Why a married man cheat?

Ilusyunada
By Ilusyunada

Just wondering why some married man is to weak to handle their feelings towards other woman, And why this other woman dont care if they can hurt somebodys feelings? Instead of avoiding a married man they find it so challenging,,, they will do everthing just to get in and ruin others life, and when shes finally in,, she will make the man fall for her slowly steal him to his family.....And why some of the married man is so blind they thought that this 2nd chance of love maybe this is the love that was really meant for him but later on he will realize that this love is not real love......THIS love is only for money, he taught that somebody can love him morethan her....but its to late to realize that he was wrong......because the wife that you left behind is awake and strong....You chose her isntead of me and now that you are broken you will come back to me and telling me you are wrong? why your such a fool not to know that she only cares for your money and car? you think in just one night in a night club is enough to know that you find your love??? Dont make me sick.....(and i really hate this kind of woman) i wish it will not happen to you got married...i hope ur husband will not cheat on you......i believe that whatever you did to others,,,,will be back to you twice.....so goodluck to you and i wish to the man out there.......

I Should've Known
© Carla
I want to write, scream and shout
But I'm sitting her with this doubt
I hate you for what you've done
But I love you for what you've helped me become
A strong woman who will not put her foot down
My mind keeps replaying how you played me like a stupid clown
You say I messed up that I was wrong
I knew what was going on all along
I sat there night after night wondering where you were
I should've known you were with her
Holding her the way I should've been held
Now I just wish you'd both burn in hell
I should've seen the emptiness in your eyes
But like an idiot I kept believing your stupid lies
You've scared me for life
How could you do this to your wife
A woman who gave you everything
But you just went out and sold our wedding rings
I see how much to you this marriage was worth
That you just throw me out in the dirt
For the next man I won't be able to open my heart
It doesn't matter how long we've been apart
The way that I loved you I will never love again
I still ask myself why did this have to end

By Ilusyunada• 14 Dec 2010 15:59
Ilusyunada

Im great, and really thanks for all the comment. .

Everybody deserves a 2nd chance, and his my husband although it hurts but so funny cuz he did everything to win me back, feel so good and he admit everything, so its acceptance and forgiveness, and im happy.

Now were here in the Philippines. . . =) till new year, so far this is the happiest day of my life. . . .

For all the negative comments BLESS YOU MORE!

By Ilusyunada• 14 Dec 2010 15:59
Ilusyunada

Im great, and really thanks for all the comment. .

Everybody deserves a 2nd chance, and his my husband although it hurts but so funny cuz he did everything to win me back, feel so good and he admit everything, so its acceptance and forgiveness, and im happy.

Now were here in the Philippines. . . =) till new year, so far this is the happiest day of my life. . . .

For all the negative comments BLESS YOU MORE!

By Fudge_brownies• 14 Dec 2010 15:32
Fudge_brownies

hope ur ok?

By jpa• 14 Dec 2010 13:46
jpa

"I'll cross the bridge when I get there", very soon.lol

By one_shot• 14 Dec 2010 10:35
one_shot

because of the woman....

By dota• 14 Dec 2010 10:34
dota

amazing thread LOL!

By chevydjak• 14 Dec 2010 10:15
chevydjak

your question is "Why a married man Cheat"?

Answer: because married woman cheats too...

simple question deserves simple answer :)

By nomerci• 17 Nov 2010 19:05
nomerci

I know what happened...you did not rub his feet and bring his slippers...that's why he exchanging you for another model of the same make. Ah well!

By Fudge_brownies• 17 Nov 2010 18:09
Fudge_brownies

and now i just dont know why there are some people not contented with one.....anyway maybe some of them has a reason maybe ....................

By gelai09• 17 Nov 2010 09:01
Rating: 3/5
gelai09

oh well it's not only men who are weak, everybody is. sometimes a person is seeking for or wanting to get away from a certain behavior of his/her partner. it's more of understanding rather than complaining i guess

By whyme• 17 Nov 2010 08:05
whyme

I can totally relate to your hurt! Until someone walks in your shoes they should never judge you. My Husband is currently working in Doha, Qatar and refuses to allow me to visit or does he care to come back home...it is HIS lose not MINE! If he doesn't want to be with me fine, but have the balls to divorce me first and then go out and do what he wants. It takes a sorry low life coward to do this!

By Fudge_brownies• 16 Nov 2010 21:00
Fudge_brownies

just opinion girl....Try to check why he cheats u?? maybe somthing is wrong with you?? And about the ladys out there its like that, if there is no men like cheaters they will not tease a man if he is strong when in comes to temptation... Life is full of surprises and full of lies sometimes...........Girl u need to analize things...

By flor1212• 11 Nov 2010 13:29
flor1212

just teasing you, Ilusyonada! But by the way you respond, there is really a problem, for sure not from us. You guess it right, the problem is YOU! Lol!

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 13:14
anonymous

It was dull and regret staying up to watch it. Should have come on here and had fun reading drivel like this:-0

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 13:06
anonymous

ROFLMAO. And these people wonder why they get cheated on. LOL.

By s_isale• 11 Nov 2010 12:11
s_isale

she is enjoying her vacations with whom? husband or boyfriend?

By M.E• 11 Nov 2010 12:09
M.E

And what are you another *ucked up person? I believe so.

By M.E• 11 Nov 2010 11:56
M.E

Firstly, to all of those who think whatever she posted is lame, boring or whatsoever. Why the heck did you bother yourself to reply?? It shows how effing mentally unstable you are.

Second of all, THINGS HAPPEN IN LIFE! And guess what every human being differs from one to another, for example Mrs.Pilgram if you can handle someone spitting in your face everyday without feeling dirty, clean people can't handle that!

So if you can handle being disrespected by a man, himulated and being trashed other woman can't!

No wonder why you got trashed and hurt so many times in your life. It explains why you're ignorant.

As for you Ilusy, well, I believe you're going through a tough time now. And it is frustrating to know that the person you have gave your love to, haven't really appreciated it. But as I said he didn't appreciate it, so that shows what kind of person he is, he doesn't deserve it. All the blame goes to him, you can never blame the other woman, because he have known you for years, he've lived with you and shared a life with you and you're his wife the one he loves. She doesn't even know you, so she wouldn't careless.

This man isn't worth the pain you are going through, nor the fact that you are still writing about him and actually mentioning him. Never think of giving him a second chance, don't even let this idea come across your mind, because he's done it once he will do it twice.

From now on he's just not worth a thing, so move on girl and you will meet a better man. I believe there is lots of good men out there. You will meet one, one day and you will fall in love again when you won't believe you did. But make sure he loves you more than you do, and take care of yourself this time.

You do know how to love, I can tell you're a woman with a good heart, and you know how to make a person happy and care for him.

Love is happiness, and you weren't happy, so why bother yourself with an AH.

At last what goes around comes around.

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 11:53
anonymous

Nutter.

By Ilusyunada• 11 Nov 2010 11:03
Ilusyunada

I APOLOGIZE TO THE PEOPPLE WHO FIND THIS ANNOYING END OF ISSUE KHALLAS DONT MAKE THIS A BIG DEAL OK????? OR UR MAKING THIS A BIG DEAL CUZ U CAN RELATE TO THE ISSUE??? hmmmmmmmmmm ANYWAY WHATEVER THANKS ATLEAST IM NOT THAT BORED.......IM LAUGHING OUT LOUD NOW......FOR ALL THE ATTENTION AND TO THOSE WHO CARE TO COMMENTS AND TO THOSE WHO FOLLOW THE THREAD...........ENJOY ........

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 10:40
somwerNdmiddle

ilusyunada if you don't want to get pissed off it's simple, don't post your personal life in online forums, what do you expect from this online community, sympathy? empathy?

By Mark lester• 11 Nov 2010 10:37
Mark lester

IF U ARE BE HONEST TO YOUR WIFE U CANNOT DO IT THIS KIND OF SENARYO...

By panda• 11 Nov 2010 10:33
panda

Ilusyunada calm down, take a glass of cold water :)

By Ilusyunada• 11 Nov 2010 10:28
Ilusyunada

Flor my dear u can say whatever u wanna say but i thing for ure i not a mistress like opppppppppppppppppppppsss like u know who...... GEt a life to all of us...And dont makes this a big deal people out there dont trouble urself replying with this thread if u just want to comment in that way " have ur check first in the mirror before anything else" and DOnt judge other people if u dont know whats exactly the situation is................so pleaseeeeeeeee...............IM NOT FORCING ANYBODY TO COMMENT AND I DONT FORCE U TO READ THIS ,, AND IF U FIND THIS ANNOYING SO BORING ITS SO EASY DONT READ AND DONT COMMENT....I DONT POST THIS TO RUIN YOUR DAY SO PLEASE DONT RUIN MY DAY ALSO......If your at work u should be working at this time not wasting your time...following others thread.......and me im just enjoying my vacation here in SG......atleast not being paid at work doing nothing at all....

By ericdiver• 11 Nov 2010 09:58
ericdiver

Ever noticed how the weather is pleasant these days?

And Ilusyunada, you should too. If he wants to go, he does not deserve you.

Go figure.

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:37
somwerNdmiddle

LOL!

By flor1212• 11 Nov 2010 09:36
flor1212

shes frustrated. You know, why take a second (or 3rd or 4th) if the 1st is enough? Lol!

Oooooops, maybe not frustrated but protesting? Lol!

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:32
somwerNdmiddle

1st wife or 2nd wife?

By panda• 11 Nov 2010 09:28
panda

Ilusyunada OK now we know that you are too sexy :P

By ericdiver• 11 Nov 2010 09:28
ericdiver

Whatever.

Anyway, what are you guys up to this EID? Bet you guys are excited huh?

By Ilusyunada• 11 Nov 2010 09:26
Ilusyunada

ofcourse im the wife....for those negative reactions i said if you dont wanna comment then dont....imnot forcing you and why your troubling your self reading this if you find this post so annoying??? why are you so affected anyway??? Are you kind of a mistress or something???? Its just a post and if you find this a bid deal or what i dont care i just wanna post it...and nobody can stop...its a forum......if the MOD will gonna remove this its ok atleast somehow i shared my kind of experience.....to those who pm me thanks for the concern.......and for the hypocrite out there......Well Good Luck.....

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:14
somwerNdmiddle

i know manong flor :)

By flor1212• 11 Nov 2010 09:12
flor1212

to imagine the OP's question is very rampant back home!

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:09
somwerNdmiddle

good question Johnny Tour!!! will you please answer the question ilusyunada

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:08
somwerNdmiddle

where are you getting at manong flor? LOL!

By Johnny Tour• 11 Nov 2010 09:08
Johnny Tour

ILU r u d wife or d other one?

By flor1212• 11 Nov 2010 09:07
Rating: 4/5
flor1212

which I honestly find to be NOT a joke. FAct is the ratio of men and women back in our country is 1:4 One man to four women. And everyday, counting how many gays roam around, it means there are a corresponding four women who have no man to turn to!

Just an observation! But if you are talking about here in Qatar, definitely, men outnumbered women. So advantageous for gays! Lol!

By snessy• 11 Nov 2010 09:06
snessy

Perhaps you should put out more...

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 09:05
somwerNdmiddle

saeedkan, breadsticks :D

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 09:04
anonymous

Man U still made it an entertaining game. City forgot that they were playing at home :(

Even Mancini's brave decision to bring on Adebayor didn't change anything during the 30 seconds that he was on, he did work his socks off though...

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 09:02
anonymous

I cant see anybody in pain..moreover already she is in painfull condition.Here we care a lot for an injured dog but for a person already in painfull condition we start throwing stones..let her sooth her and help her out of the condition.

By britexpat• 11 Nov 2010 09:02
britexpat

Good try ....

Because Mancini put out a dull side intent on defending ...

By Oryx• 11 Nov 2010 09:01
Oryx

So why did the draw 0-0 ????

That is what is troubling me this morning....

By britexpat• 11 Nov 2010 08:59
britexpat

If only more women were as wise as you !

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:58
anonymous

ROFLMAO.

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:56
anonymous

1- The affairs starts if something very strong clicks in between.

2-for cheap girls money matters and they offer themselves

3-for men only the fragrance of a lady matters alot

4-keep your men to urself for details pm me i will tell you 5 sure shot points to keep him to himself

5-Conquer him by love

6- they need a mom and bedpartner rest of the things hardly matters

pm me so that i can help u out..remain sober in public posting.

remember 101% males dont like harsh word user ladies at all they always look for love care and good words always...

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:47
anonymous

BS women worse

By Ilusyunada• 11 Nov 2010 08:46
Ilusyunada

im not forcing you to comment on my post so CHILL =) HAVE A NICE DAY TO YOU..............my dear

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:44
anonymous

Why do some single girls start affairs with married men.. Should I start a new thread for that?

How about a song.. or poem... I don't know any, help me out :(

By soniya• 11 Nov 2010 08:43
soniya

I didn't check the OP's profile while i was reading the article...But i was quite sure it must be from a PINOY(sorry to say this)..And look, i was right...:))

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:39
anonymous

PFFFFFTTTT

By britexpat• 11 Nov 2010 08:34
britexpat

Poor thing is scarred for life..

She says in the post that in the future, she won't open up for any man :O(

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:33
anonymous

Brit I've been hurt more times than I can count, and you don't seem me whinging about it on a public forum.

By Ice Maiden• 11 Nov 2010 08:26
Ice Maiden

Not again!

By somwerNdmiddle• 11 Nov 2010 08:24
somwerNdmiddle

another paramour of Don Juan de Marco

By s_isale• 11 Nov 2010 08:23
s_isale

another of those lost loves.

By mjamille28• 11 Nov 2010 08:23
mjamille28

Oryx, or could be another case of the copy paste virus? :P

By Oryx• 11 Nov 2010 08:21
Oryx

The guy is probably thanking his lucky starts that he got out after this emotional incontinence manifesting itself as public postings on QL

By britexpat• 11 Nov 2010 08:20
britexpat

If only you knew the pain of being hurt. :O(

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:18
anonymous

Poems, songs who cares. It's bloody irritating and I know I would cheat if my husband turned into such a wishy washy love sick puppy. Ick.

By britexpat• 11 Nov 2010 08:17
Rating: 3/5
britexpat

You are right.. It's those shameless hussies with their bumpy bits , high heels and intoxicating perfume who lead men astray..

We men are but putty in their soft, gentle, carressing hands :O(

By Oryx• 11 Nov 2010 08:16
Oryx

Could the Pinoy group hold a fund raiser to help people with traumatised love-lives please?????

Go and wash your dirty laundry in the privacy of your own home........!

By mjamille28• 11 Nov 2010 08:15
mjamille28

Pilgram, I think that's a poem.. ;)

By anonymous• 11 Nov 2010 08:14
anonymous

Maybe he got sick of your whining and constantly quoting songs at him?

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