When bird is alive, it eats Ants. When bird is dead, Ants eat bird." So, Time can turn at any point, Don't devalue anyone in life. YOU may be powerful now But time is more powerful than You. "One tree makes one lack match sticks, but one match stick can burn one lack trees". SO: It is possible that one negative thoughts can burn all positive thoughts
If having an Ego means loving yourself such that you will not allow anyone to belittle you and use you then an Ego is a good thing. If having an Ego means you know yourself well enough that what another says of false accusations and insults will not affect you then ego is a good thing.
But if an Ego means you think yourself superior to others, and it causes you to deny the truth even when concrete proof is thrust in your face then it's
NOT a good thing. If an ego causes you to hurt another knowing they will be tolerant and patient due to their love for you then it's NOT a good thing.
Anything that makes you feel good about yourself and makes you a more positive person is a good thing but if it's at the expense of another being hurt and harmed then its not.IMO of course!
If having an Ego means loving yourself such that you will not allow anyone to belittle you and use you then an Ego is a good thing. If having an Ego means you know yourself well enough that what another says of false accusations and insults will not affect you then ego is a good thing.
But if an Ego means you think yourself superior to others, and it causes you to deny the truth even when concrete proof is thrust in your face then it's
NOT a good thing. If an ego causes you to hurt another knowing they will be tolerant and patient due to their love for you then it's NOT a good thing.
Anything that makes you feel good about yourself and makes you a more positive person is a good thing but if it's at the expense of another being hurt and harmed then its not.IMO of course!
The term ego is too elaborate to be described in one go. To complicate things further, it can have different connotations when used in different contexts.
The tendency to hurt a person who cares for us is again very vague. If you could explain a little what exactly you are looking for, perhaps I shall answer more specifically.
I personally feel that the saying is a cop out. Basically saying that "I can do whatever I wish. And because you love me, you should accept my actions, no matter how hurtful - without without the need for an explanation"
i see that u're not getting what i'm trying to say.....fine then.i'd better quit trying.
cheers,bro!
have a good day! :)
P.s.:I might as well clarify ur doubts anyway...
1)i dnt undstand y u need to undstand all men
A)no body can understand "all" men...but they're all basically the same....more or less....but knowing intents always helps in avoiding getting fooled :)
2)and den again u need a book for undstanding men
A)i don't really 'need a book'...it was just a fun read...it just made me aware of few things that were always there right in front of me but i didn't notice.my bad!
3)dnt u have anythng better than that to perform..:))
A)'perform'....huh? :(
4)but i also dnt undstand if ur eyes were closed then how were u able to read the book :D
this is what happened....as i was reading thru the book,a lot of male reactions to certain situations i've come across personally and heard as experiences from my female friends kinda surfaced and made a lot more sense....and it does not explain Homer's Illiad.....it's just simple in-your-face facts.....very simple things that we women failed to take notice of....our bad!i take the book as an eye-opener.and it has totally changed the way i look at men and their behaviour....and has made me a much happier person :D and the book was co-written by a guy and a girl....u must read it sometime.it's worth it! :)
umm....actually the book is about men and only men.i think u missed something there :D and it was co-written by a guy too....it just gives an insight into what men actually think as opposed to what they show on the facade.....
LOL SS.. not " a lot of women".. i'd say ALMOST EVERY WOMAN thinks like you.. but u'd still bother to read about her and laugh abt her ... even knowing that you all are the same and her stupid actions actually reflect you own actions .. so why not just go in flash back mode and laugh at your own memories :P (JOKE)
no we don't.....it's just that we get a kick out of knowing that a lot of women think like us and also that some publisher found our thoughts worthy enough to be published :D
on a more serious note,i feel it's actually good to have an ego...but it should be in 'fair measure'...to me,ego is a necessity for one to respect oneself.it's when we openly exhibit that ego and expect others to feed it that it becomes a pain.ego should be a private thing....extremely private.
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that was a bad PJ!!!!
seems Pappu passed at last
When bird is alive, it eats Ants. When bird is dead, Ants eat bird." So, Time can turn at any point, Don't devalue anyone in life. YOU may be powerful now But time is more powerful than You. "One tree makes one lack match sticks, but one match stick can burn one lack trees". SO: It is possible that one negative thoughts can burn all positive thoughts
Sister Fatimah..I was eagerly waiting for you to comment on this and u said exactly what I aimed at in my original post :)
If having an Ego means loving yourself such that you will not allow anyone to belittle you and use you then an Ego is a good thing. If having an Ego means you know yourself well enough that what another says of false accusations and insults will not affect you then ego is a good thing.
But if an Ego means you think yourself superior to others, and it causes you to deny the truth even when concrete proof is thrust in your face then it's
NOT a good thing. If an ego causes you to hurt another knowing they will be tolerant and patient due to their love for you then it's NOT a good thing.
Anything that makes you feel good about yourself and makes you a more positive person is a good thing but if it's at the expense of another being hurt and harmed then its not.IMO of course!
If having an Ego means loving yourself such that you will not allow anyone to belittle you and use you then an Ego is a good thing. If having an Ego means you know yourself well enough that what another says of false accusations and insults will not affect you then ego is a good thing.
But if an Ego means you think yourself superior to others, and it causes you to deny the truth even when concrete proof is thrust in your face then it's
NOT a good thing. If an ego causes you to hurt another knowing they will be tolerant and patient due to their love for you then it's NOT a good thing.
Anything that makes you feel good about yourself and makes you a more positive person is a good thing but if it's at the expense of another being hurt and harmed then its not.IMO of course!
i too quit...lols
The term ego is too elaborate to be described in one go. To complicate things further, it can have different connotations when used in different contexts.
The tendency to hurt a person who cares for us is again very vague. If you could explain a little what exactly you are looking for, perhaps I shall answer more specifically.
You don't have to explain yourself to me. I care and understand :o)
We will have to agree to disagree on this one.
I personally feel that the saying is a cop out. Basically saying that "I can do whatever I wish. And because you love me, you should accept my actions, no matter how hurtful - without without the need for an explanation"
oh my....this place is getting too complicated.i'm out!so long all! :)
I would suggest that the onus is on us to sometimes offer explanations in order to show that we care also.
with you Brit.
I must disagree. Those who matter sometimes deserve an explanation ...
ah....fell in love with that quote....yet again! :D
that nice one ... i liked it :D
now better to come back on track
an old habit....need to shake it off,seriously!
this time it was not rizks but the ladies to hijack the forum :))
LOL britey !
Ha ha. We discuss ego and the ladies start talking about themselves . Enough said :0)
i feel something burning hahahaha
thnks for the explanation but for ur information we men have the same undstanding for women so cheers..lols
but still with all these understanding we need each other u knw why???
Man to God: God why did u create a woman so beautiful
God: For you to fall in love with her
Man: den why did u make her so dum
God: for her to fall in love with you.... :D
oops....double post!sowwy!
i see that u're not getting what i'm trying to say.....fine then.i'd better quit trying.
cheers,bro!
have a good day! :)
P.s.:I might as well clarify ur doubts anyway...
1)i dnt undstand y u need to undstand all men
A)no body can understand "all" men...but they're all basically the same....more or less....but knowing intents always helps in avoiding getting fooled :)
2)and den again u need a book for undstanding men
A)i don't really 'need a book'...it was just a fun read...it just made me aware of few things that were always there right in front of me but i didn't notice.my bad!
3)dnt u have anythng better than that to perform..:))
A)'perform'....huh? :(
4)but i also dnt undstand if ur eyes were closed then how were u able to read the book :D
A)okay,i take that as a joke :D haha!
i dnt undstand y u need to undstand all men and den again u need a book for undstanding men.... dnt u have anythng better than that to perform..:))
but i also dnt undstand if ur eyes were closed then how were u able to read the book :D
this is what happened....as i was reading thru the book,a lot of male reactions to certain situations i've come across personally and heard as experiences from my female friends kinda surfaced and made a lot more sense....and it does not explain Homer's Illiad.....it's just simple in-your-face facts.....very simple things that we women failed to take notice of....our bad!i take the book as an eye-opener.and it has totally changed the way i look at men and their behaviour....and has made me a much happier person :D and the book was co-written by a guy and a girl....u must read it sometime.it's worth it! :)
but that is just a book which will justify the writer not all men
umm....actually the book is about men and only men.i think u missed something there :D and it was co-written by a guy too....it just gives an insight into what men actually think as opposed to what they show on the facade.....
Nope...:(
Tinku, can you be kind enough to show me the direction to reach you...:)
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y do gals need a book to undstand men first let dem undstand them self....lols
LOL SS.. not " a lot of women".. i'd say ALMOST EVERY WOMAN thinks like you.. but u'd still bother to read about her and laugh abt her ... even knowing that you all are the same and her stupid actions actually reflect you own actions .. so why not just go in flash back mode and laugh at your own memories :P (JOKE)
:P they're trying alright.....and they think they're getting there.....just not yet ;-) :P
no we don't.....it's just that we get a kick out of knowing that a lot of women think like us and also that some publisher found our thoughts worthy enough to be published :D
do you girls really NEED to read books to understand MEN.. :P
I remember breebree posting something about such book .. i think the forum is "Ladies" something..
i do know that there is a book called 'She's Just Not Into You' too :D now that would be a comic read for us girls....LOL trying to get myself a copy
LOL... Tinker
i found a book last friday.. its called...
she's into everyone, NOT ONLY YOU !!.. :P
its not a joke its a fact hahahahaha
rizk kindly guide us :))
will you two get a haunted and stinking room plz ?
yes i dnt have IDEA as i use QTEL sim here ...lols
to ask him i need to find him :D
and a book can protect us from gals .... strange
BLANK EGOISTIC STARE !! :P
i dnt knew that u gals are dangerous!!!
RAk, it's not a disease. He is just not that into you. Damp a jerk.
Huh !
i have saved a copy on my mobile too....just for quick reference....LOL :P
thanks for reminding me of the book and the movie again.....have u read the book? 'He's Just Not That Into You'? oooooh!it's fabulous! :D :P
on a more serious note,i feel it's actually good to have an ego...but it should be in 'fair measure'...to me,ego is a necessity for one to respect oneself.it's when we openly exhibit that ego and expect others to feed it that it becomes a pain.ego should be a private thing....extremely private.
RAK.. Egoistic and me??? two different words :P
Prism, long live Google ! :)
Rizks... source of your comment pl...:)
BTW ego can be good sometimes, if you know how to control it and use it to your advantage.
Captain..if u really feel that its true..stop being egoistic from now on...disease in any form is not good :P
Rizks..well said :)
for rizks,his ego is a distant relative of his tummy :P LOL
Ego has a voracious appetite, the more you feed it, the hungrier it gets....
Evil Genius Organization
Give up all bad qualities in you, banish the ego and
develop the spirit of surrender. You will then experience Bliss
Very true....