Kidz .... how to tackle their innocence
If a kid is bad ............. as the discussion goes ......... then there are numerous ways to sort that problem out.
Some kids ......... always craving for attention ......... when get the feel that by doing any wrong they'll get the attention of their parents then they make it their habit .......... sort of
Some kids ......... they lose temper easily .......... mostly because they always stay in home in the custody of mommy ........... mommy who is always busy in house chores .......... & daddy when he comes to home ......... he needs rest & mommy starts asking kids to keep quiet / not to shout in front of dad as he has come from a tiring job or he is sleeping. So, when kids they remain in the four walls of a house, watching cartoons or playing with same kind of toys they get bored. Start losing interest in these things or get fed up with the same enviornment & tend to become angry easily. These kidz need a lot of outing in the supervision of their parents so they can mingle with other children or get a fresh air ......... surely this will help in getting them right.
Some kids ......... who have hyperactive hormones in them ......... the kind who fall in love easily when teenagers ........... can easily be treated in their infancies. Take them out. Show them mother nature. Let them take interest in Sun, Moon, Stars let them appreciate the beauty of sea, grass, flowers definitely this will discourage the monster in them.
A lot of things can be shared when a child is being discussed. A child is a vast subject where we can keep on improving them without hurting their innocent feelings.
Good traits in a child can very well be developed by simply acting on whatever is preached to them. Asking a child not to lie is only effective when someone calls you ........... you are at home ........... but you ask your spouse to say that tell them I am out & I'll call later ........... this is a negative effective. In this case what a child understands is:-
In this case what a child understands is:-
1. You dont need to act whatever you preach
2. It's okay to lie at times
because this is what we teach our children indirectly.
At times, a very common embarrasing question parents face is when a child says where did I come from or how my sister / brother come into this world. Instead of telling them that a bird flew from sky & gave you to me or a genie came & did this ......... simple answers near to truth will help them in understanding it easily. Like I went to hospital & God gave you to me & your daddy or anything that can satisfy a child easily.
So, if a kid is bad its not because a kid is a wild animal & cannot be trained but its because we dont have the ability to tackle with their innocence.
