Benefits Of Flirting !
Flirting with someone can be a powerful tool to help you feel good, and generate positive energy. As long as you leave the flirting outside the door, you and your partner can reap the extended benefits of all that positive energy generated, in the bedroom. Apparently, flirting has taken on a life of its own and is associated with a bunch of great health benefits, one of which is adding the much needed zing to your sex life!
Builds confidence and self-esteem:
If you've been in a relationship long enough, it may happen that the fizz goes off on the passion front. The relaxed contentment of an old relationship may not be doing anything for your self-esteem. A little harmless flirting can help you feel attractive again and confident about yourself. The only thing to keep in mind is setting boundaries. Make sure you and your partner are clear about what's okay when it comes to flirting. One simple rule of thumb: don't say or do anything you wouldn't do in the presence of your partner.
Flirting is known to build up positive energy, and so long as you use that energy to build your marriage or relationship, you can go right ahead and flirt.
In fact, flirt with your partner too while you're at it. It will help you remember the time to when you were strangers and just getting to know one another. That can be highly stimulating
When you flirt with a stranger and then come home to your spouse, you start to appreciate what you have a little more.
After all, you don't have to go through the entire process that comes after flirting again. And in the words of Gettysburg College Professor of Philosophy Steve Gimbel, "Flirting is to romance what sparring is to boxing."
So, for the single people out there, flirting can help you find the partner of your dreams, which can lead to happiness. And guess what started this chain of events? Flirting!
People who have been in a relationship for long can start to take each other for granted. Moreover, you might start taking yourself for granted too.
Flirting can provide the spark needed to motivate you to lose some weight, to join a new hobby class, or to change jobs. After all, when you feel good, you start to appreciate yourself a little more!
In a healthy relationship, flirting can only bring the couple closer to one another. Flirt, but within limits.
And those of you seeking to start a new relationship, flirting can be the first step to your courtship process.
Just remember to enjoy yourself and the positive energy that comes with flirting.
So less tyson!
Yo Man! beware of this place, they will tie your hands behind, bury you half in the ground, put a mask on your face and stone you..........................lol
likewise, i love flirting.. and they said i'm good at it LOL
i love flirt
I want to flirt this thursday but I don't want it to lead anywhere. Is that possible?
duplicate
Can we see anybody's intention?
OK, if you say so honestly; I do believe you drmana :)
Then this shall not be termed as "Flirting" but
An effective and healthy conversation/communication; which brings different views and ideas on a certain platform for discussion.
with the help of error 503 and guru meditations ;)
Tears running from my Eyes seeing my thread has reached the 2nd page.....
Victory, I do....what reason do you see in me flirting? Do I seem to have some hidden agenda? :-P
Also understand Flirting, from the different angles and perspective of Each person (intentions)..
Does people flirt online and in real life with/without any reasons?
keep it up, i am too thats why i am active in this thread.
we are in the learning process of understanding better :)
I have a great memory Vic, I do remember every single comment I ever read ;)
appreciate....you remembered after reading 10893 times ;D
"Anytime any age any person--flirting is good as long as it makes someone feel good for what ever reason"
Vic I have read that definition 10,893 times on QL, it's not mine ;)
wow what an explanation of Haram :)
Definitions are always difficult to explain, while practising is so fun :)
What I understand from Mehnis posts...
Thar right age to flirt; when Rizk is OLD and all his GF are young for proper mating ;)
related to sex, female and others runs into 2 pages and more, why many people are interested in this ?? any reason or is it natural.
MJ this service is free in public interest ;)
Khawaga according to the rules this country is run by, Sharia.
(oh, and the OP was sarcasm, as is this ;) )
WK, you should add flirting services to your love clinic, or has your clinic shut down due to lack of customers? :P
Mehnis you think too much, it's just flirting not a business decision. Be spontaneous :)
Khawaga any sort of communication between unrelated members of opposite sex is Haram :)
... i have seen none
nomerci: according to whom?
But isn't flirting HARAM here?
dating will always end up in having an opportunity of get in the job, flirting usually takes more time LOL
Flirting is serious business for it has the ability to make some feel good if it is in line or just make some feel terrible if it is intrusive and obnoxious.
Anytime any age any person--flirting is good as long as it makes someone feel good for what ever reason.
between flirting and dating ????
would create prospects for a future partner, sometimes this partner would never be the dream, but what to do s***t happens
Flirting is so serious then i will never do.....
Rizk where are u come here make situation funny,
Congrats Rizks, we have taken your thread to the second page :-)
Lol..
But then WK strangely all the dead would have gone their way in happiness , joy and with a a smile on their lips that the beautiful Doc considered them worthy of atleast a look!!!
I can see the Gurus of flirting are starting to come out... :P
And one basic rule is 'NEVER' lie when flirting. The woman is going to boot you out if you say you look great when she coming in from the Doha sun at noon.
If looks could kill, drmana would have been in prison for genocide ;)
Come on Mehnis, Flirting need not be that serious.
By the way you made me remember my favorite quote " If looks could kill, I would have died" :-D
You say that WK and the looks will murder you. You can avoid the look part. Divert it to Gorgeous person. Don't ever mention the hair if it is terrible.
WK, is that statement to be taken as a compliment or an insult???? You are so clever :-P
Doc I have always been very honest with the women I know be it my mother, wife or girl friends. I never lie about their stuff just to make them feel good. In fact it would make them feel terrible because they know you are lying.
Ok general stuff is there as to how wonderful PERSON or how good they are is fine any time. But you have to be careful when it comes to appearance and their choice.
How about saying, how can you look so damn gorgeous even with an ordinary hair-do :-/
Wk, those words are complicated for me to understand. Whats amorously?? Anyways, glad that you lack intentions as well :-)
See Wk the trick here is to play safe. If her hair does not look great then she KNOWS it. Ok?? Don't ever go and compliment her hair saying it is great and beautiful which means you are comparing her hair to the rest out there. She will give you a kick --you know where.
Play it safe and say that YOU like it and think it is good.
drmana that's exactly what my definition says, read it again.
No Mehnis, you can get away with anything, trust me. Speaking from lots and lots of experience, can't give out the details here, you know "Trade secrets" but lying works all the time while truth only works selectively.
All you knowledgeable people out there, my definition of flirting not so complicated. All I do is have some fun by innocent comments. I have no intentions at all, neither good nor bad. Hope I made myself clear.
Now this thread is getting serious as serious discussions started.
Women are too smart buddy. You can lie selectively but she will hate you if you lie about something sensitive as her nose or her hairdo or her nail color.
On the contrary Mehnis, lie frequently while flirting. Nobody has ever booted me out to be honest.
Flirting: To act amorously without true intentions.
It is the truth FS. Take out the mating or sex factor from flirting and you will see how good this is. I admit that I have always flirted and with mostly older women and even the grandmother I meet. Because appreciation and compliments is all that is needed to win a woman's heart. To make them feel good and to just make their day.
And honestly I have done this almost all my life. If I can make someone happy with some subtle flirting I will do it;)
Never knew flirting was so complicated to explain :-(
drmana....
I am staying in the same Glass house :)
I tried many times, but honestly i failed.
i am 99.99% damn sure i am not in the list.
There are several categories in that Vic. At an young age is just too brash with boys just go after women of any age just for the sake of it. And they are very crude and uncultered with the so called flirting because of the harmones running wild. It is disgusting to see some of them pursueing girls and those of them who do not respond become targets for nasty comments and vibes. These girls suffer all this and builds a foundation of distrust and dislike for such all through their lives.
Women are too scared to flirt at a younger age for the fear of catching an abject misery of a man/boy. But at a later age they are so damn good, it takes a real mature classy guy to get those vibes.
Mature people do flirt a lot and it is nothing to do with sex or mating at all. It is the feel good factor. And some women I have met are so accomplished at this they would be able to spin stars in your eyes and then when you rub your eyes you would find yourself standing under the banyan tree wondering what hit you.,
We all know who is on the TOP and who follows.......rest assured, no conflicts....
Only Peace!
I could never understand how to flirt :(
Victory, you could have clearly stated my name...no problem at all
Mehnis..that sounds like an expert advise...lol
I dont weant to offend the good people...so I am nto posting the list:)
Mehnis....you could further categories it down flirting by maturity, level of understanding and age :)
:)
Hey Vic who is on top of the list??
Top of the list........
Flirting is a natural social behavior which is seen before potential mates tease and check out the other in all species. In humans too it is the same.
It is delightful when it is subtle and low key. Most especially women of any age or status like this when it is directed at them in very soft and discreet manner and take it as a compliment. It is the feel good factor as long as it does not become intrusive or insistent.
It does become very obnoxious and irritating when there is persistence and a kind of stalking.
Every one has to learn flirting from some women who are so subtle and adept that it is only the twinkle in eyes that speak and speak it does in volumes.
one disadvantage.....restricted to ONE ;/
FS, which number am I in? :-P
bring it on FS... :P
FS...I can understand your temptation...:)
Happy...I am so tempted to post the top ten list..lol
FU, i cant flirt with anyone else coz choozy wont let me do it...:(
Rziks - Noone flirts with you because you flirt with choozy. ;)
OK so if someone says that he is flirting or is understood to be flirting should mean that the person is obliquely indicating a romantic or sexual interest towards another....:)
hmmmm...how many are there to count now on QL...:)
Here it Goes.....
Waste of time and energy.
Limited budget with unlimited scope (Brits point)
I thought you updated in Wikipedia :)
Victory, why don't you enlighten us with disadvantages? :-)
but we can play this game under the moon or sun..lol
Victory bhai u can do the honors ? :)
As far as i am RIGHT there is no disadvantages of Flirting...:(
all disadvantages of Over flirting ;(
ataulah.. and who do u think can believe that we are not 100% perfect lool
Choozy the rules are simple and easy ! :)
It cannot be played sitting in front of PC ALONE.
U should be outdoors, indoors, near the beach, up of the roof, underground etc.etc. to play this game face to face...:)
Flirting is a common form of social interaction whereby one person obliquely indicates a romantic or sexual interest towards another. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated (encouraged) with intentions of getting to know that person on a higher level.
Flirting may involve speaking and acting in a way that suggests greater intimacy than is generally considered appropriate to the relationship (or to the amount of time the two people have known each other), without actually saying or doing anything that breaches any serious social norms. This may be accomplished by communicating a sense of playfulness or irony. Double entendres, with one meaning more formally appropriate and another more suggestive, may be used.
While some of the subconscious signs are universal across cultures, flirting etiquette varies significantly across cultures which can lead to misunderstandings. There are differences in how closely people should stand (proxemics), how long to hold eye contact, and so forth.[1]
People flirt for a number of reasons. It is often used as a means of indicating interest and gauging the other person's interest in a relationship. Alternatively, it may simply be a prelude to casual sex.
In other situations, it may be done simply for amusement, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as "cheating" if the person is already in a romantic relationship with someone else.
Source : wikipedia
Is there any other simple form of flirting? lol
lool rizks
what rules of this game?..lol
U R 100% Beautiful,
U R 100% Lovely,
U R 100% Sweet,
U R 100% Nice &
U R 100% stupid to believe these words...
choozy Welcome !!
Lets play flirting flirting game....:)
EHEM.. EHEM..
what,s goin on here..lol
last time I tried, I regretted it, ....and besides I was being decent......
drmana, I knew you'd make the connection.. ;)
come back soon, rizk being hijacked by drmana and co.
mj, may be it is related like overdose of flirting and its complications causing baldness. I am beginning to see the relation between the two now :-))
lol Jalebi !!
Scientist has experimented at PROVED tat a daily dose of Flirting everyday after the meals will make hairs re-growth and strong...:)
drmana, I don't think his hair will ever grow back, with or without flirting... :P
I don't know rizks, but they must certainly be related...somehow :-))
lol drmana...wat my hairs got to do with Flirting ? :)
rizks, thats why your hair never re-grows :-P
i will caution all, that u are in search of a scape goat,
Wk, thats why that lazy cat of yours lacks energy :-)
Wk we both sail on the same boat...:(
Nobody flirts with me :(
mj, I can identify the scape goat easily, experience you see:-P
ohh britexpat...:(
then u may proceed to Doha Jadeed to Inflate ur budget....:)
drmana, but how do you know the right one? :P
eeekkkkkssss!!!! :P
Can't.... My budget is depleted for this month :O(
I'll have to stick to QL ..
Lol ok, let me wait for the right person then :-)
Lol!
britexpat u may proceed to Ramada Car Park and do ur Flirtings plz....:)
drmana, depends who you're flirting with... :P
drmana YOU ARE MOST WELCOME ! :)
It can also make you look rather silly when overdone in an online platform :O)
Cool...:)
Good Good Thanks for sharing Risks ;)
Yes rizks, safe and secure. As you are the OP, May I ask you if it is safe to flirt in this thread??:-)
drmana tat post content is different then mine.
so my post is SAFE n Secured....:)
No.........:)
Rizks...I don't care...do you????
MJ u lazy bone ! :)
Until Unless we dont get PROOF, this thread will NOT be deleted.
Not same but similar...rizks, this post is safe :-)
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/1044407
happy its OK for us but not for some...:)
if I remember correctly, Arien posted the same.. too lazy to search for the link so find it yourself.. :P
Rizks...its OK... always good to be kept reminded...:)
Now dont keep wondering you ladies and provide the link so tat the Mods can do the needful...:)
drmana is it ?
i dont know ? :(
If its posted B4 then Mods plz delete this thread.
drmana, I was wondering the same....
Has this not been posted before?
I knew it before, thats why I am always happy...:)
you take a rizks, I mean it comes with a Rizks, no no no I mean RISKS! Lol!
Thanks for sharing!
But one should remember to follow through if one flirts.