abusive women

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Ryan, the real problem is that you can't win the argument,another problem is that you are a bad loser, lastly, the problem is that people like me & OP humbly accept the fact that we are people & are not immune to flaws ,unlike people like you who think they are one cut above rest of 'them'. God has send you to this world to correct & chastise 'them' by means of abusing them............get a life (& a meaningful life)

I at times see LC's parked in one lane of the R/A blocking the lane or cars stopped to offload the passengers blocking the road ...guess the time spent in negotiating the R/A on a busy evening or waiting behind the said vehicle would be much greater than the time spent as per the story of OP. How many times have someone stopped to even suggest the flouting of road rules leave aside hurling any abuses. Or did the nationality of OP gave the courage to misbehave and all the sermons on this thread!!!

Sun, the problem is people like you and the OP do not actually respect the rule of law. You say you do, but you don't really. You think you can bend the rules when it fits you.

Anyway, riveting discussion but I have to run. We can pick it up later.

The simplicity of the narration tells me that there are no addition or subtraction to this story.

IMO the OP is very hard to believe in full and is mostly likely not giving the whole story.

The man was vulnerable because he was with his family. Also he has assumed a vulnerable position by apologizing & asserting to a stand that he has wronged her.A person of better sophistication would have accepted the apology & advised him not to repeat the same mistake. Even a person of ordinary sophistication would never degrade him in front of his child. Somebody has to be in pretty low waters to behave like that woman.

Do we all follow everything as it is supposed to be....lol. As an aside, if it was a Qatari would she have hurled the same abuses?? ...:) I guess the much talked about rules of the road in all probability remain the same....I may be wrong though...:)

How was the man parked in front of the gate vulnerable?

So coming back to line A.......Nazis were never at fault, they simply overreacted to the wrong people of this world.They would never get upset with these people, if these people did not give them a chance.

Mon ami, monsieur, it is canine tendency to sink one's teeth in other people's flesh if given a chance. Humans usually(and it is highly expected of them) understand & show sensitivity to fellows in vulnerable circumstances.

But people can't go around breaking the rules and then just apologizing and expecting everything to be OK. I remember facing the same sorts of people on a daily basis in Dubai: disrespectful of order, always creating their own rules, etc, etc. Did the woman overact? Yes, likely. But this man should acknowledge that he is what caused the situation to happen. People won't get upset with you if you don't give them a reason to.

The question is the first party apologized for his fault, where as the second party just displayed arrogance & insensitivity. Who is the culprit, now? ..........nobody needs to record anything here, I still say a gentleman must ignore a substandard woman.

For the record, I am saying both sides were at fault.

If you think that what this woman said was so bad, then did you tell her to shut up?

Or did you say sorry, and move your car?

she could say it in a gentle way...

if some one park their car in front of our neighbors gate then they puncture the tires in anger...

i dont understand why people get so hyper if some one parks in front of their gate

so does that give me the right to "Abuse" this guy next time he blocks my car and it takes him 15 mins to get down and move it?

please say yes!!!!!

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Ryan if 1st world war had not happened, second world war would never have taken place. So you see, Nazis were never at fault..........(It's not my opinion, I am applying your logic)

The word 'abuse' most readily conjures up images of physical contact. Think of when you say 'abuse a child'.

I don't see any mention of physical action for 'harass' here: http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/harass

'Abusing' is definitely not the right word here. Perhaps 'harassing' would have been better.

I think the OP got himself into this mess by not following the rules of the road. Yes, the woman was wrong, but if the OP had just acted like a mature individual and not an uneducated fool, none of this would have ever happened.

But can the OP please just define what 'abuse' occurred? Did the woman start hitting? Was it verbal?

Whatever OP did, nobody has got right to abuse anybody or their family. Please refrain from double standards. Doesn't matter how loud they talk or how many numbers they have, wrong can't be right. No bullying here please.

But why didn't the OP follow the rules of the road? It is irritating when everyone tries to make up their own version of the law.

i think we should avoid blaming the race or the breed for such act. Even da nations in subject should not be questioned, just the individuals shall be held responsible for their act.

Can you elaborate on this 'abuse'? What did she say to your son?

Sorry mate :( U probably could've gotten away with it. But some people just dont forgive. She was just gonna spank ur silly ass...But why did she have to abuse ur wife n ur son???

Next time don't park in front of the gate like a fool.

first of all it was your mistake...second, it is unbelievable you just park your car for 30 seconds (one comment was right, it will took you 30 second to get out of the car itself). plain and simple common sense, it is a driveway that shouldn't be blocked. maybe she's pressing her car horn for a couple of times and she's in a hurry..and your wife is busy playing with your kid that's why she didn't hear it.she got off the car and ask your wife something, your wife got blurred don't know what to do and after 5 minutes of total blackout realizes that one lady is talking to her.just then she called you up, and when you came the lady is cursing you and your wife...giving you her "F's" and "B's".. if i were you I've taken her car plate number..post it in a forum..people will curse her in the forum..she will read it and state her case too..we don't know the exact scenario.. now forget it and move on.. after all you we're the one who committed the mistake first!

I live this at my complex. There is not enough parking for everyone here if they do not come early enough, so outside the complex is new paved parking for late arrivals to home. To many times, a person in my complex is to lazy to park his truck or car outside the gate, so he blocks my husband's car and the one next to us. Then attaches a note in his car saying sorry, call me and I will be right down to move it.

Well, guess what, we have to wait atleast 10 mins for him to answer his cell,then more time to get dressed to run down to move his car/truck out of the way so we can go out!!! SICK OF IT. My husband's comment, "what to do" that's an Arab for ya!" (my husband is Arab btw) but he said he would never block someone, and has many times dropped me to home first and then go park outside the complex and walk back to home as a courtesy to others.....

If it was me, I wanted to go off on the guy when he finally came down, but being a "lady" and my husband telling me not to be "american" dont say anything!!! LOL

Khanan, How he blocked your entrance? and what lesson you taught him?

just imagine you would live there and every time you come home/ want to leave some one has blocked your gate *just for 30 secs*....you got frozens, you need the loo, your child is crying, you are late for a meeting......

would you still stand there and wait for the person to come back?? which might take 5mins 10mins and politely say "could you please move, I would like to get in/out??" I bet not

Xena, you made my day with your comment!!! Cheers.

and thanks for all the volunteer good work at QAWS.

How does a person behaves or reacts to a situation is a matter of upbringing & background. It has got nothing to do with the nationality, gender or the law of the land. If you visit those shady New York lanes, you will understand what I mean. You should not take it personally, and make your child understand that it was an example of 'how not to behave'. Lastly, be a gentleman & don't bicth about a substandard woman.

2 mistakes dont make a right.

If you hadnt parked there all this fuss would not have taken place.

Apologise to your wife as well for making her face the wrath of the lady for no fault of hers

now you know where to park next time. and dont blame her for abusing your wife and kid just slap yourself for the stupidity you did.

Its either that, or beat the living crap out of the person....

So, you're saying that it's fine to use an expletive filled tirade if something irks you ?

got reprimanded by a woman... and he didn't like it.... if it had been me, you'd have gotten more than a few choice words...

DON'T park your car in front of someone elses gate!!!!

I'm sorry, but I can't see any "excuse" for a foul mouthed rant.

Well, one shouldn't blame her that much because you don't no what she was facing at the moment, but at the second thought she didn't have to do that, cos its all wrong, no matter what one is going through we should put it at the back of our mind that its not the end of life and that the other person to as his / her own issues too instead of transfering one's anger .

You have not done anything wrong. Parking in front of any gate is wrong. But if you parked near to the gate of main road it is not her property. It is qatar government's property unless it is not sticked an advertisment like parking not allowed . You should have told her that I have not parked my car inside your flat. This is government property.

Understand.. At the start of each month, when hubby hets paid...

PMS - Purloin Monthly Salary :O(

may be her husband catched her while dating with others,thats what she rushed to show that she was in home.lol

It's a female monthly thing Brit:)

Don't tell me you surprised him from behind :O(

A person had got a lesson of his life time after blocking my entrance.

I’m so glad I married an Asian lady!

been the proverbial straw that broke the camels back, poor you. The lady might have had a way too many folks doing the same thing, that she finally just lost it.

Of course I don't think what she did was right with regards to abusing and using profanity, but I guess she must have had her reasons and best to simply let it go.

Look on the bright side, at least she didn't call the cops on ya..known to happen!

Jack Daniels ?

I always thought that Mame Sahibs drank Pimms or Pink Gin of an afternoon ..

lol angelina.

Don't block parking enough said. But in defense of Westerniers, I am very respectful of laws and treat people as I would want be treated. with kindness and respect. I know many Arabs and other Nationalites who are very rude, dis-respectful especially of Women. So do not JUDGE this woman's behaivor on all Western Expats.

Salam

Must Have Been Real Emergency The LADY had hell Lot Of Time TO Abuse

OP said : parking just for 1 min ,

He Accepted Him Being Abused , What Did His Wife DO

Thats Why She Stayed Back Incase They Want To Remove Their Car She Would Call Her Husband and 30 secs to 1 min in Emergency Case Also Wont Do Much Difference, The Vehicle Owner Was Near By

Sorry but your 30 seconds sounds like a bit of garbage too. It takes 30 seconds to get out of the car let alone view accomodation.

Your wife should have moved the car - if she doesn't drive, then you shouldn't have blocked the exit.

Your bad manners/thoughtlessness were rewarded in kind. I do not condone the woman who was upset, but maybe she had to get to the hospital, maybe there was an emergency, etc. etc.

Westerners Are Quite Respectful LooooooooooooooooooooooooooL

This Was A Piece Of Respect , Her Abusing You Can Be Right But Your Family Wrong , If She Had Manners She Could Do This In A Polite Way And Blasted You Out .... Which She ALready DID !

Note : The OP Apologized For His Mistake And The Lady Was STILL Abusing

Hahahahaha...tht will teach u....don't do the crime if u can't take the consequences.....u talk abt respect....y did u park there in the 1st place, cause u have no respect 4 others, so move on and learn, cause yes anywhere else in the world u would not have gotten off with just a mouthful a baseball bat through ur window would suffice.

So many ppl like u here, think tht saying sorry all the time works, do u actually know wht u saying sorry for and when u say it do u actually mean it, cause i'm sure u will do it again.

Bcoz the law favouring them. Man is really suffering these kind of behaviour. Once it happned to me also. I Parked a place of a lady. I told her "I didnt see the board bcoz it is turned to the sky...nobody can read this" and "I am so sorry..if I knew never do it" I was thr with my infant(3mnths old)..and I told her "we came in emergency bcoz my baby is not well" she keep on waiting us 20minutes outside after that she took her car back from my car. It was happned in a hospital and that lady is a staff of the Hosptial.

Do respect and get respect, nothing was wrong and no law allows to go maniac , its true nature never changes.

Wherever I go to a friends or relatives I normally ask them a safe place to park my car.

or in anywhere else I go its my practice to put my car in a safe place.

Better safe than sorry.

At least it was a woman. A man would've gotten physical. All about pros and cons.

There's a reason why it's a violation to park in front of any driveway according to the Traffic Department.

Show respect to receive one too

I like your answer.

You can't always on the right side, even if you try , its nature of human kind to make mistakes, more over your bad luck if the next person is a moran or literate maniac.

ha ha ha i regularly wear short skirts, swig bottles of JD & swear at every1 who p!sses me off, just be glad that u didnt block my driveway or i woulda come hairing out with nike trainers on & a baseball bat lmao :-)

You are absolutely right justarrived_2012.

Respecting others privacy in many ways not just like in simply blocking others private gate. even you park your car in just a seconds many things will happened in that span of time. What if something emergency happened in that house they cannot get out in a fast way.

We have to learned to put ourselves always in a right place, self discipline and respect. surely you always be in safe side.

I really hate people blocking others gate or illegally invading someones territory/place. its really unprofessional.

Why did you just listen to all the B.S. that came out from that thing's mouth & that to in front of your family ??? You should have told her to Shut the Hell up !!!

What has the Project Management System have to do with it ?

pls always drive safe dont det angry when you are driving cos driving is pleasure

The issue might be that too many people keep blocking the driveway. And we are all human, sooner or later you'll get pissed of so much.

In the end, the most important thing is always do the right thing so that you are in the safe side.

At least you have learned not to block someone else's driveway next time. No point crying over spilt milk. She was probably in a hurry or maybe she had PMS:)

Please avoid blocking an entrance with your vehicle or double-parking.

it happens some times and it seems that lady was just fought with her husband over his failure in "performance". so thats just a harmonic reacts by that lady on a perfect husband and family.

That's life. Maybe she was in a hurry to leave.

That'll be because she is Western.......no doubt she was wearing a short skirt and swigging a bottle of Jack Daniels.......disgusting behaviour!!!I hope her husband locks her up for that!!!!

It takes all sorts to make this world. Just forget about it and move on ..