Errrrrrr how about talking to him instead of plastering it on the Internet?
Cos if he has done nothing wrong - then your reaction is really bad - and if he has done something wrong why would you want a whole load of people knowing your private business?
Kicking him in the goolies followed by threatening to take his child away and then I would ask him WTH...I know hubby well enough now to know if he's lying. If I had the slightest doubt in my mind, it's upto him to convince me otherwise. What I do know is if he ever cheated on me, he wouldn't get a second chance - child or no child!
This is what I don't get...if this is true, why would you waste time adding a topic on a public forum instead of asking hubby straight out? If you're married, you must be able to communicate and not beat around the bush! People on a website like QL come from all over the world with lots of different ideas and views on relationships. They have no idea what your marriage is like nor do they know if hubby is likely to cheat. Talk to the man, it'll be alot quicker to get your answer! Rant over...
racquelle, let your friend not rule out the possibility that the lipstic belonged to her and that she possibly dropped it there some day and forgot about it..
whenever you feel these negative emotions bottling up.. start diverting your thoughts to things you are grateful about. count your blessings instead of the things that didnt go well your way... =)
I am perfectly capable of thinking and speaking for myself, mate ;) She needs to stop airing her problems on an internet forum (especially since she can't handle the responses) and discuss them with family and close friends.
habibthy, cool down girl! don't cry...its just that finding a lipstick needn't mean the guy is cheating,right? Maybe he gave a lift to some old lady who mistakenly dropped her lipstick in his car. This is just one possibility. Tell your friend to straight go ask her DH about it and not just jump to conclusions and expect the worst!
negative feelings 2 positive feelings!!! yes it can happen if v can control our emotions... but in ths case.. actually the truth shud b figured out....
you lot really are drama queens aren't you? You air your dirty linen in public and then can't handle the remarks. Don't post on a public forum if you have the emotional maturity of a 12 year old lass.
Dear Kumar, you are very intelligent, hard working and efficient employee of our group. I do not know, how I will manage my office without you but I want to try.
What positive advice can one offer a wife who finds out her hubby wears lipstick? At least thats what it seems like. Of course I can think more "negatively" about the guy based on the findings but then it would defeat the whole "positive" factors this OP was about!
and you'll see lafanga and I have had some disagreements in the past. However, I think most qlers agree that you filippinas seem to have a lot of troubles in your personal lives that you like to discuss on qatarliving. I even tried to get you your own "LOVE FORUM" but the mods didn't agree.
don't shoot off ur mouth when u r angry, pause urself and then converse in such a way that the other person understand ur disagreement/ anger and explain the reasons for the same.
better still try to find positives in such situations and cool off as some posters responded but that’s not practical in some cases
rather count my blessings than dwell on my failures and concentrate on future goals and only use pass mistakes as lessons. Self pity and regrets are real killers!
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I was just taking the time to give you some friendly advice.
Respect is about treating people equally.
Oryx, my apology does not mean I asking a lesson on how to live my life.
Its an idiomatic expression where you got the preposition wrong.
You should try and treat people the same regardless of race, religion or gender.
Hey Boss, I'll give you free tickets next month.
Turncoat...lol
Sorry Oryx, I thought you are a male. I always respect women.
lol...and here we go....lololol
Oryx, am with you 100%...I just do not want to waste my energy on this drama..you know, it is ALWAYS the same lame story....typical, hey?
It's an idiomatic expression. I thought you knew, unless you chose not to know.
what does that mean?
a dog barks UP a tree
a dog pisses ON a tree
and BTW I am not a dog - even on a bad day with altitude sickness. :)
Oryx, I think you are barking on the wrong tree.
My personal opinon is that ...it was planted there... to create a rift between you two... most probably by a QLer...lol
What does the photo have to do with forgiving?
Why turn it positive if you really feel so negative. Don't fake it.
I would be furious if a partner/friend posted something about me on the internet without talking to me first.
Why all the drama???? It is bizarre behaviour. Dirty washing is best laundered privately to maintain dignity.
never mind
Errrrrrr how about talking to him instead of plastering it on the Internet?
Cos if he has done nothing wrong - then your reaction is really bad - and if he has done something wrong why would you want a whole load of people knowing your private business?
Kicking him in the goolies followed by threatening to take his child away and then I would ask him WTH...I know hubby well enough now to know if he's lying. If I had the slightest doubt in my mind, it's upto him to convince me otherwise. What I do know is if he ever cheated on me, he wouldn't get a second chance - child or no child!
What would you do ??
After kicking him in the goolies i mean ....
This is what I don't get...if this is true, why would you waste time adding a topic on a public forum instead of asking hubby straight out? If you're married, you must be able to communicate and not beat around the bush! People on a website like QL come from all over the world with lots of different ideas and views on relationships. They have no idea what your marriage is like nor do they know if hubby is likely to cheat. Talk to the man, it'll be alot quicker to get your answer! Rant over...
Tell your friend to tell her hubby straight that she found a lipstick in his car. If he wants to know her secret, he has to buy a new car for her.
Positive side: she will get a new car
its probably much simpler than that....he might have given a ride to any of his female office colleagues.
but its always better to ask him out than keep brooding over it..
negative + positive= negative
you can smile outside but inside your dying.
so whats the point of faking it?
OK,, Enough of the jokes.
There is NO positive side here. He has found someone new. Someone who tarts herself up for him and makes him happy.
So, move on....... Sorry.. Tell your friend to move on or better still find a lover with a bigger car..
No woman will forget her shade of lippie, you don't forget it's yours.
Or maybe her husband sells used lipsticks to make some extra money on the side for the family..
Am i going overboard with the positive thinking :(
koalas are the work of the devil!
racquelle, let your friend not rule out the possibility that the lipstic belonged to her and that she possibly dropped it there some day and forgot about it..
its positive thinking..
Oh whyteknight I mean I am feeling Happy and Gay!
Oh dear
Jackmohan...I love your flow chart...But it all leads to one thing...I am feeling Gay today!
There is no such thing called "Negative", it is just a way of thinking in set of possible values.
Com'on guys that LIpper belongs to my good friend and Drag queen Lypsinka.She isnt capable of anything so I guess the man in question is clean.
Guys forget about that used lipstick and used thong we will buy new ones...LOL
Logic flowchart:
Only lip stick = the guy is a cross dresser
Lipstick + thong = Confirmed cross dress who changes in the car.
Lipstick on thong = The guy does other guy in the car :(
whenever you feel these negative emotions bottling up.. start diverting your thoughts to things you are grateful about. count your blessings instead of the things that didnt go well your way... =)
LOL Brit...I'd advise the hubby to go to the new chick then, she sounds like a right goer ;-)
the guy is cheating... tell her to confront the lying s.o.b and give him an ultimatum.... shape up or ship out...
Khallas....
Especially a thong with Lipstick on them :O(
It's only lippie, it'd be worse if she found a thong!
I am perfectly capable of thinking and speaking for myself, mate ;) She needs to stop airing her problems on an internet forum (especially since she can't handle the responses) and discuss them with family and close friends.
OMG OMG...used lipstick in a car.... the guy is a Queen :(
Does DH oin this instance mean Dirt Husband or Divorcing Husband ?
habibthy, cool down girl! don't cry...its just that finding a lipstick needn't mean the guy is cheating,right? Maybe he gave a lift to some old lady who mistakenly dropped her lipstick in his car. This is just one possibility. Tell your friend to straight go ask her DH about it and not just jump to conclusions and expect the worst!
negative feelings 2 positive feelings!!! yes it can happen if v can control our emotions... but in ths case.. actually the truth shud b figured out....
you lot really are drama queens aren't you? You air your dirty linen in public and then can't handle the remarks. Don't post on a public forum if you have the emotional maturity of a 12 year old lass.
A Boss serving termination letter to his employee
Dear Kumar, you are very intelligent, hard working and efficient employee of our group. I do not know, how I will manage my office without you but I want to try.
Used lipstick in the car does not neccessarily mean affair..
Look positively - Its hot here and he may have bought it by mistake instead of lip balm.
Look positively - He may only be a cross dresser and not in an affair.
Look positively - He may be having an affair. Then the slut can have him.
Look positively - He may be having an affair, but may also have caught an STD which will make his todger fall off..
Fathima, the negative emotion is jealousy. When a person is jealous she is capable of doing things that she would regret for a very long time.
My point in posting is to ask how to turn that negative emotion in a positive and maybe counter productine one.
At the moment my tears are flowing because some people are trying to ridicule my request.
Your response if very astute ;)
Fathima you did make me smile :o)
The husband is cheating not cross-dressing..
he is having an affair with does. But I really laughed at your post! hehehe
What positive advice can one offer a wife who finds out her hubby wears lipstick? At least thats what it seems like. Of course I can think more "negatively" about the guy based on the findings but then it would defeat the whole "positive" factors this OP was about!
then i assume you are another chicken.
It's just that you filippinas tend to have these problems so frequently and are always discussing them in qatarliving.
and you'll see lafanga and I have had some disagreements in the past. However, I think most qlers agree that you filippinas seem to have a lot of troubles in your personal lives that you like to discuss on qatarliving. I even tried to get you your own "LOVE FORUM" but the mods didn't agree.
predictable....
Try to be passive but productive
Your parents are very proud of you, for exactly following their paths.
ex.ex.expat, you forgot that you are login as lafanga.
I am still here waiting for some positive advise. Is it difficult to know that this thread is not posted in funnies?
Oh nooooooo.....her hubby wears lipstick?ya'ni he's a cross-dresser? Now how anyone can be positive in such situations is beyond me :0(
and the bad artistic taste gave away the gender ;)
Lafanga, if you find happiness at the expense of other tears. I dont know what kind of family do you have.
Oh so it's another cheating husband/wife story from Philippines.
I am asking positive advise here. Anyway, tnk you amalp.
Racquelle next time don't forget to take back your lipstick ...LOL
Don't make promise when you are in JOY .
Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY.
Think twice, Act wise.
Be happy...!
Tnk you good people.
The problem is my best friend found a used lipstick in her hubby's car. Naturally, she is jealous, because her husband is every woman's dream.
Now she is asking me positive way to solve the problem. Jokingly, I asked her to shave her hubby's head while he is sleeping.
Do you have any positive suggestion?
OH...ok Racquelle, thank you.. then i like that Koala Bears too...LOL
don't shoot off ur mouth when u r angry, pause urself and then converse in such a way that the other person understand ur disagreement/ anger and explain the reasons for the same.
better still try to find positives in such situations and cool off as some posters responded but that’s not practical in some cases
Some things in life are bad,
They can really make you mad.
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle,
Don't grumble, give a whistle,
And this'll help things turn out for the best, and...
Always look on the bright side of life..
amalp,there is no panda in the picture. it is a koala.
Smile while saying to someone.....I DONT LIKE YOU! enaf?
post. Was that expressed positively enough for you? ;)
I would Cry and also Laugh at the same time...Negative into positive...simple
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity, an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.
rather count my blessings than dwell on my failures and concentrate on future goals and only use pass mistakes as lessons. Self pity and regrets are real killers!
Rizks rocks...LOL
saeedkhan stop googling, copying and pasting stuff...:(
i like the pandas too in the picture..lucky pandas..LOL
Tnx nomerci and victory.
its better i will look at tat lady up there....:(
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only towards positives and ignore all negative feelings....Be self content and happy!
Simple, look at it as a learning experience...so you won't be upset about it, and therefore no negativity is present.
Negative Positive Negative Positive waat iz all theieze ? :(