How can I find out what my Husband is really doing in Doha, Qatar?

whyme
By whyme

My Husband and I are from the United States, but he is currently working in Doha, Qatar. I believe that he is not being faithful...if so, what are the laws over there for something like this, if proven to be true.

By jAMM• 17 Nov 2010 20:00
jAMM

Amyl is very smart. She knows the in and out of Doha. She spoke so well too if only her spelling and grammar is good then she can be a good teacher.

Frankly I haven't been to hotel though I hear stories but that does not mean all hookers are from....hmmm and the price she knows too....what an irony.

By the way am Filipino and am proud of it.

By whyme• 17 Nov 2010 06:43
whyme

I have children here in the States that are in school and that is the reason he went alone. His company will fly me over every 90 days, but my Husband said that it was "too dangerous" for me...imagine that! FLIRTING and CHEATING are two different things and I feeling in my heart that he is cheating. I know that I will be probably be bashed by some, but until you walk in my shoes, please do not judge me. I feel so alone and lost. My heart tells me one thing, but my mind tells me another. Thank you to ALL of you that responded.

By Fudge_brownies• 16 Nov 2010 21:04
Fudge_brownies

u can also check with the CID ....to check who is the girl with your husband...........but i suggest better talk to your husband first....and tell him what u feel so u will not think of that,,,,being unfaithful...

By Fudge_brownies• 16 Nov 2010 20:50
Fudge_brownies

only my opinion......there are some men are to weak to handle temptation specially if they are in a night club.....and surely if somebody is flirting with him...so hard to avoid the temptation........And some married men in Doha is really faithful...after work its either malling or other sports,, then sleep or watching football match... i dont know......and as much as posible to avoid all these u shuld come and visit him in Doha or talk to him regularly.....women instinct-----even men is trying to hide something u will feel if he is lying to u or what....

By Fudge_brownies• 16 Nov 2010 20:50
Fudge_brownies

only my opinion......there are some men are to weak to handle temptation specially if they are in a night club.....and surely if somebody is flirting with him...so hard to avoid the temptation........And some married men in Doha is really faithful...after work its either malling or other sports,, then sleep or watching football match... i dont know......and as much as posible to avoid all these u shuld come and visit him in Doha or talk to him regularly.....women instinct-----even men is trying to hide something u will feel if he is lying to u or what....

By scaffman• 16 Nov 2010 19:46
scaffman

Amyl...............i believe the chinese take aways are cheaper in Dubia ......is everything more expensive in Qatar?????????

By lost marbles• 16 Nov 2010 16:01
lost marbles

OMG what's wrong with women that they don't trust you out of their sight!

By Ridhima• 16 Nov 2010 15:50
Ridhima

you are literally doubting on your husband..may be you are right and may be you are wrong..but whatever it is..just take every step very carefully because some little miss understanding make your relationship in trouble..

By sohail20282• 16 Nov 2010 15:43
sohail20282

In Qatar I beleave there are no private detectives otherwise I would suggest you to hire them

By sebichanmjose• 16 Nov 2010 15:18
sebichanmjose

Whyme B4 answering to your question let me ask you one thing, "Are you 100% sincere and faithful to you husband, your kids and to your family"?

If so, let me tell you one thing; It is so common here that "whites" hangout with girls, especially Filipinos and Chinese for nuts... something between $100 - $500. Its all about a night..... These girls never have any sincerity towards to their job or to their family. All they need is some money for their lavish living (maybe its due to some family probs). I have often seen girls working as a secretary or as a counter girl, use iphones.... (remember, their salary is something between 1500 - 3500 Qatari riyals)...

Whyme, u cannot demand ur husband to be what u want when these kind of bitches are all around..

Apply for a tourist visa in Qatar Embassy in ur State and make a surprise visit to Doha. (it wont take much time, hardly 2 days). Take a taxi from the Airport. Ring the door bells without informing him that you are in doha. Believe what u see with your own eyes....

Gud luck....

One more thing, prostitution/illegal relationship is punishable by law in the State of Qatar with a jail term and deportation.

By medohaqatar• 16 Nov 2010 15:04
medohaqatar

Amyl, interesting you know the exact price, your type of thing a chinese take-away is it ??

By medohaqatar• 16 Nov 2010 14:57
Rating: 4/5
medohaqatar

and as cooldude said it is FLIRTINGfor fun, nothing more. You try doing what he does here, you wouldn't survive, without finding ways to pass the time.

Not everyone's contracts allow spouses to come along guys, it may not be a matter of her allowing it, it may be a matter of financial necessity.

By cooldude2010• 16 Nov 2010 14:47
cooldude2010

If you dnt trust him u should have not send him here alone. if u want chk as said my medohaqatar make a surprise visit or if you any friends here in qatar tell them to keep a eye on him

As most people not all get into flirting here as timepass and fun .

By nishantvshah• 16 Nov 2010 14:45
nishantvshah

shaque .. what the ****

By medohaqatar• 16 Nov 2010 14:37
medohaqatar

Come on a surprise visit, see what you find, but as for consequences, then I would be more afraid for him of the law here than any fear he has from you even if you are proven correct. Better to confront it, and not bring the subject up in public here, I am sure you appreciate the money he sends home.

By medohaqatar• 16 Nov 2010 14:37
medohaqatar

Come on a surprise visit, see what you find, but as for consequences, then I would be more afraid for him of the law here than any fear he has from you even if you are proven correct. Better to confront it, and not bring the subject up in public here, I am sure you appreciate the money he sends home.

By medohaqatar• 16 Nov 2010 14:37
medohaqatar

Marriage is about trust.

If you think he is being unfaithful, then be unfaithful yourself, when you then find out he was faithful, he divorce is on your head !!!

Have you asked him ?

If he is, is it only a physical thing, no emotions, like going for a massage, would that be wrong, he is just having a specific area massage. As long as he comes back to you every time, then he still loves you. The physical act is mechanics, the emotional side touches the soul. The girls split the two when it is their ocupation, may be he can too.

By samjay• 16 Nov 2010 14:07
samjay

Ur only suspecious my friend, you cant judge over suspecions....if you feel lit, then better be sure hun, now there so many ways to do that, but i cant tell you on public unfortunatly.

By soniya• 16 Nov 2010 13:57
soniya

Why did you send your husband to DOHA alone then??

By amyl• 16 Nov 2010 13:53
Rating: 4/5
amyl

In all honesty, I dont want to upset you...truth be told having extra maritial affairs in this country is common. In the local hotels there are clubs and in the clubs are many women (philipino, chinese) selling themselves for money...1500qtrs to be exact!

Some things to know...if he lives by himself, there is no stopping him. If he is brave and rides around in his car and does something inappropriate and gets caught, he will go to jail for one year (the woman too) and after the jail sentence, they will deport him. Even if the sex u consensual, he will be in big trouble. It happens alot...men r fools, they will do anything for a lay and honestly if u feel he is doing something wrong, HE MOST LIKELY IS....UNFORTUNATELY.

I am American. I have been living here for almost 3 years. In the beginning I thought that Doha was a safe place. It is when it comes to malicious crime, like robberies, child abduction, car jacking, etc.... but when it comes to sex...NO COUNTRY IS SAFE!

u can go to one of the local date sights to see if he is there searching for a friend..that is if he uses his name and not some variation. The site is called Badoo. I am a married woman but i go to the sight looking for friends, I have many from there, but none of them are American.

Wish u the best, take care. If you want to keep in touch...u can contact me on yahoo instant messaging. My log in is amy_warner54...

Hope ur wrong, infidelity destroyed my marriage, my husband was in singapore....

Amy

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