Alone and broke
By fatima1515 •
salam. I am confuse and miserable.
I am divorced and so i have to find my independence, but i have no job, no home, no car to go look for job, no money, nobody with me.
Everybody hates me or avoid me because i am a failure.
I am normally energetic and bubbly but my miserable life has made me a coward and lost confident.
I prefer to be a homemaker but no right marriage is possible. And I prefer to be self employed but no money to start a business. Bitter challenges keep coming.
I will continue to suffer in life becausr i dont have money and cannot do anything, Is there anyone willing to help me?
Seriously. I cannot breathe as i dont know what will becone of me tommorow.
guys في سبيل الله
guys في سبيل الله
inshaAllah. thank you all for your good words
i am ending this pointless discussion
my thought is qadarALLAH wa maa shaa faal
to add to the above, getting worried cannot solve problems, but actions can.
It might be little difficult to get job unless you have good skills , especially when you are on the wrong side of the age bar. However, you have to identify your qualifications, knowledge and skills to identify job opportunity. May be you should be willing to take up small jobs as well.
btw: Is your ex. not resposible to give you monthly allowance till you secure job or get married again?
Your simple words are short but painful. It is my pathetic life. I return to my country as a loser and so i came back to US when i thought i can be cared but things change. And i get trap with no place to call my own. Not there not here nowhere. And by end next week i will not have wifi like i have now in this woman's home. Only the other day, the zakat foundstion said they are not helping me to get a car because they hsve no funds. Access i called and left msg never csll ne back. And IRS lady i just spoke giving me numbers i have tried before. And a brother in a masjid is suppose tolsend me a sister ti pick me so i can fill up a form ....almost a week ago.
If you dont know everything about me so dont be sacastic. Just make dua for me. Tell ALLAH if she is true, help her, otherwuse not.
this is troll.... LOOOL
I doubt if you are real
Interesting story.
I am a 50 year old. I am not cry baby. I do use my brain or faith. But i am exhausted. It is embsrrassing to give my stupid life details here. I am in US. and in a room i rent in a Muslim woman. My exgive me enough for leaving one state to another and pay a month rent. i hsve applied job online but no reply and i cannot go anywhere a.s i dont hsve car. My lsndlord get fed-up when she hsve to drive me around. She ask more rent and deposit. She told me to get a car snd get job. Howcsn i do that? Thepublic transport is far far away and also expensive and roundabout. Imsgine you if you have no wallet and no car, and you have few days more rent . ... and try find a job. Sisters i call for help still make me wait for dayssss. Sometime i panic but most time i accept the qadar that has been spinning me around for very long. And people reactions are similar ...nice but not helpful or being joke at as lazy loser. So all i think is this is my box of life. If you want to help, message me and you can ask of my details, otherwise, i get mock here, and i aleady have too many people avoid and hate me for being poor loser.
Send ur c.v. at [email protected]..... plz mention ur visa details also....
I will try to get you a job, please send me your CV in [email protected]
You can get a job by applying online you must not move from place to place to secure one. Be happy for what u have per time. You may have lost many things but God is the reason you have not lost Everything.You need to upgrade ur mindset to thinking positive about urself your victory begins there."show me a person that excels in life and I will show u a person that think positive always.Refuse to let people pity you."Crises are life's wakeup calls". You will surely be up again that is if you think twice.Be of good cheer!!!
If the Nation were to gather together to benefit you with anything, it would benefit you only with something that Allah had already prescribed for you, and that if they gather together to harm you with anything, they would harm you only with something Allah had already prescribed for you.
Dua and faith will help you.
Dont loose hope, whats your qualification and what kind of job profile you are looking for.
We all go through ups and downs . You are NOT a failure .
Try and join a club or speak to someone at s woman's shelter . Do not lose hope .
Your words and thoughts determines your life. If you believe you are a failure and Miserable, then that is all it will be. Just the fact that you got to open your eyes is a blessing. Why would people avoid you? there is always someone in your path to help. But you have to allow it. No one can help you if you don`t help yourself. :) Hope you find what you need. :D
The question is where do you stay if you have no home, no car? do you sleep on the beach?
Go back your country and your family, seek help and give time to find yourself. Once you focus, things will look much clearer. Seek God's help for guidance and pray.
whats your nationality