Catch 22 Situation
They say, Love is eternal; but in reality, marriages and relationships happen between mortals who are not always blessed with such divine virtues. After a few years of intimacy when the passion for each other settles on a plateau, the shortcomings of the spouse seem upsetting. That’s probably the testing time for couples to save their relationships.
Man, polygamous by nature, who often finds himself financially independent, tends to wonder seeking someone who is endowed with the looks and skills he lacks in his spouse. Women, on the other hand, irrespective of her financial status, wants to save the relationship. She becomes more possessive of her spouse and restricts him from meeting other women. This further upsets the male and the relationship turns sour.
This happens in many long term relationships. So, what’s the solution to keep a relationship from turning sour?
Secret to a happy marriage still remains a secret..!
The solution is to think with your brain and not with your pecker and remember that you have made a commitment.
another confession in the making?
There is no solution. Like you say, man is polygamous. Marriage isn't a natural state. The sooner people realise this, the happier we'll all be.
Eat a Lollypop and be happy.