That happens a lot. The third women (e.g a friend's wife) will have all the qualities he wanted in his wife! You cooks so well, my wife never cooks like you. She never takes care of kids as you do. She is not all understanding like you and the list goes on. Whereas In real the wife must be living only for him and the kids. Bottom-line is most men crave for sympathy from other women for obvious reasons.
AV...if you have seen the kind of film based around He (hubby), She (wife) and Her (a third women)- (a triangle sort of arrangement) it shows how married men keep on self pitying themselves stating having a bad life with their otherwise very good wife to emotionally blackmail other women for the reasons obvious...:)
UK... to have a woman in life with a rule book to follow, guess that itself makes the woman wrong. And that would apply to men too. In both scenarios, the other one isn't worth wasting time on. Bottomline, behave and you can expect much more in return and if I misbehave dump me even before I know...:)
There are lots of couples who are perfectly happy with their partners guess they are not QL members. Its a pity that none of the married men here got anything good to say about wife!
There is never a right or wrong woman. It is how you see or perceive them, You can make a right woman wrong and a wrong woman right if you follow my above rules..:)
I'm proud to say I can be those, rolled into one until i read the final sentence! hahaha!
I should say, compromise and respect besides love for each other yields a good relationship. Whilst not missing the "me" and "you" being "two"gether. :)
i dont agree that relation becomes harder now a days. it is harder always unless u keep in touch with them. once we grow up we leave our parents. that time we think wife and husband relation is true. till our life end she will be with us. earlier ladies dont have financial freedom, social support. that is the only difference.
fea_sad, when we were in our childhood, we dont know about cunning feelings and selfishness. so we thought the world was fair. now we come to know other's feelings. world is not much changed. here our thoughts changed
Our eyes expressed and explained everything, which never lies. We are silent lovers, so no need to apply any such rules.
Key tested rules are to be patient, mutual understanding and compromise on small issues. Make common goals and Build trust and faith during every moment of companionship.
Fea_sad...Always take her out for shopping even if Husbands dont like? i dont think their husbands would allow me to do that but since its a rule let me ask: Any women would like to come out shopping with me?
I am not the only one who finds women/men trumpeting their relationship flaws in public via status updates, unbecoming and immature.
As for texting replacing conversations, that wouldn't work with me cos I find texting a huge bore!
Arguments and phone calls...well sure sometimes! But that's not always a good idea and can be disastrous. Always better to resolve issues face to face.
All relationships require effort, patience, compassion and forbearance, and any misunderstanding should again be dealt with wisdom and self control. Using modern day technology will neither make or break a relationship if the people concerned are matured, wise and have what it takes to stay committed and focused!
You would hope so Brit. If you feel the need to post about your fight with your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend it's a pretty sure sign your relationship isn't going to last.
Ditto with text's and phone calls. Fight in person!
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Aunty......the wife is so good and great to be said anything about her at QL :(
I personally feels 'Actions' speaks more than words :)
follow correct indicators
And the best part is many fall for it too and not only the first time...:) However, to be fair to men, the similar method is used by women too ..:)
That happens a lot. The third women (e.g a friend's wife) will have all the qualities he wanted in his wife! You cooks so well, my wife never cooks like you. She never takes care of kids as you do. She is not all understanding like you and the list goes on. Whereas In real the wife must be living only for him and the kids. Bottom-line is most men crave for sympathy from other women for obvious reasons.
AV...if you have seen the kind of film based around He (hubby), She (wife) and Her (a third women)- (a triangle sort of arrangement) it shows how married men keep on self pitying themselves stating having a bad life with their otherwise very good wife to emotionally blackmail other women for the reasons obvious...:)
UK... to have a woman in life with a rule book to follow, guess that itself makes the woman wrong. And that would apply to men too. In both scenarios, the other one isn't worth wasting time on. Bottomline, behave and you can expect much more in return and if I misbehave dump me even before I know...:)
There are lots of couples who are perfectly happy with their partners guess they are not QL members. Its a pity that none of the married men here got anything good to say about wife!
DK do u tell this to all the women u meet ..:D
Yes Bubblymon,
Its not the distance but the doubts that destroy health relationships.
Prism,
There is never a right or wrong woman. It is how you see or perceive them, You can make a right woman wrong and a wrong woman right if you follow my above rules..:)
You're in a roll!
I'm proud to say I can be those, rolled into one until i read the final sentence! hahaha!
I should say, compromise and respect besides love for each other yields a good relationship. Whilst not missing the "me" and "you" being "two"gether. :)
UK...feel for you man...you seem to have got all wrong women....:)
Just off note..
Make sure you have a woman who is the best cook.
Make sure you have a woman who is a successful working lady
Make sure you have a women who like to socialise
Make sure your women is a home maker
Most important of all make sure none of these women meet each other.
ukeng, i agree with you..man should NEVER EVER disagree with what we (women) says..it'll save you from trouble ;)
Rule No 18 Always praise her that she is the the most beautiful woman in this world
Rule 17 should be Rule 1
Rule No 17
Never disagree with what she says.
fea_sad u ladies love to listen from every man ...:D
i dont agree that relation becomes harder now a days. it is harder always unless u keep in touch with them. once we grow up we leave our parents. that time we think wife and husband relation is true. till our life end she will be with us. earlier ladies dont have financial freedom, social support. that is the only difference.
fea_sad, when we were in our childhood, we dont know about cunning feelings and selfishness. so we thought the world was fair. now we come to know other's feelings. world is not much changed. here our thoughts changed
barfi he dint hav any option to express his love so he did frm his eyes,
But u have mouth speak up ...
we ladies love to listen lols
Did u watched Barfi?
Our eyes expressed and explained everything, which never lies. We are silent lovers, so no need to apply any such rules.
Key tested rules are to be patient, mutual understanding and compromise on small issues. Make common goals and Build trust and faith during every moment of companionship.
lols did this worked on you Vic :P
use all these rules in random for best possible results........lols
is their any more rules to post if not we cant start from start....lols
To maintain PEACE at HOME :)
very useful ruel/tips :)
experince speaks :)
Yes, very much alive .. with the grace of God.
On the other side .. my grandmother breathed her last in Jan this year at about 90.
fea_sad, I bet she is in another country, Angels always serve you better when they are far away..:)
Rule No. 16
Friday is the day when she gets a lay in not you.
My mother in law is living angel :D
Fea_sad...Always take her out for shopping even if Husbands dont like? i dont think their husbands would allow me to do that but since its a rule let me ask: Any women would like to come out shopping with me?
Rule No.15
Always use the remote of the TV with her permission, and don't disturb her when she is watching her favorite program.
MM my mother in-law is an angel.
Is yours alive?
Everyone wants to win in life game i e Tug of war .
MM no one likes to include mother in law :P
If one pulls too much from one side and the other one does the same the robe will get cut, how much do you agree on this sentence?
If one pulls from one side the othe person should losen little bit so the robe will never get cut.
The mother-n- law is sidelined .. why.
lols... UK you forgot the anniversary and also make her feel special
Rule 14
Always remember her Birthday as a day when she becomes more wiser rather than older, and never forget the gift.
Rule 13
Take her on holidays in different part of the world , preferably the place which she like :D
hope he could add some extra chilli powder, salt & pepper to make it spicy :)
Living with such rules, this is NOT a relationship but gender Bias and cruel exploitation.
Yes Fea_sad I will allow that rule..:)
Rule 12
Ensure to get her a credit card for her shopping
No Victory the two are quite different.
6 is that the husband should be a good as he cooks most of the time and the when ever she cooks one should never complain.
Rule No.11
Always take her out for shopping even if Husbands dont like ;)
Rule 9 is an extension of rule 6 :)
Rule No. 10
Always praise her to make her feel special.
PP's Rule 9 (Rev. 01)- (Husbands) stop posting these rules to get sympathy from other wives/ girls...:)
Rule No. 9
Never complain about the food she cooks.
what about dress codes? should wear yellow helmet 24/7 to defend surprise attacks ;D
Rule No. 9 stop posting these rules to get sympathy from other husbands
Rule No.7
Husband should know the meaning of Headaches and should be understanding and accommodating
Rule No. 8
Husband should work at home 30 days in a month and the wife only 23 days a month.
Victory I was referring 5 & 6 as to those qualities in a good Husband!
Thats the spirit of Good Hus(i)band(h).......lols
Rule 6 rev 2..... Wife is a good cook and husband has to only appreciate no other option....:D
common young men...PP_DK...we are talking relationship here, which begins with friendship...cheer up buddies.
UKENG....perfect Great Rules till 5, rule 6 apply to the wife in our sub-continent ;D
Rule 6 rephrased....Wife is to be a good cook and husband is to appreciate whether its good or bad.
but DK dnt end it den y DK's name in the last
Rule No.6
Make sure you are a good cook.
People act love for time pass. finally there is nothing
Rule No.3
Listen carefully to what she says, as she only says it once.
Rule No.4
Buy flowers on regular basis, dont wait for special occasion.
Rule No. 5
You should always love her unconditionally and don't expect the same emotions back, that's called understanding.
Real world wars are bad enough! Peace out my brothers...
PP stared the war :P
yr right MM u have exactly catch the correct point in feasad comments
When you say 'cold war between PP n Dk' ...
Why is that PP's name is first ?
Either your ammunitions are nearing its expiry date or you are about to test the new destructive equipments ..
u respect or repect ...?/?
yes i repect other QL member....lols
doctor ...no why????
please respect other QL members PP r u doctor in which hospital
cold war between PP n Dk
DK ur not feeling well today
Rules for long lasting Relationships/Marriage
Rule No. 1
In a marriage One person in always right, the other is called the Husband.
Rule No.2
Don't argue with your wife, you will never win, Just smile and agree.
More to come later..
respect is disapearing day by day
friendly fire .. Allah save us !
PP dont change the above topic is your relationship easier or complicated reply to our dear OP
PP dont change the above topic is your relationship easier or complicated reply to our dear OP
DK im not a mode to change the above topic and as ususal i dnt undstnd the second part of ur question
DK can u tell me how my question seemed personal
Offcourse Relationships Means a LOT
but lost its essense and emotions within Hi tech emoticons :D
Open, free, effective and continues communication strengthen the relationships. So please NEVER close the doors of communication.
Have a good day
I am not the only one who finds women/men trumpeting their relationship flaws in public via status updates, unbecoming and immature.
As for texting replacing conversations, that wouldn't work with me cos I find texting a huge bore!
Arguments and phone calls...well sure sometimes! But that's not always a good idea and can be disastrous. Always better to resolve issues face to face.
All relationships require effort, patience, compassion and forbearance, and any misunderstanding should again be dealt with wisdom and self control. Using modern day technology will neither make or break a relationship if the people concerned are matured, wise and have what it takes to stay committed and focused!
''Stay Single, so tat you can Mingle''
I don't really get that not gonna lie.Always found it more rewarding to be with one serious partner than have multiple flings.
keep it simple, stupid.
it works everywhere even in relationships :)
.. the prayers / regular praise of God help to keep one's behave mild in all daily life routines ..
Always complicated thing in the world!
then relationship becomes harder! Lol!
just a twist of words
bottom line is you have to be MATURE
You would hope so Brit. If you feel the need to post about your fight with your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend it's a pretty sure sign your relationship isn't going to last.
Ditto with text's and phone calls. Fight in person!
is better to be mature in a relationship :)
DK n PP no personal question in open chat ... bt i am nt in that pic :D
PP dont ask personal questions in the open chat and really is that feasad in the pic.........?
fea_sad ths is u in the pic
DK how are you so sure abt this
Some quotes never die, they resurface in a photo
Illegal Relationships has become easier using Texting, Phone calls and Status updates in social networks
Surely, people in mature relationships tend to openly discuss their issues between themselves.
That's what my Cuban Shotputter and I used to do :O(
with tinker... why make your life miserable. :)
Only if you feel the need to do all that stuff. People in mature relationships tend to keep their issues to themselves.
even after being single thier chances of geting double....oops
Stay Single, so tat you can Mingle.....:)
lols tinker .... you cant b single always ;)
all are becoming instant nowadays ;)