lol
the wole world knows that im a good boy i dont cheat i chat
Divorce
Can you yourself put up the different scenarios so that one can choose whats best?
Snessy again we are thinking alike:)
FS wat, if not Independent ?
no chances..
I don't believe in second chances, if he cheated on me, I would have no qualms in walking away from our marriage no matter how long we'd been together. If he can do it once, he can do it again...
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He is not worth being with! If you are independent divorce is the best option! There are habitual cheaters…so not necessary they will stop it!
AHHHH your so innocent :)
i am very innocent on this kinda cheating...!!
I only use to cheat in my school dayz in Exams. I use to carry chits in my chaddi and pass the subjects...
Thanks to all my duffers teachers for not noticing it...:)
... BAADSHAH ...
dyvos n marrie fresh one :P