Apology Day for Pakistanis - by Hamid Mir

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By mathboy

SOME people hate me a lot in Pakistan. They hate me because I said sorry to Bengalis two years ago in Islamabad Press Club for the atrocities committed by Pakistan Army in 1971.They hate me because I also demanded an official apology from the government of Pakistan to the people of Bangladesh for the genocide of March 1971.They say I don't know anything. They say I am not a good Pakistani.

They say I was very young in 1971 and I am not aware about the truth. When I say yes I was only a young schoolgoing boy in 1971 but I heard and read a lot about the genocide. How can I deny my late father, Professor Waris Mir, who visited Dhaka in October 1971 with a delegation of Punjab University students? My father was a teacher of journalism in Punjab University, Lahore. He was asked by the University administration to organise a visit of the student's union office bearers to Turkey, but he took the boys to Dhaka with their consent. They wanted to know what was actually going on in Dhaka.

I still remember that when my father came back from Dhaka he wept for many days. He told us stories of bloodshed. These stories were similar to the story of my mother. My mother lost her whole family during migration from Jammu to Pakistan in 1947.Her brothers were killed by the Hindus and Sikhs in front of her eyes. Her mother was kidnapped. She saved her life by hiding under the dead bodies of her own relatives. I remember that my mother cried a lot when my father told her that Pakistan army officers raped many Bengali women. My mother said: "We made sacrifices for the safety of our honour but why we are dishonouring each other today?"

My father always said that Bengalis made Pakistan and we Punjabis broke Pakistan. Once he said that March 23rd was Pakistan Day, March 26th should be the apology day and December 16th should be the accountability day. I started understanding the thoughts of my late father when I became a journalist in 1987.

When I first read the Hamoodur Rehman Commission Report I felt ashamed. This report of a Pakistani commission admitted murder and rape but, despite this documentary evidence, many people still live in a state of denial. They say Sheikh Mujib was a traitor who created Mukti Bahini with the help of India and killed many innocent Punjabis and Beharis. I say that Sheikh Mujib was a worker of the Pakistan movement, he was a supporter of Fatima Jinnah (sister of Muhammad Ali Jinnah) till 1966.He only demanded provincial autonomy but military rulers declared him a traitor. In fact, these military rulers were traitors because their troops raped their own mothers and sisters. They say I am a liar and an enemy of Pakistan. How could I be an enemy of Pakistan? My mother sacrificed her whole family for Pakistan. My problem is that I cannot deny truth.

A senior colleague of mine, Afzal Khan, is still alive. He is 73 years old. He worked with Associated Press of Pakistan (APP), and was secretary general of the Pakistan Federal Union of Journalists (PFUJ) from 1980 to 1985. He was sent to Dhaka on March 28, 1971 for the coverage of the army operation. He told me many times that yes Mukti Bahini killed a lot of innocent people but what the Pakistan army did was not the job of a national army. Once he was staying in Ispahani House in Khulna. An army major once offered him a girl to spend a night with. When Afzal Khan asked who the girl was, the major said that she was the daughter of a local police officer and she could come to Ispahani House at gun-point. After this incident Afzal Khan came back to Lahore in May 1971. He says that all those who were responsible for the rape and genocide of Bengalis never enjoyed any respect in Pakistan.

The name of General Yahya Khan is still like an abuse in Pakistan. His son Ali Yahya always tries to hide from people. General Tikka Khan is still remembered as the "butcher of Bengal." General A.A.K. Niazi wanted to become "tiger of Bengal" but is remembered as "jackal of Bengal." The majority of Pakistanis hate all those who were responsible for the genocide of their Bengali brothers. That is the reason the family members of these army officers don't even mention publicly that who their fathers were.

But still there are some people who are not ready to admit their blunders. These people are a minority but they are powerful. I consider them enemies of the Pakistan for which my mother sacrificed her family. Why should we defend these enemies? Why doesn't our democratic government officially apologise to Bengalis? This apology will not weaken Pakistan. It will strengthen Pakistan.

I am sure that Pakistan is changing fast. A day will come very soon when the government of Pakistan will officially say sorry to Bengalis and March 26th will become an apology day for patriotic Pakistanis. I want this apology because Bengalis created Pakistan. I want this apology because Bengalis supported the sister of Jinnah against General Ayub Khan. I want this apology because I want to make a new relationship with the people of Bangladesh. I don't want to live with my dirty past. I want to live in a neat and clean future. I want a bright future not only for Pakistan but also for Bangladesh. I want this apology because I love Pakistan and I love Bangladesh. Happy Independence Day to my Bangladeshi brothers and sisters.

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Hamid Mir is Executive Editor of Geo TV in Islamabad.

By mathboy• 16 Apr 2010 18:11
mathboy

Thank you nomad.me. Yes I was on vacation.. basically a study trip combined with some leisure activities.

By mathboy• 16 Apr 2010 18:09
mathboy

malik shahid, What you said is right. However, this goes into smaller details. What were the circumstances behind East Pakistanis doing what they did? In those circumstances what they did was natural. What they were responded with was inhuman and an act of barbarism.

I suggest reading first two posts one more time.

By nomad.me• 16 Apr 2010 13:55
nomad.me

I read about the real story behind the creation of Bangladesh when I was in the states. Living in Pakistan I never got the authentic version of the story. Since then, I don't believe in the concept of Patriotism. I love my countries but I would never support them in crimes against humanity and would never cover up for their crimes, if this is what patriotism mean.

I am truly heartened by Mr.Mir's initiative.

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On a different note ,good to have you back MB bro. Were you on vacation?

By malik shahid• 16 Apr 2010 13:21
malik shahid

How can you even forget that the freedom movement of bangladesh was preplanned by India? Indians were training bangladeshis against Pakistan's millitary.THOUSAND OF PAKISTANI KILLED BY MUKTI BAHINI.

DO NOT FORGET.................................THEY KILL AND THEY WAS SUPPORTED BY INDIAN ARMY.............YOU JUST TAKE YOUR FEES AND WHAT YOU WANT YOU CAN SAY.....

By DaRuDe• 16 Apr 2010 12:59
DaRuDe

sure on suicide bombers list because of red mosque.

By mathboy• 16 Apr 2010 11:26
Rating: 2/5
mathboy

Hamid Mir

A journalist from Pakistan

Dear Mir,

Thanks for taking a brave step in a small attempt to heal the big wound but never the less a very courageous one. It was very nice to read your piece and getting the feelings of most Pakistani s regarding Bangladesh’s genocide.

My father had migrated to Pakistani from India (Assam) in 1947 to build a dream land for then suppressed Indian Muslims. All his life he worked very hard with outmost dedication and selfless spirit to serve the nation. Both my parents were so busy with building the infrastructure of their field (My mother was principal of women’s college in Sylhet and My father was chief of surgery in Sylhet Medical College in 1971) that we could hardly see them.

My father was killed by Pakistani army while he was treating the wounded inside the Sylhet Medical College Hospital on April 9th 1971. He was not only a surgeon he was involved in many other activities to improve the lives of general people. Among many other things he was the founder secretary of East Pakistan Medical Association, he was the founder president of Pakistan Ambulance Core, the only relief organization in 1954. He also did the autopsy of Dr. Shamsudooha, a University professor who was killed by Pakistani army in Rajshahi in 1969 and due to his courageous report implicating Army’s short range shot and bayoneting to death, intensified the anti Ayub movement in East Pakistan.

Since 1980, I am residing in USA. I hated Pakistanis, especially when they showed their insensitivity and ignorance to Bangladesh Genocide. There was a turning point in 2005 when as President of Bangladesh Medical Association of North America I was invited by Dr. Omar Atiq , the then President of AAPNA ( Pakistani Medical Association in USA). He knew that I am going to talk about Bangladesh genocide but despite that he cordially invited me along with the president of Indian Medical association in order to forge a bonding to support the peace in subcontinent. In that meeting I told my story and my feelings of despair against the insensitivity of Pakistanis about our painful liberation war. Dr. Atiq apologizes for the atrocities and genocide committed by the Pakistani army in name of all Pakistanis. More than 2000 Pakistani American physicians and their families in the big dining hall gave me a standing ovation for being with hem. Suddenly I felt my heart is getting lighter, some how I saw a ray of hope. I felt for the first time there are more sensible Pakistanis than the murderous one. I felt may be we will get support to try the war criminals that were diplomatically forced to taken back to Pakistan in 1972.

Today Bangladesh has initiated the long awaited trial of the local collaborators of Pakistani army. These people committed heinous crime against humanity and supported the genocide in the name of my religion.

I have a mixed feeling. I feel sad for this incomplete trial for justice because these collaborators acted according to the orders of the main war criminals that are safely in Pakistan. I like to try Major Riaz and Colonel Sarfaraz Malik who killed my father and many others inside the hospital in Sylhet. I like to try all Pakistani army who had committed atrocities and genocide to the people who had won the election and earned right to form a government after many years of deprivation. I feel helpless and a victim of denial of justice.

May be Pakistanis like you will come forward forcefully and initiate a trial in your country on behalf of us who are agonizing for letting the most vicious war criminal go unpunished.

Thanks again for your courage that you have inherited from your kind and courageous parents.

Regards

Ziauddin Ahmed, M.D.

Professor of Medicine

Drexel University College of Medicine, Philadelphia, USA

Son of a martyr of Bangladesh liberation war (Father was a surgeon and head of surgery in Medical College and was killed by Pakistani army inside the hospital while he was treating the wounded in 1971)

Past President of Bangladesh Medical Association of North America

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