what to do if one gets molested ?
hi i am a 22 year old girl from pakistan studying in qatar.i got molested very badly by a huge black bodybuilder man.he offered me a lift from corniche road and took me to a remote area.i am just a tiny 46kilogram girl and i couldnt do anything.he made a mess of me and gave me a solid pounding holding me in the air next to his car.he dumped me and sped away.i do not know the car number nor who he was.what can i do to seek justice without letting this out in public ?
Nice STORY .... Better luck next time as well :))
i will hav to agree to s_isale ,if he did the whole thing that would mean he basically had sex with you and you dont want anybody of your relatives etc to knowSUCH A QLER ,coming to qatar living and asking our help ,iam sorry for you but you will need some info on the guy and consult the doctor as fast as possible,but theres also a faultin your place as you entered a into the car of a person who you didnt know completely,and he could explain his part by saying was aroused like a man would naturally
somethings just not right here.
hey fatima,
i m a pakistani too pls dont let this guy loose he is a danger to other girls too i m sorry for wht happened to u but u can get him behind bars n keep other girls safe dont b quite about it pls
Oh, honey, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It's a terrible trauma. Please talk to a trusted friend, family member, teacher or counselor. They will help you decide what to do. If you decide to go to the police they can go with you.
thanks for the replies people.am contemplating what to do.
but yes he did the whole thing to me for around 45mins.it was some remote desert type area with old abandoned buildings to the right.he had lifted me high in the air and was doing me therefore i couldnt function to my best at that time
i am considering your advices.it helps a lot
Is it only pounding or rape? Be clear. If he has raped you, seek medical help as soon as possible. And call the police immediately after letting your family know.
With the lack of Karwa, getting into private cars is not a "No,No" here. I do it out of sheer helplessness, sometimes.
Seek help. That is my only advice.
oh come on!
you might be 'tiny' but surely u arent dumb too!!
who told u to accept the lift offered and sit in his car!!!
that too a man large enough not to get hurt by ur heels!!
what happened to the deodrant trick in ur purse!!!
go o the police, u dont rember the car number, u do rember the time this happened..
his facial features
the place where he took u
the colour of his car
or what car??? right??? thats more than enough
you shouldn't have accepted lifts from total strangers.. you could've reported it to the police if you had noted the car number..
Just go to any nearest police station or call 999.. tell them what happened to you and they will surely trace the culprit..using the security cameras etc.
And dont worry, police will keep your information confidential.
It's a serious crime, by letting this criminal free, you will allow him for more such acts. So, be courageous and take action without any delay.