Namaste Doha

Soniya jeee where r u we are awaiting for your response.

Deepb: I feel you make furious to soniya jeee.

But jee, I call you jee with respect jee :P

Poor emotionally needy sonia....

deepb, it can't be affection if u can read my comment above..she is a poor in a sense that she asked for a help and i can call it as even EMOTIONAL help..

stop calling me JEE now..Its getting on my nerves..its really a last warning to u..do u think u r a KID or old enough than me and thus pretending to hide ur real age by callin me jee????

Soniya jee, chill, I just meant it was not required to answer it after so long. I forgot about it.

And according to your link :-

Needy is

1. Being in need; impoverished. See Synonyms at poor.

2. Wanting or needing affection, attention, or reassurance, especially to an excessive degree.

So is she poor or does she needs emotional attention/ affection?

deepb, i don't have free time like u to sit on QL for 24*7...I have other constructive and creative works to do besides QLing..got ur first answer????

coming to ur next question : she falls under the category of a person who need help from others..may i give u some more links related to it coz i hate copy-paste..

Oy soniya jee, I asked you that 3 weeks ago....

Anyway so which definition of needy does this sonia fall under?

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/needy

deepb, FYI..thnx

Dear Mina,

Looks like you are getting ready for a slap.

Hi SoniaSehgal, I think i saw u yesterday wearing read dress close to city center mall with another lady in yellow dress. I was thinking where i have seen this girl but since i have seen your photograph for so long i recognized you. Was that you. Did u get a job. Any plans for the weekend?

Define Needy?

yup, shez lost now..i too was surprised to know that an INDIAN SCHOOL is offering QR 6000 to a young girl..neways its our job to help the NEEDY people..

.. soniya, do you think the originator of this thread is genuine ?

i doubt.. was it a girl ? does she have a fiancee here ? did she get an offer for ..... hold your breath .. a job wroth QR.6000 ?

see ,"she" is missing

Venky: First off, based on our earlier conversation, I am not the only one who makes assumptions. I believe you made an assumption at work recently...? Secondly, what else did I assume?

Khawaga: This was not just based on the comment above ;)

venky: too many assumptions? I made ONE! You have said that you routinely talk to women who go on and on about their point, making the same remark one-tenth of a gazillion times. From that statement and the fact that you think that meeting "normal" and "quality" women is going to be so difficult, I deduced (or assumed, as it were) that you are meeting the wrong sort of women. Is that a huge stretch in logic?

Khawaga: You do tend to make too many assumptions, don't you?

Soniya, I am asking her to ditch him and and not to stay together. However, if there are rules then there must be loopholes as people are innovative. i know in some places ppl enter into sham marriages to save taxes, if not to live together.

that boy is her fiance... they will get married, once she arrived in doha... hope so... :D

shapil, how can a bf/gf stay together in doha if they aren't married??

If I were you...I would take the offer..come to doha...ditch the bf who doesnt want his gf to be near him..start the job..simultaneously keep looking for better job...secure the job..navigate the red tape and join the new job...find a new bf..the last one should be easy.

Venky: Oh dear. There are so many responses to that! Suffice to say that you are merely talking to the wrong kind of women.

Khawaga: You know women, once you get them started you cannot make them stop come what may. So I trained my mind to tune them out the moment they starting about how different you are and I respond with a simple, "Yes, I understand." ;)

Well, cutting someone off in the middle of a sentence, sure. That's rude. But steering the conversation to something else... that's normal.

deepb, looks like you would survive for a long time :-P

One thing I have learned. While dealing with a woman, NEVER and I stress, NEVER EVER cut her in the middle of a conversation, unless you are planning to suicide.

Venky: I blame you for this repetition. I understand making a point and the reiterating the point, sure. But you should have cut her off after around a trillion or so!

Khawaga: I have asked 10 women who have told me that a gazillion times. You know, woman love to talk about themselves, especially when it comes to them being different from other women :P

Venky: you have spoken to a gazillion women? Or have you just asked the same woman the same question a gazillion times and gotten the same answer?

khawaga: A gazillion times actually :)

Guru Meditation in Action :(

10 Years Teaching experience at the age of 27 isn't Odd. Most of the teachers start their career after Graduation & then go for Private B.Ed or M.Ed. I think its normal.

SoniaSehgal...As someone advised you above, ask your employer for a written agreement mentioning all the salary & perks details in it before coming here.

venky: But have you really heard that more than a billion times?

That said, I agree that quitting a job to move to another country to be with a bf who doesn't want you is a bit on the odd side...

Soniya: If I had a dollar every time a woman said I am different, I would be the richest man in the Universe. :P

First please make confirm your position in the school. 6000+allowance is a good offer as you said that you teacher of class IV and V but Sonia, make official agreement before coming to QATAR, read each and everything before sign any paper, make sure that every thing is clear to you. I understand that why your BF dont allow you to come in DOHA but make him understand that you a brave girl and nothing to worry. Its not a easy decision, pray to GOD and wish you good luck for your future.

... I doubt the intention of this question and the cleverly created quagmire over the boyfriend issue ...

she or he wants to have just consternation among the QL members.

No way, an Indian school give more than 4000..!!!

even if she has 10 years experience. but she has to create an atmosphere abot the "boyfreind" issue, so she has to say her age is 27

No way to discourage her. I sent her a PM also welcoming , if she really gets that salary. But really she got a written contract ? or a telephonic interview who offers heaven !! ( May be the interviewer told her -- including the home tuition at evenigs she can earn 6000 )

venky,i dont' belong to the category of the CRAZIEST STUFFS as told by u...lol..i m very very different by nature, attitude, personality compare to other woman..lol

arien,i feel pity for her(sonia)coz shez ready to leave everything behind for her BF whoz not at all interested to call her..POOR GIRL..

LOL, a woman wants to quit her job back home to come here tobe with her bf, bf doesn't want her to come, yet she insists!

Women do the craziest stuff, I tell you

Sonya she wont get any suport on QL, she is staken lol

hhmmm...ohh..and thats the reason why we are not getting ne replies from her(sonia)?? lol

I'm the principal of Birla Public School and have read the thread the next minute she posted.

She is fired !!!! :P

.Com .. bullseye :) I bet he wont let her go back.

Good morning

Don't worry about it. Someone from Birla or the parents of the children from the school must have read this post with your full name as well. Since you want to stay with your boyfriend and it is illegal, the offer will very likely be retracted. Refrain from posting job offer details in your full name with company details next time and edit this one just in case you still have time.

lol FS no

sonia, i too have one question for u..how do u have 10yrs of working experience when u r just 27yrs old?? so does it mean that u started working at the age of 17??

Do u know i too had gone for the interview in BIRLA SCHOOL some 2yrs back, not for teaching line but for other post, they were offering me half of the salary that i used to get in my job where i was working then..

I was having the best option to kick their offer and stick to the job which i was doing..lol

One thing more,no couples can stay together if they aren't married in MIDDLE east..ok..

Soniya looks fine

and for sure, once you come here, your bf won't let you go back and will keep you happy (lack of opportunities for ur bf ;)

hey rizk bro, shez SONIA and myself SONIYA..so there won't be ne pblm for u, i guess to make out the differences between us...lol

Salary looks fine...but 27 yr old with 10 yrs experience?

btw..If your bf don’t want you to come here...do you think he will keep you happy when you glue yourself to him? lol

WK is she your gf?:)

Was OP asking to comment on her looks or !!!!...:)

namasthe sania............................

sania welcome to QATAR and QATARLIVING............

Why Sonia ur face like sania mirza, ?

lol ArieL...

Ariel they are paid peanuts and they get nuts and whip the kids....:)

Welcome to Qatar and QL Sonia zi..

Gosh we hav 2 Soniya's now in QL.....:(

Indian school teachers are paid peanuts in middleeast,Birla pays better than other schools though. Haven't heard anyone paid more than 4k there.

britexpat. It's better that way :P

Do your parents know that you are coming to Doha to live in sin ??

should be fine. It's not ok if you have to fend for yourself. Don't come if your boyfriend doesn't want you to come. Take care of your career first.

not a bad package to stay here and keep an eye on ur boyfriend..hehe...i fink if u gonna stay alone this much will be enuf for ya,,,,anyways if u are not satisfied then u can leave and go back any time....

Cool down good people!

Thanks Shapil and thanks manish for your advice.

And Manish i do not want your number also.

Did i say any bad words to you lady, then how come chinese cheap girls comes in?

Mrs Sehgal...dont take WK's advice...pls take the offer and come here...this place is nice and there are some very nice people here...except for a few crazy ones.

My wife also is looking for a job, she is incidently again from DPS dwarka. She got an offer of 5500 QR from MES so i think if you are getting a 6000QR it should be good enough. Hey we are also from New Delhi, let me know if you need some help, i can PM you my number.

buck up sehgal!!! you are qatar living potential

Thanks Mian Wei for the offer, i do not seek any help from you. A girl looking for help on the forum does not translate that she is looking for a men. I am engaged and have a boyfriend.

I AM NOT A CHEAP GIRL SO MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

it is highly unlikely, an Indian school gives 6000 + 1000

in Qatar...It is next to impossible.

this salary is given to headmistress / vice principal of the school.

the average salary of teacher in "Indian School" is around 3500-4000.

In case your boyfriends is working in Bank, you may even stay together after marraige, which will be total earning of your salary......LOL

again - 6000 is UNLIKELY..

MianWei... You probably didn't read her full post :P

1 BR Accommodation would normally cost you around QR 2500/month. So in total...you are like getting around QR 9500/month which is not bad for a School Teacher... But as ichuk suggested earlier, you can negotiate with them.

lol sonia, The one genuine advice I can give you is don't come here. This place sucks.

Like 1 BR accomodation and transport allowance of 1000 QR.

lolz WK..

Sonia, although i dont have much idea about the salary of teacher, I guess this salary is fine..may be you can negotiate for 10-20% more.

WK am impressed u have a bear nose

Thats ok, white cat. You are also useless like my boyfriend who does not want me to come.

what are the benefits...in addition to being close to your fiancee?

WK.... :P

Namaste Sonia :P

I have no idea about the teachers salaries here.

You can thank me later for being so helpful :P